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break up note
i don't really ever talk to my boyfriend and i'm moving, so i want to break up mith him. i am really shy so i can't go up to him and do it, so i am going to write him a note. i was just wondereing if this was alright... and by the way the ___ is just that i don't want to say the names on this, i really had them written in the note:
dear _____,
i am so glad i got to no you this year! i had such a great time! i was so incredibly happy when you asked me out, you don't even no. i so wish that our relationship could mature and we could have more fun memories of eachother, but sadly, it can't. i still like you and think you're like the hottest guy on the planet, but i'm moving. i'm still gonna live in ____ but i'm not going to this school any more and i'm not going to your high school either. i just don't think it would work out very well if we still went out. i'm so sorry and i hope we can still be friends. i wish it didn't have to be this way but i can't change it. i am so so so sorry.
with love, ____
p.s. you never emailed me
so do u think this is alright? please let me no anything i need to add or take away pronto!
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Okk, i no i havent talked to you in forever, but i had no idea that you were moving this year!! I think that this is a great and very kind way to break up with _ _ _ _ _ _. Im sure that he wont be hurt by it at all, and im glad that your finally taking my advice and breaking up with him!! but not dealing with this, we need to talk, so when ya get this could you please call me??
but i definantly think that you wrote him a very nice, sweet and kind note that says everything!!
luv ya much,
♥ April~
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Notes are a copout. I'm incredibly shy, yet i've still managed never to write a note to break up with someone. I think even over IM or the phone would be better, just use that note as a guideline for what to say.
If it comes down to it, and you can't break up with any other way than this note, the note seems pretty fine. But everytime you wrote 'no' it should be 'know' instead. I, personally, would take out the portion about him being the hottest guy on the planet. It just seems not so appropriate for the occasion of breaking up with someone. It seems confusing to me to call a guy hot and then tell him you don't want to go with him a minute later.
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I think that is a nice way to break it to him. It is a good letter! I wouldnt at the end put the p.s. though, it will make him feel awkward and sad. But overall, good letter :]
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