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Q: hi, does anyone have any experience with using witch hazel to clear up acne? if so i have a few questions..:
-how much is it?
-do you just put it on your face and leave it or do you put it on your face and rinse it off?
-does it help oily skin be less oily?
-does it dry out your skin?
-has it worked for a long time?

any answers to these questions and anything you can tell me about witch hazel would be a great help! i've tried everything to clear up my acne and nothing has worked. so thank you so much!!

Hey I have no idea what witch hazel is, and Ive never heard of it. Try Neutrogena, doesnt matter what kinda of neutrogena. It works. but try the Acne Stress Control.
If you are a girl, you can also try the neutrogena makeup line, its helps prevent acne also.

Q: ok this is me the 15/f and well yea it was unprotected sex i will tell you some stuff ok well i had sex june 21 and well i felt sick afterwards like the next day then for the entire 2 weeks i felt sick and threw up a few times then i thought i might be pregnant then well i got my period july 1 and i should have started the 8 of july not the first well i read on the internet that after the embryo or what ever gets implanted into the uterious lining you start spotting 10-14 days after that and i thought it was my period but it was light and more brown and pink then bright red color well lately i have been having back aches and head aches and i have pain in my right lower abdominal area ok i know that i can't tell for sure unless i take a pregnancy test but i can't get one myslef to many people would ask to many question does it sound like i am pregnant

I have no clue, Ive never been pregnate before. Or had sex and im 15/f too.

I would deff. suggest taking a pregnancy test before you come to any conclusions.

You also can be making yourself sick by thinking that you are pregnant. Thinking that you are prenant can make you sick, throwing up, nausea, head aches. ect.

Q: like what is frist base second base third base.
and of course home
like in your personal opinion??

Well my opinion of the bases are:

1st: Holding hands, peck kisses.
2nd: Making out, touchy feely
3rd: Blow job, fingering, yaddda yadda.
& home: Sex, not anal or oral.
Penis to Vagina.

Q: hi
im 13/f
i havent gotten my perid yet, but have been getting discharge for a about 2 years mabie.

about a couple months ago i noticed brownish blood in my underwear. about a lil bigger than a quater.
havent gotten any since.
was this my first period?? im confused.

srry if its gross but hey all girls have it too so.. this is all i have

pubic hair
discharge
32A in bust.

so usally your suppost to get ur period soon after discharge but ive had it for a while now.
and ive had grown some what boobs

whats the deal?

Okayy, your perfectly fine.
The brownish blood is called spotting, that means your almost there, but not yet, you may have about 4-6 months until you get your period. But dont rush it, once you get your period, you wont want it.

Once you get your period, yes your boobs will grow. Its all apart of puberty. Your finee.
Dont worrry.

Q: ok here it goes i am 15/f and well i think i could be pregnant i don't know for sure but i have no clue what i would do if i found out for sure that is all i think about lately but what would i do my family well we already have family problems the way it is right now and a baby would just ruin my family and i wouldn't be able to go to school where i go now because i couldn't dare listen to what people have to say about it i don't know what to do and how to cope with it um lets see if i was pregnant abortion is out of the question and adoption would be way to hard to do maybe i should just take a pregnancy test but i don't know how to get one without anyone asking questions

Think about when your last period was.
Take a pregnancy test..
Talk to your boyfriend, think about when you had sex. What happened? Did you use protection, if you did, did the condom break. Go back and try to think on the details. That might help to see if you are pregnant now.

Q: 14/f i start high school in august. i wanna try out for the freshman soccer team, so what do i need to work on and what do i need to be able to do by the time tryouts begin? how long is the usual soccer practice, and what do you have to do? how many miles would a girls' freshman team have to run each day?

Well, we dont have a girls soccer team but we have a guys. Anyways, I would say work on your stamina, and get your legs in shape. Maybe run around your block at home. Maybe do some ladders, which is different techniques with your feet in small boxes. Its kinda hard to explain. I sure the practice would be maybe and hour and a half, maybe two hours. For practice they might not make you run a mile, but if they do, they might make you run no more then one.

Hope I helped

Q: alright i found on youtube one of the shows.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-nz_-CNz4pA&mode=related&search=
is there anyway I can like just get the girl copyed like a picture??
Im not sure how to write what im trying to say.
But I ave it paused on her, is there someway I can copy it like a picture?

Okkay, when it gets to 7 sec. pause it, then right click, & click quality, then click highest, if not already on high, & then press print.

Q: Im 16/f, but when Im 17 Im allowed to get a Tattoo..
I LOVE Miami Ink.. And I Saw this Tattoo that I LOVE.. But I cant find it on the internet..
Ill tell you which one it is.
In the beging on the show, hes talking and telling you about everyone. And when hes talking about himself saying "you can find most of my work here on the beach" and it shows a girl sitting down on the beach with her bikin on and on her back its a butterfly with (im not sure what it is) but Vins coming from her butt. Its sooo pretty, and if ANY0NE knows where I can atleast get a picture of video on the internet I WOULD LOVE YOU!.. please anyone, thanks!!!

Do you know who did the tattoo?
OR who it was done on, because right now im at a site were they show all the tattoos.

write back.

Q: Are there any kind of legal websites that let you download some sort of animation shop? It would be awesome if there was no trial or demo, but anything is fine, I'd like to test it out! Thanks!

www.whateverlife.com
they have an animation shop but its a trial.
I think it is a trial for about 2 weeks.

Q: http://tinyurl.com/yu56b5

That's a pic of me without any make-up
Any one have any good advice tips for how to make me look good?

I cant really say what to do. But you would look good wearing greens. Because you have the same skin tone as me. I would suggest going to a makeup artist and getting your makeup professionlly done. & then you can buy all of there products that they use on you.
Try MAC, there makeup is realllly good kinda expensice but worth it. My friend got it and used it one day and came to school and I hardly recognizd her.

hope I helped.

