Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Age: 16
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 53
Last Update: May 16, 2007
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okay i kno it is our mom's job to make sure everything is going okay but my mom watches my every move she even listens in on my phone calls and tracks me on the internet i have caught her reading my diary 5 times in the last 3 years....what do i do? it is driving me nuts!!!!! (link)
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As simple as it may seem, I would talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. The reason she may be imposing on your privacy is that she feels like she doesn't know you too well. If you talk to her and let her in on some aspects of your life, she may loosen up and leave your personal things alone.
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I wanted to try scrunchng my hair, so I asked my mom if we had any mousse. She said she had some and she gave me this can that is spray foam or something and no where on it says mouse.. I was wondering if it is? If I list what it says on the front.. back to basica is the brand. It says, volume infusing spray foam., spray on styler for volume, texture and lift. Is this mouse, and if not will it work for scrunching hair? I have thin hair if it helps. (link)
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I have thin hair too and scrunching your hair with mousse works very well. (Yes that is mousse). Just make sure your hair is wet and that you have some kind of anti-frizz (if you hair frizzes) in your hair before you scrunch it. Good luck :)
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im gettin a tiny dog i need names.i like 'food names' or different names like 'turtle' for a dog i love that name for a dog or any 'unique names' or oppasite like giant for a tiny dog~so any names that are ~food~oppasite~unique~other animals~stuff like that (link)
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Here are some of the names I like for dogs...
-Cosmo
-Elvis
-Copper
-Maggie
-Shadow
-Katie
-Sarg (Sargent)
-Cheif
-Cocoa
-JayJay
-Maxie
these are dogs of friends of mine and i love their names... hoped it helped you.. let me know what you picked :)
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Alright, so i have two best friends. They went to a party the other night. I was walking with one of them home and she told me what she was doing and i was shocked. She said that he went out drinking at the party with my other friend, and they were making out with guys and whatever. I know it may not be a shock to you, but they would NEVER do that.. and when she told me i was devestated...although i could'nt tell her, i was dropping hints, but that doesn't help much... so now i have no idea what to do, i figured that they would never do something like that and now, im by myself... the only person who has probably never gotten drunk in my entire grade....but thats not the problem, the problem is i dont think i will be able to forgive them... i dont care if you think its what all teenagers do, its not because im living proof that not all teenagers drink and smoke, so dont give me that. I just want to know how to cope with it. (link)
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Ok I have a friend that this happened to. I didn't go to the party but I heard she was really wasted and she hooked up with three different guys. I was shocked/surprised because this was a quiet girl. But from what I've learned, you can't hold it against them. You have to accept them and their decisions, even if you don't agree with that they do. If it poses as a growing problem and you think they are going to endanger themselves, then you should approach them about it. Also, about the drinking thing... I have never been drunk and I know a bunch of people who haven't in my grade and I am a sophmore. Don't feel pressured that you have to drink because your best friends decided to. That's the last thing you should do, drink/smoke to fit in. I don't know if I helped..
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Can you help me find ways to get whiter teeth just short of having them professionally bleached?
Any details on the "bleach them with equal parts baking soda and peroxide" mixture/solution? will be greatly appreciated.
Will there be instances in which Crest Whitestrips don't work? My dad won't let me use them but maybe with some help I can convince him.
My teeth are yellow. i dont drink tea or soda. i used to not brush for quite a long time. i have been brushing regularly for almost half an year (i brush my tongue and floss too). what can i do to get whiter teeth asap? i will continue with the brushing routine but my teeth are annoying - i cant smile. i may be brushing incorrectly.
