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20/f

Okay so i work at a drugstore, in the front of the store, and we just got a new pharmacy intern a week ago. I swear that he is the most gorgeous guy I have ever seen..he makes me melt when I see him and gives me serious butterflies, kind of like a middle school crush. The issue is that hes very quiet and shy and I have a social anxiety disorder so us ever speaking at all to eachother isnt looking promising. Me approaching him is never going to happen no matter how bad I would like to due to my anxiety. So my questions are, how would I even know if he's interested? especially if he's shy..and how do I get him to notice me? I usually have no problem with guys but he's different, he's very very intimidating.
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Melissa is right, take any chance you can to talk to him and then he won't seem so intimidating, but at the same time, he'll be noticing you and hopefully he'll take an interest, good luck :) xx


The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'( (link)
You HAVE to tell him how much this move will hurt you. Tell him he's not just your boyfriend, hes you best friend! But sometimes if you love someone you have to let them go. Dumping this on him will make you feel better but he will be in a worse situation then before. Im sure he knows he'll be hurting you and if he puts his career first he's just looking out for himself. you'll move and find someone else, but if you love him you have to set him free, good luck :) xx


In the when they woke up in that strange hotel , the monkey.& other guy saw & tasted wat they thought was a.mushroom. Was it mr chows penis or nipple ? (link)
it was cows penis :O


I feel like "Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?" is grade school. When you're an adult how do you know?

I've been talking and seeing this guy for a couple months now and I don't really know how to bring it up. I'm ready for a relationship with him but is he? I don't want to seem like I'm rushing him into it or if he even wants one period. (link)
I know exactly how you feel. these days its too old fashioned to ask him out on a date, so ask him if he wants to go for a drink sometime, or meet up one weekend. Then see if he arranges anything with you after that if he does he's clearly that interested. If he wants to see you he'll make it happen. after a while ask if he wants to start 'seeing' you this prettuy much means carrying on going out and it may lead to going out, but it won't mean he's under pressure and I doubt he'd say no to that, good luck :) xx


My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now, and I am sixteen, and he is eighteen. He is going to the Navy in December, but he says that if we last until I am eighteen, he wants to marry me. He seems really serious about it, and it's not like I'm afraid of committment, but I kinda wonder...

He is extremely mature and when he says something, he means it. I'm not worried about him changing his mind, but should I be cautious with this relationship if he brings it up this early? Or is it really serious?

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oh. don't worry he probably just wants to show you that your relationship could have a happy and healthy future and hes not just been a dick messing you around. This is sweet and should be taken as much. If he did unlikely ask your to marry him you'd simply sit him down and explain that your just not ready, and its not a convinient time for you to be thinking about this OR getting that serious, good luck :) xx


my soon to be husband moved my daughter and me into his house this past january its been real nice up untill lately his brother lives there also and another room mate well his 40 year old brother doesnt pay rent or pay bills or even buy food for the house he lops around doing nothing at all sleeps all day and up all night. He just recently started being smart towards my family and my daughter by the way she sleeps in the den he has his own room she is 14 and he doesnt give her no privtecy last night i went to cook and he through out all the forks and spoons that i use to cook with . how can i get this loser to leave i have told my boyfriend and he just feels sorry for this bs of a what he thinks is a man i want him to leave i pay the bills and buy food he doesnt do nothing what can i do to get him out ? (link)
You should tell your husband, that living there with his brother is NOT the family home that you wanted and it in no way suitable for you or your child which sadly in your eyes must come first. Explain that you don't want him to choose between you and his brother but he either has to leave, or you move out with your daughter has to be the only option. The other thing you could do is comprimise and say to yoyur husband, if your brother begins to pay rent, lets your daughter have that room for privacy,let his brother have the den and make sure his brother starts living a more calm life. Tell your husband hes in charge so its up to him what yo do but because you rightly put yourself and daughter first its you or his brother, good luck :) xx


