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Tell the person you want both of you to get tested, so you both know it's safe. That way it doesn't seem like you want them to get tested because they're gross or something.

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Is it ok to ask a guy out?.. ok I like this guy and we flirt all of the time.. but I want to get to know him more, besides at school. we are both busy with sports after school... and i just wanna hang out.. what should i do?? i really like him.
15/f

Just say it in a way that will let him now you're not just giving him bs. If you just say "I like you tee-hee" he may think you're not serious. Tell him you like him, and want to go out with him. Have a place and time already thought of. No matter what you say he'll be overjoyed a girl is taking the initiative and asking him out though. Guys have the responsibility of doing that, and it's nice for a girl to take the first step.

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Hello! I really like this guy. Today I saw him, it was the first time in a while. He is 15, and I am 13. I know, you can't be inlove at 13. Everyone probley thinks it's just a crush, well, I am convinced your wrong.

We evacuated once, and we went to the same place, and we hung out a little. I liked him then, and I was 11. When he left, I was CRUSHED! I felt horrible.

Today he was on my float. He smiles at me, but I don't know what he means. After the parade was over, I feel WORSE then I ever did. I want this guy so bad. I even prayed alot of times. I might sound a little dramatic, but please, try and understand.

What are some promises I can make with God? If he helps me get over this guy? I might not ever have him, or see him again [ I probley will see him again ]. I just don't want to feel like this again. I felt like this the day my father died! Could God help him like me, or even be my best friend, just be.. you know.. closer too him. This guy is just AMAZING!

So, does anyone know any promises I can make with God, to help him help me about this problem. I have had crush's, and MANY boyfriends, but I have never felt this feeling.

Thank you.

BTW- for lent I already gave up junk food. I thought it would help me loose weight, and come closer too God. Also, I promised to pray every night, and morning.

I can tell you're a very religious person, but I'm going to approach your question without saying anything about god. It sounds to me like you're a nice person he easily got along with in those situations and that's why he smiles at you. It isn't some sign that he wants to be with you. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but just understand it doesn't sound like he's giving you any signals.

You are 13. People that are 13 have a lot of hormones and become infatuated with people. Before you exit and give me a 1, hear me out. You say you have had "MANY boyfriends", but it sounds like you are just now becoming more mature. A lot of kids have girlfriends and boyfriends between 11 and 13, but it really doesn't mean anything and chances are neither person actually feels any sort of love for the other. It isn't physically possible. Until you're 13 AT LEAST you don't get that. You're just a teenager with hormones that likes a guy. god can't help, but if you tell him you like him that will get something done to bring him closer.

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If you feel sick to your stomach because you ate too much and you stick your finger down your throat to induce vomitting is it still considered an eating disorder? I've done this a couple of times, but never on a constant basis, just like...once every two months or so. It only stops my stomach from hurting, I'm not trying to lose weight or anything..is it still bad?

It isn't an eating disorder if it's once every two months. If it's once every two weeks, it is. Just stop doing that. Vomiting once every two months even is more than usual, and every time you vomit the back of your teeth gets worn a way a little bit. If you were to continue this for a number of years, you might as well have had an eating disorder. If your stomach hurts, take a tums or pepto bismol.

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how do i use a ipod gift card thingy for itunes?

On the back of the gift card it says what to do to activate the card.

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i have a movie & a tv show on my computer that i downloaded from a different source instead of itunes. i need a program to convert them into something that will enable them to be opened into itunes and put onto my ipod. what program do i need and where can i get it?

Videora iPod converter.
Just go to www.videora.com

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ok....how do i get i tunes on my computer??
also does it cost anything to just have it??
i know the songs cost money but im talking just about the program itself Whelp thanx

iTunes is free, and you can get if from:

http://www.apple.com/itunes/download/

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I have the new AIM 6.0 & I can't figure out how to delete a buddy. I right clicked & it should say delete & I hit actions-nothing. HELP!
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select the buddy, then click delete near the bottom of the window.

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I know that there is some microsoft word program like perfect word 12 or word perfect 12.
It's version 12.
Does any one have any idea what it is because I forgot & also where can I download it?
Thanks.

