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Ok so this question is for fathers. How would you react if you just found out your 16 year old daughter was pregnat? I know this is a stupid question I just really need to know! Thanks to all the dads that answer!
P.S. Dont worry, this isnt about me! (link)
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hmm, well me being 17 and all, if i had a child and found out she was prego, well i would be mad at first, thats understand able, im pretty sure everyone would be mad at first, but it depends on wiether you want to be understanding about it or take the angry route, if she isn't in the least bit ariea of wanting to lok after it or is not fit to look after it then i would be mad, but she will need your help im guessing
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ok..well this guy he likes me and i like him but like last night wehn we were talking he said that he weares eyeliner and i never knew thats o i was like ewwwww.ur a ugy u dont wear make up and like all freaking out..and thne he told mem he was bi...and he said he dont like girl that wear to much make up...and i wear make up not alot but i lok good in it so he baiscalyl said to his bi /wears eyelnier....and that i cant wear make up....after i got freaked out...he aske dme out an di said no...so then i hung up and he calle dm eback and said that he was jokin..about it but hes ounded realy convinsin liek realy convinsing and he made such a big fite over it ...which makes me think he wasnt kidding tand that his lying..and o he told me he was emo be fore..but what ever he isnt anymore..soo is he kying or not..?? (link)
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Well, this is hard to tell, because some guys (aka my boyfriend) can be so convinsing that you believe him, hes pulled a couple of these stunts before, but i would look at his eyes and if it looks like there is eye liner on them then maybe he is telling the truth, as for him telling you how you should wear your make up,. unless it looks like hidious which im pretty sure it doesn't! then he has no right telling you not to wear make up, if make up makes you feel beautiful, well then i say wear on! lol
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16/f. My friend's liked my boyfriend for the past year and I didn't know it. She's liked him before he was my boyfriend. And that was about 4 months ago. If I had known, I wouldn't have went out with him right away...I wouldn't feel comfortable with her liking him and all. Now that he's my boyfriend..she tries in EVERY way to flirt with him and make me jealous. But luckily, he doesn't really like her (even as a person) so nothing's going on. Yet sometimes, when I tend to piss him off for the stupidest reasons, he flirts with her, making an attempt to make me jealous. And she enjoys it. They sometimes even form a little group without me..discussing what my boyfriend and I do. (Nothing sexual...but he makes it seem that way) so there are always these lies floating around..and rumors..that i did things with him. And I find myself unable to trust anyone now, and doubting my relationship with my boyfriend. It's as if I have no privacy with him...as if everyone knows, like I'm a celebrity or something. It really does bother me. But yes. The girl..she's been my friend for a little while now. And I've considered her one of my closest friends. And well..she makes nasty remarks..and whenever I tell her something..she promises not to tell anyone..and still does. I don't know what to do. She's lowering my self esteem..and I feel really jealous when she talks to my boyfriend. What can I do? I'm sorry this is long and confusing. ;_; I'm older than them..they're all 15...maybe that makes a huge difference.. (link)
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well first off, i would tell your boyfriend that this bothers you and if he continues to do it, there might be an end? he shouldn't treat you like that at all! that is completely wrong.
as for your friend, she should know better, tell her that if she wants to tell people fine, but you won't be telling her stuff anymore, and there should be some privacy between you and your bf, that is normal. if i were you i would tell your friend to back off. she is not dating him, there for stop flirting. don't let her know she gets under your skin, she is just looking for a reaction. as for the self asteem, don't let her get you down, you are an amasing wonderful pretty person! no one should make you feel this way
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My sister has really strange eating habits, but it doesn't sound like an eating disorder that I have heard of. She eats less than 100 calories for breakfast. At school she eats grapes for lunch and throws away her sandwich. She tries not to let anyone see her do it, but I have seen her do it all week. At supper, she eats normally because my parents saw that she wasn't eating as much and she doesn't want them to know.
One day at lunch I saw her eating half of her sandwich. But when we got home, I heard her trying to make herself throw up in the bathroom. She didn't succeed, but maybe that's because she is afraid of throwing up.
Maybe I am making too much of things, but what does this sound like to you? Any help is appreciated. :) (link)
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Well, If i were you i would be concerned, it sounds to me like it is the starting signs or just signs of a eating disorder, if you catch her constantly throwing up then i would try talking to her about it. some people get the feeling that if they can't control their lives maybe weight is the only thing that she can control. she should be eating more than just grapes for lunch. That is a good sign of not eating properly.
