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my thighs are huge!! i bought a bikini and it doesnt look right on the bottom because of my thighs!! how can i get then to thin and even out? can i do that? (link)
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Ive answered this qoution many of times so im just goona tell you the same thing .. they have these machines to make you lose fat on your thies i heard it works very well ! i dont no the name of it but if you go to a fitness place and ask they can tell you also eat right eat fruits and not junk ! also if your buying a bikini you must be skinny so you shouldnt have a problem !
good luck !
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Just as a warning, this will be long. If you have a problem with that, skip on to the next question.
Okay. So my guy and I have been together about 18 months now, and it's been great up until awhile ago.
Now, my boyfriend and I used to have the exact same ideals about sex - we both thought oral was stupid and disgusting, and neither of us was really into the whole manual thing.
All of a sudden, he's asking me for oral all the time - I did that once and I told him I wasn't comfortable with it. He's even asking for "road head" which I always thought only assholes asked for and only sluts gave.
Does he think I'm a slut just because I've had sex?
I feel like he's been taking advantage of me lately and making me feel like a bad girlfriend. I know I'm not, though he makes me feel like it's my fault when we fight, and makes me feel like I'm the one that needs to change, when I believe now that it's him that needs to change.
I really do hope this is just a bump in the relationship - don't most people hit bumps when they've been together awhile?
We were such a great couple for so long, and then all of a sudden, he decided he wanted more sexual stuff than I'm willing and comfortable with giving him. Now, I can understand he may be a little sexually frustrated, as we haven't had sex in like a month, but I told him we'd have to wait a month (due to a medication I ended up on that conflicted with my birth control pill), and he was okay with it. Now he's suddenly not. I'm confused.
He used to be utterly romantic and sweet. Now he's turning into a complete ass.
I really want to ask him right now if he really loves me or he just enjoys fucking me. Recently, it seems like the latter.
We always said that sex was like the icing to a cake in this relationship. He claims this relationship is based on love, not lust, but I'm not so sure about that anymore.
I don't want to break up with him. I want him to realize what he's doing, and I want to fix this between us, hopefully before saturday. Saturday's his birthday, and I went to a lot of trouble to find him a present he wants this year. I'd rather not return it.
But mostly, I just want this to go back to normal. I was so happy with him before...
Help me out?
~Cali~ (link)
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To tell you the truth .. i think he is using you for your sex ! by the souunds of this story you must be a very good G.F and not a bad one ! i think he is the bad one .. he shouldnt always want sex you should always be able to love eachother for who you are and not for the sex ! well if you need more help just E-Mail me or I/M me .. good luck hun !
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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do? (link)
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Does he have AIM or an EMAIL ? well those are ways .. i meet lots of people and NO dont get me wrong i dont go in chats and then go meet them i would never do that but say i dont know this kid and he goes to my school he could say oay im Tall and i have blond hair wll this really happened and to tell you the truth we are best friends now ! try to talk to him and just be yourself ! good luck !!
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What exactly is a facial (like when you go to a spa)? (link)
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No its not porno dont listin to them lol ! its when you go to a spa and like then make your face cleaner if you understand what i mean ! but i bet your beautiful and i bet you dont need it !
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Ok, so my thighs rub eachother when i walk and now iI have like a rash on both sides of my inner thighs and it's really itchy. Some reason it got to my stomach and its the same thing. I put Nivea cream and anti itch cream but I still scratch it often and its getting to a point it doesnt go away even if i put alot of creams on. So.. my question is is there any products you recomend and do you have any idea on how to lose wheight around your thighs? (link)
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they have these work out machines and it makes you lose fat on yor thies to tell you the truth i have no idea what its called tho but look thro finttness magizinze and look for something that will get rid of that fat ! also eat right eat lots of fruits and not Buger king and all that junk and i dont no if you eat that stuff but if you doo cut down on it ! hoped i helped !
Good Luck !
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ok so i liked this kid ryan like 2 weeks ago, and then i stopped liking him, and now everyone keeps asking me if im mad at him or if i still like him. And tonight my guy friend told me if i was mad at him because they were playing basketball and ryan told him that he thinks i am, does this mean anything? (link)
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hitler the goat answered Monday May 16 2005, 7:32 am:
yes, that you need to stop screwing around with this dude and get some mood stablizing drugs.
-hitler
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carlthecatguy answered Monday May 16 2005, 7:24 am:
you have commitment issues
wow people are soo rude huh ? lol wow ! anyways maybe he likes you and dosnt want you to be mad at him .. and maybe hes asking people to ask you becz hes scared your gonna hate him !
well good luck hun !
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Ok so im having trouble deciding what song to put in my myspace profile, i have a few music videos (from musicvideocodes.com) and i was wondering if there is any way i have it pick a random one when my profile is oppnened, i know some HTML but not enough to do something like this (link)
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Well it depened on what kind of music you like !
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My Bride's maids and I bought their dresses today. I fell in love with these dresses right when I saw them. I showed them to my father today and he said that he did not like them at all. I felt horrible once he told me because I like them so much. Now, I don't know whether to keep them or to get ones that my dad also likes. What do y'all think? (link)
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This is your wedding not his .. yes i know hes your dad but still if you like them then good talk to him and tell him how much you like him !
Good luck !
and congragulations =)
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I've never gone to a dance before. I am going to a dance party next weekend but I don't know how to dance. Don't say "ask one of your close friends" Reply..I rate..thanks (link)
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just go with the flow and the music rymthem
its not hard at all !
good luck hun
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Im 14 and i really love my boyfriend. We haven't kissed yet but i really wanna kiss him. I'm this memorial day party soon and im hoping maybe it'll happen there. I want it to be really special and i know i shouldn't like plan our first kiss but, i want it to be really special and i wanted to know if there's anything we can do or place to go to make it better.. let me know!
