i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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Well over the summer my friend didn't text any of my friends or me (except for once to go bowling...) and then we got back to school and she sat with us at lunch for one day. After that day she sat with this other group that she claims she didn't like last year. And since then she hasn't talked to me at all or any of my (used to be hers too) friends. My mom says i should talk to her and tell her everything, but im not sure. what should i do? i miss her a little, but i don't want to be desperate and pathetic or anything. help! (link)
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talk to her if she blows you off you dont need her. sounds like you have alot of friends . people grow apart thats part of growing up, :)
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I babysit two boys ages 5 and 6. I babysit them 3 times a week sometimes more. I also run out of stuff to do with them, we play outside, color, do puzzles and board games but after doing this for months its boring. So do you have any ideas on what to do with them?? (link)
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let them make sugar cookies. you give them dough and let them form them you bake. try to make races for them. or since it is getting warmer water guns or a little pool
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15 m well i have been dating tgis girl for awhile but she is really prude all she will do is makeout me... i really want have some sort of sex (link)
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you are to young for sex go get a you or something she isnt a prude she sounds like she is very smart. you dont want babys at this age so wait :)
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So it just hit me that my brother doesn't use moisturizers or sun protection and all the other ladies use it so we definitely need to get him some because using acne medication will make his skin 3x more susceptible to sun damage and his skin is more nice than all of us (baby skin!).
I never really thought of men's moisturizing skin products and I never recall seeing some. So can he use...neutragena, etc or are there specific ones you can recommend? Thanks! (link)
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he can use any thing a girl would but they do have lotion for men at walmart i cant think of the name of it but its in dark blue bottle and it says for men :)
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Where are good places to meet nice wholesome friendly guys besides school..cuz all the guys at my school like the sluts (link)
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church so go see a local band you like then you will meet a guy who likes the music you do.
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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what? (link)
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if you dont want to ask him have a friend ask for you :) if not maybe flirt and see if he flirts back.
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I am a female in my mid twenties. One of my best friends is dating my boss's ex boyfriend. My boss and her ex were together for at least 5 years, and they are still really good friends. My boss's ex knows me because I sometimes hang out with my best friend and him. I know that my boss knows her ex is dating someone new, but I do not know if my boss knows that I am a really good friend of this person. My gut tells me she probably has a good idea. I feel like I am being deceitful to my boss by not acknowledging the fact that my best friend is dating her ex. I am going to be working on a big project with my boss soon, and I am afraid it is going to feel like there is a giant elephant in the room when we work together. Should I talk to her about my friend's relationship with her ex or just keep my mouth shut? (link)
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i would keep my mouth zipped unless she ask you a question. if she has a good idea about it she knows you are just being proffesional by not saying anything , but if she brings it up then your free to talk if not then she isnt comftorable talking about it so just let her be :)
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no mascara or anything else just eyeliner on lower eyelid. (link)
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it may make your eyes really pop.
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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks (link)
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i would just say kissing, 13 is young and doing much more may lead to othere things. why rush kissing can be a load of fun and if that isnt enough for aguy then who cares find you another one cause girls are worth so much more then men see them as. just kissing would be my answer you have your whole life for everything else :)
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Baby shower invitations were mailed stating "no children under the age of 12 please" per the expectant mother's request. I just recieved a call from one of the guests asking if she could bring her newborn due to nursing issues. There are several other new mommies invited that have young kids. It is a tea party theme; lots of china and grown up food. How do I handle this without offending this guest and the other Moms that will be here but have not asked if their little ones can come. (link)
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that is a very hard one to deal with. maybe tell her no becuase its going to be a mom only thing. or ask the lady having the shower if she minds. if she doesnt then allow it. sometimes babys come 1st and at a shower i think all the ladies will understand plus maybe the new mommy to be would like to get some practice who knows good luck : )
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16/f. There is this girl that I just became close with. I wouldn't consider her a best friend but we give each other advice all the time. Her birthday's coming up and I'm not sure what to give her. I was thinking about buying her something but when I asked her what kind of things she likes she said "i like the little things in life like letters, uummm self made things like bracelets or whatever. nothing big" I am not creative whatsoever. Any ideas? (link)
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make her a soy candle, they are fun to make and they can be used as lotion. last year i made a bunch and got cheap wine glasses from the dollor store to put them in they are really neat. or you could always get her a treasure candle as it burns down something near comes out of it like a necklace or ring.
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This is probably going to be long.. Just a fair warning.
