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there really isn't much you can say to shock me. i've seen and heard a lot, so if you need help, don't be afraid to ask anything. i'm amazing at answering anything to do with sex.. so ask away =)

oh and yes.. that is ME in the picture. it's my halloween costume: a mile high captain!

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what are some things around the house to help prevent underarm sweating? like baby powder? that kinda stuff

i need to know QUICKLY

thanks sooo much

certain-dri, get it at a drugstore. you put it on before you go to bed and it closes your underarm pores so you don't sweat. don't use it right after shaving though or it will itch like hell.

I have a coldsore/zit that appears every now and then at the edgge of my upper lip. I applied some acne treatment like usual, but instead of just applying it on the spot, I applied it all along my entire upper lip. Now my entire upper lip burns as if there's more than just more zit. But I don't see any except that one. Should I be worried?

You are really only supposed to apply heavy duty spot treatment ON the spot, so that may be why. Your skin is probably just really irritated, so don't use that product on it anymore.

15/f. A couple of questions about birth control pills:

- Which ones work the best?

- Which have the least side effects? I would like to avoid gaining weight if possible.

- About how much does it cost?

- Is a prescription required?

- If it is, is my doctor required to keep it a secret or can he tell my parents? (If he can, he probably will.)

i'm on yasmin, and i absolutely love it! you take the yellow pills for 3 weeks, then sugar pills for the week you're supposed to get your period. it's really not supposed to make you gain weight, i noticed that right after i started taking it, i grew almost two cup sizes, but that could be totally unrelated.

with my insurance, it only costs around 10$, but with my mom's insurance, it's 30$.

prescription is required.

he should be required to keep it a secret, depending on the state you live in. here's a website.. just select the state you live in and it should give you a summary of your medical privacy laws! hope i helped! =]

http://www.healthprivacy.org/info-url_nocat2304/info-url_nocat_search.htm

My mother just ordered ProActiv Solution for me and i want to know approximately how long it will take to clear up my minimal acne. I only weant answers from people who have tried it or who have a friend who has tried it. I hear it's fast and works miracles, but school starts in 4 weeks and i need to clear up my acne!

i actually saw a difference in 3 days, but that's just me. it works great. just make sure that you use it twice a day, and don't miss doing it.

Does anyone have any like, home remedy's for pimples to go away faster, and prevent future ones...
Like, hommade stuff or whatever. I already use proactive. I heard toothpaste works and i use that but i want something better. So does anyone have any tricks? Anything helps thanks.

if you have any, put head and shoulders shampoo on your pimples. it sounds wierd, but it works.

this is a strange question but when i have sex my leg twitches uncontrolably. i dont know if its from nerves although im not nervous because im married and wouldn't mind another child or if its just from the pleasure. does this or anything like this happen to anyone else? by the way im a 28/f

your leg could be twitching from a contraction from an orgasm. when you orgasm, your muscles contract so maybe that's the problem :)

so.. im 18. sexually active with my boyfriend of 8 months. we have sex ALOT and ive faked an orgasm every single time. i can make myself cum when i masterbate, but only on my clit, not vaginal. is it me, or is it always hard to get an orgasm from your g spot? and is it supposed to feel the same as when you get one from your clit alone? thanks

i'm SO sorry that it's taken me forever to answer this!!!!! i've been on vacation and not able to get onto a computer. anyways, some women struggle to reach a g-spot orgasm. if you play around with positions, you might be able to get one

you can make yourself have an orgasm, so try and show your boyfriend EXACTLY what to do. or, just get on top, ride, and go at it yourself. trust me, it makes your partner flip. of course that would just be an orgasm from your clit.

the best advice that i can give you is just to try to completely free your mind of absolutely everything that is bugging you, and try some new positions that hit the spot. and a g-spot orgasm is usually the best and most overwhelming orgasm, so i hope you get to have one! :)

http://www.master-your-g-spot.com/g_spot_positions.html

http://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html

http://www.infosex.com/g-spot.htm

feel free to ask anything else !!

