well..i'm 17, i love just about everything! God is my LORD and personal Savior. my family and friends mean the world to me and i would do ANYTHING for them. i pretty much have the most amazing boyfriend anygirl could ever ask for and love him with all my heart. if anybody needs any held, don't hesitate to ask, i will do my best to help! =]
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What does it mean when a guy looks at your lips when you talk? (link)
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a lot of times its kind of a "not so obvious" hint that he's wanting to kiss you and that he's waiting for the right moment to do so...or he could just be weird haha
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I'm a guy,18.okay,so here is the deal. I've been talking to this great gal that i've met,and she is way different from other gals,cause usually i don't really care about them,since i only have music and my band on my mind,hence the first date thingy.Anyways,she is totally playful and awesome to talk to.Question is:
1)She has been giving me some good vibe,like if i don't ask a question through chat,she will ask a question,and basically,our conversations never die off,unlike normal friends,where we just chat a little,and that's basically it,then we chat with someone else.so do you think she is also interested in me?Cause she is the only gal that i can hold a long conversation without feeling that i'm boring the other party,like we can chat from 7 to 2 in the morning.so what do you think?
2)She loves the outdoors,so i wanna plan properly,since i've heard of various dates which went wrong from my friends,and i don't want it to be the normal,movies dinner type.I was thinking to start off by taking her hiking,then to ice cream,make it short and sweet,i didin't tell her i like her yet,so i don't wanna push my luck or do too much lovey dovey stuff yet since we are so good friends now.so what do you guys think? (link)
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well i'll tell you what, before me and my bf started going out we were just messaging over myspace and saw eachother in the halls at school and such. and on our first date, a group of about 8 of us went and saw jackass II. even though it was a typical "movie" date, it was the most fun because we had to sneak around the cops because i was 16 then and didn't have ID, it was a funny movie we could talk and laugh about, and afterwords we just hung out at my house till his curfew. don't stress over it because the more casual it is, most likely the more she'll enjoy it. if ya'll become official, then you can start doing more of the other stuff.
if you wanna do something fun, you can never go wrong with bowling. and if she loves outdoorsy stuff, find out if there is a rock climbing gym close to you because i went there a few years ago with a guy i liked, and man, was that just a blast!!
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I just started dating this guy a few days ago and hes already saying "I love you". We havent even been on a date yet! I told him not to say it unless he means it and he said that he does. I feel a little uncomfortable, what should i say to him to show him that its too soon? (link)
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never say it if you don't really mean it. usually when a couple has been dating for a few days/weeks and they're already saying "i love you" and such, it's almost a death wish for the relationship because things are just moving to fast. me and my bf have been dating for 2 months now and we still haven't said it. we talked it over and we both agreed that it's a really strong word not to just be thrown out there but that just because we don't say it, doesn't mean we don't care deeply for eachother...we're just not ready for that big of a step...yet. so my advice would be, if you really feel like you love him, then tell him, there's nothing wrong with it. but if you don't, then just tell him you wanna wait on it and see where things go
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Well, for starters, I'm a freshman in high school (15/f). I like this guy in one of my classes, and he's really nice and we talk and all, but my problem is that he's a junior. I'm not worried about him using me or anything bad like that. I just don't know if he would consider going out with a freshman. Should I still go for him, or give up before I start? I'm probably going to go for him anyway, I just wanted to see what others think. (link)
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hun, totally not that bad!! last year i was a sophomore and i dated a senior *same age difference* and a few months after we broke up *yeah still a sophomore then lol* i started dating a sophomore in college *he was 20* which you know, is sorta illegal *only if you're doin stuff if you know what i mean, which we WEREN'T doing* but don't worry about the age diff...it's not that bad right now
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15/f
so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!! (link)
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my best advice is to not do it! i have a friend who was goin out with this guy for over a year and when they were alone he did all this romantic stuff and they ended up caving in a both giving it up. not even a week later he broke up with her. now she is completely torn and is actually going crazy. all she can say is *i can't believe i gave it up to him* or *why did i do that?* she has completely changed since then....she's very depressed and is always talking about how much she wants him back, but he's already moved on. believe me, if he's going on he might meet somebody else and then what? you just gave up something that you can never have back to someone who might end up meaning nothing to you.
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I've heard people talking about what happens before God returns. I've started reading the bible, but I haven't gotten that far where it tells you about it. I know that it says something about locusts and maybe hurricanes, but I don't know the details. If any of you have read it, what does it say happens? (link)
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The book of Revelation gives us a glimpse of what is going to happen before and after Christ returns.
I don't know exactly where it says this, but i talk to my mom about what's going on in the world today. *hopefully i'm recalling our conversations correctly* but she says that the Bible states that nations will turn against nations, everyone will turn their back on Israel, and there will be chaos.and that's whats beginning to happen. so many different places are at war with eachother and Israel is getting so much of it.
