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Q: I got icecream spilled on my favorite white shorts, so i washed them thinking okay, it's just icecream, it will come out, but i dryed them too, and it didn't come out. Does anyone know what i can use to get it out? or do i just have to get a new pair since i dryed them?? please let me know asap.

Since they're white, you could always bleach them without doing a lot of harm. Or you could go to your local supermarket, and buy a stain removing product such as Carbona.

See example here:
http://www.amazon.com/CARBONA-STAIN-DEVILS-COMPLETE-SET/dp/B000JF2SWO/ref=pd_bbs_2/103-8661298-5162252?ie=UTF8&s=hi&qid=1179695032&sr=8-2

Since you've already dried the shorts, the stain might be harder or even impossible to get out. But a stain remover or bleach should do the trick.

Q: I need some help.. I am 14 years old and I still havnt gotten my period yet. I have been getting discharge for it seems like EVER ( I am very active and in a lot of sports idk if that helps or not) My sis (who is the same exact age as me we are twins) got hers like 3 weeks ago. Is somthing wrong with me?!?

Since you're only fourteen, it's no big deal at all. If you are EXTREMELY active, to the extent of practices every single day, that could delay your period for a little bit, but not for long. It's normal to get your period anywhere from age ten to sixteen, so for now, you're fine. If you still haven't gotten your period by the time you're sixteen, that's when you should worry and should consult a doctor. For the time being, don't worry, and enjoy one less stress.

Q:

what song is playing.
on that disney world commercial.
where the mom turns into the little girl?
it sounds like click 5?

'Time Machine' by The Click Five

Q: are there any websites where you can watch full movies online for free?

www.joox.net

It even has Spider Man 3 on it.

Q: i don't really ever talk to my boyfriend and i'm moving, so i want to break up mith him. i am really shy so i can't go up to him and do it, so i am going to write him a note. i was just wondereing if this was alright... and by the way the ___ is just that i don't want to say the names on this, i really had them written in the note:
dear _____,
i am so glad i got to no you this year! i had such a great time! i was so incredibly happy when you asked me out, you don't even no. i so wish that our relationship could mature and we could have more fun memories of eachother, but sadly, it can't. i still like you and think you're like the hottest guy on the planet, but i'm moving. i'm still gonna live in ____ but i'm not going to this school any more and i'm not going to your high school either. i just don't think it would work out very well if we still went out. i'm so sorry and i hope we can still be friends. i wish it didn't have to be this way but i can't change it. i am so so so sorry.
with love, ____
p.s. you never emailed me

so do u think this is alright? please let me no anything i need to add or take away pronto!

Notes are a copout. I'm incredibly shy, yet i've still managed never to write a note to break up with someone. I think even over IM or the phone would be better, just use that note as a guideline for what to say.

If it comes down to it, and you can't break up with any other way than this note, the note seems pretty fine. But everytime you wrote 'no' it should be 'know' instead. I, personally, would take out the portion about him being the hottest guy on the planet. It just seems not so appropriate for the occasion of breaking up with someone. It seems confusing to me to call a guy hot and then tell him you don't want to go with him a minute later.

Q: this is kinda a weird question for me.
usually i would be asking how i would know a guy likes me.
right now i'm asking how i would know if i'm acting like i like him.
or just for a site saying something like, how to tell if she likes you.
'cause last time i got a site from wiki or something saying how to tell if he likes you.
so um, thanks ahead of time.

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You

Haha, i've actually done this before, too.

Q: ok, so well im in a deep situation
i think that i might like my friends brother but hes in the 11th grade and im in 7th. he seems nice and hes really cute, idk, like ive told my friend that i think that her brothers hott but not that i like him cause i dont want him to find out and i dont want her parents to find out either, it would be just to aquirred(how ever you spell it) but i like him so much, everytime i go over to her house i feel like im always lookin in the mirror just to make sure i look good, hes single but my mom would kill me if she found out i was dating him when hes like 3-4 years older than i am. i guess my ? is what do i do???

PLEASE HELP ME!!!
thanks
=]

Step back, and look at the situation.

