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completely torn between two amazing guys.
13/f
alright well i like these two guys (we'll call them bob & joe). i like them both a lottt. let's explain my problem here..
bob has a girlfriend. but he kind of acts like he might like me. i dont know how to explain it but he acts like he does. i've liked him for sooo long & i like him more than i like joe.
joe is single. he acts like he likes me but a lot more than bob does. he stares & smiles at me a lot & he started talking to me a lot more this past week. like we never talked before & now we like talk a lot. whenever i say his name, he looks at me & smiles. all my friends say he likes me too.
i think joe is gonna ask me out. i asked him to go skating friday & he accepted like right away. i'll probably say yes because i'm stupid. but like i dont think i could commit to a relationship with him because of bob. i like bob A LOT. if him & his gf were to break up while i was going out with joe, i'd be tempted to break up with him to go out with bob. i dont want to hurt anyone's feelings here.
i'm torn between them. i dont know what to do. i like them both. sorry if this is a bit hard to understand but can anyone help me?
thanksssss.
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I think it's obvious who you like more, and you should never start dating anyone who you're not sure you can be in a real relationship with- because what's the point? If you're gonna still like Bob while you go out with Joe, it wouldn't be fair to him. I think that you shouldn't start anything wtih Joe until your feelings for Bob change, or you realize you like Joe more. Otherwise, it wouldn't be fair to him or yourself.
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