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well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way. (link)
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Umm...yea. It sounds like he was just trying to flirt with you. I doubt he would've done anything to your phone. And if he had, you could've told on him then and then he'd have to pay for something he did. This was just a case of him trying to flirt with you. It was kind of lame to tell on him, but you know- you did what you thought was best. Maybe if he really, really likes you he won't hate you, but I doubt it. When he gets back to school just apologize over and over and maybe he'll forgive you. I dunno. Hope I helped. :/ -Manda
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I am tring to find song's from the 90's that are really cool and I need help remembering the name and or song. And maybe a site that I can listen to music videos. What Should I do? (link)
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The Ninties are alternative/grunge stuff. Like NIRVANA, the coolest band in the whole wide world. Yea, so go to launch.yahoo.com and type in any artist, song, or album you could ever think of and it'll be there. Something else you might want to try is going to launch.yahoo.com--LaunchCast Radio--Radio Station Guide. There are a bunch of different stations you can listen to for free. Pick anything with Alternative in it and I'm sure you'll get a good variety of stuff from the ninties. Or if you register for a payed account you can get anything with 1990's in it and that'll play all ninties, all the time. Hope I helped. :) -Manda
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I have bitten my nails for as long as I can remember and now they are very short and small. I have tried absolutely every trick in the book to give up but I always give up and start biting again. I can't help it, I always set out with the willpower to give up but I'll get bored in a lesson and start to chew. My boyfriend and all my friends and family think it's disgusting and are always trying to get me to stop but I can't, what should I do? (link)
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Haha, go to your orthodontist! Seriously, I used to bite my nails all the time and then I got braces! Or just like find a new, less noticable habit? Like..picking at your cuticles. Wow, that one's not that noticable and it keeps your hands busy. Haha, yea. So...braces or if you already have straight teeth, find a new habit to keep your hands busy. (Twirl your hair maybe? lol) :) -Manda
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There is this girl, and she is really mean to me. What shall I do? I dont know if I should tell her to stop or not
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Hmm...I say it depends. If she's supposed to be like your best friend or something and she's really being a bitch to you, tell her to keep on truckin and to stay away from you. If she's like...your sister or something, hello...it's called sisterly love! And if she's like kind of just someone you know and sometimes talk to, then ditch her and ignore her when she tries to talk to you. Waha. Teach her two can play the bitch game! Wwwa! :) Yea, I'm done. -Manda
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I am fear I am failing a class, what should I do? (link)
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This question has been retired, retard. If you are failing a class though, I am sooo telling mom! Mum, mum, mum, mum!! :) Not really, but if you think you're failing the best thing to do is go in everyday to get help so when you come home with a bad grade it at least looks like you tried your hardest. And maybe get your mom to talk to your teacher. That always makes the teacher like you more so then on essays and stuff you can get better grades. Yea, and maybe get a tutor. I know someone who will do it for five bucks an hour! Wwwa! Yea, your bigger, smarter, in-geometry-er sister! :) Yeppers. I'm done.
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hey ive been going out with my boyfriends ernesto since may 15th and i really like him.. but he always ditches me for hsi friends.. he never even thinks about ditchin them once for me.. it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do i always tell him it hurts me and hes like im sry ill stop.. but he keeps doin it.. he never really talks to me in school and we dont really have a real conversation.. i know i should dump him butt ill probably regret it:-/ (link)
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Don't let him ditch you. Sit him down and tell him, if you ditch me again it's over. I might regret it in the long run, but I deserve better than some ignorant loser who always just leaves me to hang out with his friends! This same kind of thing kind of happened to me, and I almost regret not breaking up with him! If he's ditching you and never talking to you at school, the whole relationship is pointless. If you break up with him, I bet it won't hurt as much. Yall can still be friends, I'm sure. And then maybe one day he'll ditch his girlfriend for you! :) Hope I helped. -Manda
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I know this girl,Carly, we were friendly, but we werent really friends. Then we went to a mutual friend, Gavin's party. There, I found out she had a very big crush on Clay, and that night there was serious flirting between me and Clay. The next day teher was another party, and Carly was telling me that she thought Clay liked me. I was so happy, but I couldnt tell her. At some point throughout the conversation, I said it doesnt matter, its not like I'd go out with him if you liked him. The last day of school, me, Clay and two other friends hung out after school for like 6-7 hours. It was crazy, but soo much fun. And then, I went out of town. ME and Clay were talking online and he asked me out. I was like. I have to think of one person, and how it affects them. But Carly didnt sign on. So I just said yes. When I told her, she started warning me telling me hed break my heart. I was going crazy. She was bragging about her relationship with him in teh past. He doesnt even like her as a friend. So, whatever. I was always nice to her. But I never truly liked her. She was always trying to break us up. So when I came back to town, I was crazy about him. Pretty close to love. And he felt teh same way about me. At school, we'd hug in teh hallways, but I didnt wanna kiss him. She found out and told me how when they were in THIRD grade they made out through like 3 movies...proibably not true. But still..gross. I was like, okay whatever. My world was going great, everytime something bad happened, I'd think of him and my wolr dwould be complete again. I could face anything knowing he was at my side. All my friends told me he ALWAYS talked about me, and that we were the cutest couple ever. One of my firneds even told me that he looked at