Yesterday morning I'm kinda early for school (i'm usually late to school) and I find that there is shit smeared over the drivers side of the windshield, I call my mom and she got a hose and cleared it off, and there were pancakes all over my car. I wanted to wake my father and call the cops but she had most of it off already. (Please don't say, "Should've called the cops". The neighborhood I live in is very country and very quiet, nothing happens. I get to school and tell my best friend. Later in the day I find out it was her boyfriend, I'm furious now. He treats me like total crap and my best friend let's him do it. She told me the vandalism was just a joke and that I'm over-reacting. This is getting tooo serious now, we got into a fight before because I told her that he flirts with me and is really mean to me. (His texts say stuff like "Heyyyy sexyy" "Let's Fuck" "Let's go do stuff. =P") I told him to stop. I told her about it. I don't reply to his texts, and I don't speak to him because I don't want this drama. I think the vandalism is too far. What is your opinion on the matter? What would you have done? (link)
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next time it happens call the cops and say you are just scared it will get worse. keep the text messages and show her if she doesnt believe you show them to her infront of him. this is a hard place to be. depends on how good a friends you are with her if she isnt your best maybe you should stay away for a bit untill they break up. sooner or later she will start blaming you if he keeps flirting with you. good luck
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hey, well i've had my period for almost 2 years and i still get that discharge is that weird?? what should i do (link)
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all women do i cant remberer if its a Teaspoon or a tablespoon a day but its normal all women do. if its really bad wear a panty liner or if its a dark color there may be an infection. I read cosmo all the time its in there every othere issuie about it :)
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so im having a little party/get together with about 5 dudes and 5 chicks, probably gna drink, smoke, etc... but what else should we do? like its not gna be a party wher ur throwin back beers and shit, just like probably some pong, but what else is there to do for the night, cept just chill? (link)
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maybe you should all go play in the street :) sounds like a plan to me
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k this mite come off as a lil weird, but i was just thinking about you know, how everyone says having sex on your period is disgusting and all .. well what if your saving yourself till marriage but your on your period your wedding night!! how AWFUL that would be =( like do you plan your wedding around your period?? wat if your early or smthn .. planning that far ahead being early or late a few times could mess it all up .. that would just be awful!! how are you supposed to make sure that doesnt happen?? (link)
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most brides go on the pill a few months before there wedding and then they can skip that period by takin there pills. thats all i can think of or the groom will just have to suck it up lol jk
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Could be because of my anxiety disorder but I'm not sure.
Okay well my dad was gardening in the back yard for 2 hours and in that time his van was in his garage unlocked (the garage was open) and someone actually went in the garage, into the van, and ramsacked around and took all the change in there (the ONE time he forgets to lock the van)!
Anyway, I was told of this by my dad himself when I got home from school and I still can't stop thinking about it and I had a driving lesson during that time so I keep making up scenarios in my head about how I could have stopped it or how I could have changed it and why hasn't anyone told us that they saw something? It was only evening and wasn't dark outside at all, very bright! And now this will bug me for months!
This happened yesterday and I just got the news a couple of hours ago after school so would you say what I'm feeling is normal or someone with anxiety disorder? (I'm not officially disgnosed) (link)
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dont worry about things happen all the time and there is nothing you can do about it. just let it go, maybe they needed it more then you did and i would go get check maybe they can give you medcine to make you less stressed and worrysome
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I've been having troubles with making friends. I had a lot before. But now they've all turned on me since I started going out with this one guy. They call me a #### ... and they think I "sleep around" .. Which I most certainley dont. And I can't seem to understand why they would say all of these mean things to me. I just want it to all end. What should I do?
Sincerly,
Truly Confused. (link)
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wow that sounds like my senoir year. i ended up making friends with a girl a year younger then me that was in one of my classes, all i needed was one really good female friend then i went and partied with older people. not like 50 or nothng but in there 20s dont worry about there childish games go have fun. i am asuming you are still in high school if not sorry. just forget them if they turned on you that fast they will agian just get one really good friend and have fun with life its not quainty its quality lol good luck :)
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i had a really cute shirt and i didnt read the tag which said, let hang dry and not it has little like "fuzzes" on it.. they dont come off with a hair roller and i tried to rewash it but they wont come off... is there a way to get rid of them? (link)
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doesnt sound like it i am sorry maybe you should try burning them off lol like when your socks have those little lint things on them most likely it wont work i have dont it pleant of times to shirts i liked ;(
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and a half but lately ive been liking this guy friend and i think im slowly liking him more and i really dont know what i should do and feel about this, im happy with my boyfriend but we just argue a lot and there is a lot of problems i have to deal with but with the new guy i feel happy when im with him and he makes me smile.The other guy told me he likes me and he'll wait for me and now its really complicated. I dont wanna leave my boyfriend beause he has been putting up with me and taking care of me, so it would be really messed up. Maybe i just want to be close friends with the guy friend, and i just wanna cuddle with him as a friend. What should i do? (link)
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well cuddling leads to more so dont try to go with that cause you may end up cheating. if you think you like the othere guy maybe go for him, but do you like him becasue you think life will be better with him. every realtionship has its up and downs so if you only like him becuase the grass looks greener on the othere side maybe you should stick with you current boyfriend and soon you will see things are better. but if you really think you like the othere guy go for him but dont just end the othere realtionship becuase things are rough becasue if you stick it out it could be the best thing you have ever done and make your life wonderful good luck :)
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Hello! I just move to a neighborhood and there are 3 little girls that constantly knock on my door and ask for food, band aids for boo boos, and to use the bathroom. We caught the smallest one in our car in the driveway trying to steal some candy and change out of it. She is about 5. My son gave one of them a bowl of applesauce and all 3 took turns taking bites. they did the same with some chocolate milk minutes later. They are outside and dirty from 8 am to 9pm on weekends and after school til dark. I asked the one girl why she couldnt go potty at her house and she said mommy wont let us in. After the little on stole from us I dont want to let her in though. She has been caught going in our garage and walks in our home without permission constantly. Please give me advice. This reminds me of my alcoholic mother when I was young. They are a family of 7 in a tiny 2br home. I have 3 of my own and cant care for them. What do I do?? thanks guys! (link)
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call socail services i know its getting to seem like they wont do any thing. but you could save the little girls lives. and if that doesnt work next time you catch them stealing call the police they will get social services involved and more likely to help them good luck
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