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My name is Kaylee. I'm currently fifteen, and I'm mature for my age.

I enjoy writing, reading, music, shopping, hanging with friends, watching movie classics, hanging with my sister.

I call myself mature because I know a lot. I'm not very book smart, but I've been through a lot and I want to help others like others have helped me.

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My all time passion is becomeing an actress or a singer. I will really do anything,im thinking of gong to a performing arts highschool and even im willing to move out of MA to Cali for this. Im willing to give up everything,mostly because i dont have much in the first place. But anyways, i dont feel like im pretty enough to become a actress. Mostly my face, because i just look like im younger than i really am. will this affect anything? im 13,so if i start now would that be good? what would i have to do to become an actress? i've thought a lot about this and im certain this is where i want to be in life. I need help though, like what are some good agencies,? anything,any tips at all? i would really appreciate it! thanks so much,you have no idea how much this means to me !

I can't base this on your talent because I don't know. Nah, they're always looking for people who look younger so they can act more roles. But I'm gonna say go for it!

Oh and which part of Mass do you live in? Because I like in the Attleboro area.

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I have Photoshop 7. I edit my pictures with it, but all I really know how to do is Curves, to make the picture colors a little brighter.

I was wondering some other tricks and tips you guys have for editing pictures. I especially would like to know how to make my pictures look like these:

http://myspace-449.vo.llnwd.net/01560/94/45/1560455449_m.gif

http://a726.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/2/m_0949935869bd48fd31610c4fed144715.gif


But any tips are helpful! Thanks in advance!

I'm not sure if this will help you but go to http://www.good-tutorials.com/tutorials/photoshop/photo-retouch/2/0/0

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okay so my brithday is feb.6th and i want my bellybutton pierced.my mom said i can only get it done if i have abs..they dont have to be full on but still some would work..im planing to do 200 situps ever day plus other exsersices..do you think that will work??ill be 14..help asap

Feb.6th? I doubt you'll have abs by then, even just as little. It's too short, because most excercises take a few weeks to show the slightest results.

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what are some good gifts you can get your boyfriend for valentines day?
thanksss

Maybe tickets to his favorite band?

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im 15 i have the worst periods ever , my cramps are horrible , i always come home from school there so bad,i was wondering aabout birthcontrol, doesnt birth control limit your periods and help cramps? can you take birthcontrol even if you dont have sex?

They help with cramps. Have a talk with your parents and then try to make an appointment with a doctor.

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I'm really desprete here. I've just wasted an hour looking for the lyrics of the song A List Goes On by Starflyer 59 album name: Talking Voice vs. Singing Voice. and I can't find it anywhere. If anyone can link me to a site I will honestly love you forever. Because I need it for school and of course I waited until the last minute. Or the Song "What Belongs To You" I have no clue who it's by. I think they are both Christain songs just because of what came up in the searches I did.
If not does anyone know any songs about lists, and what belongs to us? That would also help. I have to compare a poem I choose to a song. And I can't find a good song. The poem is called "What Belongs To Us" by Marie Howe.

Thank You ALL
Sorry it's so long
I promise to rate!

Have you tried googling them?

What I do is type "name of song here" lyrics by artist and a decent amount does pop up.

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I have a dry brown skin condition on my stomach...
I have no idea what it is... It dosen't hurt or anything... it's just dark and dry...
What do you think?

I wouldn't know what that could be. How long has it been there? The best I can say is go to a dermatologist.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a very rocky 5 years and have a child together.To sum it up he has abandoned me emotionally and physically many times.He left us again the other night and while drinking (one of our biggest problems) ended up in jail.We just moved to my home town where he knows no-one.My family and friends say let him take care of himself and not to worry.But I do love him and worry about him. He doesn't deserve my concern but should I abandon him with no one to help him in this horrible situation? I am 34F he is 37M

If his drinking is affecting your relationship, tell him it's either the alcohol or you and tell him you mean it. Try to help him into a rehab center. You're right, after everything he has put you through, he doesn't deserve your concern, he really doesn't. You can offer help, and that's the most you can do. Don't feel bad if he doesn't realize his problem, that's his problem and I know you love him, but sometimes tough love prevails.

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I recently posted questions about this pregnant gurl I met in the welfare office and how I was attracted to her. It didn't matter if I wasn't the father or who was. I liked her but to keep it safe I just was friends and told her how I felt but didn't push the issue. Now, she had the baby and I was there in the hospital when she was in labor and all. She wanted me there and later after the baby was born, her girlfriends came in to visit her. They started gossip and later it was about me! My friend told her gulrfriends that how I was taking care of her and how I did alot of things for her. All her girlfriends like me and all including my friend starting cursing the father out and all said they hated him. My friend likes me, I can feel it but in what ways can I make a move, and and the same time don't destroy our friendship. This gurl I love and her baby is so beautiful. Wat to do????

Well, ask the question if you really wanna get involved first. And I was going to say it doesn't matter if her friends like you, but they probably know her better than she does. So put that into perspective. But to answer your question, if you're sure she likes you, just look into her eyes and kiss her. If you don't want to be that blunt about everything, then when your sitting with her at the table, or she reaches for something, put your hand on top of her's and give her a tight squeeze. Just do small flirty things until you can build up to kiss her. I hope I helped. if you need more time IM me and I can help you further.

AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa

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okay i used to go out with this guy and then he dumped me and he said sorry he was by polar he said he will always love me and im the only one and like 2 monthes later he dumped me and then he said sorry then he asked me back out and i said i will think about it! then he said forget about it like a day later because somebody told him that i thought he was ugly and i never said that and so he doesent want to go out with me and i know he still likes me and the other day i seen him flirting with another girl i still love him he is the perfect guy what should i do to get him back?? i miss him and im sad without him and i know he still likes me and what should i do ?

He's probably not the "perfect guy" if he dumps you and asks you out again more than once. But anyway, you have to tell him that you don't think he's ugly and pull his confidence level up. Tell him you still want to be with him because you truely love him. And if he breaks up with you again and asks you back out a few days later again, then seriously, he isn't worth it. I'd just get over it and move on.

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okay so i've liked this guy named derek for a long time.and so do alot of other girls. i was his first friend an we are still friends as well i mean i have been his bud since 1st grade and all the other girls liked him since 5th grade when he got taller and junk but anyway its weird to have to like him because he is a major flirt to every girl and if you like him everyone that doesnt have a crush on him or anything will think your weird even my best friend sorta knows that i like him but im shy to tell her because well you know
so should i keep quiet and never ever tell derek i like him so know one will judge me or should i just go for it
if i do go for it how???
-kimberly

Go for it! Seriously. If he's been your friend for that long, and doesn't see you that way, it'll go back to normal. He's not going to block you out of your life because you can't control your feelings.

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So I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in High School. I also have a good number of friends. I've never been to a party before, or even a party with alochol. Most kids at my school have been to those kinds of parties, and I just feel left out and "Un-cool". Is it bad that I've never been to that kind of party, cuz I feel really stupid and anti-social and I feel that If I don't go to one I'll be hated by the people I like or looked bad apon.

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ant thoughts..???

It's your choice if you want to go or not. If people are going to think you're stupid for not going, let them. If you want to go for yourself, not just cause you don't want people to see you differently, then go, but drinking, binge drinking is stupid, even if you were 21 or over. If you decide to go, go for yourself, and don't do anything stupid if you decide to drink.

IM me if you need to talk about it
AIM: KayleexLikexWhoa

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my computer is runnning too slow how can i fix it?
-i already deleted unused programs and music
-i also hav fast internet(dsl) and it still lags
-i hav yahoo virus protecting so it should hav a virus
-wat can i do?
-i hav heard of downloading a disk cleaner should i do that

I think you might have a virus. Just because your virus scan says there are no viruses, there still could be some on there. I'd download a later version of a good virus scan and try again.

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I'm looking for a sweet sixteen dress. I would like a pink one..can anyone tell me where i can find a cute dress?!

I'm thinking that you should try Deb. They have dresses in all different colors and patterns.

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So, my eyeliner now [covergirl] has been looking bad lately. I'll put it on, and it will be crusty a couple hours later. Anyone know a eyeliner that goes on smooth and looks nice?

Let me know


Thanks

My best friend uses a brand of eyeliner that's Palado or something like that. It shows up wicked black and stays on for longer than regular eyeliner does.

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i dunno wat to do. im using ecstasy and im really scared that it's out of control. i feel pressured by my friends to be part of it. also media sorta influences me to do it. when im high i forget all my problems and school. i quit all my sports teams n i'd do anything i can to get money for my e. i dunt think i cud quit wat should i do?

You need to tell someone who can help you quit. Ectasy is a very very serious and harmful drug, a lot worse than pot. It screws your head up. How many times have you done it? You're lucky you aren't dead. A lot of people who have tried it have died the first time!

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Ok so i'm 15/m
Ok right, is it ok for a guy to straighten his hair ? Because i straighten my fringe..because it luks stupid without it straightened, but i don't think many people realise i do. Anyway, one person in my class made a comment about how only gay guys straighten their hair :| and i was..:(..because i'm not gay.
Do you think it is right/wrong ?

No. My friend Jimmy does that. It's wrong. Just because you straighten your hair does not make you homosexual. I hate how everyone says "That's gay" But it's not wrong and it doesn't matter anyway. Your buisness.

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is it normal for a guy to dye his hair? i was plannin on dying mine but my mom said it's undecent and that only gays dye their hair. is that true? cuz i got a bit pissed that i can't dye my hair.*sigh* i feel like i wanna be emancipated, my mom doesnt like how i wear my clothes and let me do wat i wanna do, she always wants me to live in her way...

My parents, mom specifically, is like that. I've been through this all. How old are you? What color do you want to dye your hair, etc?

IM me and I'll help you.
AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa

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i wrote a book, about mean group of girls, & this one that like finds out you can be mean to people & blah blah blahh...anyways, any ideas on what i should call it?

Well, I think someone would have to read it before they could help you.

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23/m
I got married young... while I was still in high school. Shannon wasn't pregnant, we just thought we were ready... probably because we both wanted to get away from our parents. We've had it good and we have a few kids now... but I'm not in love with Shannon anymore. I'm in love with one of my best friends, Tonya, who is also now married. I know things between Tonya and I won't work out, but if I'm not in love with Shan anymore, should we get a divorce? Am I just leading her on? Should we get counseling? I'm ready to let go. I'm done. But I don't want to break her heart... and what about the kids? They'll hate me. Please help me!

Well, how long have you been feeling this way?

I'll help you. IM me if you want.

AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa

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