Thanks! xoxo (link)
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haha no dont spank him . talk to him and and just lean over a little and kiss him !
dont do anything Nhautey ;-)
haha good luck
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ok, this is going to be really embarasing. here i go: school has all sorts of idiots. u can get rid of them by cussing, punching, guestures, tattletalling. there is this one kid who wont stop bothering me. it started when he would stare really hard at me in sex ed. than he started whipping his head to look at me when the teacher talked about kissing and sex. a few weeks ago, he touched my ass, and he tries to everyday in the hallway and health class. if anyone finds out i will be so embaresed. if bf finds out, ill go insane, if he finds out i told on him, im dead. i didnt mind him looking at me that much.....but touching, squeezing, pinching, running hand down my ass is too much. i hate him, and he never even said a word to me. i really need help getting rid of him, please help me! PS: i am 13 f. (link)
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Go to like a gudience coounseler talk to her tell her you feal reallyy uncomfertable and it needs to stop now
good luck
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Does anyone know how to interpret dreams or w/e?
(Sorry it is so long, but it is interesting) Well, if you think you can help here it is:
I was in a car with a few eighth graders I knew pretty well (this is probably because I was in a play with them last night) One of the eighth grders was driving (kelsey) and so we went riding around for a while. I can't clearly remeber where we stopped, but I know we stopped somewhere. I got out, and came back in. While I was trying to buckle my seatbelt, Kelsey was buckling hers as well (she was still driving) and the car started to slide down a hill that broke off into a cliff. At the bottom was a shallow river. We tried the brakes but they didnt work in time. The car slid down and landed in the river. None of us were hurt. It was actually kind of thrilling.
So we get out of the car as it begins to float down the river (at this point in the dream it is more like a van) It stops at one point (again I can't remeber) and we get out on this dock-barge thing. We enter what appears to be a big mall. At the enterance it has stores, all with perfect before their name(example: Perfect Fine Jewlery)
We were walking through and stuff and then the next part I remeber is that there were none of our parents there and we were sort of releaved. Then my friend Liz (who hadn't been in the car before) was there and she met this really nice guy. They were PERFECT for each other. Then I met this guy, and so both she and I were going out with them.The funny thing was, that "mall"
was actually the whole town. It was all indoors. Then my chorus teacher (who had directed the play) was there and said we needed to find a way to get home. We stayed a few weeks because we couldn't bare to leave everyone that we had become friends with. Then we left (I forget how we got home-I think I woke up then)but not before Liz and I each kissed outr "men" and said the sad goodbyes.
I know. Weird, right? I also write ( I won this kids in print contest before and have also writeen many plays) and was wondering if this would make a good story if I substitute some names and (obviously go more in depth and come up with a better theme) I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! (link)
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Yea do it thats awsome hun !
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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time? (link)
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Yes its ver normal unless if its like heavy well then theres something wrong but try to talk to your mom or a girl and ask them !
sorry
good luck !
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i have heard a or that one of my close friends doesnt really like me, but we still hang out every day. but i heard this from a lying "friend", who doesnt really like the i first started talking about. would she make it up?? what should i do??? (link)
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stinger11 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 1:38 pm:
Ask her why she is being like that. If she gives some lame ass answer kick her sorry ass.
WOW this girl is horrible ! dont kick her ass just talk to them nicely together and if they both dynie it they arent good friends
good luck
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My father will be going into a home soon, the cost is £500 per week. He has savings of approx. £50,000. I have been told that until his savings come down to £20,000 he will not get any help. Legally were does he stand with regards to giving away his money now to his three children, so that his savings come down to £20,000. Also, the possibility of him placing his money in off-shore accounts. (link)
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Sorry im not god in math [ lol ]
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my name is julie and i really want a new sn because my old one is hyper with numbers and i just want a nice one (i already have sweetjewel with numbers) please help me out, i have an open mind and just kno that i like the number 30907 but i dont really care (link)
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shake answered Sunday May 15 2005, 2:11 pm:
Tuna Toothpaste
Gay-Melody
30907
L337 Cheerios
Mindlesscrackereatingcereal
industrialmaritimeblupermonki
If you dont like any of those you suck.
WOW .. this girl is mean ! errrrr ! anyways go to peoples xanga like mine and i have tons of screen name ideas or just I/M mee !
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ok... so... i had 4 out of 5 stars next to my advice column a few days ago and now they're gone.. what does that mean? like there's no stars at all.
thanx
aeromonkey
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It means you need to spend more time on your answers give good advie !
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ok... so i've liked this guy for like 2 years. he is one of my bff's and his sister is too. I don't know if I like him anymore, but i think i might like this guy in my class. We talk alot and anyway... the other night.. our youth leader was giving us a devotion on waiting for the right guy/ knowing he's the one and i know im too young, but which one do I love? That night I had a dream about i got married to My bffs brother and then the guy in my class was all "I love you" after I married the one guy and I started to cry because i felt bad... what does this mean? Which one do I like? (link)
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yes i agree with the 2 other people ! its your heart not ours !
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I need help. When I get around people I never know what to do. It dosen't have to be a big group just one or two people but for some reason when I'm around them I just freeze. If they try to talk to me I just stare at them or walk away. It's getting really bad because now my friends are getting mad at me becasue of this. What can I do to get over being shy. (link)
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Umm yea dont listin to .. stinger11 ... dont fucking kill yourself wow that girl is rude anyways try talking in front of a mirror that what i do when ii need to get up infront of the class but this is diffrent these are your friends they are here for you dont be shy around them just be yourslef !
Good Luck
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Does anyone know how i can get a social worker in the uk? (link)
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what are you asking ?
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