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My Friends All Come To Me For Advice So, Apparently I'm Really Good. That's Always Been Something With Me. I Read People Very Well, And Sometimes My Advice Sucks. I Wont Lie About That. Sometimes It Just Is Not Good At All. But I Do My Best, And I'm Extremely Good In The Relationship Department. Kinda Funny, I Can Help Everyone Else, But I Can't Help Myself.

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ok so on xanga i want to actually put pictures on my weblog entry

on myspace i use the code < img src=" URL" >
but it doesnt work on xanga...so whas the code or how do i do it

use the HTML code from photobucket.. i think that's how i did mine.

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There's this amazing girl, let's call her Jamia. She's in 10th grade and we have one too many things in common [we have more in common than she has with her TWIN sister]. I'm in 9th grade by the way. Anyways, we are both strong supporters of LGBT [lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transsexual.]
Half my friends are not straight...Anyways, I'm bi and I'm not out of the closet to anyone at my school--or to anyone I know. I love her with all my life because she's been there for me whenever I was in my suicidal moods and she's a truly great friend. But the thing is I feel so bad about keeping me being bi from her. And I really want to tell her. Tomorrow is the last day of school and I want to tell her. B ut I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? If so when and how?

Yes I think you should tell her. I have friends that are gay and bi. It's really not that big of a deal, because you're not gay, so you still like girls. You should actually ask her to hang out with you over the summer, and you may find it easier to talk to her out of school.



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my moles itch..could i have skin cancer?!

what else could it mean>?

Yes, you could have skin cancer, lots of people get moles remove becuase of discoloration, size, etc. But the big and discolored ones are cancerous. You should go see a speacialist and get that checked out.

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Goodday,please i want someone to help me out.i use to talk when sleeping.this problem is my beggest problem for now becouse it use to embarase me whenever i spend a night in someones house.i can remember that it started when i was a lettle boy.now i am 22 but it coud not stop rather geeting whose.
please i dont know if it is a phychological problem.
thanks

I'm not sure why you're embarrased. It's actually kind of fun to wake up when you're at someone elses house and ask them if they heard anything that you said. I talk in my sleep all the time. I have woken myself up by talking really loud. It's not a problem that you talk in your sleep, it will eventually start to go away.

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i am thin like 100 lbs and 5'4" (im not anorexic nor look like it) but i am really having a hard time finding jeans for the past year. I am picky but at this point, i don't have a lot of selection. I am looking for designer jeans if anyone knows of any brands that would fit

(rock and republic, joes jeans, lucky brand, sevens, true religion, citizens of humanity, AG, chip and pepper, immortality dont fit me)

paige, frankie b. do fit me but i'm kind of sick of buying the same brand you know cause its just a different version of the same jean and i dont own any frankie b's because there so low (unless someone can send me a specific link to a jean that isnt so low from frankie b) so does anyone know any designers that might fit thin girls? I really appreciate anyone reading and answering Thank You!

i am exactly the same way, i shop at pacsun. they have the best jeans that accent your butt. and they fit very very well. i'm 106lbs and 5'2''
so i'm right up there with you :]

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

i was fifteen, and justin and i had been friends for 3 1/2 years before i blurted out one day that i liked him. that was feburary 11th, 2006. on valentine's day he showed up with a half dozen red roses, and a red teddy bear - which is still sitting on my bed. three months into our relationship he invited me to his junior prom. i was extremly excited and we had been talking about moving on further in our relationship, so we decided that would be the perfect night. He hadn't had sex either, so this was something we were sharing something special. 4 3/4 into our relationship and 3 times after prom night, his parents said we were too close and justin gave in and told his dad that we had had sex. i forgot to mention that the last time that we had sex he gave me a promise ring and promised to alway be around. well after his parents found out, he wasnt allowed to talk to me anymore. we still talked as much as possible, but it wasnt working. i just recently deleted saved conversations that we had. after my 16th birthday, my mom took me to new york. while i was there he was acting kinda funny everytime we talked on the phone. then june eleventh at 12:06am. he told me we were better off friends and that we'd stay in touch. he asked me to keep wearing the ring and i told him i couldn't because it would hurt too much. but i still did, but i do regret losing my virginity. justin doesnt talk to me at all. i tried to stay in touch, but he would be an asshole everytime we did. come to find out he got a new girlfriend five days later. so much for loving me and wanting to be with me forever. that was a year ago and he's still with that girl.

but now i'm with a wonderful man named cody, i'm 17, he's 18, we're moving intogether next june and we are extremely happy with eachother and we have great sex :]

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what do you think about sweet-talkers? do you think its cute? i think its cute as long as you can play along with it do you think so? and does anyone know a "line"? you heard it from someone?

here's a funny one,
i love you as much
as an anorexic hates
food.

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Mkay, I need some advice about my ex-boyfriend.
Over the course of 4 years we broke up several times and called it quits for a few years, abut 6 months ago we called me and asked me back out, i thought it over and answered yes. I was really happy at first..and so was he. Then my parents got really strict and wouldnt let me go out that much, then he started blaming my family and my friends for not being able to see me. It really hurt me. We spent an entire night on the phone working it out. One night he was at my house and we were watching the Notebook and talking, he kept telling me to kiss him to kiss him and all this, && i wouldnt because it didnt feel right, if that makes any sense at all. We worked all that out and i was really happy again. We had a big fight and broke up, we still talk about us all the time..and i feel like i love him. I know everything about him, all his deepest secrets and i think we are meant to be...I need some advice..should i just try and get over him? or should i try to get back together with him. Im so confused, i cry myself to sleep most of the time, and bust out in tears everytime i hear certain songs, and its been about three months since all this happened.

I am a thirteen year old female

i'm not sure if you got my other answer, but "get over him" was not what i was trying to say, boys are silly, and you'll have plenty of time to find right guys at your age

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i just moved a few days ago to a totally different state and i don't really have friends..how do i make friends without seeming needy or like a loser?

if you're going to school, you can strike up a conversation with someone with a simple comment. If you're no longer in school, get a job and make friends with your co-workers

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this guy used to flirt with me alot when he had a girlfriend and i was instantly drawn to him and i think he liked me too. he kept asking if i had a boyfriend and if i liked anyone. i didn't want to tell him who i liked because it was him and i was afriad things wouldn't be the same between us if i did. was he trying to ask me to be his girlfriend? anyway we were good friends for a while but now we don't talk at all because he doesn't like me or anyone else that goes to my school and he ignores me when i try to talk to him. what do i do should i not try to talk to him anymore and wait till he talks to me first or should i just ignore him completley even when he does try to talk to me?

He probably doesnt hate you, but having him talk to you and flirt with you all the time may have gotten him in trouble with his girlfriend if she knew.

And if this is how he is acting now, he probably wasn't worth it anyway. You can find someone that is better for you I promise.


You never know, they may be sitting right in front of you.

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