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Well, on one hand, there's my ex who I still love alot, and she's just everything I could ever want. She knows I still love her and she loves me still, too. Only problem is that she isn't sure that she wants a relationship right now.

On the other hand, there's this girl I met through a mutual friend and we clicked as soon as we met. We both love each other [Yeah, actual love, not just liking] and we're perfect for each other. Problem here is that she lives in Ohio and I live in New York. Now, we both hate long distance relationships so that's not an option.

I really love both of these girls, but there's obstacles in the way of both. What should I do?

I cant really tell you what too do, but i would go with the one that lives near you. You both love eachother and it sounds like you guys could make that work. Take this into consideration but dont chose that because thats what i said.

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In Computer Applications, we learned how to click certain buttons on Word to take us to the next page automatically (not the Enter key 20 times). What are those buttons?

ctrl & Enter.

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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP.

im skinny yet i have the same problem guys dont want to go out with me cuz im not the prettiest girl. All you can do really is talk to the guys and if they dont like you because you arent perfect well then screw them they shouldnt care about looks they should care about you personality and if they arent smart enough to notice it then they arent worth it. You shouldnt have to change for people to like you just be yourself. im sorry if i didnt help..i tried

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is there anything around my house that i could use to enhance my breast size...somthing i dont have to buy???

i dont know of any but putting lotion on them makes it look as if they were bigger.

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i'd like people's opinions- do you believe that it's possible for two teenagers to fall in love? i'm 16/f and he's 17/m. this is our relationship in (very small) nutshell:

we talk about everything. we care about each other to the deepest, most loving extent possible. i don't see other guys [friends, random guys] in the same way i used to. neither of us would ever do anything to hurt the other [emotionally & physically, for that matter.] and anytime either of us even suspects something is wrong [which has only happened twice], we bring it up and talk through it. he makes me genuinely happy- the happiest i've ever been in my life. i'm constantly in a state of bliss when i'm with him, no matter what we're doing or what's going on. we've been dating a year and almost seven months. i can honestly see marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him. no words can describe how much i love him.

i'm sure i'm forgetting other things. but anyway- in love? or just a "teenage love"? [in your opinion. of course, my opinion is the former, haha.] thanks in advance (:

i would call it love..If you see him and you sharing the rest of your life together then its love because alot of teens dont even think about how there future would actually be with a guy.

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Ok this guy was new in school and we clicked from the start. he liked me. i liked him. so we flirted. i lead him on. but the second time we spoke i make it clear i dont date. after that we continued flirting talkin getin to know each other. towards recent we were both like OMG she knows me to well and i was like wow he responds to me like no other. On 14th feb he gave me a gift. and i returned it back to him. i felt like i had to stop leading him on cause i dont date *if i dont have a future with him why should i? and i know i dont. this wont last. he is a suni muslim and i a shia. so whats the point? i wont marry him so why should i date* so i returned the gift and now he is really upset and mad at me. i can udnerstand but i dont want to lose him. I still really like him. and i wish he owuld give me a chnace to explain. he isnt. and in front of ppl he acts like we are ok behind we arent. and i dont know what to do. i really like him but whats the point? im so confused. please help!
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if you like him go for it. Take chances you might end up together. And if its not possible make it possible. there is no reason not to.

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I've had my cat for 10 years and I love him, but he suddenly started growing this tumor. And the poor thing probably won't live more than a few weeks but we don't want him to be in pain so we're putting him to sleep when he starts showing pain. I don't know if I want to be there when he is. My mom said I could go, but I don't know if I would want to see him then, but I don't know if I'll regret not going? Help?

ok well it will be really painful for you to watch him die but. The cat is just like a friend to you and you dont want it to die without you there to be with him at his last moments. i had the same problem and thats what my dad told me. If the cats your friend you should be there for him when he needs you so his last moments arent all that bad..im sorry if i didnt help..
thats pretty much the same speech i got and well it really helped me i hope it helps you!! :)

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is it normal to be jealous when your boyfriend tells you that he looks at porn? should he be looking at it while he's in a relationship? does that mean that he's not satified with his girlfriend?
thanks xo

its normal to get jelous. if my boyfriend was watchin it i might be a little mad and have the same feelings as you are. But if you don't like it you should say somthing to him. It doesnt exactly mean he's not satisfied it might just be somthing he picked up before he was with you and just never stopped watching it. Alot of guys do it.

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my dog who i love very much recently died and i am just wondering, according to the christian religion, what happens to animals when they die?

well i was taught that animals have their own special heavan its pretty much the same thing as what happens to us.

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So my cat won't eat her wetfood. She eats her dry food perfectly fine, and I have tried every suggestion my Vet told me, but nothing worked. Yet I heard (from a friend) that if cats don't eat their wetfood they'll die or something? I do find it somewhat ridiculous but it worries me. Is that true? If so, what can I do? If not, any suggestions to help my cat eat her food?

thanks

no it doesnt mean your cat is dying. One of my cats doesnt eat wet food either and she's fine. Have you tried maybe mixing in and the slowly putting less dry food in the wet food so the cat might get used to the texture and feel and eat it? im pretty sure that could help.