also i am getting braces. will that interfere with anything? is there a color brace that wont make my teeth look even yellower
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There is this mouth wash made by Crest that you can use and it is suppose to whiten your teeth. What I did to whiten my teeth was brush my teeth twice a day, floss at night and then use a mouthwash. (This is with braces) There is a mouth wash especially for people with braces I don't know if you are interested in it, but I found that the mouthwash/floss/brushing really helped. Hope it helps you :)
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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP. (link)
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I think I can relate to this question more than any other. Don't force something just because you think you need someone by your side, you already have friends there for you. Hang with friends. And try talking to guys and get to know them more and maybe when they get to know you then something may spark. Don't rush into something because you may end up regretting it. I know this sounds stupid because I feel the exact same way about getting a boyfriend. You feel like you are just as pretty as everyone else except they are the ones with a guy at their side. Just remember that you have friends that love you and that you've made it this far in life without someone. All I am trying to say is be more outgoing and get to be good friends with some guys, afterall the best relationships start from a friendship. And you are strong enough to not need someone next to you. I think about this a lot and I have figured that if something is going to happen, it will, I don't want to force something that may not be as good as what might have been if I waited. Well, I hoped I helped and if you need to talk more just let me know.
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can anyone please wright me a list of songs i can download cuz seriously i need some new good songs.I like people like eminem,avril lavigne,shakira,christina aguilera if that helps in any way...im not looking for songs particualry for these people but,that kind of music. (link)
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I don't know if I have different tastes in music.. but I'll give you the names and artists of the songs on my favorite cd i recently burned...
1. If Everyone Cared - Nickelback
2. Here (In your arms) - Hellogoodbye
3. I Can't Hate you anymore - Nick Lachey
4. I Go Crazy - Cascada
5. Hurt - Christina Aguilera
6. Brusied - Jack's Mannequin
7. A Favor House Atlantic - Coheed & Cambria
8. Love Me Like You - Magic Numbers
9. For You I Will (Confidence) - Teddy Geiger
10. Remember the Name - Fort Minor
11. White House - Vanessa Carlson
12. Here It Goes Again - Ok Go
13. 83 - John Mayor
14. Lips Of An Angel - Hinder
15. Mircale - Cascada
14. How To Save A Life - The Fray
15. All At Once - The Fray
hope this list helps! Whenever I listen to this cd it makes me so happy :)
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i have problems with getting my homework done on time and during class i find it realy hard to pay attention
because i dont really get anything the first time they explain it and well in highschool they say it once and never really go over it agian soo im having major problems do you know what i can do? (link)
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I am in high school too and I can totally relate. If you don't get something in class, go in before or after school and have the teacher explain it in a one-on-one situation. Also, with the homework, try to do it right when you get home so you don't forget to do it and you also get it out of the way. The information learned in school would be fresh in your mind. This is my strategies (sp) and they help me so I hope they help youu.
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ok well im a female im 5'6" and my weight is about 115.. does that make me underwieght or overweight or what? cuz personally i think im fat but my friends tell me im skinny i want to diet but im afraid i might become anerexic or somthing. Soo what do you think.
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This weight is average. And having a controlled diet would help you from an eating disorder. Know your limits and excerise daily (or weekly). This would help you loose some weight. I don't really know what else to say, just to make sure you don't go too far with the diet. My friend went on a diet cutting out all carbs and I think it worked very well.
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something wierd has been going on for the last 3 days...
i cant stoop shakeing!! im like shivering! but im NOT cold or anyhting, acually i turn off my air conderner, fan, and get under alot of covers, and i will be sweating hot, and i still start like shakeing!!
its like my whole body it starts and is mostly my legs but then like my body starts
im really worried
im not sick
no fevers
feeling fine
not cold
shakeing uncontrobly
--ashley (grayrainbow) (link)
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That is not normal (obviously) and it could be something serioud (I can't tell you for sure). See if you can make an appointment to see a doctor, or call the office and speak to one and explain your situation. Sometimes this happens to me and it is because I am nervous. I don't know if this is the case for you, and I never had it go on for a while. My advice, call a doctor.
