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My mom just moved back with my stepdad and they are still getting a divorce. We are staying in st. clair shores for the rest of the school year but then we are moving to rochester hills with her bf (if you don;t know thats about an hour away) I don't want to switch schools because i don't want to leave my friends and i am not good at making friends cause i am so shy!!! I keep trying to tell her i don't want to go, but she won't listen !!! What should i do????

My dads work moves us a lot!! and I am as shy is a tree so im pretty shy!! but ive moved 4 times and made friends! Everyone welcomed me when I 1st came to all my schools! I felt a little left out and sad becuz i missed my friends but i made new 1s. But if thats not wut happens to you heres sumthin else.... Go to your classes and sit down (like you wudnt) but anywayz... just play it cool, when some1 talks to you who you think might be nice tell them you are new and need help if they are nice enough to help you then try to befriend them! Or if you think some1 looks nice go and talk to them yourself and say the same thing that i typed earlier! I know you are shy but all you have to do is find some1 who is nice!! and talk to them don't talk to people who make you feel weird becuz that makes shyness worse if you talk to nice people or people who look nice your shyness will go away! Oh and you will always miss your friends I still miss my friends from Oklahoma and i moved away from there like 5 years ago!!! :(

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anyone know any realllyy good fashion/celeb blogs that update everyday with good pictures?

http://blogs.nypost.com/fashion/

http://www.topblogarea.com/fashion/

http://fashionblog.dailymail.co.uk/

try these!!

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i got my first period on feb.16 2007 and i had it for like a week. when should i be getting my next one. ? thankss

around the same time in march i would preapre for it on March 13th!! since they can be irregular!

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hi well this is for anyone who's ever been to san fransisco or seen just like heaven, the movie. well anyway, i was just wandering if sanfransisco is like how it is in the movie, with good weather, great views etc? oh and ive never been to USA before so like any info would be appreciated. thanks.

Well just like every other place in the world it has its bad weather days. but it is beautiful it has many great sites and fun things to do

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that "jesus died for our sins"?????

I know the whole biblical story of how a man named jesus was crucified- but LOTS of people who were real criminals were crucified back then.

what makes Jesus so special?


wtf?

if you'd liek to explain this to me i'd really appreciate it.

thank u for answering my other question too.

Well,... Jesus wasn't a criminal! Non-Christians just didn't like him because he spoke against there gods! and said things different then what the king said! So word got out to the king that some man named Jesus was speaking "Blasphemy" about him (blasphemy meaning going against wut the king says or any other ruler) So the king ordered him to be crucified! But this was all part of God's plan!! Jesus took away our sins by dieing on the cross for the whole world! Because he defeated the devil and rose from the dead! Now whenever we sin we can ask for forgiveness if we trully want it and we are forgiven by God and cleansed of our sin! All because of Jesus's dieing on the cross!!! But Jesus was no criminal He actually never sinned in his whole life! But I'm not God so I don't no why God planned that, this way but he did. and I'm happy cause i know I will have eternal life in heaven through Jesus's dieing and God!! sry its sooooooo long! I hope you learned something! And remember don't completely forget about God! Even if you join another religon try to keep God somewhere in your thoughts or mind!! :)

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I'm a teenager who was raised Catholic but now I'm like agnostic or atheist or something.

I don't really believe there was a guy named jesus who died for everyone's sins. i really do not believe that. so how can i call myself a christian?

i do not agree with the christian ideals on premarital sex. i lust all the time- so i don't want a religion that prevents lusting.
i also masturbate. i'm not going to stop it for some higher power that isn't even real.


what should i do? i don't believe anything.


i don't want to be a Christian. I never really was one in the first place.

In Christian belief it doesn't matter if you do that, they just perfer you don't do it before marriage but many christians do anyway! I'm a Christian ad through the Bible it says Jesus died for us and if you don't beleive he died for your sins you go to hell!! I don't want that to happen to you!! but of course its your desicion! I can't make you believe and nobody else can!! For now don't be anything until you know for sure what you want to believe! Sry I'm a STRONG christian! but it's your life and your opinion! so you decide!! good luck

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where can i find cute warm beanie hats? im looking for some for skiing and snowboarding. thanks

http://www.dogfunk.com/dogfunk/group/127/s100000007/c11/Beanies.html?CP=Google&CMP=KNC-Google&mv_pc=r101&gcid=S14966x019&keyword=warm+beanies

http://search.pacsun.com/?query=beanies



try these!!!!! They are sooo cute!!

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I play softball(fastpitch) and I have been basically my whole entire life. I have always had a sort of side armed kind of throw and recently on my permadent move to the outfield my high school coaches have been trying to correct my throw. My throw is getting alot better but now I am having alot of shoulder problems because of this (my coach said it would happen) its like a sharp jolt of pain all down my arm right after i throw. I have been taking pain medicine, icing it and using icy hot before practice and it has slowly been getting better. I am now at the point where I do not have any pain unless i throw it hard at a far distance.

