I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GURL WHO IS ALWAYS LOOKING TO GIVE SOMEONE ADVICE. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE OUT WITH THEIR EVERYDAY PROBLEMS. I AM AN AQUARIUS. MY B-DAY IS FEBRUARY 4. I LIVE IN NORTH HIGHLANDS, CALIFORNIA AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM. I HAVE 3 SISTAS AND 1 BROTHER. I HAVE ONE OLDER SISTA AND SHE IS ON THIS WEBSITE AND HAS AN ADVICE COLUMN TOO! SO NO QUESTION IS TOO STUPID FOR ME TO ANSWER SO DROP ME A LINE AND ILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU OUT.XOXOXOXO
E-mail: ciaradawn@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 13
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I was always obsessed with a guy and I would always talk about him. And when my friends would talk about him, I would continue and say that i love him and all that. But he already has a girlfriend, so I dont wanna talk about him anymore. I wanna avoid talking about him when my friends are talking about him. It's really hard to change the subject when I don't know what else to talk about. So basically, all I need to know is how do I stop talking and thinking about a guy who I was obsessed with before? (link)
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PUT ALL YOUR INTEREST HELPING SOMEONE OR LIKING SOMEONE ELSE. THATS THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO FOR RIGHT NOW AT LEAST.
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How do you get rid of freckles? (link)
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OKAY WELL FIRST OF ALL U CANT GET RID OF FRECKLES BUT YOU CAN COVER THEM UP. YOU JUST NEED FOUNDATION AND COVER UP TO MATCH YOUR SKIN. THEN YOU JUST NEED TO PAT IT ON REAL GOOD.DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT LOOKS!!!
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i have been feeling bad for a while.. i think i have the disease depression... im almost 16 years old and until recently i havent told anyone except my best friend... i want to tell my mom and go to the doctor to find out for real but im scared... im afraid she wont understand or not take me seriously or get mad... some of my symptoms are: alot of insecurities with myself, feeling empty, trapped, i always wanna stay home and sleep, i hate myself, im sick of my life, and i have alot of regrets.... im not so bad that im thinking of suicide though.. i would NEVER do that.... the thing is i think i have a pretty good life and im lucky for the things i have and that makes me feel really guilty about feeling bad..... i have a good house, im healthy, i have a family who loves me, my parents are together, and i have alot of stuff but i still feel depressed....... i no there are people who have it so much worse than me and all that makes me feel so much worse about how i have been feeling.... my questions are do u think i am really depressed like.. do u think i have the disease or do u think im just a moody teenager? and do u think i should tell my mother? please please time one million answer my questions!!!! i reallyyyyyyy need help! (link)
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OKAY WELL MY ADVICE TO YOU IS YES TELL YOUR MOM THAT THIS IS THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN FEELING LATELY, IT IS ALWAYS GOOD TO GET ALL YOUR FEELINGS OUT IN THE OPEN.TRUST ME THE SOONER YOU DO IT THE FASTER YOU WILL FEEL BETTER. I THINK MAYBE SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED THAT HAS MADE YOU FEEL BAD AND MAYBE IT JUST FEELS LIKE YOU ARE ALONE TRYING TO COPE WITH IT AND IF YOU HAVE A GOOD AS LIFE AS YOU SAY YOU DO THEN TRUST ME YOU ARENT.
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ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her (link)
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WELL DONT GO THERE JUST BECAUSE SHE MIGHT BE THERE, JUST GO THERE FOR COFFEE AND MAYBE ONE DAY SHE WILL BE THERE, JUST SHOW UP OFTEN AND IF YOU KNOW HER NAME THEN ASK FOR HER IF YOU DONT KNOW HER NAME THEN JUST LIKE I SAID UNLESS SHE DOESNT WORK THERE ANYMORE THAN SHE WILL BE THERE!!!
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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks (link)
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OKAY WELL PUT LIQUID EYELINER ONLY ON THE BOTTOM PARTS OF YOUR EYES AND THEN PUT ON LIKE SOME LIGHT BLUE SPARKLY EYESHADOW AND THEN PUT ON SOME GLITTER MASCARA. THEN CURL YOU EYELASHES UPWARDS AFTER YOU PUT ON THE MASCARA. PUT ON SOME COVER UP ALL OVER YOUR FACE AND PUT ON SOME LIP GLOSS. DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES AT SCHOOL AND IF THAT DOESNT SEEM TO GO AS GOOD AS YOU LIKE IT, THEN E-MAIL ME AND I WILL GIVE YOU SOME MORE MAKE-UP TIPS THAT YOU CAN REALLY USE.
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ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!? (link)
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WELL THIS GURL SOUNDS MEAN AND IM SURE HE IS JUST KEEPING HIS OPTIONS OPEN. LIKE OKAY PUT IT THIS WAY THIS GUY THAT REALLY LIKES ME KISSED ME BUT THEN MY DAD FOUND US KISSING AND WE GOT INTO TROUBLE. WELL I KNOW HE LIKES ME BECAUSE HE ADMITED TO IT BUT WE ARE KINDA DATING OTHER PEOPLE SO THAT WHEN WE GET OLDER WE CAN GET TOGETHER SO WE ARE TRYING NOT TO GET SICK OF EACHOTHER AND JUST BEING FRIENDS FOR NOW SO THATS THE SAME WAY AS YOUR PROBLEM. JUST GO OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY FOR NOW AND SEE HOW HE REACTS. THEN IF HE ASKS YOU TO DANCE WITH HIM THEN YOU NEED TO SAY YES AND IF HE TRYS TO KISS YOU JUST DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU.DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES!!!!
