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I am an 8th grader going into high school next year. I keep hearing about how the seniors always pick on the freshman and I don't want to get beat up! What should I do to stay away from the seniors? I'm 14/female if that makes any difference. (link)
Normally, seniors really don't pick on the freshman, you can't even really tell. Your school might be dif. but, I suggest just staying out of their way and not acting dumb or freshman like around them. Hope everything goes well next year. (p.s. the chances are less if you are a girl).


Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
Maybe the problem in the past is that you didn't know how to trust them so you only wanted a guy worth it. It seems to me that you have said this guy is def. worth it! Getting hurt is a part of life and love, it never feels great, but you never know, like you say there could be this great love experience waiting for you. Hope I've helped.


ok well i really like this guy. i have liked him forever. we've even gone out b4 but things like happened and yeah... anyways the only thing wrong w/ this perfect guy is that hes well... kind of a loser. hes like weird and... well a dork. i dont have a problem w/ this generally but he acts all stupid and shit when i kno hes really not. and hes so shy that if he gets intimidated he acts likea moron. what do i do?! (link)
You should confront him of his problem. After that, you should warn him of when he is doing it. Make sure to give him his good side too (like you mentioned he's not stupid and stuff like that). Hope I've helped you out at least a little.


I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression! (link)
You should try to make new friends, there are probably a whole bunch of people you don't know at your school. If your fed up with everybody, try going somewere like a skating rink or something were other people that aren't from your school hang out. I'm really happy for you and your boyfriend, however, I know no matter what, friends are always nice to have. I hope you get the new friends that you need and deserve. Hope I've helped out a little.


my friend who lives far away from me is cominf to visit me foR A little while and i am worried that she will start liking the guy i like too,and that he will like her back what should i do?? (link)
If your that worried that she will pick up on your guy, then don't introduce them. If you don't want to do that, then tell her how much he means to you and how pissed you would be if anything got in the way, hopefuly, she'll get the hint! Hope I've helped you out a little.


ok there is this kid that like really really really likes me. like im not even joking. and we went out but i decided things had changed between us so we broke up. well he still wont leave me alone he always tells me he misses me and it kills him that he cant hold me and shit. and i dont know what to say i dont miss him liek that i dont feel that strongly about him and im starting to like another guy. so should i just deal w/ this kid or tell him to back off?? (link)
I know exactly how you feel. I hate when guys get all stalker-ish, especially when you have no feelings for them. I say tell him to back off because oviously if there is something wrong with him that he can't see that he's making you uncomfortable, then he needs to know to back off. Hope I've helped a little.


this is a poem I wrote and i wanted to get feed back from peopel i dont know please tell me wat you trully think about it and you may not use it unless you give Ruperts_gurl credit thanx :

Sucked you up
I sucked you up
into a world of heart ache and pain
i told you what you wanted to hear
things i took for granted
I fooled you and myself
into believing i was good
good and caring enough
for a healthy relationship
you believed i cared
and i did until
i realized that i corrupted you
i sucked you up
into my drama queen world
i brought you into the prison of my life
i watch your beautiful tears
stream down your face
as i walk away forever
i love you
but i am spitting you out
so i dont hurt you any more

(link)
I love your poem and I think you have great talent. You should send it to poetry.com I have a really sucky one in there (emily willcox). Hope I've helped some.


Not enough questions people!! (link)
Thank you!! I mean either people are putting poems or their putting dumb stuff (some of them are good) but c'mon people we need stuff to answer!!


Is it just me or does it seem like there arent enough questions lol cuz i check back sometimes and there are never any new questions.. im bAhAmAmA0250 if anybody was wondering but i was wondering if it was just me and emily. (link)
I know!! People don't put enough questions anymore.


ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
I say just go for it. If your afraid of comitment, all the more reason to challenge yourself. You can't live every minute in fear because what you have done in the past. If you still like this guy, then don't hold back. Hope I've helped some.


ok what is the in color for hair? blonde or brown ? i am a blonde right now but it is a died blonde some ppl like it and some dont i think i look a little better as a blonde but i dont know cuz i did have brown hair with blonde highlights but i have blue eyes and i think the blonde brings them out more but i just want to know what is the in color for hair? (link)
Blonde is in usually for the summer. Try putting lemon juice on your roots to make them lighten in the sun. Hope it helps.


How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do. (link)
Try talking to him. Your probably like this because you are scared of commitment. If things go well in the future as friends, then maybe you should think about going furthur in your relationship. Whatever you do, take it slow. Hope I helped some.


I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused. (link)
If you loved him and you were completely ready when you had sex then you shouldn't regret it. He might be dating another girl for the rebound. Whatever he's doing, you shouldn't regret the past, you should look forward to the future.


how do you know that your really in love? and how do you know its love when you find someone and tell them you love them? (link)
Trust me you will know when you are in love. You will think about them before you go to sleep, dream about them, wake up thinking about them, think about them all day, ...... you get the point. As far as telling them, let your heart guide you (but not lead you). Hope I helped some.


ok first off, im kind of pale and white and i have ALOT of freckles....is their anyway to like make them go away? or tan fast? bc when i tan i dont really tan i burn n peal and its nasty and all my friends are like wow you need to get a tan..or dang you are so white!! what do i say when they say this and how can i tan to make my freckles like blend in?? (link)
If you want to get a fast tan, then try going and getting a spray on tan. If you don't want to do that, then I suggest a self tanner that you can buy in stores. As far as freckles go, I say don't cover them up, I mean look at Lindsey Lohan, she's made a positive look for her pale skin and freakles. But, I understand the need to blend in with the crowd. Try covering them up with a dark make-up. Hope I helped a little.


ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that? (link)
It's totally normal to check out the menu lol.


i really wanna be popular is there ne 1 out there who is popular who could help me become popular (link)
Do you really want to be popular, just about all the popular girls out there are mean! (but I do admit not all of them) If you really do want to be popular, then try to stay up on the latest trends, and try to make a bit of an idividuall difference in your clothing and stuff (but carefull not to go overboard) After that try getting the other popular people to like you. Maybe even try out for a sport or cheerleading. Hope I helped some.


i have already picked my kids names but my mates keep copying them, then wen we fall out(which we do alot) they take the piss out of them. honestly plz tell me wot u think of them

holly
alyssa
piper
wyatt (link)
I like them!


i am going on holiday through the summer and im due on my period and i cant wear tampons wot can i do plz help (link)
If your worried about bleeding in the pool, don't. You not only don't bleed as much in water but, no one will notice. As far as the whole tampon thing goes, then just wear pads. I hope I have helped you some.


im 14 and i really want to have a baby. every where i look all i can see is babys. i no im to young but can ne 1 help me plz (link)
Try baby sitting for your neighbors. Then if you still want a baby, then look into your family adopting a child. Hope it helped




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