Can i use normal toothpaste on clit, vagina and anus of my girlfriend? Whether it harms?

first off, why in the world would you want to??? it would probably burn to be put in those areas, so i wouldn't recommend that. i don't think that toothpaste would feel too great.

mk dont think im like weird or anything..but i sweat. ALOT i dunno what to do like just at school and stuff ill like sweat under my armpits for no reason at all! i tried like deoderant called certain dry and let me tell you, IT DOES NOT WORK FOR ME!!! should i like get perscription or what??? please and thank yous!!

Certain Dry is really effective, so you might not be using it right. You put it on at night, before you go to bed so that it has time to close your pores. If you use it correctly and it's still not working, it could be hyperhidrosis which causes excessive sweating. Try and googling that, and if the some of the symptoms fit, go see the doctor. Usually what they give you is just a stronger form of Certain Dry

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i am thinking about buying this cami from american eagle (in PINK). i am going for a casual look. what type of pants/accessories should i wear with it? khakis? jeans? capris? and should i wear a cardigan over it?

from AE they have the parkside short, that would look adorable with it in a white or light beige color. or you can cover up your legs a bit more with white or light beige capris. don't wear a cardigan with it, it was meant to be by itself! wear flip flops and try an ankle bracelet for a super cute casual look :)

I never had a girlfriend so into getting in my pants like the one I have now. She really enjoys playing with my penis , which is fine by me !!! Is she just weird or do some girls just really like to play more then others?

some girls do really like to play more than others. all girls have different sex drives, so the ones with higher ones are hornier. that means they'll love getting to play with you. i personally have a extremely high sex drive, and it's hard to please. just make sure that you give her everything that she wants, and if she says she gets off by playing with you, she's not lying. i hate to be touched, and would rather perform acts on my significant other. she sounds exactly like me! which means she's a tiny bit difficult. so if you want anymore help, feel free to ask me! just make sure you tell me that you asked this question :)

A few of my friends and I sometimes play TRUTH OR DARE with each other. Usually there are 2 or 3 girls and at least 2 guys in the group when we play. We never make the dares something that involves doing anything that involes doing something outside our group. Daring someone to go outside naked or things like that is something we don't do. Pretty much anything else goes as long as we keep it between us. I'm 15 and male btw and I was looking for some juicy dares I can have people do. Do you have any ideas? Just so you have an idea about how far the dares we come up with go I'll give you an example of the worst thing I had to do.

I was dared to make myself hard so one of the girls could measure me. Also just for kicks I want to know the type of dares you would make people do if you were playing in our game as well as what you think i should dare others to do.

Thanx

Hmm.. sexual truth or dare. fun :)

Dare one of the girls to sit completely naked (or just with her bra off) for one full minute. That way everyone can get a great view!

If you're comfortable enough with each other, feel one of the girls up, or lick lemon juice/salt/sugar off of her navel area or from her cleavage. It's been a while since i've played any truth or dare so bare with me i'm a little rusty!
Have a girl eat a banana out of your pants. My friend suggested this one :)
Give an underwear fashion show.
Give a show and strip down to your birthday suit.
Trade pants with person of your choice - if they don't fit go without pants for thee remainder of the game.
Kiss the person closest in age to you.
French-Kiss for a 10-second count.

If you want any other sexual questions solved, you know where to find me! ;)

My dog.. how can I get him to "take it like a man" ?

My cat was good for a while but i think dogs are better

what is you opinion

and when my dog fucks my girlfriend should i put a condom on it i dont want her to have puppies

hey nick, GET A LIFE! :)

- You should buy your dog a nice collar, and maybe a new coat. My dog has a white bath robe for after his bath.

- Cats are picky. Dogs are much better.

- Yes, always practice safe sex, even with other species.

I really enjoy reading your column. Your comments on SEX questions are so straight forward and honest. Your a younger , much sexier version of Dr. Ruth. I was wondering if you knew of any other columnists on this site that showed even a little of the enthusiasm that you do in their answers to SEX questions.

well thanks for the lovely compliments!

just check my favorite columnists, they are all extremely straight forward about everything. :)

I am in a relationship and my boyfriend and I have agree that it's time to have sex and am not too sure about grooming so I was wondering if you can tell me what to do.

