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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead? (link)
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well i think you should be cautious....but remember not all guys are like that. Your friend might not being telling the truth but then again he might. Just dont let your guards down but until u know for sure I dont see a reason to stop talking to the guy!
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
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hey....i can relate cuz im kinda the "punk" in a friendship I have. Dont let anyone tell u what to do or what u should do. You are your own person....be you. Talk to her about it.
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Alright well tonight I found out that my bestfriend had sex with my Ex boyfriend... he actually wasnt my boyfriend but i concider him one because we were "Together" But not offically! And I dont know what to do because the person that told me I swore to him i wouldnt tell! And this is the hardest thing that I have truely ever had to been threw! I dont know what to do! Please help me :-/ (link)
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well u need to decide which one is more important, your friend who told u being mad at u for confronting your friend or your friend getting away with what happened. Does she know u still have feelings for him? And are u sure its true at all?
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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come. (link)
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ok im gonna make this short. If you want it, then u gotta make it happen. KISS HIM! he might like that u took charge ;)
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Hey alicia!! just lemme say that ur so pretty and nathan is so cute and u guys r cute together! but ne ways lemme get to my problem...ok i was going out with this guy named Bryce for 6 months and i really felt like i actually loved him and we did a lot of "firsts" together and alla the sudden like a week or 2 b4 skool got out he dumped me claiming that he "didnt want a gf for the summer" and his friend that i really dislike even did it for him...and then one of my really good friends told me that she heard that he just plain didnt like me any more but i didnt know if it was true.i still really like him even tho i dont show it cuz its been like 4 or 5 weeks and ppl think i should get over it and all and i got a lot of sympathy frum guys and girls cuz they felt bad cuz they knew i liked him a lot but what my question is...how can i get him back next school year? or get him to like me again? cuz we didnt talk at all after our breakup in any of our classes and all and if i cant get back together wit him i atleast wana become good friends with him.or should i just plain give up on him? plz help cuz im really confused!
(im 14) (link)
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Talk to him. Thats the only way you will know anything. If he dumped you for the summer its prolly cuz he wanted to be free to see other girls. And if thats it, then thats a jerk. But i dont see why u want to possibly put yourself through that again. I would move on. If he doesnt want you or your friendship he is missing out on, then youre better off without him in your life.
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
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ok i an relate. The other day i told my boyfriend I dont deserve him and he said not true if nething he didnt deserve me. I dont think its that big of a thing to get all worked up about. I think it just means he thinks youre wonderful and u think the same about him. Why dont u just ask him about it?
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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If this guy is that much of a jerk then move on. Find someone who treats you good. If hes gonna be mean about it then u deserve better. Find someone who u can love who will not be a jerk.
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Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
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Wow yes I have been in the same situation before! Having a broken heart is the risk you take when you fall in love with someone. I was the same way. I was too scared but now I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I couldnt be happier. The point is, you have to take a risk. You dont wanna look back on this 5 years from now and wish you had done it differently, do you? Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Keep communicating.
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ok well i like this guy,he dosent know it but he likes someone else anyways. And the girl that he likes and really mean and if she found out that i liked him she would probably do somehtign readlly mean to me, I want to tell this guy how i feel but i never talk to him and i barley know him! what should i do because i am really scared to tell someone that i like him when he already likes someone and the girl likes him back..!HELP PLEASE!!...thanks (link)
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Well look at it this way, if the guy doesnt know u like him then you have realy no chance with him. If you really like him and he is worth possible embarressment then u should tell him. I wouldnt really worry about the other girl. If they are together then you should be happy for him if he would rather be with her then u. But you never know....
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ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?! (link)
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If you think this guy is a loser, then maybe you shouldnt be with him. Maybe you are embarrassed of who he is or what he does and if that is the case, maybe your not ready to be in a relationship especially with him! Try talking to him about it, communication is the key to happiness!
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