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to much for our relationship
Well my boyfriend lives in California and I live in Virginia but we always visit each other during breaks. So since we're both on breaks we can see each other. I want to satisfy him in every way possible. But it just seems like he ALWAYS wants to touch,kiss,and sex me. And thats alright if it was just a couple of times of day. But we on average have sex about 5 times a day. When we're in public, he'll just put his hands down my shirt or lifts up my skirt and feels on my butt. At first it turned me on but now its just kind of annoying. I know he does it because he's been missing the affection for all of those months. I don't know what I should say to let him know that i want us to be less physical.
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It's completely understandable. If I was away from my boy too I would like doing that a lot to, but in public? And just lifting your skirt,, when your in public.. That’s a bit um what’s the word.. Wrong maybe?
Jest tell him straight up that you like being physical, but your not into being physical 24-7
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i had the same problem with my boyfriend, he'd just randomly squeeze me like he couldn't help himself. you have to remember that guys are really simple creatures and they're not going to understand how you're feeling unless you're blunt and up front about it. that doesn't mean you have to be mean. sit down with him in private, hold his hands if you're worried about them wandering while you're talking and look directly into his eyes. have a firm tone of voice but try not to sounds angry. all you really want to do is tell him that you're a human being, not a toy.
tell him that you love him and want your relationship to be something more than just physical interaction. make him feel good about himself while you're talking to him, throw in what a nice, charming guy he is and how great he is in bed if you want to. say that he's a wonerful guy but the PDA is just a little too much.
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