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Where in the Bible does it state that people shouldnt drink alcohol? Bible verses would be good. (link)
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honestly, no where in the Bible does it state that nobody should drink alcohol. because what did Jesus do at the wedding in Cannan *sp?* as one of His miracles...he turned the water into wine. The Bible only says not to be drunk from alcohol. To become drunk from alcohol is against the Bible, but to just have some wine or something isn't bad
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15/M Is it normal for a 15 year old guy to never have had a girlfriend? I have plenty of chances; I'm not desperate or anything. Girls say that I am cute or hot, and I talk to girls regularly. But I don't think that I am ready to have a girlfriend yet because I still act very immature, and I don't think that girls like that. I look phyically mature, but I'm not really emotionally mature. I mean, I don't act like that when I'm with them. Of course I want a girlfriend, but I know that I am not ready for it. But back to my question, is it normal for a 15 year old boy to never have had a girlfriend? (link)
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hun, it is perfectly normal believe me. i've know guys who were in their 20's before they got gf's. even my bf now didn't have his first gf till he was 15 or 16. it's better to just wait because once you find that one girl that you tell yourself *she REALLY means something* then you'll know it's time...hope i helped!!
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is it wrong for a 15 year old and 18 year old to be together? he's still in school yet and he just turned 18 in august? is that still bad? (link)
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there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. heck when i was 16 i was datin a 20 year old. but it is only alright as long as ya'll aren't "doing it" because if you are, then it's illegal and he could go to jail because you're a minor. if ya'll are happy, heck don't let age get in the way...age ain't nuthin but a number
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Ok, so here's the thing. I am 23 years old and I have never dated before. I have recently met this really great guy, and we have a great time going out together. Here's where I start having trouble, I am very nervous about the 'first kiss'. For me this is not only the first realtionship kiss, it is my first kiss ever. How do I know what to do, and when do we have that 'first kiss'. I feel so dumb being so inexperienced, and I just don't know what to do. Any relationship advice would be greatly appreciated, I clearly need all the help I can get. (link)
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let him be in control, and don't pucker up your lips like you're tryin to whistle lol that sounds weird, but you'd be surprised at how many people do that. for me, when i kissed my bf for the first time, he of course gave all the right signals and i was nervous because i had only had 1 kiss before him *not even really a kiss, more like a peck lol* so i was really inexperienced too. the first one with him was just a sweet *goodnight* one and it kinda teased him. but the ones to come just came naturally. i followed his lead and if he would do somethin, i'd do it back yadda yadda yadda. it seems scary at first, but once it is actually happening, you will be very surprised at what you can really do!! i hope i helped and best of luck!!
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Hey, I'll get right to it..
Im 16 years old, have had plenty of admirers, but I'm kind of picky. I've only had 2 kissed my whole life. Which Im kind of proud of, yet kind of dissapointed. Why? Because I'm a romkantic, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my first kiss, be together forever, only have one loe of my life.. you know? BUT ínstead my first kiss ended up being with a random guy at a party.
yeahh, and then i repeated the mstak with my second kiss.. i waste dit on a guy who liked me, but i didnt really like him. So here comes the choice.. I could live a typical teenage life from now on, start dating..and so on, or I could wait - be really critical, really picky.. and make sure my next kisss will be with someone I can picture sepnding the rest of my life with, so then my third kiss will be the guy i spend my life with. But that means turning down a lot of guy in the future, and what if i end up wasting it anyway, i think that's who i wanna be with..but then it goes wrong. In that case Ive wasted my third kiss AND turned down a buunch of hott, great guys for NOTHING.
So what would you do? Save this kiss even though it miht end up being pointless?
Or just start dating, having fun, having alot of romantic memories, live a typical teenage life.. and then see what happends?
what do you think?
thank youu :) (link)
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personally, i would just start dating and having fun. you don't want the whole dating/kissing process to be stressful on you to turn down a bunch of guys just for a romantic story to tell. for me, i didn't get my first kiss till last july *i just turned 17*. and it was with my best guy friend of 4 years that i had a crush on the whole time but then i moved far away. so it's a good story for me to tell, but i got all hung up on him when i left and i didn't want to be with anybody else. but then someone else came into my life, and now i have a wonderful bf and i couldn't ask for anything more. if i had kept the same mindset of *no i want spend the rest of my life with my first kiss*, then i would be missing out on something wonderful that i have right here in front of me. in the end, it will obviously be up to you what you want to happen. hope i helped =)
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Ok I know probably a lot of people ask this, but how do you make out? Like I know everyone is different and people prefer different ways, but I have only made out like twice and I was not very sure what I was doing! Don't tell me I'll know what to do when I am ready, because I am ready. I have had many more opportunities to make out, but I back down because I am scared of messing up or something you know?! And also please dont say to wait for the right person and it will be perfect. Sorry but I don't believe that. Ok thank you so much! Im 14 by the way. (link)
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just let him take the lead and follow what he does...for me it just kinda comes natural *even my first one* whatever he does, mimic it and so on. the more you think about it, the harder it is
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ok! (sorry if it's a little long!!) so there is this guy that has liked me for a little while. at first i didn't mind because he's really hott and funny, it's just that he has a really bad history [including being in jail...long story] but anyways he's always waiting for me outside of my class to walk me to my next one, he's always saying how he wants to hang out that weekend and he's always tryin to kiss me [when i don't want him to]...he hasn't been totally successfull with that, he's just gotten my forehead and neck [which i STILL don't want though]. after things i've found out, i would NEVER consider dating him and honestly i don't even really want him as a friend, even moreso when there is some other guy that i really like. if people see us in the halls together or anything, they might assume we're goin out which ruins things with this other guy, and also my reputation since this guys rep is totally smashed after last year. how do i tell him i don't wanna be more than friends??
