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I love my girlfriend very much..... I need to know how wrong i was here
There was this other girl that i was very good friends with that recently lost her boyfriend i left a comment on her myspace saying "hey dont worry ur hot u'll find another boyfriend in no time"
My girlfriend saw this and got very mad at me...I told her that it was nothing and i was just being a friend and trying to make her feel better. my girlfriend didnt believe me and said "u need to comment her physically to make her happy??"
Next I posted some bulletin on myspace it was some application thing for girls to be my girlfriend. I was trying to be cute with my girlfriend i wanted her and only her to answer it...but this girl who i commented also answered it...saying that she wants to do stuff with me...I ignored it and my girlfriend asked if this girl replied I lied and sed no...I didnt want my girlfriend to get upset I didnt want to hurt her...my girlfriend found out and almost broke up with me because I lied and she thought something might be going on btwn me and this girl....I DONT WANT THAT!!!! How wrong was I? Did my gf overreact?
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I think she did. alot. I think that she needs to have more faith in you! I do think she over reacted, its no big deal, shes just a bit jelous, just tell her that, and tell her why you didn't tell her. explain yourself she should understand :) good luck
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The guy I like told me he liked my friend, but after he told me that we just sat there talking for like an hour. Him and my other friend, c, went to the locker rooms with me, but waited outside, i told them not to leave, c left, but he stayed and waited. He has to walk home after Jr. guards every day, but he stayed an extra hour after with me while I was waiting for my swim practice to start, but I'm not sure if he was there for me or for my friend, but when he heard me say, bye to everyone else, he turned and asked me if I was going, I said yes, so he said ok, and said he was going to leave then. Before he left he said call me, and gave me his number. Do I have a chance or not? (link)
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I say you have a chance... that is really sweet of him to wait with you, and if he gives you his number... I say he wants to stay in contact. just don't rush it or get clingy or eagar... just play it cool, make a connection and let him choose his own path. and if your interesting maybe try letting him know? idk that might be rushing it. but definetly try it out and see how things go
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ugh i have so much eyeliner and it wont juss stick to my eye....does anyone know a good brand of eyeliner? (link)
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my mom sells avon and there eyeliner sticks very well, sometimes it smears but its alot better then some of the other brands. but the problem with that is that you have to order it from an avon represenitive..... but im sure you can find one!
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What are good colors to wear if you have blonde hair and fair/medium skin? What colors should be avoided? (link)
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Im like you, blonde hair and pale skin. all my friends tell me I look wonderfull in army green. or any green really, and I agree, it looks really really good! I also personally love grey! I think it looks great as well!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out like 1 or 2 weeks now and we're gonna make out and he's most likely gonna feel me up haha I'm okay with it and everything haha.BUT he said I can feel him "down" if I want to so if I have the courage tonight haha how would I go about doing this without putting my hands down his pants or anything ? I just wanna get him exited haha thnkx a million !! [p.s. no lectures please haha]
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ok well, that is hard, don't do anything you don't want to do. I would just stroke up and down his back maybe go a little lower if you feel like it. dont go down his pants but you can just touch him and stuff.
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my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend? (link)
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ok well shes NOT cheating. but its not right what shes doing either. talk to HER not her boyfriend. just tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants him or her boyfriend because she has to choose. just explain to her that what shes doing is wrong. but I wouldnt tell her boyfriend yet. if she cheats then tell him.
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Can you take too many vitamins and what happens if your do? (link)
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it depends on what there for. but you can take too much of one vitamin. you might want to ask people who know alot more about it tho. just play it safe until you know for sure
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So I am graduating so im 18. The guy I like is also 18. We go to the same school. We're friends. I can tell him anything. Just recently, he started calling and texting me. And he also started making a lot of plans with just the 2 of us. When I hang out with this other guy I used to like (and my friend knew I liked him), he stops talking to me for that day; pretty much completely ignores me or isn't nice. I don't know if he wants to be just friends or more. Help! (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you. and he is jelous of this guy you used to like. if he stared to txt and call you... I think he wants more out of the relationship. maybe try flirthing ? if you want more to. im not sure what you want. but just see how it goes. maybe give him a try
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im 15/f. never had a boyfriend or kiss :(. i feel like time is running out for me to just experiment. like i never got to go through that phase of a boyfriend for a week and then dump him. (not that i really wanted to.) i feel like by time i get a boyfriend, he'll be expecting more from me than i've experienced. im not going to let him pressure me into doing anything but im just saying. i really dont even know what im asking advice for, but i guess i just need help on how to cope with this situation? (link)
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ok I see your problem, I was worried too. I accually had never had a boyfriend until I was 15. and when I did it was ok. but the second boyfriend wanted alot more. I never even kissed the first one! but when the time came I just straight up told him I was unprepared. and I didnt know what I was doing. he just said he woud teach me haha, so you have no worries, the time will come when you learn these things. if you have a caring boyfriend you should trust him and he should wait and understand your situation and how you feel. he shouldnt expect more than you can handle and I think you should just be honest with him about it. I was. and it worked out ok. It was comforting to just let him know I had no idea what I was doing! :) it made me feel lame but.. it was better than embarassing myself :P
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Ive never had a boyfriend or anything throughout middle school. ANyways, this past year in high school, freshman year, no guys really liked me either. However, in the last two months of school, and since, I've gotten 5 guys to like me, and I like every single one, like I've fallen for them all =[
I'm not sure what to do, because they're all nice and hott, but I've never been in this situation before so I'm extremely confuseddd! (link)
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oh dear... well, ok you can't have them all. so I think you should do tests and see which one you have fallen for the most.. which one do you think about the most? or go out of your way to see? which one do you want to spend the most time with? you need to take all these things into your thoughts and then choose one to go after. and if it fails then you have other options!
