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Hey wat up, Im Juliette.......... Im 13,cute,fun, sweet,crazy,flirty, and funny. I'll always try my best to help you out. So anything you want to know or need help in im here for you. I luv to give advice, to shop, talk on the phone, eat candy, and boys(duh), and I luv to hang out wit my friends.So all of you Romeos out there Im single.My best friend Catherine(geminic17).Much luv Muahzzzzzz

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ok here goes, i have been friends with my best friend for 4 years. two years into our friendship we got a little serious, we started hanging out more and eventually we kissed. this made us even closer. later on we hooked up. though we were so close we decided not to go any further with our "relationship" because he had a girlfriend. We have remained good friends and recently, we hooked up again. during 'it' we stopped cause he said it didnt feel right, but i didnt want to. he has a girlfriend of 1 yr and i have a bf for 2 years. i want him so bad i cant stand it. and we hardly ever get to see each other anymore because of our signifigant others. but he is ALWAYS on my mind....i dont kno wat to do, what do i say? tell him how i feel and risk it all? i know i cheated but i dont regret it...im so confused! PLEASE help! please dont erase! (link)
Ok relax, you said your boyfriend doesnt care anymore so why bother,break up with him. Besides if you dont your friend might think you love him too much to let him go and be with him. If you break up with your boyfriend trust me you'll be doing your friend,your boyfriend and yourself a favor. But you said you care for your boyfriend and you dont want to break his heart, but honey he doesnt care anymore so I dont think you wont and if you do you wont be the only one. If you really want to be with your friend than be with him theres a reason why you and him kissed and all of that. Take care


I would like a girl to answer this for me. I not sure when I'm going to start my period I have had blood from down there but that was last year and it hasn't happend since and I have all the signs that I'm going to get what should I do??? (link)
start getting ready. Periods come unexpectedley.Take care


theres this guy that i really like but he only likes skater girls well that wat he told me today idk if he likes me? should i com stright up with him and say like i like u or just let it pass by

~confused (link)
Tell him cause you never know, whats the worst thing that could happen. But no matter what never try to be someone you're not just for a crush. Good luck and take care.


how do you know when your in love? (link)
Its hard to explain. You could just feel it inside. Its when you cant stop thinking about him/her,thats all you do and thats all you ever want to do. When you're with him/her you feel like the happiest person in the world. Its hard to explain you'll just feel it hun trust me. Take care


Yesterday we had a BBQ and me and some of my cousins walked down the the "haunted" house down the street....well my little cousin said she saw something (we were looking at the house and luckily no one was home) me and my other cousin didnt believe her at first so we told her to go bak to the house anyway we looked at it a little longer and both me and my cousin saw a white face with no eyes or mouth appear in the top window! It scared the crap out of us! Then later on my other cousin saw a mouth in the same window...we saw a bunch of other stuff too. Do u think the stuff we saw was real? I felt really weird around that house...and i am really freaked out by it...Plz help! I rate high! (link)
Wow that shit is scary. I think it could be real. Have your ever heard of the Amityville house that ones haunted and its real. take care


Hey...I have this problem...I like to make up screennames and use my creativity to annoy the hell out of strangers with my best friend Katie. Is this good? -david walker/AKA george christ (link)
Ok honey its not good,but its not bad either. Its sounds like fun,I would do it too with my best friend Catherine. Take care


I'm 16/f and i recently found out that im pregnant by my bf whos 17. I know i cant tell my mom anything until im sure what i'm going to do. I really want to tell my bf, but he would probably freak. and yes i was taking birth control. but should i tell my bf who would most likely insist that i keep it, or just go get an abortion n not ever mention it to him. or u can add ur own options (link)
Honey you should of used protection, you're too young right now,having a baby is a big responsibility,it will change your life. But I think you should tell your boyfriend its his baby too. If you feel that your ready and that you and your boyfriend could raise it together than keep it but if you feel you can't,than abort the poor baby. Hang in there hun you're in a tough position. Good luck and take care


Me n this guy are really good frendz. he doesnt know that i like him and i cant b sure that he likes me. should i ask him to the movies?

*~Michele~* (link)
Sure honey go for it, I bet he'll be happy to. Have fun, good luck and take care


okay so a year ago i met this guy... and after talking for about 6 months we started going out... and i found out 2 months later he smoked AND sold drugs... (he lives an hour away by the way) so i ended everything right then and there... so about two nights ago i found out he had a girlfriend already after only breaking up a month ago... i just started crying... and i dont know why... im not really sure why all these feelings are coming back... i really want them to go away... i dont know why i care sooo much... can you help me get over him? (link)
Sure honey, its cause you were so shocked and scared that you just let him go why you still really liked him and you still do. Start talking to more guys, go out with your friends and family and distract yourself. Dont stay at home because you'll be bored and thats when you'll start thinking of him. Im sorry to here that hon just hang in there. Take Care


okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys! (link)
No of course not,my parents are ten years apart. Age doesnt matter when it comes to love. Take care


okay why is it that ,y parents always take my yuonger sister's side? and she lies a ton! but they believe her if she says that me and my brother did, when we never actually did it..so im just wondering why do they always believe her?