A Junior boy, and a seventh grade girl. That's four years.

Now reverse the situation.

If a twelve or thirteen year old boy liked you, and you were sixteen or seventeen, what would you do? Especially if it were your friends brother. You can't honestly say you'd like this kid, correct?

So now, think about it. This guy has a range of junior, senior, sophmore, and freshman meat. He realisticly doesn't think of you in that way.

And that's nothing really personal, just that he's older and most likely doesn't find seventh grade girls attractive. But i really don't know what you act like, and what you look like, but it's my general opinion.

That doesn't mean you can't like him, because it is fun to like older guys. Just don't expect anything to come out of it. And if it does - be pleasantly surprised.

Q: Alright, I found a tube of lip gloss on my desk at school today. well, it was victorias Secret, very expensive, it was a full tube, and it seemed like it was only used a few times!
well, what is the chance of me getting anything if i use it? is it even possible to catch anything, other than maybe being sick, but like disease or antyhing from it?

Honestly, i'd use it. I buy my lip products, i guess i'd call it, from Victoria's Secret and it's twelve dollars a tube. Which is expensive compared to things you might find in your average convenience store. Whenever i misplace something like lip balm, i don't really botehr trying to find it because it's small, and generally unimportant, so i don't think the other girl is going to go crazy looking for her lip balm.

Since it is the kind that you squeeze, it's definitely more sanitary than actual lipstick. And you can wash the top where you apply it because it won't come in contact with the actual lip gloss.

I think it's fine, and not a big deal, as long as you found it in a normal, safe place.

Q: Hey I really like the movie "A goofy movie" which came out in the late 90s and I really want to know where I could buy it. And I'm talking about the first one not the second one. I live in Australia, so if you're american don't say an American shop. I really don't know where to find it because it's kinda old...thanks!

http://www.amazon.com/Goofy-Movie-Disney-Classic-Collection/dp/B00004R99F/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/103-5932771-5959861?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1177631674&sr=8-1

That'd where you could get it for brand new and pretty cheap.

Q: How do you make this bar? |
What key(s) do you press?

Thank you for your help and this can be deleted right after I get my answer.

:] Have a nice day

Hit shift, and hit the key that's probably underneathe the backspace key. It also has the backwards slash on it.

Q: As stated, I've gained ten pounds, and belly.
Binge eating and being lazy.
I've really come to terms with it though, and actauly kinda like my new soft squishy look.
But I was wondering, do guys mind it?
My friend says he won't date a girl unless she has a cushion, and he thinks that my belly is beautiful and taht I should gain even more weight.

But do guys normaly think like him?
Do they like a girl with a little extra weight?

i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/P4190355.jpg

i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/P4190346.jpg

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/P4190343.jpg

Guys at my school call that a bubble, and they do like a little extra skin or cushion. They don't prefer the Keira Knightly type of body but the more curvaceous body. I don't know why, and can't say why since i'm a girl with an outside opinion, but guys like a little extra meat. And there's nothing wrong with having that belly, especially since a lot of guys do like that.

Q: what do sophies look like? like a picture of them please. and could you wear them over a baathing suit?

*Sofee Shorts
http://www.soffe.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?catalogId=11102&storeId=10051&categoryId=14257&langId=-1&top=Y

Wearing them over a bathing suit is perfectly fine. (:

Q: why does everyone think that sanjaya malakar (one of the finalists in american idol season six) is gay? is it because of his long hair? like some people thought he looekd like a girl.. he doesnt, and never did. i mean nobody really looks at a girl with short hair and thinks its a man. there are other ways you can tell, other than their hair. also, is it that he sounds gay? um he can sing and i dont know too why people think he cant. i dont think he would be in the top 24 if he couldnt sing, since the judges and producers put him in the show in the first place. he just has less experience and such, but he can sing. i mean his performances arent always perfect, usually starting a little shaky and then getting better near the end. still. im getting sick of all these sanjaya haters that make up all these lies. he just doesnt.. seem gay, either. he dresses like a guy too, and in a song he did he danced with paula (the most recent one.. i forget the name of it though but he was wearing a white tux), and in another (you really got me now) at a part he sung to paula too. and in the "bathwater" song he changed some of the lyrics, like the part that was like in the original song that no doubt (well.. gwen stefani) sang, it was "your my kind of man!" sanjaya changed it to "your my kind of girl!". so.. like i dont think hes gay and im confused over this whole big controversy. i dont think hes the worst singer on the show either, but im glad that votefortheworst, even if its not morally good.. gets people to vote for this guy. ughhhhh. what are your thoughts on this? i personally think sanjaya is cute, too. (AND NOT GAY!) :]

