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hey advicenators, my name is caitlin. i love giving people advice. i`ve had a previous advice column, but decided to quit giving advice. i regretted that and got a new column! this pretty much became my obession very fast. im on basically everyday, at least once. i never reject any questions that i get in my inbox, because i think that no question is stupid. when i do get questions in my in my inbox, it makes my day :]! remember that i cant see who you are. so you shouldnt feel embarassed to ask me anything! also just because i have my three favorite categories doesn`t mean that im not open to answer any other types of questions. i love getting feedback. it lets me know that im doing my job well! every question that i do ask on this site always gets rated. i mean you have to know if your giving good advice or not, right? if you do like my advice, feel free to add me as one of your favorite columnists!
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Ok well i started my period when i was 12 years old. I am now 14 years old and i'm a 32 A. On both sides of my family all the woman are atleast C's. Am i ever going to get bigger because im so self concious about my small boobs. It's like there barely there it makes me feel like a little boy. Everything else is fine it just my boobs are really small and coming from a family full of big breasted woman it makes me wonder. When do you think they will get bigger? Is there an age in mind? Because on most sites it says your breast delevopment is normally done at age 15 and i just cant see to much progress happening in the next 3 months.
hey, well im 13 and im a size 34a. thats pretty small for my family. my family has Cs and Ds. your boobs can always get bigger. there is no limit for when they will stop growing.
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My boyfriend (30yrs) and I (28yrs) met in Australia and I moved to Ireland to be with him, we have only been together (officially) for a year. I found out we were pregnant the other day and whilst I am scared and nervous about it I want to have the baby as I feel we are strong enough to get make it happen and abortion is not an option in my mind. My boyfriend said he will support me what ever I decide but I know he is freaked out by it. I have tried talking to him and I understand his fears. He is worried about finances and that our 1/2 renovated house is not child suitable but I think his biggest worry is that is life of going to clubs and festivals during the summer will be over for ever and he will be chained to the couch for ever. I have tried to tell him life will change but its not the end of his life and things will be different. I asked him if the option was there of an abortion would he want that and he said yes he would. This really hurts me as I dont believe in abortion and I am ready for a baby in some way I am actually excited and would have liked it to have been a planned pregnancy and a mutually wanted baby. Later he came back and said he doesn't want me to have an abortion but he is not sure about me having it. What am I meant to do have half a baby and half of an abortion?? What do I do? Do i give him time to get used to the idea? I dont want him to feel forced into this and him become resentful? Do I just go home to Australia and leave him to his party life? (which really aint that party hard anyway). We are a strong strong very happy and in love couple but I dont want to force this on him but then it was the two of us that got pregnant, why am I meant to feel like I am forcing this on him?? oh its all so confusing? can he go to any decent websites for advice on this stuff? I have checked ou a few sights about girlfirends getting pregnant but they are all for younger guys?
hey, i wouldnt leave him with this party life. if you feel that you guys are strong and are ready for the baby, give him the time to get used to the idea. since you guys werent playing this, it was probably very shocking to him. tell him that you dont believe in abortion and that is basically just not an option for you. there is always having the baby, then putting it up for adoption. that way a family can have it and love it, instead of killing the baby. have a long serious talk with him about the whole situation.
