Hello, my name is Christina, but my close friends and family call me Stina. I grew up with both my mom and dad as drug addicts. Thankfully, my dad quit, but my mom is still a drug addict. She used to be an alcholic, too, but she quit. I have one sister, and four brothers. I am the youngest. I dont really have a family, the only family I have, is my sister's family, and my boyfriend. We're planning on getting married one day. I am obcessed with dragons and the music groups Slipknot and Stone Sour. They're the only heroes I have besides God, my boyfriend and my sis and her family. I love to draw, sing, be with friends and family, to cuddle and to give big hugs, writing stories, poems and songs. I have a deep love for people and animals (especially dogs). Generally, I don't like people, because everytime I try to be nice, they give me dirty looks, but this is just some people. There are more better people out there. I love to help people, I find it very fun. I'm loyal, unique, loving and caring. Sometimes, people mistake me as being mean, and evil, or depressed. I'm the complete opposite. Although, sometimes I am rude and mean without meaning to be. I am very sarcastic, and I always stick up for the underdog. I always stand up for what I believe in, I speak my mind, without being rude about it. I'm nice until you f*** with me. That's basically it. Oh yeah, if any of you have a livejournal, look me up.
Dragonessfire01 :) laterz
E-mail: Dragonessfire01@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bakersfield, CA
Occupation: None, but I want to be a psychologist or an animator.
Age: 18
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in the parent trap, do you know where there is a video on youtube or something of the secret handshake that the twins do in the movie? haha i wanna learn it (link)
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yes there is. just type in
"parent trap handshake"
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13/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month now, and we still havn't kissed. We've made out before we were going out at a party, but since we've been dating we havn't.
It's really weird because we spend a lot of time together and we're comfortable around each other but I just can't bring myself to make that move and kiss him, and he hasn't tried to kiss me either.
When I met him around six months ago I thought he was the most amazing person I had ever met, and would ever meet, but he was in love with someone else, and it made me so depressed. However, I figured I could be friends with him, but now, I'm worried I became too close friends with him, maybe too comfortable around him.
Usually when you start dating someone you get that anticipation and you don't want them to see you without makeup and things like that. But in those six months, he became one of my closest friends, and I'm worried that that's why it's not working now.
I don't feel as strongly for him as I used to either.
Also I have very little experience and I think that's worrying em too.
I just don't know what to do, any ideas?
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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You should talk to him. Ask him if he still wants to be with you. if he does, then always keep your face close to his. you never know, you may get lucky ;)
good luck
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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for just over a month and on friday a dumped him because a felt like he was to serious. i was 17 when a started dating him and now am 18 and hes 23 and he keps saying he loves me and that if he could hed ask me 2 get engaged and i just thought it was all to fast and to serious for me am not ready to settle down. see what the problem is he goes o bout how much he loves me that hes talking about goin away and he sent me a suicide letter other night but hes fine hes still alive and he told me hes engaved my name in him with a knife and now a feel like crap cause ive hurt him real bad did i do the right thing by ending it? also before we wnet out we were friends and he was talking bout leaving coz all he wanted was me and kept asking me to give him a chance so a felt sort of presure into goin out with him. im worried he will do something stupid because of what he used to be like. he has told me bout his past but a dont no wether hes telling me the truth or not he hangs about with 13 year olds which a think is weird especially when hs 23 and he went out with one of the 13 year olds and slept with her when she turned 14 and he told me he never had sex with her so now am thinking has hebeen lyig to me bout everything what do you think has he been lying and did i do right thing by dumping him? sorry its so long (link)
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well, i dont think that it was a bad mistake at all. he was most likely lying to you. good luck
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do humans have an instinct? my friend was telling me that cats, both wild and househeld, dont actually love their cubs, or whatever, tis just their instinct to protect them. that bought up the question...do humans have an instinct? (link)
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I'd say cats do love their kittens, but yes, people do. Just natual ones. Like one time, I was like 10, and I was playing with my friend Timothy, outside. Then something was urging me to go inside. Like something obvious that something was wrong. I ran inside the house to find my mom on the floor having a heart attack. It scared the crap out of me.
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Okay, I'm naturally a really nice person and I can basically strike up a conversation with someone I just met a second ago in the hallway. (I've done it several times...)
In gym, we had to do crunches for fitness gram and so we had to partner up. Well, I only hang out with girl 1 and 2 because they're sane and drug free. Well, girl 1 and 2 partnered up so I was partner-less so the teacher paired me up with guy 1 who just happened to be good friends with girl 1. Well, he did the whole *sigh, do I have to be partnered up with her?* sigh/look thing. And I was thinking "Fine, whatever" And he just like stood and talked to the person next to him the entire time and he wasn't even counting! Arg. So that was kind of pissy.
Are guys just like that in general? Or is it just him? (link)
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its just him probably. Most guys like to be jerks, but I'd say its just him.