13/f

I call him Gayjaya.

Oh sorry, did i offend you?

He's terrible.

He may or may not be gay, no one can actually prove either. But for now, take these things up with friends and not advicenators.

EDIT*
I thoroughly enjoy that rating, actually.
He hasn't sung well on the show, bottom line. I don't care about his talent for singing gospel, or lack there of.

Q: ok. so is the One Tree Hill season over?? because the PussyCat Doll Show has been taking its spot. The last episode that was on (or the one that i saw anyways...) was, when at the end payten (sp?), her stalker guy came to the door and punched her or something, and that was the end. then they didn't show what the next episode was about, so what the heck is going on?? is it on a different channel now? or is the season over?? please help me! it drives me nuts!!! lol! anyways, thanks!!!

The season isn't over (even though the last new episode aired on the second), and the next episode of it should air May 6th, and the season will end mid May. While this season isn't over yet, it may be up for the ax. So it might not be up for another season.

EDIT*
Yeah, i'm Positive.

Q: OK this is weired so try to keep up anyway In the begging of the year this boy lets call him Derrik said he liked me so later I found out he also likes a another gurl in my class lets call her Alicia and then my BFF said she thinks he wants to make me and Alicia fight over him so I started not liking then later on in the year I heard this rumor from everyone saying that he didnt like Alicia any more then even later in on the year I sadly liked him again and Derrik's best friend told me he liked me and that he was totally over Alicia (whom didnt like em back) and liked me I'm not sure If hes messin wit me or wat should I make a Move on him HELP

Love,
Massie

What is this, the next clique book?

EDIT*
This was a serious question.

Q: i tried researching this myself first.. so please dont say go google it.. so the jc penny commercial that is currently playing a lot... what is the song in the backround, ha : ) random i know.. it goes something like "i say so, and so says i.. lala" its a female singer, and she has a really soft voice. thanks

'How can it Be' by Forever Thursday. (:

Q: When Little Richard makes an appearance on Full House. What song does he sing?

When he's playing with Jesse's band, he sings "Keep A Knockin", which was done by none other than Little Richard himself.

Q: How old is the curly haired dude in the Jonas Brothers?

Nick turned fourteen in September.

Q: does anyone know any good books. i like teen love stories. Like not being mean, but one of the kids get sicks and die, like those love stories.. does anyone know any good books like that?.. oh sorry this is in the wrong category, i wasnt sure what to put it under!.. thanks!!!* =]

Anything by Sarah Dessen pretty much falls under that category. Like,

The Truth About Forever
Someone Like You
That Summer
This Lullaby

This Lullaby and The Truth About Forever would probably interest you most, though.

The Shopaholic Series by Sophie Kinsella is also really great. There are five books in the series, and they're all really captivating.

Lastly, The Boyfriend List by E. Lockhart, and it's sequal, The Boy Book, are really interesting, quick reads, and about that type of thing.

Q: do any of you make icons? if so... do you mind making me an icon or maybe more then 1 icon for the movie... The Virgin Suicides. if you make icons, and could make me like some, it would be greatly aprechaited. preferably avatar size. please and thank you

I can try my hand at making one .. i can make avatars and icons, but do you have a specific picture? if not, i'll just make one soon, and post a link to it here.

Hey. (: Just back and giving you a link. If this one isn't okay, i can always take another try.
http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h231/i-loved/virginsuicides.jpg