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crush on BFF's brother
ok, so well im in a deep situation
i think that i might like my friends brother but hes in the 11th grade and im in 7th. he seems nice and hes really cute, idk, like ive told my friend that i think that her brothers hott but not that i like him cause i dont want him to find out and i dont want her parents to find out either, it would be just to aquirred(how ever you spell it) but i like him so much, everytime i go over to her house i feel like im always lookin in the mirror just to make sure i look good, hes single but my mom would kill me if she found out i was dating him when hes like 3-4 years older than i am. i guess my ? is what do i do???
PLEASE HELP ME!!!
thanks
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Step back, and look at the situation.
A Junior boy, and a seventh grade girl. That's four years.
Now reverse the situation.
If a twelve or thirteen year old boy liked you, and you were sixteen or seventeen, what would you do? Especially if it were your friends brother. You can't honestly say you'd like this kid, correct?
So now, think about it. This guy has a range of junior, senior, sophmore, and freshman meat. He realisticly doesn't think of you in that way.
And that's nothing really personal, just that he's older and most likely doesn't find seventh grade girls attractive. But i really don't know what you act like, and what you look like, but it's my general opinion.
That doesn't mean you can't like him, because it is fun to like older guys. Just don't expect anything to come out of it. And if it does - be pleasantly surprised.
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Sometimes it's just nice to have someone to look at and to hope for, but sometimes it's nice to leave it at that. I suggest you just wait and see what happens, if he brings up anything, then think about what would be best for you and your friend and your parents. boys don't always last forever, and you're only in 7th grade, so you have a lot of time. Make sure that you don't hurt your friend if anything DOES happen, and that you don't get in trouble with your mother for it. I suggest now you just leave it as eye candy, and that hopeful wishing (plus, sometimes that is much nicer than something actually happening).
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