me different, he was my first boyfriend, so I wasnt used to this. I loved it. I was crazy for him. But then...my feelings truned into doubt, everyone was feeding me crazp about him. Telling me he was only different around me, but soon he'd be himself again. I didnt like who I heard he was. But I loved who I knew he was. After a while, my two best friends told me he wasnt worth the pain and doubt, so I decided to break up with him. I was kinda nervous, honestly,I'd never done that before. Just as I was about to do it, he signed on and we started talking he broke up with me. I'm grateful that he did, because he really wasnt worth it anymore. My feelings beacsme less and less, but they were still strong. It took me like three weeks to get over the break up, and I'm still not sure I'm complteley healed. However, hes a jerk to me now. He doesnt talk to me, he blcoked me when I finally got the guts to tellhim how I felt, and yet still, when I'm flirting or hugging or anything touchy with guys, he gives me this look. I dont know what to do about any of this. Not Carly, and vertainly not Clay. I may not think of him like that anymore, but I still care for him and want to be his friend. How do I do that? Not to mention, some of his friends are ditching me now. I just wanna feel teh same way I did when he used to hold me. I miss the feeling I had when I was around him. I miss him. But more importantly, I miss how I felt about him. (link)
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I don't think you miss him, you miss the idea of him. The idea that you had a boyfriend. He doesn't seem to be totally missing you, because he's kind of acting like a jerk with the whole blocking you thing, but he might still like you just because he's jealous when you talk to other guys and what not. You need to confront him and tell him that what he's doing to you is bullshit and that you want to be left alone. Also, don't tell ANY of your friends you still like him if you don't completely trust them to keep a secret, because with me there's been at least two instances where they've told the guy I still liked who broke up with me that I still liked him. And it might've been true before, but you know. You don't want to come off desperate. If you're all: But I can't live without you! I love you still! Please go back out with me! Waa!, then he won't want to go back out with you at all because things that a guy can easily have don't interest them, right? Yea, hope I helped. :) -Manda
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OK Well, I am depressed, like i know i am... my mom does too (which is who i live with) and i dunno if i should be put on meds, because i heard that they can make u randomly want to kill yourself and stuff like that. and i've been seeing counslers all my life, and as a matter of fact they are more wacked out than me, its totall crap, i mean they get me to answer questions, which i can't do without crying, because its yearss and yearsss of crap in my life, i mean most of the tim ei just say i don't remebr what happened and stuff, because i start crying and i hate that because then they are like oh i ahve to keep another appt. and so i leave. i mean its not my choice to be there its part of the court order, frum the my parents divorce and stuff. I mean one counsler i saw actually started crying, after tlaking with me...but i sleep way to much, i mean i don't see the harm in that really, its just its gotten so bad that i can't sleep at night and i sit there for 2 hours looking at the ceiling. I mean i questioning everything, io don't really care what happens to me really. what do u do whne u realize your friends and most people are fake. So what the hell should I do. So many people go on meds for being depressed, honestly i can't see how my mind would just change about everything. I mean i am depressed but i don't think i am wrong bout things, I just finally came to the realaity bout people, and life, and how things freakin suck. (link)
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I would say you need to talk to your psychiatrist about it. Some anti-depressants can cause the depression to get worse and if you're going through the psychiatrist to get the meds, she or he will help you and find the right perscription for you. This same kind of thing happened to me, you'll be on one med for about a week and then they'll switch you and see if it works any better or what not. There are times though when you feel the medicine isn't going to help but you need to just keep takin it, cause you need to find the one that will help. So yea, talk to your doctor and see what they think you need. Usually they'll find the best perscription for you. :) Hope I helped! -Manda
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I like this kind of music but I am not sure if my friends will think I am stupid, bad things about me if I say I like it. My other friend thinks that I am polluted in the mind because I don't listen to Christian music. What should I do? (link)
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Wwa! I think I know who this is and I must say I find you lame. Duuude! You like the Beatles because I hate them and you like Avril Lavigne. Any self respecting soul would never, ever listen to Avril Lavigne!! So if you want to get made fun of tell the world how much you are in love with Avril. No one will mind, I'm sure there are other losers out there. And you can tell people you like the Beatles too, cause there are a lot of those kind of losers out there. Now, the Christian thing, I feel you have made up. Seriously, if you have friends like that, you shouldn't be their friend. Cause that's lame...jesus-worshipers. -mumbles- (lol Ariana)
OKay, and here's the paragraph for if you're not my little sister, but I'm pretty sure you are. :) Here, say this with me: Fuck society, screw what other people think about you, don't let it bother you what other people think of you. Do your own thing because it's lame you care that much about what your friends think. And if you're polluted in the mind then go listen to the Sex Pistols or something, cause I wanna be an anarchist. I dunno, but seriously...Christian music sucks, who'd want to listen to that swill!? Wwwwa! Yep, that's my brilliant answer, if you are in fact Stefanie, ignore the second paragraph and if you say fuck out loud! You'll be in big trouble, mister! Wwwwa! -Manda
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Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do? (link)
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I wouldn't go. It sounds like it wouldn't be lots of fun for you anyway! I think you need to find someone else to hang out with that night, so everyone knows that it doesn't bother you that you're not there. Especially if being there is going to make you uncomfortable. Hope I helped. :) -Manda
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I really need your help so please do not delete this.
Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me, should I quit? Would you quit? Thanks a million!
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I've been dancing for ten years, and there was a time when I really, really wanted to quit dancing all together. It just turned tedious, so I think I know how you feel. I stuck with dancing, but I transfered into jazz instead of tap, or what not. You might want to try that. If that's not really possible, I'd say stick with it for now, and then next time when it comes time to sign up again, pick a different class or a more challenging one. Maybe the thing is, the class just isn't at your level. Or maybe you could ask about getting a job there? Depending on how old you are, granted, but you've been dancing for eight years- I think you might be able to get a job at a local studio or something. I dunno. Lots of different options. IM me with the specifics if you still don't have a clue. :) -Manda
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this girl iwas going out with... broke up with me the other day. theres rumors going arounf school that i cheated on her, but i didnt. and her cousin told her, then a bunch of her friends told her, and its not true.... today at school... i tryed talking to her... and she just started crying.... i love her and she dosnt beleave me that i didnt cheat on her.... is there any thing i can do to get her to beleave me? i have no idea what to do.... plz help me!!! (link)
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Hmm...I think you should talk to some of her friends. Spread a new rumor saying that you never cheated on her and you're totally crushed because she broke up with you. Then she'll realize how cool you are and be like aww, I knew there was a reason I loved him! Alls you got to do is win her trust back! Yea, and then you can at least talk to her about it and maybe even ask her back out. Hope I helped. :) -Manda
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ok, my friend he duz marijuana. his dad got involved and had him stop but now he is shooting up on drugs!! he wont listen to ne1 because he is depressed and he just keeps taking the drugs because he thinks they are making him feel better. he alredy had one break down like this last year and i dont kno wut to do! plz help~ (link)
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Urgh. People like this are dumb. I have a sister who kind of did this. Alls you need to do is get him help. Whether he approves or not. Shoot him up and tie him down and take him to De-tox. It's what's best for his system because each time you try to take the drug completely out of your system and then put it back in later it makes it harder to get off the next time. Yea. It makes sense, I swear. So...get him into an in-patient rehab where he can't check himself out and he'll be okay. It might be hard for all those involved at first, but in the end, it's the right thing to do. And you'll need his dad to help, because he's his guardian, I'm guessing and they have to check him in to rehab and all that shizz. Hope I helped, sorry if I'm just a random loser rambling. :) -Manda
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I have a problem wit mi boyfriend.we have been goin out for like a month or 2 now. we dont talk or kall each other n wen we hang out we always talk o one of or other friends that r there.we go to the same skool n always see each other in the hall n everything.n i think dat he doesnt like at all.wut should i do. plz help me.......
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Hmm...I'd say you need to break it off and get to know each other better. It sounds like you like each other, it's just that he and you both are having trouble communicating because you don't know what each other is in to. Ask him about his hobbies, his favorite bands, stuff like that. Find something in common with him or just break it off and find someone else. Hope I helped! :) (And if you don't think he likes you, you need to break up with him anyway!) -Manda
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What happens if you fail a class? Like on your report card? lol Not that I am failing just that I wanna know.... >. (link)
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I'm going to start naming it above and stuff, just for kicks, so here it goes:
Dear Doesn't Know If She's Failing,
I believe that if you fail once it'll be okay unless it's like...a thirty or something. Because what counts is the semester grades. So it's all the six weeks averaged. Comprehende? Yea, I think. :) Hope I helped.
Signed,
Also Confused. :)
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