Well it's really whatever you prefer to do. If there is a lot of pubic hair, I suggest trimming it with scissors first. If you're happy with it trimmed short, then keep it that way. If not, then lather up with a shaving cream (or a hair conditioner) and use a new razor to get a smooth shave. Shave with the hair, not against it, or else you'll have ingrown hairs later on. If you don't like the idea of shaving, you can go to the drugstore and get a bikini wax, Nair (a dilipatory) for your bikini zone, or you can go to a professional salon and get a bikini or brazillian wax. it's up to you!

So basically i have used every acne medicine ever made...
And none of them seem to work...
Does anyone know something that will work quick...
cuz prom is next week...
And i dont want to go with pimples...

i had the same problem.. i had a bad breakout right before prom and i used proactiv and it cleared my skin up really fast! i don't think i had a single noticable pimple on prom day.

After reading through your column it looks like your pretty cool so I thought you might have a good answer for my question.

What can I do sexually that would get my girl-friend really hott?

She is 15 and i'm 16.

well thank you! it depends on how far you've gone sexually.. but if you do have sex, try rubbing her clitoris in small circles while still inside her. if you aren't having sex with her yet then you can still do this as a part of foreplay. that always gets me off! haha okay and it's great to try new sex positions. i think a personal favorite of mine would be "doggy", because it hits the g-spot which makes an awesome orgasm. try it on the floor, or for more fun for BOTH of you, in front of the bathroom sink with her right leg up and you behind her!

tell her that she has to stay still for one full minute, and not say anything, while you please her all over her body in whatever way she'd like.

also, find out what her fetishes/desires are!!!! there are so many that i can't possibly cover them right here, so find out what your girlfriend likes :) if she likes her neck kissed, then try sucking (not hard enough for a hickey) in the area below her jaw and her ear. then give her a little love bite! try teasing her when you go down on her, by running your hands or tongue on her inner thighs and licking around her hipbones (think of "cut-lines" on guys).

it's sexy when a guy wants to know exactly what gets you off, so try and ask her what new things she'd like to try, if she's had any fantasies she'd like to act out, etc. when you find out, you can come ask me again for help! have fun!

Thanks for giving me your in put regarding
"the name" . KILLER and I appreciate your advice. He would thank you himself but he's not much of a talker. ( i'm just joking , hope you don't take it the wrong way )

Seeing that you found my first question so interesting maybe you could also suggest a few names for my gf's " you know what".

haha no i didn't take your joke the wrong way! very nice choice, by the way. this website is something realllllly funny so you can go here and get a name :)

http://rumandmonkey.com/widgets/toys/namegen/1576/

and some other random names i found on the internet for naming your vagina:

pussycat
powderbox
cooter
dugout
poogie
mound of womanhood
Venus
heart
source
temple
tunnel
love chimney -- i think this one is great haha
magic cave -- same with this one!

if you have any other questions don't be afraid to ask! i love answering questions referring to sex. and don't be afraid of offending me for any reason, and definitely don't be embarrassed!

My girlfriend always refers to my penis a " the little guy ". She says things like " hows my little guy doing?" and "does the little guy wanta come out and play".I told her that i wished she didn't use the word "little ". I'm not hung like a horse but i'm not tiny either. She told me to come up with a better name and she'd use it...... got any ideas

Male 15

haha i think this is the best question i've been asked. i can imagine how degrading "little guy" can sound to you.. but i don't think she means it that way! just be happy she wants to play with the "little guy"!!

i don't really have a nickname for my boyfriend's penis because i think it's a little odd.. but here's a few suggestions:

"BIG guy" - it just sounds better than little guy.
"thug" - this came from my guy friend??
"killer" - once again from the guy friend.

Where can I find shoes that have heels, (no more then two inches.. three at the most) and tie up your ankle. I am a size 7 1/2 in womens.

i bought a black pair of heels exactly like you just described for prom from nine west. try there.

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