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Okay well i like this cute guy funny awesome guy, but so does my best friend. Well actually i am not quite sure if she likes him.. cause the last thing i heard from her bout him is that...well lets just say she was talking really shallow bout him.. and thats the reason why she doesnt or is afraid to ever go out with him. So is the guy.. well he wasnt talking shallow but he just said he lost interest in her and he said he might like someone else... and then he asked what she said and i was like well she is kinda confused bout yall.. but idk.. i dont want to screw things up and so yea.. .then the next day he comes up to me and would you ever like me and i go yea.. and he goes do you like me.. (ah me being a f****** dumbass.... I said Yea, as a friend!!) and then he was like oh... and i felt really bad cause i was just hoping i didnt bring down his self concious bout himself....
I really really oh so very much truly like this guy.. i mean i actually have big heart feelings...and i want to tell him so bad that i like him but i dont know how.. or should i??
Cause.. 1st of all i am afraid if i tell him.. that he might not like me and theres me all over again being a big ass assumer.. ahh i really hope im not.. and also i am afraid that my friend truly does like him but just doesnt really know until she finds out that we both like each other... ya know?!?!....
I really really like him....!!!
-- So should i tell him how i feel.. or dont??--
§igned ~ConfuZed Heart (link)
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DEAR CONFUSED HEART,
OKAY THIS IS MY BEST ADVICE TO YOU. IF HE SOUNDED UPSET WHEN YOU SAID YOU LIKED HIM AS A FRIEND THAT MEANS HE WAS KINDA HOPIN THAT YOU LIKED HIM AS MORE THAN A FRIEND, SO YOU NEED TO COME FORWARD AND TELL HIM ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM. WHATS THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN? HE IS BOUND TO STILL LIKE YOU, IM SURE HE STILL DOES SO GO AHEAD AND TELL HIM AND DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES!!!!XOXOXOXO
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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿ (link)
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OKAY TAKE IT FROM ME HONEY, SHE SOMETIMES GETS THAT WAY BECAUSE SHE FEELS LIKE SHE HAS TO TAKE CONTROL AND MAYBE SHE FEELS LIKE HER FRIENDS ARE TELLING HER TO BE THAT WAY SO THAT IS HER ONLY OPTION. AS FAR AS THE THINGS SHE SAYS THEN YOU NEED TO DUMP HER IF SHE REALLY HURTS YOU BY SAYING THESE THINGS. ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE NOT TRUE! SO THE CHOICE IS YOURS DROP ME A LINE WHEN YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO AND I WILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT OKAY?XOXOXOXO
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OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.
and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.
Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!
*confused chic* (link)
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WELL IT SEEMS THAT YOU ARE REALLY IN A TIGHT SPOT. WELL MY ADVICE IS THAT YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM OR HAVE ONE OF HIS FRIENDS TALK TO HIM AND SEE IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU. IF HE DOESNT THEN THERE ARE ALWAYS OTHER PEOPLE. WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN? DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU ARE GONNA DO, MY E-MAIL IS ON MY ADVICE COLUMN!!!!!
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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort! (link)
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WELL IF HE LIKED YOU LAST YEAR, CHANCES ARE HE LIKES YOU THIS YEAR. WELL IF YOU ARE STARTING TO LIKE HIM BACK THEN YOU NEED TO ACT LIKE IT. THEN IF HE DOESNT GET THE PICTURE YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HIM. IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU BACK THEN YOU NEED TO GET OVER HIM AND GO ON. HOPE I HELPED!!!!
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my bf just recently got AIM to talk to me more since we go to diff skools...well he made a myspace (myspace.com) and on his where it says "Who Id Like To Meet" he put "A gurl with a nice body and who is not afraid to try new things" and where it says Status he put single...im soo hurt over it he sent me the link 2 it and he was like look i made a myspace...and idk if i shuld get mad @ this or birng it up? am i over exaggurating? how would i bring it up??? ugh....btw we been goin out 4 6 months and everything so far has been gr8...=\ (link)
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HECK YEAH YOU NEED TO BE MAD AT HIM. WHAT ARE U STUPID? IM SORRY BUT UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE CHEATED ON YOU NEED TO BE MAD AT HIM AND IT SOUNDED LIKE HE IS TRYING TO FIND A GURL HE CAN MESS AROUND WITH. THEN HE HAD THE NERVE TO SEND IT TO YOU, WHAT AN INCONSIDERATE JERK!!!
