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Hey guys! I'm mallory...17/f from cali. I live with some friends in cali, and very often go to Tx to stay with my parents! anyway, if you need advice or w/e, just ask! =)



Ok, for the girls that need advice on their friendships- girls are and always will be bitches! lol...My best advice to you is...get guy friends! They are the best, they don't judge, they dont date your ex's...and theyre cute! =)


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Ok, i'm 13/f and my neighbor is 14/f, we were talking one night and it was like 9:00 so it was dark, so i went in the basement and he followed, i was putting the laundry in the washer and he came up behind me and put his arms around me, i liked it so i turned around then he kissed me and we made out, a lot. we went in the very back yard on the picnic table, no one can see it cuz its too far back, and he layed on it and i sat on his tummy, he had his hands on my ass and we makeout more then he fingered me and rubbed my boobs, and we made out more then we had to go in cuz it was 11:00, we were going to do something like that again but i went on vacation, and now i havnt seen him, should i bring it up or never do it again? was it wrong of me? we have also talked about sex, i want to but i dont want the condom to break, what shold i do about everything??

youre only 13...that's kind of young. If you don't wanna do it again, dont. If you do...then do it. It's all up to you, but I think that you are too young. Before anything...you should talk to him about everything & how he feels. Maybe you 2 could start a relationship first?

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hey.i need help.im going out with my best friends brother.im not a bad person its just that if she eva found out she would kill me and our friendship would be ova wich means mine and my boyfriends relationship will be ova too cuz i wont be able to c him much.she is always tellin me that he isnt good enough for me but he really is.he is the sweetest peron.i hate hidding or relationship from her and keepin it a secret but i dont know what to do.i love both of them so much and i dont wanna loose them.Please i need some advice..anyone can help me.thanx so much.

thats bad. You need to tell her...she'll be more pissed off when she finds out later!! If she has a problem...tell her that you guys love eachother...and she'll get over it as soon as shes done bitching like girls do.

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ok..my step sister is like 8 and shes very rude. she really gets annoying but whenever i try talking to her my dad will say to mind my own business. Then she doesnt eat like ANYTHING but like carbs...(plain pasta, rice, thats it) she'll leave without eating..nobody knows what to do..(and dont tell me shes anorexic ..she doesnt even know what that means..all she wants to do is eat desserttt)her grandmother feeds her like pie and stuff right before dinner..and she has no manners of any sort...pleasee help and tell me what to do without getting in trouble myself.tx

that was basically my appetite when i was that age! i wouldnt worry about it so much. If it was worth worrying, youre dad would do something! but if it really bothers you, try talking to your dad...instead of her. shes only 8

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WHAT IS IT WITH ALL THESE GIRLS CONCERD OF BEING FAT!!! ....103....120!!! those are all really good for your height and age!!! soo stop worrying were still kids!! live it up!! eat icecream for breakfeast!!!! make milkshakes for dinner!!! Dance the night away!! have a fun time and be a kid!!! heheeh ( im not saying DONT watch your weight b/c you should..just dont let it worry you sooo much!!!)AM I right Ladies?



mwa


LExy

exactly...youre right! :D

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I am 15, about 5' 8" and only weigh 105lbs. I know that is really skinny or w/e and it's kinda scaring me. In a 1 year time period (from when I was 14 until 15.) I gained about 20 pounds. I went from being 95lbs to about 115lbs. I'm a dancer and didn't like that 115lbs, so I tried 2 lose just a lil weight 2 get down to 110lbs. I got 2 my goal and then stopped trying 2 lose weight, the only thing is, since then I seem 2 keep losing weight and now I'm @ 105lbs. Does any1 know wut's going on?

You probably just have high metabolism. I wouldnt worry about it...but if you lose more weight, or are really worried...I would see a doctor!!

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I want white skin not like totally white but just white skin...I maen my skins dark and thats because of the sun and all but I hear you can use stuff to make it whiter and I was wondering if any of you guys knew wat I could use to make it whiter I mean I wash my face and all but nething else and I dont wanna use makeup because I dunno I guess I just think that it doesnt help that much so if anyone knows nething I can use or do please tel me thanks!

Yeah...talk to michael jackson..cause I have no idea. Ask a doctor

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ever since june two of my friends told me they didnt want to hang out with me anymore and wouldnt tell me why....now they tell everyone else not to talk to me for no reason and make up all these lies and tell people them....they tell me i wont let it go yet they're the ones who tell me to committ suicide and spread lies...they wont let it go...what should i do?