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Ok, well Im kind of stuck in a situation. A few months ago i kind of liked one of my good guy friends (Nick) and he "secretly" liked me, but I also liked another guy (Scott) who ended up being my boyfriend for two months. It was during that period that i found Nick to be an amazing friend and now i see him like a brother. Ive been single for about a month and a half now and it turns out somehow my friend Nick likes me again, but now I cant see him that way at all, I just cant. He also goes to a different school and i learned from my past 2 relationships that dating guys from other schools (especially when you live in the country) doesnt work, so I know it wouldnt work if I did like him anywyas. I do like a guy from my school however. He is a bit of a player and we talk quite a bit, hes really senstive adn sweet but he "loves" this one girl who is on an exchange student program. I dont know what to do since this guy (James) wants to make out with me and stuff. He flirts with me alot but im pretty sure all he wants is action, especially since he is really into this otehr girl. The thing is, i cant help but like him. What should I do?? I dont know how to deal with my friend, if i should go for James or what?? Thanks for your time :)
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Wow, deja vu haha, well first of all you might want to tell your friend nick that you simply don't think of him in that way anymore, that you see him more as a brother figure then a boyfriend figure. As for James.. I believe to a great extent that he is just looking for action, and if you give him the action anytime he wants it just because he says he likes your or he says please or acts like he cares, Hon im afraid he’s only in it to get some. Because he obviously isn't in it for love or anything if he has stated that he likes the exchange person. Being with a player is very hard, you want him to like you, but you don't want to get hurt.
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besides using the traditional bottle and brush, theres also pens and stickers.. how do they work? are they any good? (link)
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well i believe that they do work i don't own any but there was a demonstration at the mall once and it looked pretty awesome
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moshing?? (link)
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i think it is when you are at a concert and you are in the 'mosh pit' basically the floor and its like pushing and very close together.. but i am really not sure
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Yes, i am sorry i caught that after, i meant like don't bother to ask like 'ask away' meaning, not the 'well then don't ask me' meaning i am very sorry
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Are short like cocktail dresses kinda weird for prom? should they be long and formal? whats your opnion for prom dresses.. THANKS (link)
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Well it is all up to what you like, if you want a cocktail dress then go for it, there are all different types of cocktail dresses some don't like the short ones and some don't like the long ones, I think both are perfect for grad it just depends on what your interest is.
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15, f. i've been with my boyfriend since homecoming. we are so happy together and i really couldn't see myself with anyone else. we never fight either, and have recently started saying "i love you". he is 17, but is only a junior. he goes to another school (an all guys school) and at his school it is a junior/senior prom. prom is april 12th, and he still hasn't asked me. he told me when he got the invite for it in the mail and whatnot, and his mom asked me what my dress color was because he was going to get his suit tailored. i responded with "well, i haven't been asked actually" because he was sitting right there. when we were talking about it, he said "i have everything under control". i'm starting to freak out about timing and stuff. i need to get a dress and make appointments! what should i do? help pleaaaase. i'm getting nervous he is going to not want to take me or something cause he hasn't asked me yet! (link)
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Hmm I would wait till the end of March, and if he still hasn't asked you then I would front up ask him,. Are you going to ask me or not? Because if you are I need to know to get ready for it. You maybe able to pull it together at the last minute, but I am a girl. We girls need time: P
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my friend told me she saw some video about the 9/11 attacks and she said they were planned by the U.S. government so they could take over some other country..
then she said theres some video of george bush saying "the planes hit" before they hit?
and then she said some plane left a baseball sized hole in the pentagon then they paid all the people on the plane to live in a different country so no one would find out.?
ok so isn't that the craziest thing you've ever heard? what do you think of all this?
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I’m afraid to say that, there was a plane that did hit the pentagon. And I have seen video's saying that the U.S. Government was in charge to hide something or cover something up. Its called Zeit Geist. (Don’t watch it, it is scare fully truth believing). I am not sure about the bush saying they hit before they actually hit though. or anything about the different country stuff.
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i got my period in 8th grade in feb. im in 9th now.
its was really weird at first, and heavy.
recently it was coming on a regular schedule & it was pretty heavy.
but for two/three like "cycles" its been messed up. or i think it is.
like my discharge gets like really dark (like period colored) at the time that im suppose to get my period. like it stains my underwear, but it wont leak thro. im thinking like maybe that is my period.?
i dont know.. is that possable..that its my period?
its like discharge but dark. and it comes at the time im suppose to get my period.