Q: is there any way to get rid of them???? any way at all ! ? !

You can go to the tanning bed, or just lay out.
Tan over them. That helps me.

Q: i cannnotttt fall asleep as hard as i try, ive tried music, ive tried warm drinks, ive tried reading, watching tv, I CANT GO TO SLEEP!its driving me crazzzzzy i lay in my bed for at LEAST 3 hours. then finally fall asleep, does anyone know anyways you have tried falling asleep and it worked? THANK YOU!!!!!!!

I sing a song I know by heart in my head. & eventually I fall asleep.
If that doesnt work, people listen to classical music while they are going to sleep.
It also makes you smarter.
& if that doesnt work, you should try Ambien or Lunesta. Those are sleeping pills, but dont get hooked on them, use them only when you absoulty need them.
hope i helped.

Q: is this a song? :

How did I get here, turned around
And there you were
I didn't think twice or rationalize
cuz some how I knew there was more than just chemistry
I mean I knew you were kind of into me
But I figured it's too good to be true

Yes its a song, its my Hannah Montana,
Its called one in a million.

Q: I have been so paranoid lately and I have no idea why. Today this link popped up on my computer and it said 'do not click here' and I did because it wouldn't go away and then it had a picture of a devil and it said 'Beyond God just stole your soul' and I know it's completely idiotic and everything but it's freaking me out. How can I become not so paranoid?

Dont be scared.
If you truly have God in your heart, the devil cant get to you. It just one of those stupid AD things that people have going around, and it looks scary so people click on them.
Dont worry there is nothing to br paranoid about.

Q: In your opinion...
who do you favor most: Tyra or Oprah?
Please list the reasons why in relations to the other person. I've been curious, so thanks!

Tyra !
She brings people in and talks about everything.
Oprah doesnt talk about beauty and how to put on red lipstick and how to pop a pimple.

Tyra is real, not saying Oprah isnt. But Oprah is more for older people. Tyra is more for teens, and a lot of teens can relate to what she has to say.

Q: what are some of the scariest movies you've ever seen? i need a really scary one! thankss =)

The scariest movie ive ever seen was:
An American Haunting
& Amityville horrorrr

Theyy are suppppper scary !

Q: what are some good topics for a contest site? prettiest eyes gets kind of boring. what are original ideas that i could use, that will be fun?

I got these from my contest site.

Cutest (all 50 states) Girl
-Best With Family
-Most "Old Fashioned"
-Best Dancing Picture
-Best Sign For The Site
-Most Flexible
-Best Celeb Look-Alike
-Best Popped Collar
-Best On Swing
-Best Scrunched Hair
-Best Standing On Something
-Best Special Effect
-Best With Glasses
-Best With Braces
-Best Highlights
-Best Tattoo
-Cutest Girl In High Heels
-Cutest Dimples
-Best Ripped Jeans
-Cutest Pig Tails
-Best Close Up
-Best Confused Face
-Best With Home Phone
-Best Bathroom
-Best Blur
-Best Group
-Cutest Emo//Scene Kid
-Cutest Myspace Chick
-Best With Bandana
-Cutest "RAWR" Face
-Cutest Halloween Costume
-Hottest Male Celeb [ sent in pics ]
-Hottest Female Celeb [ sent in pics ]
-Hottest Male/Female Celeb Couple [ winners ]
-Mr. and Ms.( contest site name ) of 2007
-Hottie of the month {June}

Q: is it bad to reuse water bottles? after a while the water smells weird

If the water smells weird, then I would suggest a new water bottle. But if the water doesnt smell, then im sure its fine.

Q: 1. where is heaven? i know that hell is like probably at earth's core, because that makes sense, but heaven isnt in the sky or we would have spotted it, and past the sky is our universe.. unless heaven is someplace in our universe? and does EVERYTHING go to heaven when it dies? even bugs and animals and stuff? if so, when an alien (if they are real) dies on a diff planet, it will go to our heaven?

2. how bad you have to be to go to hell?

3. what so special about crop circles that link with aliens? arent crop circles like man-created anyways?

1. Heaven IS a real place, i just know it and believe it. I cant tell you ive been there because i havent. & when your in heaven there is nothing there that can hurt your or put you down in any kind of way. Read the bible.

2. Its not the fact that your bad, but its the fact that you dont ask for forgivnes. If you have done something wrong, ask for forgiveness, God always forgives.

3. Crop circles arent real, People make up lame stuff so they can get paid.

Q: okay well my 2 very close friends ( both guys) are joining the military so they've been in training basically all summer.. my friend is having a party for them when they come home in august and it's supposed to be a sleepover. there will be 3 girls & 3 guys.. 2 of which are boyfriend & girlfriend. one problem, my mom doesn't agree with coed sleepovers and doesn't think it's necessary. i really want to go because i haven't seen them in so long! nothing would happen because the boys are decent and wouldn't do anything. all we're going to do is watch movies & sleep like an all girl sleepover haha. i already tried telling her that but she still won't go for it.. how to i convince her to let me go!?!?!?

Will there be supervision?
If so, tell your mom. Get your mom to talk to your friends parents. Try to explain to your mom the situation about how you dont get to see them so often.

bio

Hey, I'm Kelsey and i'm cooool !
Well, I'm a Junior and I love it.
My life is all about my friends and family.
I really want to be famous one day.
I like to play video games, not alot of girls do.
I seriously say a lot of pointless stories, for no apparent reason, its kinda funny.
I love music loud.
I like to talk about love life, because I can relate to what is going on.
& Im not one of those advice people who just give you a yes or no answer, im up to any questions and ill give you true answers.