my name is matt, im 17. im in the 11th grade at cape central high. i belive that God has put me on this earth to become a pastor, and to lead people to him. if you ever need anything, got any questions, need someone to pray with you, or w/e. email me, or ask me.
God bless
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Ok...so i accidentally scratched my car (it's like on the bottom) like i scraped against a curb...and its like a white scratch...is that like the paint is gone...or is there a way to fix it (i'm 16...so having a scratch on my car isnt really going to go over well with my parents) and plus i can't just have it fixed...b/c i dont want my parents to know about it... (link)
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its probally primer, or one of the coats of base, if its primer, i dont think you can buff it out. if its one of the bases, try it
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um ok i got msn 6.0 and it won't let me go on it now unless i download Windows Live, the newer version.
so i downloaded the newer version and I was wondering, did the computer delete the old msn or do i have to delete it?
if so, where's it saved so i can delete the old msn's files? (link)
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it deletes the old version.
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Please. This is so important. I need a wiccan to respond to this. Me and my friend are afraid. Please, I can't describe it through this, i just need to ask a question or two. Please I'm begging you. (link)
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i aint a wiccan but i'll figure out how to help you though. google is a wonderful site
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i feel like my life is slipping away because im always trying to find a girlfriend that will last more then a week, but everything falls through. i keep thinking that if i dont make memories now then when im old i wont have anything and ultimately end up commiting suicide (link)
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wow. i didnt mean to hit the random question buttom, but damn im glad i did now. you still have all of your life man, to find the perfect girl. and once you find that perfect girl, dude.... dont worry, you'll have all the memories you need. now, i beg you, for the love of God. please don't commit suicide. its not worth it. over becuase you cant find the right girl now. it takes time brother. this stuff just doesnt happen over night. its not UPS, can't ship you the perfect girl over night. if it was that easy i'd have mine by now. but i pray that you seek God. i pray brother that really do. but ill pray for you, that you'll find the right way. need anything else email me.
-God bless
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okay, well through one of my good friends i met this guy and us for hung out for a while and anthony told me his friend thought i was pretty. so we talked and i gave him my screen name and he said he was realy starting to like me. then we decided to be friends with benefits or how ever you say it. we hung out again with my friend [girl] and his friend [boy]. we made out a lot and he got up my shirt. after that day he said im think im becoming emotionally attached to you. and i was kind of too. so we talked almost every night for an hour or two on the phone and he said he wanted to take this relationship to a higher level. like [hand job and finger.] n all that. i neverdone that stuff before so i am nervous. i dont no if its my nerves or if i just dont wanna do it. so i told him i only do that with people im serious with. then he said i dont no if i can hang out anymore bc he has to go out with his mom. excuse or not ? (link)
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oooooook. back the truck up. im goin start from the bottom of your question. sounds to me. now this is just me. hes a horny ass boy who needs his butt beat with a belt by his momma. thats just me. you're only 14. dear God in heaven. only 14 years old. my sister'sabout ur age, and if i heard of her doing that kinda stuff,she wouldnt do it anymore. now read this very carefully. girl, you're only 14. you still have your whole life ahead of you. that kinda stuff, fingering and hand job w/e, leads into BIGGER things. not good. if you keep doing what you're doing now, you will be pregant by the age of 16. guarntee. and this world cant handle to many more younger girls(14,15,16,17 year olds) getting knocked up. your probally what, in the 8th grade, some where in there. probally not even in high school. heres somethin to think about. food for thought. lets say you did get knocked up. pregant w/e. your in 10th grade. just started high school. you're 6 months in or so. your starting to get alil bigger. people start to talk. you then drop outta school to get away from all the people and their judgements againist you. you have the kid. you're like 16 years old at the time. you dropped outta high school, and you have no job to support this child, and the dude who banged you says its not his. damn. thats pretty powerful stuff isnt it? i could go on and on and on.... but im not. and this lil story started with alil fingering and hand jobs. if you belive in God, and do go to church, bible says that sex is only to be done to have children, AND NOT FOR PLEASURE!. not because you love one another....NOT because you're "horny" but only to have kids. hope this helps.