I need to find s relatively painless way to commit suicide. Will an overdose of sleeping pills work? (link)
there is no painless way to commit suicide. You sit for hours in agony while other watch you die that is the most likely out come and chances are you have an even chance of making it or not,


my sister need ideas for our talent show
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magician, singer, rollerskating, quick change act, impressions, dancer, watch britains got talent for more ideas but dancing should bag her the gold :)


Yea, it's kind of stupid to some people to do a school research paper on vampires, but I'm curious about all the legends and stuff. Are there any sites out there that might provide me with information? It can't be wikipedia. It can be a scientific site, a religious one, or maybe even one about how people actually think they're real and whatnot. I've searched on google, but I keep getting roleplaying sites and I don't think that's going to help me with my paper... (link)
try ask jeeves.co.uk, and just keep searching really it may take a while but the site you need will come up


my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "

do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
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i was put in the same position at age 15, DO NOT DO IT! he wants them to show his friends and this will get you a reutation as a slag. Boys are dirty, but they gossip and enjoy causing trouble sometimes


20/f. Ok, I'll start off by saying that I'm VERY picky. I think it's even a miracle that I like someone because I never saw myself falling again. So, this guy is like my dream boy. He treats me really nice, we have a lot in common, he's very clean cut. He's SUPER cute! He always listens to me. Just perfect! My one major turn off is earrings. He doesn't wear any. That's the only thing that REALLY turns me off. So, I found him on facebook and some of his pictures he has earrings. yikes! But, I don't want to let him go because he's a good catch. He's really sweet. And he can take the earrings off. lol. I mean, he doesn't wear them to school or anything. I'm just concerned he's gonna wear them on our first date. Any suggestions? Should I talk to him about it? I don't want him to know I found him on facebook though. When I get to know him better, if this goes somewhere, I'll express that concern. But, how can I express it at this point in a way that seems normal and nice?

thanks!
:)
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Ignore his earrings and stop being so picky. Just bring up a convo about what turns either of you off a person and add the fact that you dislike earrings in there, if he says oh i dont you like mine say, not really but its your only flaw haha


i am 13 and i just started cutting myself on my wrist i mean they arent deep but there still cuts idk what to do bc it feels so good but i really want to stop i look at the cuts and i do it again i use bobby pins what should i do i told my mom and dad anad there getting me help but i dont think thats going to help ill still do it what should i do ?
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well myabe you should speak to a friend, surley theres a reason as to why you'd want to hurt yourself. It shouldnt feel good, it feels god because you hate yourself and your suceeding in punishing yourself for it


what are things i should write on my babysitting fyler?
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write
-days you can work
-charges
-ages of the child you shall babysit
-a contact number
-your age and area your able to work in


my boyfriend dosn't talk to me and I don't know if i've done something to piss him off or if he just dosn't want to date me anymore. I don't know what we are? what should I do? (link)
you need to talk about your relationship, tell him he's distant ask if he is mad or frustrated with you and if he is question him about it. When your in a relationship communication is important and if he giving up so easily and not trying this is not a good relationship you will benefit from.


well i was with boyfriend a year and almost 4 months a week ago he broke it off saying he stopped loving me long time ago...I got hit by a car on my way too go see him was crossing street too catch bus... he came.. at hospital.. too see him.. didn't really see him after he would say he worked a lot...he waited 4 months after accident too tell me.. he stopped caring ...but he still used too be really caring two months before even a month before.. then he said well i got him to admit that he as speaking too someone else...i cant stand the idea of him... being with someone else i really really love him with all my heart..he blamed me saying everything happened too too fast but i mean he never say stop.. lets take it slow..he begged me too meet his parents i finally did.. his whole family.. the second he got this new job where he worked a lot.. he stopped caring for me literally... i don't get it.. it hurts so bad..i emailed him a poem... no response hurt even more.. i really really want him.. back.. i don't get.. it .. I'm so sad.. crying not eating.. i feel like my whole world.. id don the drain... He said he was not happy these past 4 months i was in bed rest i needed him so much too be at my side.. he just stopped caring.. i don't get it..i love him so much...i wish there was a way.. he came back and said.. everything well be ok.. its better.. (link)
Your problem is that your used to have him there to talk to when the chips are down and you must get over that. Before you had a guy I bet you played the field and had fun on your own with mates, without a guy. Honestly its not the boy your missing its having a boy and to be honest he's just the easiest thing to reach out for at the moment. I feel this way a lot when I like someone, you will get over it and go out an find another guy who likes you even more, will NEVER get bored of you and he'll fill the space a millions times more than the first guy ever could X promise good luck :)


