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serious relationship probelm
Alright i'm just going to go straight to it.So theres this guy that i'm dating, lets same his name is [bob].K well [bob] is the real shy type but hes starting to open up more. Well weve been going out for almost a month now. We went out before but for only like 5 days. Hes a real sweetheart & i'm in love with him. Well maybe just a deeo like but i'm not sure if its LOVE. Okay well now heres this guy.. lets say his name is [nick] . Alright well me & [nick] have been best friends for a little bit over a year. I can tell him anything , hes always here for me , & i can ALWAYS be myself when i'm around him. Hes the sweetest guy i have ever met. Yes he is & they do exsist. Well hes been in love with me for about a year. I've liked him for the longest time & hes asked me out a lott but i've always said no cause i was just scared about our friendship. Well At one point i have said yes but we broke up like 5 hours later cause that night i was going to the movies & didn't wanna have to worry about boyfriends i just wanted to have fun. Well i promised him it was just a break and we would go back out afterwards. Well when we went to the movies he was all over my best friend. I cried my eyes out when i got home & hated him. Well that was over the summer. Now we have gotten SOOO much closer since then. My best friend went out with him & she has a new boyfriend & claims shes so over him. I beleive her but i don't know what to do.Now i can be myself around this guy [ nick ]. But i can't even be myself around my own boyfriend.Theres something about my boyfriend though that keeps me hanging on to him.Then again my best friend just asked me out last night & is looking forward to an answer. But i'm still going out with [bob] & i don't wana hurt him. What should i do? Who should i go out with? What should i say? i need help big time. Please HELP!
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hey, well if you cant be yourself around your own boyfriend, then you should have gotten to be closer and be more of friends before you aggreed to go out wiht him. think about who you truley like/love. who could you see yourself with? if its bob, then just explain to nick that you really love bob and that maybe if you and bob ever break up that you might give it a chance with him. if its nick, then explain to bob that you like/love someone else. dont go out with nick right away tho. give it some time before you do. because if you go out with nick the same day bob will feel like it hass been a lie the whole time and that you`ve always liked nick. to me it seems like you like both of them. its not heathly for either of them or you. make a descison.
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