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There's this girl named Pam. She was in my art class, and she was really shy, so I felt bad and started to talk to her because she didn't have any friends. Now, I don't have any classes with her except History and English. She won't leave me alone! Everytime she sees me, she follows me. We're not even in the same 4th period class, but she waits for me at my locker anyway! I try to ditch her, but she doesn't get it. She thinks we're best friends. One time, I was talking to my friend in the hallway, and she just comes up to me and stands next to me. There's a dance in school coming up, and I want to go, but I'm pretty sure she'll go and follow me. Should tell her that I'm not going, and go anyway?
14/f. Sorry that was so long! (link)
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First of all, don't tell her you aren't going and then go. If she finds out you went, she'll be crushed. Also, the reason she may be so clingy is that she doesn't have many other friends. Yes she bothers you, but you may be the only person she has to talk to in school. Try to find someone you think would match well to her and hook them up. You never know it may turn out to be a friendship and then she would leave you alone. Just don't be mean about it. That's the worst thing you can do. I hope this helped if not.. sorry!
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ok well my best friend thinks she's fat but she isnt she's about 5'6" and weighs about 110 pounds and all she has been eating for the past week is celery becuase you burm more caleries than you gain! Is this a problem!?!?!
and if soo what should i do cuz im really scared?!?! (link)
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Well eating only celery for a week is a problem because your body won't get the energy it needs to function. What you need to do is either tell her that she really needs to eat because the habits she is starting are not healthy, or if you really think it will become a big problem, you should notify an adult or a teacher. Yes this may cause some major problems, but if you help her out in the long run she would owe you so much. Don't let this problem get out of hand because this is step one to the developement of an eating disorder. Help your friend see that what she is doing is not helping her, it is in fact hurting her!
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OK so I was friends with my bff who i've been bffs with since i was 5, and now i'm 13/f
but at the beginning of this year the schools merged & we met this girl lindsay. I HATE HER SO MUCH! first we started hanging out with these girls molly & kayla who turned out to be pretending to be our friends the whole time! *hate them too* that's what lindsay told us. so then we turned out being bffs with lindsay until the point where me and kristen (my other EX-bff) got tired of the drama. lindsay is ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THE POPULAR GIRLS & HOW JEALOUS SHE IS & HOW THEY backstab each other, when she doesn't realize SHE'S EVEN WORSE! She told me not to be friends with my other bff, Lynnette, & lynnette is my only good friend at the school right now. shes trying to turn me agains EVERYONE! I HATE HER! So then i was gonna tell her i'm not gonna be her friend any more because i couldn't take it but she was w/ molly & kayla and wanted to be popular so she said "lauren, if ur gonna be like that then WHAT THE HECK IS UP YOUR BUTT!?" she's just jealous her EX boyfriend broke up with her bcause she doesnt HAVE ONE! I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SHE MAKES ME SO MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and she lies to get a reaction. she said this girl sophie makes fun of me for my curly hair but she doesn't! she also said her dad used to live in a haunted house where she said the bed lifted up by itself! as if! she even went up to the guy i liked and practically made fun of him twice!!!! now he hates me!! so then she emails me saying she wants to work things out so i start yelling at her online and then she says "WHATEVER! ILL JUST BE FRIENDS WITH KRISTEN!"
i don't even know what i'm asking....
how can i get her back in kind of a nice way?
but not so nice...???
thanks (link)
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Ok so I have had experience with this kind of situation, except that I felt like my best friends were leaving me for this girl's new "group". I, did nothing, and I completely regretted it at the time. But now we are best friends. I just let my friend experience for herself how cruel this person was and she came to her sense, and soon things went back to normal. With your case, you could try to talk to your friends and let them know how you are feeling and how this girl makes you feel. You never know, they maybe sharing this feeling, but maybe too scared to say something (like I was). And revenge... not always the best thing. If you say something/do something, this girl may hold it against you and use it to her advantage. Just keep it cool, and slowly drift away. Don't invite her to do things, and say no when she invites you. Disconnect yourself from this girl you hate so you don't have to feel binded to her. I hope this helps, I'm not sure if I stayed on topic.
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