Ive had my hair dark brown for a year now, but im ready to go lighter again. I dont want to go totally blonde over night, so I was curious as to how I should go about gradually lightening my hair. I need things I can do myself, because I dont have the money to go to the salon often. Ive tried sun in / lemon juice, didnt work. & everythin ammonia-free please :)
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theres a stripper you can use to take the sting out of your colour, do this and it will go dim.Use homecolour kits about £5.00 each. Then change to a red, maybe even a tint it will be okay. Then go to a light or meduim brown and work your way down your hair will adjust and not be over powered with the bleach of immediate blonde.


Well i'm 21 f and my bf(24)and i may be expecting. i like the idea as does he. so having a baby isn't really my problem telling our parents is. we haven't been a couple too long like a year. but we were friends before that for a year and we are plannning to get married. but my family is old fashioned and will be unhappy about a baby witch is stressing me out. and his parents still like and love his ex so they won't be pleased either. i'm really stressed and my bf tells me to calm down since i'm only 2 weeks late he says we should be sure before we stress the situation. can anyone offer some words of wisdom or give me some way to tell my parents and his that won't blow up in my face thank you (link)
The others are right make sure to take at least 2 pregnancy tests to make sure and if there is a baby it'll only be about 2 weeks old. Tell you parents this wasn't planned but it's what you want. If your parents are old fashioned get your partner to talk to your dad say he was going to ask his permission first but rushed ahead a bit or something. Maybe it'd keep everyone sweet if you got married before you had the baby. But to be honest don't worry so much about what they think. If your always trying to keep them sweet. Your first baby and your wedding day won't be about you and what you want but them and what they think trust me they'll come around. Your their daughter and they'll love you and accept you no matter what. Hey they might even be thrilled to have granchild.


HI all I am a student of University. I have to do my projects till the 20th of this month but I do not have not enough time to write the project. I have some last year’s project information in printed form which I can use. Can anyone tell me how can I modify printed information quickly so that I can make my project report on time? Thanks in advance. (link)
try and note it down in bullet points then copy it up on the computer. Always use the computer its much faster you could always get a scanner, scan it and then change it and reuse the same type of stuff.


19/f so i like getting smoothies from smoothie king, and there's this guy that works there and i thought he was really cute.i was smiling at him when he was making my smoothie, and i started talking to him and flirting , and i was batting my eyelashes, and i asked his name what his shirt said because it said i love ccs, and said that's where he's from, and i was like which is?? and he told me and then i asked him his name, and he said Carlos, and he was like why are you asking me what my name is? i said wow im sorry i asked. and it was really cute. the next day at school he saw me and i was like you go here and he started laughing at me and was like yes i go here otherwise i wouldn't be standing here, and his friend was with him and they started making fun of me and carlos was like she's so stupid. i felt dumb but i was mad because he was soo rude to me. what's his problem? i mean who does he thinks he is? ughh u can't stand him. soo rude. (link)
sorry love you heard the saying hes mean if he likes you. He was just showing off and acting clever in front of his mates. Hes probably kinda annoyed inside but couldn't care less boys dont think that much about things like that. Just keep talking to him if hes mean be flirty mean back if he insults you or says surprisingly rude and nasty things turn them back around on him embaress and flirt with him. z good luck xx


I want to come off as both cute and sexy and was thinking of dressing like a football player with short shorts and my cleets with ribbon in my hair... Everyone here dresses slutty but I am more about the cute factor. or other suggestions would help. (link)
list of top ten cute halloween costumes.
cat
schoolgirl
nurse
cheerleader
bloodymary
angel
devil




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