about

... I'm always down for a good time..
i absolutly love to have fun.
laughing is my favorite thing to do.
seeing other people laugh makes me laugh even if its not funny..

My friends are the most amazing people around they're one of a kind...
Living in the moment is def. a must.
overall i'm a pretty laid back person.. i'm up for anything.

When it comes to music.. basically i like anything that will make me get up and dance :]
dancing just makes my day..
i love dancing in the rain. And dancing in the streets.
I love thunderstorms.

summer is my ultime favorite. time to party and meet new people.
i absolutly love going on vacation especially with friends.
I love the feeling of sand in my toes.

Sometimes i say the wrong thing at the wrong time.
I'm usually pretty random with things.
Everything happens for a reason.
There is no such thing as perfect.

advice

I want to ask someone a question, like anyone, about something, but like.. i dont know who to ask.? can anyone help me out? it will be like super long. & will take you awhile to read. i gurantee it. if i include it all. but like,youd also have to be realllyy really good at answering questions like always get 5s because to me, its like really important, & its messing everything up in my life. & i just have to fix it. soo, is anyone willing to help me? or no anyone on this site who will?

I will def. read anything and help you with my best i have all 5's as my ratings so im here if you wanna send it to me!!

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How exactly do I grind? I need detailed instructions, I have no idea how.

haha im glad you asked. alright well idk i guess to sorta "practice" try just putting on some good tunes.. umm try these:

Erretime by Nelly
Goodies by Ciara
Shake by Ying Yang Twins

and try these steps:
1. try just swayin back and forith into your hips with your legs shoulder with apart
2. then bend your knees and add a little hip action to it... sorta "dip" your hips
3. sorta feel the music and make circles with just your hips now
4. just free style with only your hips

to put it all together put a guy behind you.. if your attracted to him.. usually he'll put his hands on your hips.. just sorta lock your fingers with his and just move iwth your hips up against his "area"

mainly move with the music. If this doesnt help.. try watching some music videos to some hip-hop rap songs.. like on MTV VH1 or BET (prob. best for grinding) and just work it!

let me know if it doesnt help!

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heyy i was wondering what it is. do you move your butt side to side, or do you like circle it around?
Do guys get horny from this?

Thanks Just wondering

Grinding.. hmm hard to explain but its probably the most fun thing ever.. its when a guys behind me.. and basically you just "dance" up against him. idk its not just one motion its just all with your hips moving and pleasing him.. if you want to know how just write me one i've got some tips!!!

P.S. guys def. can get horny from it. haha i've had a few pop one while grinding

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could someone please resize this for me, i`ve tried multiple ways and times, and i still can`t do it. I just need the file to be less than 15k, because i wan`t to put it on advicenators. thank -you.

Try using photobucket.com. they can make pictures bigger or smaller for you.. you do need to make a user name though but then they make a link under the picture. (to change the size you have to hit options before upload and pick one)

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i need soemone to answer this asap! Me and my boyfriend just broke up and he tried to piss me of today and be all on other girls i want to wear something sexy as hell to school tommorow and talk to other boys i know its not right. But what should i wear? im going shopping in like an hour?

Its hard to say.. depending on what he likes in girls...

Try wearing a mini plaid skirt.. (american eagle has an adorable one mainly navy blue) and pick out an accent color with it and try to get a low cut tank top just a solid color.... and then somewhat of a zip-up.. add some colored (chunky type) jewlery.. put your hair in rollers and depending on the weather try some heels otherwise clogs are always good

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i took out my belly ring because the hole wasnt peirced right.. and i had it for 6 months and i had it out for about 6 months... i thought the hole would be closed by the spring so i can get it repeirced for the summer... however the hole is still there but i cant put a ring through.. can i get it repeirced? and if will the hole ever close!?!?
thanks!!

Thats a good question. i know you can get your ears repierced when there is still somewhat of a whole, so i'd recommend going in and trying to get it done, but make sure you ask that its ok if you do it when its still open alittle. but it should be ok n it might not hurt as bad!! haha

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Well can you get preganent from having sex with another girl?? Iunno Any way in the world that this could happen?

No. because girls dont carry sperm in their body, so the eggs dont get fertilized.

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my school is having a crazy hair day in a few days
What are some ideas??
besides the ones everyone does, hair on top of head, dy hair, ect ect.