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Hey, i like your advice the most!!!! The boy that i like is at my bus stop at he always looks at me and then when i look at him he turns away.We've never talked before. So that might mean that he likes me right??? (link)
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oh haha well thank you, yea I think that if he is always looking that is a for sure sign he is thinking about it, you never now how much but he is thinking about it. next time smile at him :) and if he is smiling at you, that is a good thing! hehe good luck! tell me how it goes!
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I am seventeen years old. I am funny. I think im attractive. and ive only had one real relationship and it 6th grade to 9th grade. My longest relationship now is probably a little over a month. I dont know what i do. I start talking to a guy and a week or two later they are sick of me. In this month, i have had my heart broken 3 times. it wasnt anything bad but it still hurt bcuz everytime i think i do something wrong.. what is something that i can do to make guys want to stay with me and love me? I want a long relationship and i want love. how can i get it? (link)
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I think maybe you are to clingy.... I think the more you keep wanting to talk to them and be with them every second the more it pushes them away.. thats what happend to me at least. so I think when you start liking a guy, just chill out a bit and don't always try to be there or talking to him. make it seem like your availible tho but don't be so persistant with talking to him. just try to act normal and not like a girl with a crush. and if your with they guy. dont be to clingy. its hard but the relationship will last longer if your not always right there. just try it out and see how it goes
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i keep hearing this song all over the place, like on tv and movies but i have no idea who it is or what the song is called but some of the lyrics go like this:
i woke up and wished that i was dead, with a pounding in my head...
i cant really remember the rest but it's not like a hard rock song or anything, it's more like a mellow song. Anybody know what it is and who it's by?
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yes it is the weepies world spins madly on. for sure. I have the song :D
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Okay well im a 14/f and i have a friend- ex friend now- but she texted me and was like i tolled everyone your secret! - and my secret is that im a lezbian- and she is the only one i tolled and i thought she was just kidding but she wasn't she tolled like veryone i know and so now everyone is like Oh god you are a lez sick your perverted , do you have a girlfriend , you should die lezbians and gay people shouldn't be aloud on earth ext.... but its starting to get to me and i dont know what to do can you help me??
love,
Stressed out! (link)
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wow. that is a really l mean thing to do... but don't let it get to you. so what if your lesbian. thats okay, peoples should love and respect you for who you are. and if they don't then I don't believe they are your true friends. I think you should take pride in who you are and not worry about what other people say. you will find people who will respect you for who you are. you don't need people to tell you who you are. I think you should be comfortable being who you want to be. don't worry what others say about you. be yourself.
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So, like, my girlfriend broke up with me like 6 months ago. And I actually cannot get her off my mind. I mean, I think I actually still really like her which is all the worse because she doesn't want anything to do with me. We used to be friends before we went out and I really liked her for a fair few months before anything was said. So its like I went from having this fairly good friendship to a relationship to nothing. And, well, it still hurts.
I mean, I know why she broke up with me and everything, and her points are pretty fair (I was too clingy i suppose is the best way to describe it). But I only acted the way I did because, in a typically manly and ironic thing to do, I didn't want to lose what I had waited so long to get. I really cared about her, infact I still do. And given the choice I would go back and change what I did. But thats not going to happen, so I have to deal with it.
Now, your first thought might be 'wow, this guys pathetic'. Well, I don't have a particularly high opinion of myself either. But I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for what I can do?
And trust me, I have heard everything about it taking time, but 6 months and counting is far too long to wait in my opinion.
I mean, I really want to tell her how I still feel, but the thing is I havent spoken to her in literally 2 months and a random message from me detailing how I feel won't go down well I fear.
Because the thing at the bottom is telling me to, i'm 17/m and she is 17/f (duh)
Any help would be appreciated
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the same thing happend to me.. Im a girl and I was too clingy to. and before we started dating we promised we wouldn't let it ruin our friendship but it did. I still kinda talk to him but it seems like he doens't want anything to do with me. and it sucks becaues I really loved him. and I still do even after everything.. I think you should just try to let it to. things don't last forever. I had a really hard time forgetting about it... but things have gotten better. I still think about him often... but sometimes you just have accept it. and if you really can't take it. maybe ask her if you guys can talk but don't seem to eager... ask for just friendship if anything. I know its hard but sometimes you have to let go.
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Does anybody know any signs that a guy might show if he likes you? Like a guy that you havent ever talked to? (link)
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guys tend to stare alot. and if You say Hi or something they smile, its really cute, they just look at you alot, if you catch them its funny because they look away :) but they just can't help it.
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Well i like this boy right im 15 and his 14 were both in eyar 9 and his a little bit shorter like 4 cm and my friend always tell me its wrong to like him but i dont judge people by there height or age (As long as its not 10 years lol) i really like him do you think its wrong to like him ? (link)
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no. it is never wrong to have feelings for someone, you can't base everything off of appearance. Its not wrong to like someone just because they aren't a "picture perfect" boy friend. If you like him for who he truly is, then that should be enough, don't let anyone tell you its "wrong" to like someone. :)
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