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Study Hall Lover
I go to math lab to see all my friends. and there's this guy who goes there to hang out with me and my friends, his name is Ryan. He is really charming but not as good looking. anyways, my friends told me that he likes me (because ryan told them). I found it kind of obvious. You see the problem is one of my friends Alison who is there likes ryan, but he doesnt like her at all. and one of my other friends Sam doesnt like alison because they think she is annoying. Even though I just wish she wouldnt be there. She just comes for Ryan. And I kind of like ryan. he told my friends that he likes me and he thinks im really cute and stuff. But I dont know what to do. Today he was acting really bored around me. Im not so sure if I should go out with him. Hes got a great personality but sometimes I see the weakness in him. What should i do about him? And alison? and what should i do because whenever i talk about a guy he always questions me. OMG what the heck should I do about this huge mess??
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maybe you should try talking to alison about ryan and find out if she minds if you go out. but if she says she doesnt but you see she does or she says yea then dont let a boy come between your friendship. i know its hard but boys come and go..good or best friends dont, theyre harder to find than some boy that youre not going to like after a while anyways.
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I was in the same situation almost. First thing you have to consider- how MUCH do you like him? Enough to possibly hurt your friend and lost that friendship? Enough that you could make a real relationship work? Sometimes we want something because other people want it, I mean you say he's not "as good looking" and you see the weakness in him, so do you really want something with this guy? Sometimes you just have to wait until you really really like someone before just going out with someone just because they like you. Depending on your relationship with Alison, you have to consider what you're willing to risk for this boy?
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