-missadvicebitch1
Alright i'm just going to go straight to it.So theres this guy that i'm dating, lets same his name is [bob].K well [bob] is the real shy type but hes starting to open up more. Well weve been going out for almost a month now. We went out before but for only like 5 days. Hes a real sweetheart & i'm in love with him. Well maybe just a deeo like but i'm not sure if its LOVE. Okay well now heres this guy.. lets say his name is [nick] . Alright well me & [nick] have been best friends for a little bit over a year. I can tell him anything , hes always here for me , & i can ALWAYS be myself when i'm around him. Hes the sweetest guy i have ever met. Yes he is & they do exsist. Well hes been in love with me for about a year. I've liked him for the longest time & hes asked me out a lott but i've always said no cause i was just scared about our friendship. Well At one point i have said yes but we broke up like 5 hours later cause that night i was going to the movies & didn't wanna have to worry about boyfriends i just wanted to have fun. Well i promised him it was just a break and we would go back out afterwards. Well when we went to the movies he was all over my best friend. I cried my eyes out when i got home & hated him. Well that was over the summer. Now we have gotten SOOO much closer since then. My best friend went out with him & she has a new boyfriend & claims shes so over him. I beleive her but i don't know what to do.Now i can be myself around this guy [ nick ]. But i can't even be myself around my own boyfriend.Theres something about my boyfriend though that keeps me hanging on to him.Then again my best friend just asked me out last night & is looking forward to an answer. But i'm still going out with [bob] & i don't wana hurt him. What should i do? Who should i go out with? What should i say? i need help big time. Please HELP!
hey, well if you cant be yourself around your own boyfriend, then you should have gotten to be closer and be more of friends before you aggreed to go out wiht him. think about who you truley like/love. who could you see yourself with? if its bob, then just explain to nick that you really love bob and that maybe if you and bob ever break up that you might give it a chance with him. if its nick, then explain to bob that you like/love someone else. dont go out with nick right away tho. give it some time before you do. because if you go out with nick the same day bob will feel like it hass been a lie the whole time and that you`ve always liked nick. to me it seems like you like both of them. its not heathly for either of them or you. make a descison.
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im 14/f and i only have like 1 or 2 families that i babysit for like once every 2 months
how do i get more jobs?
hey, put up signs or even a newspaper add. tell the families that you currently babydsit for to reccomend you to there friends that may need a babysitter.
-missadvicebitch1
So I babysitted for the first time last week. This kids really quiet and all he does is want to play soccer. Well we got really bored after playing sports for a while. Now that I'm babysitting offically for him I dont know how to entertain him.
Does anyone have games to play that involves like running around/being active?
or just games in general? :]
hey, why dont you ask him is he has any board games that he likes to play? also ask him what his favorite movie is, get him some icecream or sometype of treat and put the movie in.
-missadvicebitch1
i have a sony cybershot camera. today, my friend tossed it across the room to my other friend. it bounced on the carpet, then onto hard floor tile. after that, when i tried to turn it on, it would go to the welcome screen that says Cybershot, then Access, but then it would say "Turn the power off and back on again". i did so several times and it still didn't work. I think there's something wrong with the lens (the part that goes in and out( because it's kind of loose and when i try to look at previously taken pictures i can do that - but i can't take any pictures or anything. is there anyway i can fix this on my own? or should i take it back to the store? thanks.
hey, i think that you should take it to a store and see whats wrong with it. price the repairs that will need to be done. if there cheaper then buying a whole new camera then just get teh repairs. if its more expenise then just get a new camera.
-missadvicebitch1
Hey. I'm a very sporty girl. I play soccer, basketball, and a little hockey. 70% of the time you'll find me out on the field messing around with my buds. But, since I'm so active I wear sports bras all the time. In fact, I only have sports bras. Lately my erm... boobs look odd in sports bras, It looks like I have one big one a "uniboob". I really want a real bra, a cupped one. But I'm soooo shy I can never ask my mom to take me to get one. Tips would be lovely yo help this conversation to go smoother. Thanks! 13/F
hey, well if your too shy to involve your mother in this then just go to victorias secret. they will measure you there and tell you what size you need. they will also help you with what kind of bra that you might be interested in.
-missadvicebitch1
Hey, ive been going out with this guy for a lil over 2 months, and he is awesome..i love him soo much. He's 15 but with christmas coming up i have no idea what to get him!! Please HelP!
hey, give him something that you know he will like. if you know the type of cologne that he uses, buy him a refill. you should have his bestfriend go shopping with you to help pick out a present for him tho, jsut to be on the safe side.
-missadvicebitch1
what are a good variety of songs to put on my ipod... only rock... alternative... and some hiphop
hey, if you have i-tunes go to the top 100 songs. if you dont then message me back and ill go on my i-pod and help you.