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I believe that it is the beginning of your period, It is normal, and for the first year or so your periods will seem 'messed up' unless something is wrong, but what you have is normal, it is usually light at the beginning, nothing to worry about though,
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there is so much drama between boys and backstabbers and friends at my school!! i just want to stay out of it? any ideas????? (link)
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haha!! this sounds exactly like my school, my group of friends, my life.. haha
I don't think there is exactly a way to stay out of it, unless you deside to have no friends which would suck,
I get tired of the Drammaaaa also, so i just hide away and play agame or read abook till its cool again,
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is 7th or 8th grade too young to have sex?
also, is it possible to have like dry sex with your clothes on? (link)
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Yes, 7th and 8th grade is way to young to do it. You may have the urge to do it. but trust me it's nothing that spectacular. I've even heard that it hurts the first time, You can have try sex,, but it is not calle dtry sex it would be dry humping it is only sex if the penis goes inside the girls vagina.
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hi i was wondering a few questions. is it normal for almost all girls to finger them selves?
also, when a boy fingers you and pops your cherry, what happens? do you bleed? does it hurt? ....i need to know =)
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haha, yes it is normal. It is called masterbation. I don't perticularly do it, but some people do, It all depends if the person is into it or not,
As for the popping of the cherry thing,
I have no idea sorry
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well i'm making a picture of my friend and i want to crop her into a picture but does anyone know how to do that? please helo i will rate : ) (link)
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Hmm, do you have any photo programs, paint won't do it, but if you have like adobe or arc soft photo impressions (I suggest the number 4 one, the 5 isn't great) but other then that not sure how to
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Well my boyfriend lives in California and I live in Virginia but we always visit each other during breaks. So since we're both on breaks we can see each other. I want to satisfy him in every way possible. But it just seems like he ALWAYS wants to touch,kiss,and sex me. And thats alright if it was just a couple of times of day. But we on average have sex about 5 times a day. When we're in public, he'll just put his hands down my shirt or lifts up my skirt and feels on my butt. At first it turned me on but now its just kind of annoying. I know he does it because he's been missing the affection for all of those months. I don't know what I should say to let him know that i want us to be less physical. (link)
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It's completely understandable. If I was away from my boy too I would like doing that a lot to, but in public? And just lifting your skirt,, when your in public.. That’s a bit um what’s the word.. Wrong maybe?
Jest tell him straight up that you like being physical, but your not into being physical 24-7
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So I got a new shirt for Easter, and I wanted to know what would be some cute ways to wear it.
Layers, etc etc. I just want some opinions on how other people would wear it.
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Yes, I agree with the first response,
I would go colourful colours,
It would look good with headbands maybe
But definitely a v neckline or something that isn't to close to the neck
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so i'm saving up for a $350 camera but i'm totaly broke...i'm trying to save up but i don't know where i'm gonna get that money...i babysit but not enough, and it's hard because you cant choose when to babysit, you baby sit when the parents ask you to. and i'm only 14 so i'm not old enough for a job....any ideas to make money quick? or at all???
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hmm,
You could like the first response do things for your parents and ask to be paid for the jobs you do, You could also make bracelets, book marks and little things like taht to help towards your goal. you could sell them to friends, family and family friends.
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what movie is this from? http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y201/h2obubbli/coolxg7.gif (link)
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I am not entirely sure?
But if i were to make a guess
Maybe it is from
'Across the Universe' it seems like something that would be in that movie,
having not actually seen that movie yet that would only be my guess.
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Okay I have two questions about a protest
1) What's that white cardboardy stuff people use for protests thats easily seen and firm? And where would I get it? If I can't get it, what should I use instead?
2) My Mum is SUPER PROTECTIVE of me. When I say super, I mean you seriously have no idea. If she knew I was going to a silent 'let's sit on the ground and hum' protest, she'd freak. Let alone a dangerous one I'm going to. I was going to go with friends, and just tell her I was hanging out with them, but at the last minute they decided they didn't believe in the cause and are leaving me to go by myself.
I could still use that story, but it feels so wrong lying to her. I was thinking of dropping hints how disgusted I am with this thing I'm protesting about, then in casual conversation slip in about thinking of going to the protest with a friend. However if she says no, then I can't lie about not going to the protest. Should I tell the truth, and if so how? Or just go. (link)
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Well,. i wouldn't lie to her, because what if you go to this protest and something happens to you? I think you should stand up for what you believe in, if you really believe in it, you should tell her, that this is something that your have strong opinions about. I'm sure she has had some strong opinions of her own. maybe like the killing of seals (true fact, my sister send me a video of it on youtube, most desterbing) hinting at the idea of going to the protest is a good idea and then telling her, but in the end i would tell her the truth and just say. i am going to do this because it is something i very strongly believe in doing.
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Question 1:
Hmm, i really have no idea, maybe cardboard sprayed white? i know posterboard would be too light, so that wouldn't work. but that would be my best guess
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