Try doing a pony tail on top of your head (i know many people do it) but to make it differnt just keep putting colored ponytails around it so it like sticks up straight and you've got colors! leave a little room at the top so you have a little "fountain" of hair.

i did it once and EVERYONE loved it to the point where next time we had crazy hair day so many people were doing it! it's a real trend setter!

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i am starting to chew gum more to keep me from eating and snacking on stuff i dont need to. is this good? all the gum i chew is like orbit or something like it, but its all suger free. is there anything bad about this new habit?

No its actually good to keep you from snacking extra... but you need to make sure you get your full 3 meals a day and little snack like a granola about every 1-2 hours otherwise it's not healthy. When your stomach starts to growl its called HUNGER its the bodys NEED for food so you must eat or it can cause an eating disorder.. but if your not HUNGRY then you just have an appetite which is the bodys DESIRE for food.. then thats when you should chew the gum

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A little over two weeks ago I cut myself. There's only one cut there and it wasn't like really deep or anything, but there's a scar there now. If you knew me you would never expect that I would do something like that, especially since everyone always tells me how im always smiling and happy and like a good girl. I truly regret doing it though, because I hate having to hide it all the time. I'm a dancer and lately I've had to wear like a zipper up sweater thing over my leotard to hide it, but I can't do it forever, and my dance teacher usually doesn't like us wearing clothes over our leotards. Is there anything I can do to get rid of my scar, and quickly? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated!

there are some creams out there for scar removal.. so try looking for those they'd be by like the first-aid section at like a walgreens or pharmacy type place.. so get that.. and it may take a few days, but try using make-up... like cover-up foundation with some powder to "secure" the foundation.. and even it out with the skin. hope it helped!

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hi! our Promenade will be in 5 months, i really want to be fully prepared for it!.. Luckily, my mom bought me yards of cloth so i can let it be made personally for me. But i don't have a clue on the perfect design for mY body! Please help.. P.S. the color of the cloth is baby pink

1. What is the right color that can be mixed with pink?
2. i am 5'3" in height, medium in body;not too fair - not too dark complexion and a CONCERVATIVE when it comes to fashion but wants to be stylish. Thanks in advance!

Try pink with white or sliver... dont do an actual color do more of an accent color otherwise it will look to "clashy" even if they match

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i started my period yesterday
and i wore a pad
but i wasnt happy with that
since a few of my underwears are totally stained
so i got a tampon
and i slept in it
and 1st thing this morning i took it out
and got a pad
and then about 2:30 ish
i got a tampon and put it in
and its sooo much more comfortable than that other tampon [the one im wearing now is a sports one]
and i was wondering what do i do when i have to pee
do i take it out
or pee while im wearing it !?!?!

I def. recommend not sleeping in a tampon, it may cause TSS. BUT as far as going to the bathroom with it in.. its actually totally fine to keep it in.. like if you have bad "flow" i would take it out but if your very light and you can wear it the full 6 hours but have be go to the bathroom its totally fine to keep it in.. just make sure your wearing a pantiliner because the string may be wet.. if that would bug you just change it!

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i just read someone who said that they shouldnt go tanning because they have a mole or something like that. i did not know this and im like freaking out because i want to go to a tanning bed but i have like a mole above my lip to the left, like how celebrities draw theirs in (christina agulara)

anyways whats going to happen to me if i do??
im scared ive always wanted to go!?

You can still go tanning with a mole, it wont harm you much. It may increase your chance of getting skin cancer, but a way you can tell is if when you go tanning, if the skin around the mole doesnt get tan, then you might want to stop tanning because that can be harmful, otherwise keep tanning i have a mole on my neck area and i've been tanning on and off for about a year and im totally fine!!

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I have this friend, let's call her V. I think she's really hilarious and overall a really fun and a good friend. But pretty much everyone in my class hates her because she's annoying. I wouldn't think this is a big problem, but my bf says the reason he doesn't talk to me at school is I'm always with her and we've pretty much broken up because of this. Also, some kids from my class have gotten grudges against me and pretty much everyone just hates me because I'm her friend.

What, oh what should I do? Should I stop being her friend?