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I would consider myself a good writer of short stories. But I can never come up with good poetry. I don't understand why. Perhaps it's because I can't really feel it...So I always end up writing about suicide. What would you write about if you were a poet? How does one come up with better writing topics? lol.. (link)
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How cool, I love writing too :D Usually, I write love poems. I think it comes naturally, like I have to be in the mood to write really good poetry. If I were you, I would try to wait a little while until you have intense emotions, like really strong ones. Maybe that would help?
good luck :)
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my boyfriend and i have been together a year and this past month has been really bad, we have stopped really talking and such(and yes we are intimate)but last night was homecoming and we just stood there it fely really weird, i was wondering if yall have any ideas on how we can rebuild our friendship.(breaking up is not an option) thanks :] (link)
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you both should both find the time to talk... I mean, really really talk. Try to find out the reason why you two aren't really talking. try to figure out all the negatives and try to fix them. sorry I couldnt help more.
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I made out with this guy at a party and he gave me his number. He said he'd only give it to me if I'd actually call and not just BS him. So the next day i called him and he didn't have my number so I told him who it was and he hung up. I thought we just got disconnected but he never called back and isn't taking my calls (I only called back once but still). What the heck is his problem? (link)
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I am not sure, but please, if you're looking for a friend or a REAL relasionship, dont look for them at parties, clubs or bars. Usually, that is where most of the bad guys are, ok? If youre gonna look anywhere, go to a book store, or the park or somewhere else innocent. ok? Trust me, I learned this from personal experience.
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well ive been homskooled all my life, until last year we moved to my dad's home town and they finally agreed to let me go away to public skool! i was sooo happy when they let me go to skool cuz for about a year or so i had thought about klling myself cauz i never did anything i was always at church or at hom ewith my family who ignores me! well i did my very best last year and i got all A's! but this year i over heard my parents talking and they sadi that if i made just one bad grade on my report card that they would pull me out cauz my parents told me if i didnt that they would pull me out of skool and id be back to homskooling. the bad thing is im making a c in english and the report cards are coming out thsi friday! i really dont want to be pulled out cauz then i will go back into my depression state, only this time i would cut myself cauz then they'd have to send me back to skool or i'd keep cutting myself, and if they dont do that they'll have to send me to the place for crazy ppl! i know thats a rally bad place cauz ive had friends go there an d come back adn they sadi it was awfull, but i dont care just as long as i dont come back to this god forsaken house everyday doing nothing but homeskooling and going to church!
how do i get me parents to understand that im not their perfect genius who will always make A'S? (link)
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Tell them. Tell them that youre depressed sitting at home. Tell them that youre human and that you arent perfect and all you can do is try. Please dont kill yourself or try. I understand youre depressed, but trust me, I've been where you are now. Try to get them to understand, that the only one whose perfect is God. As for us, we're only human, and thats all we ever will be as long as we are here on earth.
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15/f. About a week ago, my friend [A] told me that she was going to set me up with the guy that I like. I knew this wasn't a good idea, because we're not the BEST of friends. I was VERY reluctant, but since she was all "Oh, don't worry...It'll work out ;)" I couldn't help but wonder and let her go on with it. So, I didn't mention anything to her about him. We only see him in one class. The thing is, this guy doesn't even know me and we never talk. Now, here comes the problem. My friend A told her other friend B that I like him. SInce I'm friends with B, I thought nothing of it. I just moved on and ignored it, because I knew it wasn't going to work out and didn't think she was serious about setting me up with the guy. So, two days later, I find out that A told ANOTHER one of her friends, this time, someone who I don't even know : C. So, you know what C does (she's a girl)? C goes up to the guy, and tells him that "some girl named [me] likes you." When A told me this, I was dumbfounded and extremely pissed. I felt so betrayed. A knife has been placed in my back. I trusted A. I let her do this for me because she said it was her pleasure, I shouldn't worry about it and that she wanted to do it and that "you guys BELONG TOGETHER :D" But why the fuck would you tell someone I don't even KNOW then!? Who gave you the right to do that?
I'm so confused, guys...*sigh*..The guy knows that I like him, and now he won't even look at me.
Do you think they did this on purpose to fuck me over?
The thing is, I shrugged it off nicely, while still hurting inside. :( (link)
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I'm not too sure why they did that. That is definately screwed. Of course, they probably didn't mean to, another theory is in fact that they did. But, if it wasn't on purpose, then the least they could've done would to ask your permission first. Yeah, that is very screwed up though. sorry I can't help more.
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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much! (link)
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Well, I've already said this, but how about a picnic in a local park? That way you can talk to each other and eat and have a beautiful surrounding of some sort?
Good luck!
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Last night, I was with this guy and he started to finger me. My period wasn't supposed to come for two more days; but I think it started while he was fingering me. I had a tiny bit of blood in my undies after, but I'm so embarressed! What if its on his finger!? He's a close friend, I'm not sure what to say to him if he brings it up. (link)
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There's not really anything to say. It's a natural way of life. It wasn't your fault, it's something you cannot control. Just tell him sorry. If anything at all.