-God bless
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My therapist says that i have depression that has led to anxiety, and then to Agoraphobia. Is there a chance that these could also lead to or be linked to expressing anger at everyone, even at people i dont want to, like loved ones, or figures of authority or even crushes, even if i take it back and make a joke afterwards, lately i just come off as an angry, anti-social girl [15] to everyone, and i really dont want to. any insights?? also, does anyone know what other involutary things are a cause of depression? thnx for reading. (link)
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my personal belive is, that depression is just a thing in your head. now i know just with that sentence you're going get mad. well dont. i belive that theres something in your life, or something you went through in your life that makes you depressed. the reason why you get angry is because you dont know how to deal with it. now i might be wrong about all that, BUT, i pretty sure that's whats up. and do you know how to stop coming off as an angry anti-social 15 year old girl? stop gettin angry. its not hard, figure out whats pissing you off and dont do/go around whats pissing you off. not hard. i belive that your also missing somethin in your life. if you do know the lord, good for you. ask him in prayer to help you out. if you dont know the lord, girl i pray you find him. i've seen alot of depressed people,(dudes and girls) kill thierself not knowing the lord. and its sad, because thats one mistake you cant fix. one time shot at it. but i pray that God helps you find your way. a "therapist" will not help you. nope sorry. only God can help you. hope this helps, need anything, just yell.
-God bless
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13/f 7th grade, I have no self-esteem. I'll tell you the reason why too. I moved from Indiana to Kentucky. It started out there. I was the new girl, getting to know everyone. My mom had just started dating this new guy right after her divorce. I met his daughter, Alison Jones aka the bitch. At first I thought she was a really good person, nice friendly. We started to go to the same school and I got on her softball team. Well this was about 3 years ago when it started. I thought she was my friend. But this shows that you can't trust anyone very well. She started spreading rumors. I don't know what she said, but no one would talk to me. The new girl. Its hard being the new girl because everyone is supposed to be friendly right? Nope. Half the time, if the teacher told anyone to sit by me, they wouldn't do it. And if they did, they insulted me. calling me ugly and stupid. After a while, I couldn't deal with it. I actually started to believe that I was ugly and stupid. My grades fell behind....and I didn't have any friends. EVen talking about it makes me wanna cry, which is what I'm doing. I started thinking suicidle. But I finally met one of my closest friends and she put a stop to it. But there is still damage. I have self-esteem left in my body. Not one ounce. I just moved to Oklahoma. I new start. It's great. But I still think about it and I have no self-esteem. The bright side, everyone likes me for my bright personality. Not letting my other personal stuff get in the way. I have no Idea how to get all my self-esteem back. Someone plz hep me.
P.S. sorry it was so long. (link)
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no your question wasnt to long, i've wrote,and read alot longer. well its good that seeing how you moved to oklahoma you're doing alot better now. thats real good. this is how i look at it. what happened is in the past. not a thing you can do about it. it was just a chapter in your life that left a slight bitter taste in your mouth. (i know the feeling.) the only thing i can tell you, is don't let it get to you. figure it like this, when you have a problem your going through, lets say idk, your boyfriend breaks up with you. or w/e. just for a moment think back to what happened, and say" if i lived through that, what ever lies ahead i've already won." think of it like that. don't let other people tell you how to run your life, thats between you and God. nobody else. and if the people at your new school like you, FOR YOU, then more power to you. just keep doing what you're doing. don't change just to get people to like you. lord no, thats not any good. well that was kinda long, but i belive it'll help you. need anything else, just yell.
-God bless
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This question is just to get opinions:
If someone you knew told you that they cut themselves, what would your first reaction be? Would you think they were crazy, would you try to help them, would you be scared of them, or what? (link)
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i would first ask them why they are cutting thierself. that would be the first thing outta my mouth is why. THEN i would go get them some help, to get them outta that. cuz that leads into many other things. which none of them are good.