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they believe her because shes the baby in the family. Your parents probably think shes so cute and innocent that she wont ever do anything wrong. Since you and your brother are older they're always gonna blame you. Take care


well my BF broke up with me 2 weeks ago, i am upset that he did that and i miss him a lot but i'm still going out and gettin on with things.

my question is, is it right for me to look for a new BF now, when i'm still thinking about my ex? or should i wait? (link)
I think you should wait honey because you're hurt insde and you miss him which means you're not ready. Go out out with your family and friends,and distract yourself. Im sorry to hear that, hang in there. Take care


There is a sinor at school(im a sophomore) I have a chance to introduce myself twice before. I guess im just scared to but i dont know what to do. I dont wanna seem CREEPY...!!! (link)
Introduce yourself honey cause you never know.Relax,breath deeply,talk clearly and smile. That is scary I know but try. Good luck and take Care


I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that? (link)
Awww honey thats cute but why dont you leave a heart shaped note saying you like him and put your lip prints with your favorite lipstick color there and spray the perfume you wear on the note.I think he'll like that even more. Good Luck and take Care


Hey wel i like this guy a lot n i have for a very long time he tells me he likes me but then he tellls other ppl(hes friends)that he dont n its pissin me off i wrote him a note n he hasnt writen me bak n i asked him y he didnt n he goes like wel i dont like notes what a lie he asked me out last year witha fuckin note soo whats up with that n i have no clue what to do about him soo some one pleaz help me n do it fast i rate high for good answers!! (link)
He lies too much and maybe thats a sign you shouldnt go out with him. Ignore him and forget about him find another guy whos more sincere.Good luck and Take care.


This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something (link)
No honey you're not selfish or anything, cause if you were you wouldnt feel bad, but its cause you didnt know her and why would you cry over someone you dont know. That is something really sad but its part of life people come and go and theres nothing you can do about it. Take care


My friend is 13/f. She hangs out with a lot of bad kids (whores, druggies, etc) and they end to party and get baked..A LOT. Well today she went down into the room wheere everyone was gettin baked and I was like "what were you doing down there?" and shes like "I was tryin to get meghan out of there" and I was like "ok.." but I don't believe her. It seems whenever I ask her if she does something or did something she denies it. I just want her to tell me the truth. I'd rather have the truth than to her lie about that to me. So what can I say to her to make sure she tells me the truth? (link)
Honey tell her that she is your friend and you really care about her and that you dont want nothing bad to happen to her. Tell her it really hurts you that she wont tell you the truth.Tell her that she could be in danger and that you'll be able to help her out. Tell her you're there for her.Take care of her and help her out, cause you never know. Good Luck and Take Care


This may be a little long so bare with me please. Okay well a couple of months ago I had rececntly dated a very good friend of mine, we have known each other for several years. Well once we dated it freaked me out so I avoided him all together. Well during the summer this guy ended up catching my eye. We have so many things in common, we connect on different levels only problem is he's already taken. He has a girlfriend but according to me and my friends we seem to think he's sometimes bored with his relationship or unhappy. He has flirted with me many times but nothing over the top. Just chit chat. Well now I find myself in a crisis. I started talking to my really good guy friend and it's nice to talk again but I don't want to give it another try knowing that I might have feelings for someone else. My friend still really likes me and we talk every night and it was good to see him again but I know that we're not as compatable as me and the "new interest" so what do I do? Does any of this make sense? (link)
Yes it does make sense and this happens to a lot of girls. I think you shouldn't date your friend if you have feelings for another guy. You should just stay friends with him because it wont be good for you or for him. If the guy you are intrested in really likes you he'll break up with his girl who you said it looks like he is very unhappy with(hopefully) so it might be very soon, he'll ask you out. If he really likes you he will, just be patient. Good Luck and Take Care


its like this. im basically the only black gurl in my skool. there are a few black boiz but they have gurlsfriends. i try my hardest to get a boifriend but it seems like no one wants to go out with the black gurl. wut should i do so that i can get a boifriend and not be left out cuz just about all my friends have boifriends? (link)
Why dont you tell your friends to hook you up, you could also talk to guys that are single, be nice, be sweet, be fun, be cool,and of course be yourself. Maybe guys do like you but they're shy so you should make the move, you'll have your man in no time. Good Luck and Take Care.


I get embarassed ALL the time. EVERYTHING embarasses me. It has gotten so bad, that it's to the point where getting embarassed is what I think about ALL day. I wonder when I'm gonna feel stupid, or who is gonna embarass me, etc..When I get embarassed my face turns BRIGHT red and it stays that way for a while and only gets worse when I think about it. I can feel it getting hott and I know it's turning red and then I think about it which makes me feel even more stupid! I'm so nervous and I don't want to look like an idiot. What are some ways that I can not be so obvious or cover it up!? Is there make-up, a certain way to breathe, or ANYTHING!? I'm so desperate. I need help! (link)
Ugh Im like that trust me and I hate it. Try not to think about it. Try to ignore the people that embaress you. I know its hard and you cant help it but try to. Dont put make up on its bad for your skin and it doesnt help either. Good Luck and take Care




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