o! and i'm a 17 female if that helps! =] (link)
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you're just gunna have to be upfront about it. you don't need to be mean about it or anything, just get your point across. let him know that you are not interested in a relationship. the longer you wait to do this, the more hurt he'll have when it DOES come
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What is the dancing in Step Up and Save the Last Dance called? I know some of it is ballet, && street/breakdancing, but is it anything else?
I want to learn how to do it, so if know any websites about it, or how to learn it, it would be much appricated. (link)
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they do have a lot of ballet/pointe in them. they also have breakdancing, hip hop, jazz type, pop, and freestyle. i've done ballet/pointe and jazz for nearly 10 years and it is amazing and tons of fun! dancing in general is awesome!!
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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.
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don't think so low of yourself! guys like a girl who is confident, but not to the point of being conceided. and not having a bf yet isn't bad. i was 16 when i got my first real bf but he broke up with me after a month. after that i just got to the point of desperation and it got me in a lot of bad situations that could have been worse. but the guy i'm dating now, was sooo worth the wait!! keep your eyes open because the right guy is out there, it's just takin him a little bit to find you!!
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this might be a weird question but does anyone have a catchy myspace headline that has something to do with a guy who'll never see you as more than just a friends?!?! (link)
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i've always liked this one
"what happens when he's your prince charming, but you're not his cinderella?"
these 2 are good too
"you've got me falling head over heels and i can't even get you to stumble"
"if you make me fall, the least you could do is catch me"
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So it turned out that I wasn't ready to kiss him. So I didn't. Will there ever be another chance?
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girl, there will be PLENTY of chances. if the guy really likes you, then he'll keep trying...don't ever do something if you're not ready for it *even if it's only a kiss* and he should be understandable of your decision
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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.
i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.
i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?
any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.
thanx in advance :) (link)
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sometimes guys can be intimidated. a lot of guys seem to go for the girls that throw themselves out there because they know for a fact they can have them, its the pretty ones with sweet personalities that they fear rejection from. another thing is, if there is a gorgeous sweet girl, guys automatically assume that the girl already has a bf and that they should keep their distance. i've had guys talk to be and my best friend and we mention somethin about bein single and they'd be like "you're single??! i coulda sworn ya'll had bfs that why we never really talked to you" guys are funny creatures lol
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I like this boy.
I allways have.
I toke a risk just by sitting by him in class b/c I was new to that class and I got to choose who I was gonna sit by. at first I was neveros so I sat next to the girl who was like two seats away. and then the next day, Her back-pack was there so I sat by him he asked "what are you doiong?" and i said sitting here b/c that girl has her bag there. that was a good excuss. then we started talking like crazy about everything and the other kool thing was my BFF was right accross from me. and on one a assignment we had to choose a partner a diffrent gender. he choose me right away. Now I am homschooled. when my crush found out my BFF said he seemed really sad and whatev. and I went through all this planning 2 get his number. Then on the same day my BFF was going 2 get it 4 me, he asked her "So does LAnie call you alot?" and my BFF said "Not alot but we call 2 say hi" and he asked "So can I have her number?" and my bff said yea. and she gave it 2 him! and he called. he allways askes when r u comming back 2 school? and not very often but at rare time's he's like so do you like anyone? and if I have a party and I say guy name's he's like "who's he?" for each guy. and once i was going out with somone and my crush found out. and he told me he has a girlfriend. and I'm like ok... then I broke up with him and my crush is like me and my g/f broke up she moved away. and Im like ok w/e.recently he asked me if I liked anyone I said idk, then I asked him and he said no. but i dont know if he's telling the truth.....
does he like me??? (link)
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it sooo sounds like he is into you!! a while back when i liked this guy he used to call me up and stuff and he'd be like "so...who do you like?" and i'd just be like "eh just some boy...who do YOU like?" and he'd be like "o just some girl". it's kinda a way of hinting without giving TOO much away...but in the end, we ended up together. why would a guy ask for you # and call you if he didn't like in some way?? in my opinion, he does
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heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
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girl, i've been there and done that. you're 13 and have so much to look forward to. you don't want to stay connected to a guy who lives far away and miss out on great guys who are right there with you. especially if you KNOW that you won't see eachother for a while. nothing says you can't stay friends and the next time you see eachother if you're both single it can turn into more again.
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