This is a hard one. first of all try talking to her about whats annoying about her... she prob. isnt annoyin on purpose, but thinks its the way to "fit in" so try talking to her and try getting her to stop doing whatever she does, then try talking with others especially your boyfriend into giving her another chance, hopefully it'll all work out but if it doesnt, which theres a good possibility dont exactly STOP being friends with her, but just try to hang around other people more and like if you guys go to parties try to talk to everyone else and her a little but dont hang around her ALL the time but dont avoid her because she is your friend and in the end you shouldnt care what other people think of you because of how many friends you have or who your friends are. But tryin talking to her.. then slowly grow apart a little so she can be more independent on you!

hope it helps

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So i know this is probably one of the weirdest questions but i dont know where to find sex toys so is there any like household type things that i could use? I know the shower thing so any other ideaas that would be great!

Might sound a little weird, but try using a clean electric toothbrush as a vibrator type thing.. don't actually use it to "finger f*ck" though

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i was just wondering. is there anyone on this website that wears pads instead of tampons? cause i've tried so many times and read the directions but i just couldnt put a tampon in. also if you wear pads do you play sports? cause i do and i wear pads and i wanna know if its bad. i think its really uncomfortable though. thankss.

mm well if you play sports and you have your period i highly suggest trying tampons.. i would start with the slim kind.. and they also make sports ones which are a lot more comfortable.. umm as far as learning how to put them in, i cant exactly help you.. umm what i did is i asked my older sister to show me with just a reg. tampon.. like how to put it in, then she told me what to look for and then i went and tried it.. (use a mirror if you need help.. weird i know but it can help) and make sure you get it in far enough too otherwise its not to comfortable

hopefully it helps. if you need more info. let me know i'll be happy to help!

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hey i have a ipod mini that i kinda share with my sister. well we listen to different kinds of music and whenever i like shuffle music to listen to random songs her music comes up a lot and its annoying. so i was wondering if there was any way to like keep that music on my ipod but like put it one like a playlist or somethin so that when i click suffle music only my songs play. i no i can put my music on a playlist and just play that but u can't shuffle it and i dont wanna listen to the music in the same order everytime. thanks.

actually you can shuffle your playlists. i have a mini too.

what you have to do is when you turn on your ipod to listen it, go into settings, suffle and pick "songs" and then go into your playlist pick whatever song and just hit the next button and you'll see that it shuffles!!

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I didn't see my best friend for like two years when she left to Canada, but she recently visited for two weeks and it was great and everything, but I'm wondering if anyone has any good ideas of something I could make for her or give her to take with her as a memory? I took tons of pictures, and we even have songs now, but I don't know if I should just make her a box with a letter, a CD, and maybe a few gifts in it and some pictures? Does anyone have any ideas or has done anything like this before?

I'm sixteen/f, btw.

You're idea sounds great! i think a scrapbook would work with pictures and just totally decorated to the max. also in the scrapbook, incorpirate the songs too, and have a pocket in the scrapbook with a cd of all the songs that can remind her of you. Also, give her a journal maybe that's personaly made for her, write her a message about your time with her, and then send it to her, and keep sending it back and forith and write all the news from your week and then hers, that way when it becomes full, she can keep it and know everything thats happened with you!

I hope that works, i've done the journal thing with my one of my best friends who moved and it was great!!

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Anyone know any good songs that talk about letting go of someone you love but you know doesnt love you back. It can be really sad if you want. Anything but heavy metal works. I really wont a song like that for personal reasons. Thank you in advance

*To Make her love me by Rascal Flatts
*Have you Ever by Brandy
*Stand by Rascal Flatts

hopefully they help sorry if they dont!

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what are the names of some really good dance sons? like anything rock and roll or hip-hop or anything wit a good dance beat?
every saturday night we have a dance party over at my house but i need music!!
thank you so so much!!

Ha dance parties!! Love em' heres some from my dance party playlist:

*Bet that by Trick Daddy
*It's Goin' down by Yung Joc
*Get Up by Ciara
*Goodies by Ciara
*Make it Rain by Fat Joe
*Rubberband Banks by Young Dro
*Snap Yo Fingers by Lil' John
*Tipsy by J-Kwon
*Top Back by T.I.
*We Fly High by Jim Jones
*Walk it out by Unk
*2 Step by Unk
*Zoom by Lil' Bossie
*Halftime by Ying Yang twins
*Lose Control and Work it by Missy Elliot
*Oh i think they like me by Dem' Franchise Boys
*Salt Shaker by Ying Yang Twins

those are some.. let me know if you want more!

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