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friends with benefits?
14/f
okay, well through one of my good friends i met this guy and us for hung out for a while and anthony told me his friend thought i was pretty. so we talked and i gave him my screen name and he said he was realy starting to like me. then we decided to be friends with benefits or how ever you say it. we hung out again with my friend [girl] and his friend [boy]. we made out a lot and he got up my shirt. after that day he said im think im becoming emotionally attached to you. and i was kind of too. so we talked almost every night for an hour or two on the phone and he said he wanted to take this relationship to a higher level. like [hand job and finger.] n all that. i neverdone that stuff before so i am nervous. i dont no if its my nerves or if i just dont wanna do it. so i told him i only do that with people im serious with. then he said i dont no if i can hang out anymore bc he has to go out with his mom. excuse or not ?
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it sounds like your getting attached to this guy, dont do anything you dont wanna do! and if you did just to get with him, he wouldnt stay unless you did this or that when he wanted and you would get hurt, if he could make time with you when he thought he was going to get some then why could he not make time when hes not? dont get used, tell him sorry sweetie if you cant make time for me then i see no reason to wanna be with you, and he will try again just laugh him off hes out to play and your to mature for that. lots of luck BRIE
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oooooook. back the truck up. im goin start from the bottom of your question. sounds to me. now this is just me. hes a horny ass boy who needs his butt beat with a belt by his momma. thats just me. you're only 14. dear God in heaven. only 14 years old. my sister'sabout ur age, and if i heard of her doing that kinda stuff,she wouldnt do it anymore. now read this very carefully. girl, you're only 14. you still have your whole life ahead of you. that kinda stuff, fingering and hand job w/e, leads into BIGGER things. not good. if you keep doing what you're doing now, you will be pregant by the age of 16. guarntee. and this world cant handle to many more younger girls(14,15,16,17 year olds) getting knocked up. your probally what, in the 8th grade, some where in there. probally not even in high school. heres somethin to think about. food for thought. lets say you did get knocked up. pregant w/e. your in 10th grade. just started high school. you're 6 months in or so. your starting to get alil bigger. people start to talk. you then drop outta school to get away from all the people and their judgements againist you. you have the kid. you're like 16 years old at the time. you dropped outta high school, and you have no job to support this child, and the dude who banged you says its not his. damn. thats pretty powerful stuff isnt it? i could go on and on and on.... but im not. and this lil story started with alil fingering and hand jobs. if you belive in God, and do go to church, bible says that sex is only to be done to have children, AND NOT FOR PLEASURE!. not because you love one another....NOT because you're "horny" but only to have kids. hope this helps.
-God bless
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