~The Dragoness~
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he doesn't notice me. i'm his best friend, yet, im not there when it comes to relationships. i like him. "he" is spencer. i've known him probably forever. hes so easy to talk to, and yet, when i like him, which i have off and on, i trip up things. i say things i soon regret, and i act weird.. so he knows. but then the attraction goes away.. disappears. after that, its like he loves me-- but not in that same way. he loves my company, me being there. but not in a relationship. this has been going on for as long as i can remember.
sometimes we hang out. we walk home the same way almost everyday, so we talk a lot.
sometimes i hang out and watch TV with him.
sometimes i talk to his mom.
we act like best friends.
he's never had a girlfriend.
i've had 5 boyfriends.
we hug.
we laugh.
we smile.
i want him to ask me out.
i need him to ask me out.
i have no clue how to get him to ask me out.
we have a dance coming up soon.
a black and white ball.
he's not one for any school functions, really.
but, he said he might ask someone.
he didn't really tell me.
no, let me rephrase that.
he didn't tell me at all.
just
"i might ask someone to the dance"
then i changed the subject;
i didn't really want to hear it.
but,
the real question is...
how can i find out, with out dropping hints that i like him, AGAIN?
how can i gain his attention?
will i ever get the one guy i've liked since 2nd grade? (link)
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That's really sad... but I'm afraid that the only way is to ask him flat out. Tell him how you feel. I'm sorry I can't say more.
Good luck with it
~The Dragoness~
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Well im 17 and female, I split up with my ex 6 months ago, tried dating other guys but I dont have the feelings for them like a do for my ex!
Everytime I see him my feelings become stronger. I tried tellin him how i felt but he wasnt interested! We still see each other and speak as friends! Recently he has started taking driving lessons and he told me I would be the first person he would take out in his car, does he means as friends? or is he flirting??
I get the feeling his is regreting us spliting up, should I tell him again how I feel? Or just leave things as they are? (link)
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hes most likely flirting with you :) just tell him how you feel!
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Michael Jackson is going to be on the cover of the Italian men magazine L'Uomo Vogue, I believe next month, and I reallllly want to get it. Does anyone know any stores that will sell it when it comes out? (link)
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you might have to buy it online.
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I recently saw a movie about drug abuse and crap like that and then I got interested in what happens in real life and not in the movies, and Im not about to try it myself to find out so by WHAT scientists have proven what really happens when someone takes medicine when they aren't suppose to? I mean like WHAT happenes to them? WOULD they get sick or die or what? Theres so much stuff on t.v. about what happens and stuff but then theres stuff that says its completley different. And HOW do you know when your high?
((i put capps on the first words of the questions so that you can tell where the actual question is becuase when i reread it i got kinda confused XP!!)) thanx.... (link)
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You could die, hallucinate, or mentally ill.
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my boy friend and I are having our one year october 9th but theirs just one problem we dont know what to do for it! we are deeply in love and want to remember this special day. We dont have money for jewelery or anything and its on a school day but we're taking school off so please give me some great ideas thank you (link)
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Hmmm.... well, I suggest a picnic at a local park, or on a beach if you live close to one, so at night/sunset, you can walk along the beach. That's so romantic!
~The Dragoness~
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alright, so i love my boyfreind a lot. and well the only weird thing is when it comes to like sex and everything like that. he's not prude, but he's a virgin, and well im not. its just awkward between us, like i feel like i really know what im doing and really doesnt have a clue....so what should i do?
i mean at the same time i dont want to make him feel uncomfortable, i mean i wouldnt ever even thing about making him do something he didnt want to do (link)
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Well, just take things slow. There's no rush. Especially if he isn't comfortable yet.
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Ah, yes. He is amazing. He's so sweet, and funny. He has brown hair and these chocolate brown eyes, and plays guitar. I once san for their band when their singer was sick, and everyone teased me forever because i was staring at him the whole time and forgetting the lyrics! But... the problem... He dated my friend Hannah to get to my friend Leila. Leila is probably the prettiest of my friends, and is stick thin even though she eats sooo much. She is quite the unoriginal, though. Anyway, he likes her. And she likes him. They won't tell each other that, though. They dance every time at the school dances, while i just sit there and watch them, because no one asks me to dance. I really want him, but what can i do??? I need help!
Signed, Lovesick For an Off-Limits. (link)
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Well, a true friend would let it be. If they like each other, than you should leave it at that. Trust me, if you choose guys over your friends or your sisters, than it'll start some bad drama. I know because it's happened to me. It's heartbreaking for your friends to think that you're a backstabber and that you don't care.
~The Dragoness~
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do your breast get bigger if you rub them? (link)
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No, I wouldn't think so.
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