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month almost 2 and he doesnt talk that much(hes really really shy.)Well when we do talk we end up getting into fights.Im in a fight now with him and havent tlked to him since Friday.He told my friend online that I tell him all the time I dont love him and I dont care and it hurtz him...the problem iz I NEVER EVER SAY THAT 2 HIM becuz I love him ALOT and he sayz he luvs me 2 but I think he thinks I dont love him even tho i tell him all the time I do.I dont understand whats happening between us we were REALLI GOOD 2 GETHER in the beginning but then it just changed I guess u could say. Im totally confused and I kno I love him but I'm thinking about breakin up with him. My guy friend told me he realli likez me and haz 4 a while and I had feelings for him beofre my boyfriend but pushed them aside when my boyfriend came into the picture.What should I do??????? Im 15/f if it helpz
Sry itz so long (link)
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Gurl you need to break up with him because oviously he wants people to feel sorry for him those kinda guys are not worth it so dump hijm and go out with the other guy. Seriously I think that he has feelings for your friend that he has been talking to.
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How long does an akle sprain usually take to go away, and is it smart to be running track right after it? (link)
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NO!!!! dont run track because it will hurt worse and trust me it does not feel good at all. So yeah and it doesnt take that long to go away. It all depends on how bad the sprain is.
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theres this one kid on my bus and hes mexican. i have nothing agains mexicans but he is really annoying. but i feel bad 4 him kas he gets harrasses so bad on the bus. every one makes fun of him. i laugh at it sometimes because it is a little funny but i still feel bad. what can i do to stop them frim makin fun of him?
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Well shame on you for laughing at something like that! Just because he is mexican doesnt mean other people have the right to pick on him! Is it because he is mexican or something else. He just needs a friend when he acts annoying he is trying to make friend the only way he knows how so u need to be nice to him. I know that sometimes it is very hard to be friends with someone u get annoyed by but just try and u will be amazed at the difference you've made!!! XOXOXO
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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate! (link)
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You need to ask ur best friend what happened between them and if she doesnt tell you or even if she does u still need to ask ur ex. Then if he gives u a really stupid reason then u need to dump him. Because that spells trouble when ur best friend and ur boyfriend dont like eachother. Its either they have been doing stuff behind ur back or he just thinks u are stuck on him and will chose him over ur friends. So either way he is really no good!Hope I helped!XOXOXO
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theres this one guy who goes to my skewl and sits right in front of me in one of my classes.. he is soo adorable but i like him mostly cuz his personality u kno? but i flirt wit him alot and he does the same... but i dont think he likes me the way i like him. whenever i see him talk to other girls or like flirt wit otha girls in the class i get really mad. not just at him but mostly at myself fur likin him and not sayin anything. he doesnt realize how much he hurts inside tho.. what should i do? (link)
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OKAY LOOK GURL YOU NEED TO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND IF HE DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY THEN OH WELL WHO CARES AT LEAST YOU GUYS WILL KNOW WHAT EACHOTHER IS FEELING SO JUST TELL HIM AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS ILL BET YOU HE WILL SAY THE SAME TH8ING IF HE REALLY FLIRTS WITH YOU THE WAY YOU SAY HE DOES!!XOXOXO DROP ME A LINE WHEN YOU TELL HIM AND TELL ME HOW IT WENT!!!!
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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
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okay hey person, i know this website that you can do that!The website is called ALTAVISTA BABEL/FISH or you can just type in french translator and what you do is you type in a sentence in one language and then you hit the languages you are dealing with like if you were translating french to english then that is what you would click on and then you click translate when you are done typing something to translate!Drop me a line because i do it all the time with spanish so yeah!!!
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ok well im going to lucnh with a boy today idont kno wut to talk to him about plz give me alotta ideas i dont wanna bore him!! hes sweet cute and popular!! plz help ill rate a 5!
signed- confused (link)
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Talk about guy stuff. Make it seem like your interested in guy stuff but at the same time talk about girly stuff too!!! hOWEVER DONT BE WHINY!!!It always gives them the wrong impression and then they never really want to be around you as much. Oh yeah and talk about new movies that you have seen recently or want to go see and if he is interested in you then he will probably ask you out to go see that movie. Who knows!!! Write me to tell me how it goes!!!!BYE!!!XOXO
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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him? (link)
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Well you need to talk to him and just let him know that you really do love him. If he doesnt believe you, then I guess he really isnt worth it. You see I am going through the same exact thing right now and it really sucks and even I needed advice for that and everyone tells me to do the same exact thing for my boyfriend. Really though I even think the same thing as everyone else if they dont believe you then they are not worthit and I guess they never liked you at all!!!!!I am sorry this is happening to you too but I hope i helped!!!XOXO
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okay there is this girl named Tessie and she is supposedly one of my best friends! well everytime I try to plan something with tessie she always says that she can't do and always seems to have an excuse! what should i do? is she really my friend? she seems to think we are but i don't believe that she is telling me the truth!! i think she is using me What is ur opinion on this?? (link)
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Okay I am personally giving you my opinion and I think that she doesnt want to be seen in public with you so she makes everything up and gets herself out of it but then on the other hand she feels like she has to keep being friends with you so if she ever needs anything she can always use you for it. Im sorry thats just the way it sounds to me!!!!!!
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