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HeY!*!* feel free to ask me anything, i am sometimes really stupid but i can be incredibly serious if need be and i love helping people with the stuff that goes on in their lives!!

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i'm a part of this group of friends who i love so much. but the problem is that they only hang out with me because my parents are the only ones who will take them around. at least that what i think. right now they're all hanging out together and left me out of it. what should i do?

well i think you shoul confront them about it and tell them how you feel, they probably dont know how much this bothers you. If they still leave you out or you feel like they still only want to hang out with you because of your parents driving them around then i would say you should maybe try and find new friends even though that may be hard for you....

good luck.... i hope i helped!!!!!
-Sara

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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

ok if your so called friend wants to treat you that way then she's not really your friend at all.... even if you do like her

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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to...

it kind of depends on how old you are.... if your 16 or older your boyfriend probably wants to go further in the relationship but doesnt know where to start and touching your boobs was probably going out on a limb and he obviously relized his mistake and you should definitely forgive him

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ok so i'm 14 and haven't been on a real date...or been kissed. i'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. what should I do?

ok dont worry.... there is nothing wrong with you .... the girls who have already been kissed will start to get really bored with it when you are just starting and it's all new.... just sit down and watch never been kissed.... good movie (by the way i'm 15 and never been kissed and i'm single but i'm loving it because single life is the way to go)

hope this will help raise your spirits and your hopes!!!

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how is a good, healthy, and quick way to lose weight?...like 20 pounds or so? (not atkins)(or Jenny Craig)

the usual eating healthy and excercizing when you have time, instead of watching tv just jog or if you have to watch a tv programt then do crunches during t or on comercials

good luck!!!!!

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is 12 too young to wear thongs?

ok at 12 what's the point of wearing a thong? it's not like youre going to go out and show them off. (at least i hope not) i mean i dont think you have a reason to unless you have a certain outfit that youre embarassed because t shows underwear lines then i'd say that yeah i guess you could wear them but i think it's too young to even worry about underwear lines

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yeah am 5;4 abour and 120 poundsi want to weigh like 100 or 105 but the hole exercising thing is like complicating.. is there any other way i could that wouldnt be much money.. also on my hips theres like fat or w|e and i dont know how to get rid of that.. the fat on my hips is the most important to me to get rid of cuz i cant wear stuff that id like to wear because i get imbarrasessed.. soo can you please help me!!!

ok i'm about 5 7 and was about 130 lbs but that was over christmas break. i'm down to 122 lbs. and my only advice is your eating habits, i've been eating real healthy, like even just a banana for breakfast and thats it. never overeat that's the worst, if you dont stuff yourself then you souldnt gain weight. i know you probably want some easy way like a pill or something but just eat right and if you have spare time dont sit and watch tv, get up and walk or do crunches, anything to keep you active.

i hope i helped!!!!!!!!!

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Me and my family have been spliting apart this past couple months, my mom left my dad and found someone else. Im not sure how to accept this because it seems like she left my dad to be with him.but here lately my dads been tryin to but all the pressure of his on me and trying to make me feel bad about it and it works i dont know what to do about it though.

there is no way your parents problems are your fault, just try and always remember that. think to yourself what did you do anyway? This whole thing is your parents fault they probably would have split up whether you were there or not. Just hope that things will work out fo them in the end. By the way, did you tell your mom how you feel about your dad putting pressure on you or does she even know? Maybe you should talk to her.

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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?

you dont need to just drop her as a friend, if she doesnt want to hang out with you then dont push it but if she needs you to be there in a time of trouble then i would be there for her you know always be a good friend even if she isnt that great to you

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My friend and I are starting a band, and are trying to get a record deal. The probem is she wants to be a singer. But she's really bad and I'm great{that's what everyone tells me}. And I write all the songs! How should I tell her I'm the lead singer and that I need her to play an instrument instead?

if you are able get a tape recording of her singing and have her listen to it. try and break it to her really gently, tell her shes an ok singer and ask her what she think would be best for the band.

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Im 13/f. I went out with this guy last summer but then we broke up. Recently I think that i made a mistake by breaking up with him. And i do want to go back out with him but he has a girlfriend now, but he told one of my friends that he likes me. What should I do?! Should I tell him how I feel? plz help!

leave him alone for a while, just because you made a mistake doesnt mean you should hurt his current girlfriend. If he really does like then he will end up dumping her sooner or later. If you really like him then you should be able to wait for him.

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My boyfriend and I are always fighting about the same old stuff ... we made an agreement in the beginning of our relationship that he would give up smoking and I would give up using drugs! The only time I have ever taken drugs is when he has consented and used with me !!! Yet he has difficulty giving up smoking especially when he has had something to drink ... am I being irrational or is he just being unfair saying that smoking is more difficult to give up than drugs ??????????????

ok I think if you are not a big enough reason to give up smoking and he is not a big enough reason to completely give up drugs then you dont belong together.

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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿

are you positive he likes someone else? If you are then you should definitely dump him.

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