-missadvicebitch1
i saw this thing online where you upload your photo and it iwll tell you what celebrities you look like
1. do you know if it's safe
2. is it a type of scam
hey, nope its not a scam. its perfectly fine to use. i just did it myself last week. its pretty cool actually.
-missadvicebitch1
Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex about 2 days after my period ended. And now today..a week later my boobs are tender and my stomach hurts.. what going on??
hey, you might be pregnant. those are the two main signs. get a pregnancy test to check for yourself.
-missadvicebitch1
hey :] i was wondering.. if you have a myspace layout that doesn't have the option of a top friends, how do you get a top 12 or 8? if anyone could answer me this question i'd GREATLY appreciate it;) thanks!!
hey, sign in on myspace and go to your friends. click on change top friends. at the top left hand cornor, there is a drop down list that offers top 8s-top 24s. choose the one that you want :].
-missadvicebitch1
how do i report someone on myspace? and also, is it anonymous?
-thanks.
:]
hey, sign in on myspace and then scroll down all the way. click on contact myspace. then click the drop down options and pick which one applys to you :].
-missadvicebitch1
HOPEFULLY YOU SEEE THIS. WHAT PART DONT YOU SEE? THE CONTACT MYSPACE PART OR THE OTHER PART?
hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch
hey, sometimes its hard for guys to say the word sorry. he admitted to you that he did some things wrong, so at least he knows that he wasnt treating you right. i would write back something along the lines of "yeah, that would be cool. i have my friends party coming up, and i was wondering if you would like to go with me?". then see what he says. let me know what happens.
-missadvicebitch1
i remember seeing somewhere these boots that looked like they were wool or cotton or some material like that lol and they were like slippers...they were really cute but idk where i saw them does anyone know what im talking about or have any clue? i'll appreciate any place/website you tell me that has them. thanks :)
hey, maybe your talking about ugg slippers?
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductsList.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=181&page=1
-missadvicebitch1
what are some good sites for myspace layouts? (premade) preferebly looking for fashion, clothes, girlie, or soemthing cool and abstaract.
also i see some icons of a television and a tape (for music) that have animation its not an avatar its bigger then that but does anyone know wht im talking about and what websites that sort of stuff is on.
if you know any other stuff or good sites tell me please
thank you!!
hey, www.whateverlife.com has soem layouts that are premade.
-missadvicebitch1
PLEASE HELP!
okay so all of my friends have 2 pictures stacked on top of eachother for each picture space in their "View More Pictures" section. someone told me somehting about tinypic.com or something but i can't figure it out please help!!!!
hey, upload the first picture just as you would regularly do. then for the second picture, instead of putting a headline [ words ] under your picture, put the other picture. you`ll have to get a photobucket account at www.photobucket.com and upload the second picture on there first. then get the tag code and put it as your headline. need more help? message me.
-missadvicebitch1
do you guys know any motivating like pumping up songs i can lisiten to when im at the gym?
hey, any fast moving songs will work just fine. my personal favorite is kaynes work out plan - by kayne west. another good one is fergaliscious - by fergie.
-missadvicebitch1
how much money do you give for a sweet 16 ?
hey, it depends on how close you are to that person. if you like that person a lot or that person is a family memember of yours which you are close to, then splurge. i would say 50-75$ would be fine.
-missadvicebitch1
I have A Smal Chihuahua puppy abut 5 lbs named cujo and I have always hered that onions are very bad for chihuahuas but cujo has eaten onions before and nothing happend but this afternoon cujo ate about 2tblspoons of chopped onions I dont Think He has ever eaten th much before.Is trhis Really serious?
hey, i have four chihuahuas of my own. onions are usually vey dangerous for dogs, especially little ones. one of my dogs, romeo, ate a large amount of onions before. he was very sick and was throwing up and he had diahera. onions are usually all that bad for dogs, unless they have a large amount.
-missadvicebitch1