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okay, so there's a guy that i've known for a couple of years, but was never really friends with. i really like him and i have every way of talking to him at school and i have his e-mail. right now i'm taking it slow and getting to know him. and everything is figured out.

but later on after the patience of waiting,which i can handle, how will i be able to tell if he likes me or not? how can you tell if a guy likes you or not in general?

i'm a girl and i'm straight. just to let you guys know.

thanks in advance. =]

ok well how i tell if a guy likes some1 they will flirt with them all the time and smile just when looking at you. And sometimes on the internet there will be some hints about it when they are chatting with you.. they might say somthing that they normally wouldnt or that anyone else wouldnt.

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15/f

So I have this good guy friend. We dont really hang out outside of school, but we talk all the time in school when we can. Hes in my band class, so we have a few minutes before and after together. He always hugs me, and its like a more than friends hug. He always plays with my hair, tells me I smell good, wants to talk on the phone with me, teases me playfully, etc. He even makes me cute little cards that say things like "if I was in a room with 11 roses and you, I'd be among the 12 most beautiful things in the world" But hes always been a sweetheart. Everyone else notices. They tease us about being married and saying we would be the cutest couple ever. Hes kissed me on the cheek a couple times. But we've always been just friends, neither of us has brought up the subject of being more. well hes treated me this way forever, and I always hear that he likes me. Well the other day, after band, he came and hugged me as usual and was like "what did you do this weekend" (he was still holding me) and I said "it was loooong" he said "Oh really? I spent most of it at my girlfriends house so it went pretty fast for me"

I was shocked. He never told me or stopped treating me the way he does. He still acts like hes in love with me. I dont know whats up. My friend said she thinks hes had a gf for awhile..like a month at least. But thats not for sure, shes wrong a lot. Well I dont know if he honestly thinks of me as just a friend (It sure doesnt seem like it) or if hes doing it to make me jealous (because He seemed like he wanted me to know, the way he said it) because if he is, its definitely working..what do yall think? Thanks in advance!!!!

I'd say he likes you. All the signs are leading towards that. I think he is just trying to make you jelous...tell him how you feel if you feel anything like what you think he is feeling. He obviously likes you there is no denying it.

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If your friend's boyfriend is cheating on her do u tell her or keep it 2 your self i mean everyone knows and she is really in love with him each time they break up they get right back together but she found out a couple of her friends know and she aint talkin to them anymore but im her best friend do i tell her i know

you should tell her it would be wrong not too. If you were a true friend you would tell her and its whats right. If she is your friend she will understand that you did it to pretect her and not to hurt her.

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what are your opinions on tankinis.

are they more for older women (25 and up), or can teenagers where them too and still look cool. like would you wear them?

thanks

Tankinis are defenitly ok i actually have one. And many teens wear them so you should look fine.

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im 14 ~today was my bday ~valentines day ~all i could think about was my bff since 4th grade~hes a guy ~ive been staring to really like him and he likes me we both no we like eachother ~my family doesnt really care about me tht much and dont say o yes they do ~bc they dont they told me ~i hate them ~they fogot it was my bday till like noon and ive only been talkin about it for days ~his family is just like mine ~were both deppressed when were apart~my bff he was the first person to tell me happy bday and even sing it ~which was left on a message on my cell at 9:00am the time i was born years ago ~i called him back ~it was so sweet ~someone cares about me atleast ~one person in my life ~i really love him and he really loves me but every1 who dates ends up hating eachother i no we wouldnt hate eachother but ~hes the only person in my life tht cares about me ~should we date ~i dont wana lose the only person who cares and loves me ~and yes im gothic depressed but can u blame me!!! ~my parents dont care his parents dont care any of my cousins dont care no1 else cares about me!!!!!!!! exept him i love him i dont ever want to loose him ~and if we ever do date he cant come over as much ~we cant go anywhere alone anymore ~what do i do ~i hate my life ~but i love him with all my heart ~i got only the present from him today ~i dont really care about the present i just wanted to be with him 2day thats all i wanted for my bday ~i cry myself to sleep every night im cryin my eyes out right now and hes the ONLY person to ever see me cry exept my mom since i was like 5 ~what should i do i dont wana loose the only person in my life we both love eachother as bff and as bf gf ~and no im not going to see anyone for all my problems ~hes the only person i can talk to ~i hav tried to kill myself befor~before i met him~hes means the world to me i mean the world to him~we only have eachother ~we might runaway together ~NOBODY WILL CARE EVRY1 NOS NO1 WILL ~im not sein a pyscyatrist ~what do i do ~OMG SUM1 PLZ HELP ME

i dont think running away is the answer you two have feelings for each other you should get together. Maybe if you two are together things might get better and you might feel better. If you two are only happy when together then stay together and be together.

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