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Well hello howard I'm jamie and I sighned to be an advicer just on sept.4 and since I've been advicing people I haven't felt like I came across to much good advice from people...a lot of the advice I was reading from people was crappy.....but when I came across you and read your advice column I was like wow he gives some damn good advice....so I just wanted to tell you you'd make a great pastor because you give really good spiritual advice for people badly in need of it....and a lot of the advice you give I would think to give too....so I just wanted to tell you that....if you ever need advice or a cool person that doesn't know every detail about you to talk to you....you can hit me up on here or on my yahoo....keep giving good advice....your friend/fellow advicer........jamie (link)
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well thanks. that made my day. thankslol. im here to try to help people, help them get thier life in order, so thats pretty cool i guess. you got msn? if you do my email thingy is moneyman_651@hotmail.com well thats for emailing me.
God bless
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Alright so i will be going for an interview soon for a job. and i was just wandering what type of things they ask you so i dont go in the surprised, so im not up there not knowing what to say..
thanks soooooooooooooo much
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well, they ask you about what you like to do, what kinda stuff ur in to. then they'll ask you about ur application. etc.... it should be pretty laid back, just relax and it'll go good.
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all answers will be appreciated but from a guys point of view. are they more attracted to innocent non experianced girls or kind of wild ones? thanks! =] (link)
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well, some dudes are different than others. for me.. i like alittle of both, BUT you got some of these wild crazy girls who do stupid stuff and it dont really work out in a relationship. just depends on the dude. hope this helps.
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I would prefer Christians who are strong in their faith to answer this one, particularly those who have gone through what I am experiencing now.I was raised by a Christian mother who puts her faith completely in Jesus. I never doubted God and was saved at the age of twelve at VBS. I was baptized at 15. Since the day I was saved, four years ago, I've prayed to God every morning, night, and whenever else I felt like it. I read my Bible every morning and night and have almost finished it. I attend church every Sunday and do a Bible study with my family every night. I also attended a small Devotion before school every day for three years. I was certain that I had a personal relationship with Jesus. Then, one night recently, I started thinking. I was just laying in bed and all of the sudden, a wave of doubt hit me. I started questioning everything, including my belief in Jesus. I've prayed and cried so much about these things that I've made myself sick over worrying about them. I've been reading the Gospel again and again trying to find solid evidence. Then, I started wondering if everything in the Bible was real. Please, someone help ease my mind. I want to reccommit myself to Jesus, but first I need to put to rest all of these doubts and rekindle my faith. How can I do this? (link)
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i know what you're going through. it is hard. what happened night when you was lying in bed, is satan came into your room, and filled your head with stuff. this has happened many many times with me. its hard to get those thoughts out it really is. but what i do, and i also belive you should do this too. is seek God (pray to God) and ask him for a sign that he is God, and that hes real. you ask that of God, he'll do it. he may not do it right away, he may show you the second you ask it. i dont know, but have faith that God will show you. but i belive that this is a test of your faith, i pray that you hold on to God, don't let go. and keep doin what you've been doing. hope this helps.
God bless
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15/f
Guys: if you like someone a lot, would you definitely ask her out... at some point?
Also, I sometimes ignore guys I like (immature, yes)... do guys ever do that if they like a girl? (link)
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personally if i like a girl enough i will ask her out. and yes guys ignore girls sometimes, becuase either we're stupid, shy, or playin hard to get. now me, i do none of the above because im a straight up kinda dude. hope this helps
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I was raised a Catholic, but I'm feeling more agnostic now.
Can anyone give me some scientific proof that God is real? And don't give me that, "I have a friend that claims he saw 'him'" crap. That's not PROOF to me.
No links please.
And why do the God-worshippers refer to God as *Him* with capitalized letter on the H, astricts, and all? Uh, it's not necessary.
Thanks in advance too! (link)
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there is no scientific proof. if there was the whole christian faith as i know it, would be brought down. beacuse God said HAVE FAITH in me. not to go find facts. then have faith in me. he said to have FAITH in him. but my friend, im goin pray for you, that God will help you find Him. hope this helped
God bless.
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i need some help....anyone know of a protection spell against curses? (link)
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yeah i know one...... PRAY TO GOD for his protection againist evil.
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ok so after you've given your life to him, and asked for forgivness, and decided to live your life for him, WHERE DO YOU GO? what do you do? how do you start living your new life? im confused :S (link)
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well you need to get baptised. find a church, and ask the pastor to baptise you. start reading the bible, seek God, do what the bible says. the book of matthew or john is a good place to start.
and do what the bible says. hope this helps, need anything else, just ask.