If you mean Microsoft Word, that's something different. WordPerfect isn't made by Microsoft.

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.asp?Item=N82E16832106011

It also costs money. It's normally 200 dollars but if you get that one (it's for students or teachers) it's only like 65 bucks.

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is there any way to get cars on the sims 2 if you don't have nightlife? if so, how?

I believe you need to buy nightlife for cars, but if you look around on sites like gamespot and google for sims 2 mods you might find something that makes the taxi look like something else. It's still a taxi, but you might be able to make it look nice.

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ive had photoshop before [free trial] & i want it again, but it wont let me because it says it says i have no free trials? how can i make it so i have a free trial?

Only one free trial per computer. After that you have to buy it.

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can anyone tell me any good makeout songs for lesbian couples? pref by female artists?

10 q

I can confidently say I have the best answer ever for this question.

http://www.taty.hu/

They're actually pretty good singers as well. The group (2 girls) is called T.A.T.U. and they're a lesbian couple that sings together

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Is discharge the same stuff as the kub your make when having sex??

kub?
I think I still know what you're asking, and yes I believe so.

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I'm just wondering,
what hole does the guy's "thing" go into?

Pick one

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Recently I've been feeling like something is just not right with me.I don't know exactly what it is,but I guess I sort of just feel like there's something weird going on.It's hard to explain.I feel like there's something wrong with my mind,but at the same time that just seems ridiculous and outrageous.I have a doctor's appointment coming up in a few days,so should I ask about it,or should I just let it slide?

Also,is there like some type of test I can take online that will give me a reading of my mental health?I don't care if it's official or not...I know that these things can't take the place of an actual diagnosis.

The fact that you're able to logically consider your own mental health suggests you don't have any huge immediate problems. Mention it to your doctor though, it could be something physical. If not your doctor may refer you to someone that can help or examine you. There is no test that can deffinitively show your mental health by the way, just talk to the doctor.

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I mastrobate and I really want to stop. Any tips?

It's not a big deal that you do. If you do it like 12 times a day, you have a serious problem and should seek counseling. If you just do it once a day or something like that you don't have to change anything. If you still want to stop though I recommend you get involved in something that is very time consuming. You have a computer? Get World of Warcraft. By far the best universal sex drive killer out there lol

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ok, first of all, why the heck would anyone want to shave "downstairs"?!? are you suppost to? do guy's like it that way or something?

i'm just unsure, you see a lot of questions on here about shaving down there! any advice would be apreaciated,

p.s. i'm 15/f

thanks

While the previous person may be good at giving female empowerment speeches, I doubt how true her claims are. I am a guy. I know first-hand that I would like it, although if you're 15 there probably is no need to do that. That's something that doesn't matter, but it is nice. Forgive me if that sounded creepy lol

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do blind people have dreams??

Well, I'm not blind and therefore I would not know the answer to this for sure, but I think blind people would. Their dreams may not have anything visual, but may only have sounds. I mean, since humans can't read thoughts our dreams wouldn't involve a perception of the thoughts of other people. Therefore the blind most likely wouldn't have visual dreams. But yes, they would have dreams.

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okay this guy i like...well like i've said in a lot of my questions i've played a lot of pranks on him well i told him i was sory and that i had like him when i did them...but i diddn't tell him that i still do and now he is going out with this really ugly girl that used to be my friend to make me jeslous what do i do?

Just tell him you still like him, and you want to go out with him. If he likes you he'll break up with that girl and date you. Who knows, he might just be dating her because he's given up on you. He thinks you don't like him anymore, just correct that mistake.

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Hey

I'm never sure how much perfum to spary on I'm always worried I'll put on tooo much but then I'm worried it won't last long. So how much should I put on if I want it to stay fairly strong thourhgout school??

If this matters I have armani code..

I have a good number of people at my school that wear perfume and cologne. If you spray it once you may think it won't last as long, but it will. Any more than that and you'll have people gagging. Even if near the end of the day you can't smell it, that's probably just because you're used to the smell. Others can smell it just fine.

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