I am happy with the progress I made but the thing is next monday are our tryouts and I am going to have to throw long and hard for atleast 3 days in a row. (luckly thought are try outs are inside our gym so it could be worse) but what are some things i can do to make it better? I can't rest it much because i still have 2 more open gyms on tuesday and thursday before try outs and i need to be 110% by Monday


any suggestions?


17/f

SOFTBALL!! I love it! its so much fun I'm leadoff and starting center field!! well i feel your pain i was the worst thrower on the team but my coaches wanted to develop my arm so they made me throw and throw and throw my arm killed me all the time and i did the same things as you (you no the icy hott and stuff) well i found that streching my arm out would help, advil,and R.I.C.E which means Rest, Ice, Compression, and elevation (like when elevating your keep it higher than your heart when resting like stack pillows and put it on them) have fun,
FS

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do wicca spells really work? has anyone performed a love spell and did it work?? any feedback would be nice. thanks

spells won't work!!! You can always pray! That is the best "spell"! I believe in God sry if you don't i didnt mean to offend you sry sry sry! But spells won't work!

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i'm thinking about getting my hair layered because it makes it thinner and stuff but like what does it look like and will it look good on someone with like dirty-blondish hair? thanks in advance.

yes it will look good because hello i have dirty blonde hair and layers!! If you do it right it will turn out right!! (just don't go anywhere you see any1 with mullets doing other peoples hair worst experience of my friends life)

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tryouts for high school cheerleading start soon. if any of you are cheerleaders already ; could you please let me know what exactly i should know to have a shot at making it?? I`m currently attending tumbling classes trying to master my back handspring && back tuck.. if that helps any. thank you in advance.

stretch!! and practice (practice makes perfect)If you can master that handspring and backtuck your gauranteed a spot on the team! so as i said stretch and practice!!!!!

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I've heard all this talk about not turning the volume up too much on your iPod headphones, or it will damage your ears. How loud is too loud?

Well if you play your ipod ALL the way up everytime you listen to it and you listen to it like all the time then yah your ears will be damaged! I like to listen to mine at 1/2 the way!!

TTYL,
FS

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for lent i am giving up myspace
but i dont think i will be able to keep that "promise"
yikes .
iono
so what are u all giving up ??

Oddly I'm giving up pickles BUT I LOVE LOVE LOVE PICKLES!!!!! Just try to keep your promise!!

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I'm only 14 and I'm about 5'6''...But I weigh around 165lbs...I don't look like I weigh that much, but I do..And no matter how much I work out, I can't get my weight to drop...Any ideas on how I can get it to drop..?

CRUNCHES!!!!AND SIT UPS!!! about 100 crunches cuase there easy and 60 sit ups every day!! You will see results

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This is my second year running track. I was in the store buying some more track shoes and I saw a young man trying them on without socks. I have never ran without socks and I wanted to know if it was a difference? Thank you for you help in advance!

well if you don't wear socks while running your feet will smell AWFUL afterward. My big brother does that and his feet SMELLLLLL!! If you do it a lot your feet might start growing fungus! EWWW

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my hair falls out constantly

what is the average hall fall out rate?

and plus i am getting lots of white hairs sometimes

im only 16

is it from stress or bad nutrition?

there is a disease out there where you get gray hair at an early age. It doesn't hurt you (Taylor hicks had it) But i don't think that is wuts rong with you!! gray hair can be a result of both not enough fruits or stress! for your hair falling out it means your hair is smooth and pony tail holders don't stay!! thats a good thing!! Try using strong hold pony tail holders or schrunchies (the cute 1s)

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how do they take your barces off

they have a clicky tool! it looks like plyers but it goes around the braces and it comes rite off!! some people say it hurts others say it doesn't!

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i have scars from my zits and i really want to get rid of them but how can i ? plez help mee!

-marissa

my mom says they go away eventually like when you get older. But for now while they are haunting your face try cover up! just make sure its the rite shade because this girl in my class has the rong shade and it shows cause her face is orange but her real skin is pail white.

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im really out of shape

and getting chubby

can i lose weight by jumping rope half an hour everyday no matter how tired ill get?

of course you can!!! You can lose weight by doing pretty much anything outside, unless your just sitting out there!!! Also i recomend sit ups and crunches!! Or you can practice a sport you like!! Jump roping is a good idea it helps a lot!! You can also bike, skate, or run

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I have always been skinny, but lately i have been gaining some fat on mi tummy not so much to worry about but i have a bf and when he puts his arm around me im consious about mi tummy area is there anyway i can lose about 5 pounds off mi tummy area in about a week or two??? also any info on losing sum weight off mi thighs could help too=]

You can do 60-100 crunches a day or you can do about 40-50 sit ups a day. You can do 1 or the other or you can do both a day!! if you follow this you will be seeing results soon! PS. I am in computer class rite now and I'm really bored HELP!! MY TEACHER IS WEIRD!!! sry

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