Ignore them. They are obviously not even worth your time. It sounds like they are jealous for some reason...that's the only reason I can come up with as to why they would do that. You're true friends will know the truth when these ppl spread the lies. The only other thing I can think of...is that girls can be bitches. They are some of them. =)

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Boyfriend/ Parents problems.. :/
Posted Sunday August 01 2004, 2:02 am
Hey, i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and we both are 17. I don't really know his parents that well and i always just see them past and go. Like when we go to church and stuff. That's about the only time i ever see his parents and he's all the time hangin out with my family and going out to dinner and all. I've never once hung out with him and his family together sense we've been going out. The deal is.. when we started going out his parents said that he was changing like acting diff, his attitude *in a bad way* :/ and he didn't want to do anything around the house anymore. Well, his parents are really.. strict okay. So they called my parents up not even knowing me or my parents! And said there son was changing and all and they didn't want him to have a gf until he was 18! :-/ Well, this was like at the beginning of the year well everying has been fine sense then but just this past month they have been saying it again and they are telling him to break up with me.. :/? Is it me or what!? They don't even know me. We Love each other so much and we both are old enough to date and all.. but his parents are so freakin weird! I don't know what to do anymore. I've delt with so much sense i've been with him. I feel like an old married couple fighting with his parents about stupid stuff! :/ Maybe i should just be friends with him and see how things go on later.. i don't know. Can some one help me please! :(

That sucks!! I don't think it's you that they don't like. Maybe it's just that he is more occupied with you then with his family, and things around the house...but that's normal being in a relationship. I think his parents probably are jealous. If I were you..I would tell your boyfriend how you feel, and maybe go to his house and have dinner with them. Show them who you REALLY are. =)

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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?

He won't be able to tell...but I wouldn't want my boyfriend lying about that. So, just think about it...and maybe it really is something that needs to be talked about? But, do what you want...he won't know.

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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?

lol, to me, it's a little weird, but who cares what people think?

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is it just me.. or does it bug you girl when guys try toooo hard.. yea its cute that they wanna give you the world.. but isnt it like.. sometimes i just need a good time?!! or am i crazy! thanks x0x0x0

lol you're not crazy...i know exactly what you mean!!

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how do u deal with your parents judge your friends but they go to far with it.like i have a friend who has gone thru some problems but they are gone now but yet they dont let me even see her or talk to her or nething i dont understand n they are like ruining my life cuz she is the only one i have EVER been able to talk to u or hang wit what do i do they judge my friends n go way to far with it

Have you tried telling your parents this? Just let them know that she is the only one that you can reeeeally talk to. Ask if you can just CALL her...if that doesn't work...take the phone, say youre calling someone else if they ask. =)

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whos that guy from punk'd? is that donald trump??

LOL...no it's ashton kutcher

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how do u get pen off ur leg??

soap, water, shower?

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hey yall im really skinny :/ it gets annoying bcuz i want to gain weight cuz im lack a sick of bones and its not vey healthy looking and im kinda flat and have no butt.. i tryed eating more! and i eat ALOT. i just dont gain weight. my friends tell me not to worry and that theyd kill to b as skinny as me. what should i do?

yeah...you just have really high metabolism...theres not much that you can do!! i would ask your dr...i know a long time ago they tried making me drink like ensure or something?? you could do that. =)

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my sister has horrible breath. even if i make her brush her teeth, it still smells like rotten baloney. how can i help her? she smells bad!! and she uses her bad breath as a weapon on me. help!

eww...haha as a weapon! that's a bit gross...give her gum...or breath mints!! ooh and make her brush her toungue! she can also swish w/peroxide, it kills bad breath!

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I'm going to go tanning in my backyard tomorrow and im fair skinned. Does anyone have any tips for me to get a good tan? How long do i have to stay out there? If i ware sunblock will i still get a tan? I will rate!

use tanning oil...the time you stay out there all depends on the weather and how the sun is =P! i usually do 30 mins on my back and 30 on my stomach. if you get a high spf sunblock you won't tan.

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Lol alright. can you tell me a name of a pill that makes people feel high or hallucinte??

hmm ecstacy...thats the most i guess common one? i wouldnt recommend doing it, you could die. but im not gonna say the rest cause i dont wanna be helping you do drugs=) go to google and search "hallucinogen"

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Theres this group of really kool hot guys that r obsessed with me. They say all this stuff and they started doing it it front of my mom. like one time i was on the deck with my friend and my mom was in the backyard and there like hey sexy, they grap me in certain places, and they keep looking me up and down! SO UNCOMFORTABLE!!! they do in right in front of my oms face!! i dont want to lose the attention from them but i cant have them doing that in front of my mom! HELP thanx srry so long

ErIcA!

walk into another room when they do it. or tell them not to in front of your mom, theyll understand...

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Does anyone know what kina of pills make people feel high or halucinate when u take more than ur sopposed to?????

yes, but since you didnt ask what its called, im not telling. :D

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