God bless
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my guy friend has a girlfriend. and i hate her with every bit of feeling i have left in my gut. as much as i would love to curse her out, pull her hair and yell at her, telling how much i hate her and how she's taking him away from me and how she's a fake b****, i don't. instead, i try to, as convincingly as possible, be nice. it's fake. but if i say something to her, he himself will hate me.
am i doing the right thing? (link)
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yes you are. you're not suppose to hate people, but you're doing the right thing.hope this helps
God bless
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ok well my friend max is an athiest. he doesnt belive in any kind of god. hes like a science nerd so that probably has something to do with it. well i really want him to belive in God but i dont know how i can talk to him about it. we arent close enough to talk about that stuff. what should i do? (link)
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pray for him. ask God to show him the way. contiue to be his friend, if he needs something, do it for him. show him how to act. but most of all... PRAY. hop this helps
God bless
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About a month or two ago I made a promise to God that I would not masturbate until I turned 14. Several months ago, probably like 3 or 4 maybe 5, I turned 13. But, I broke that promise. And I know it's really bad to do that, and I'm a Catholic! But the really bad thing is, that I keep telling God I won't do it again, but I do! Sometimes when I cross my legs my clitoris throbs and it feels good, does that count? A part of me feels like he forgives me, partly because it was the time of my period when you're in heat, but part of me feels like he won't forgive me and I don't deserve to go to Heaven. I feel like I've broken my promise, God never breaks a promise and I feel unworthy. I talk to God a lot, I pray a lot, and praise him a lot. But sometimes I'm not nice to others like I should be. Like lying, or making fun of someone and not apologizing, although most of the time I do, yet I do it again! I truly, truly, truly need help to keep my promise and stay un-horny. Will I go to hell for this? Will he forgive me? I feel so scared, I want to go to Heaven! I worship God with all my heart, I really do. And I believe in Jesus and his commandments and in the beatitudes. But one night a while back, I wanted to sort of have my own way of getting an immediate answer with him. Years ago, I bought a statue of Jesus from Canada and the hands broke off accidentally. So I took one hand and fell alseep with it in my hand and asked him to have me wake up with it on the right side of my bed if the answer was "Yes, you will go to Heaven." and it go to the left side if the answer was no. It landed on the left side underneath me! I'm scared. I've done this before, and I asked him if I would meet my sisters in Heaven (I never met them) and it landed on the right side. Is this kind of witch craft or something? Well I'm really scared, so please answer this question! (link)
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ok, i wish there was more of you people, i really do. you have the fear of God in you. i wish some people i know had that.lol. now, masturbating is a earthly thing, i belive that it is wrong, BUT if you ask God to forgive you, and ask him to really help you not to do it. you will not go to hell. i promise. none of us are perfect, the only man that walked this earth that was perfect, was jesus christ. if we was perfect, we wouldn't have to worry about the second coming of jesus, and hell. now, you heard that God only cares about whats in you're heart. that is true, BUT when you do somethin, whether its wrong or right its in you're heart. so God knows. but keep the faith, don't get freaked out because you did one bad thing, or said somethin bad. just don't do it again. have faith in God that he'll forgive you, for all the things you do. i know of a bible verse that i belive that'll bless you, its matthew 11:28-30. i hope that this helped.
God bless
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I'm totally lost in the types of Christianity there are. I know I believe in God, and the fact that Jesus died for us to get into Heaven. But what I do not understand, is what exactly God did, and what exactly Jesus did to get crucified in the first place.
Also, I was wondering if someone could explain the differences in denominations for me, or give me a link to a site that can do so. Thanks so much. (link)
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well....when God first created man. eve ate off the tree of life. now, God said you can eat off anything, BUT the tree of life. well eve didnt listen to God, and ate off of it, and that created sin. so God sent his son Jesus christ, (which is God in the flesh) to die on the cross, for our sins. now the earthly reason why he died, is beacuse the jews thought that christ was a lie, and he was againist them. so they killed him. (so they thought anyway. now, about denominations, christianity is the main catagory, then all the other types are sub catagories.
christianity
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baptist
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lutheran
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etc.....
hope this helps.
God bless
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