Hey, My name is Meagan and i am 15. I am 5 feet tall i'm a shrimp hehe. I love helping people and making them feel better in whatever I can. If you need any help please let me know!!
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Location: Greeley/ Colorado
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Age: 14
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Hey everyone, I'm burning CD's right now, and I can't seem to think of any more songs. The type of songs I need are recent ones that are playing on the radio, or even older ones as long as you can dance to them. I'm having a party tonight and need to have lots of music, so any suggestions would help. Thankss so much! (link)
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Well one of my favorite somgs for a slow dance is Cry by Mandy Moore. I think that would be a good song for your party.
Hope you like it
Love Meggs
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My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help! (link)
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If he really likes you and you like him anything you get he iill like because it comes from you. If it comes from you and from inside your heart and you mean what you give to him he should love whatever you get him no matter what
Hope that helps
Love meggs
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This is long...sorry...but if you read this and answer I promise to rate you a 5 and I will be so greatful! thanks in advance for reading this. I have this friend named nicole (fake name) and she has been my best friend for about 2 years. She gets really annoying and is pretty stupid, and my family doesn't like her very much. She doesn't have a lot of money and her parents are completely uninvolved in her life. My parents do everything for her and we get nothing in return. She never really does anything to show she appreciates it and I really don't like that and neither does my family. So recently she's been pretty rude to me. She ditched me twice. At lunch I sit with nicole and kelly (fake also) and 3 other girls who im kinda barely friends with but mostly I only talk to nicole and kelly. well kelly is "popular" all of a sudden to nicole but no one really likes her...and no one really likes nicole because she's so annoying. I know nicole doesn't care about popularity because if she did she wouldn't be so weird and act so nerdy. We're not popular but we're not geeks, I guess we are known as just normal group, except to the geeks we are known as popluar, so i've heard. Well nicole has just been obsessed with kelly and she blows me off or is too busy to hang out with me but not kelly. I have many friends in school, like a ton, but I usually only hang out with friends once every week or maybe even less then that. I only really hang out with nicole. But shes always so busy and always grounded so I kind of have no friends outside of school. I make an effort to hang out with other girls I know at my school but it never really works out, not that they don't like me just our plans don't really follow through. Sorry I'm writing a lot but I wanted you all to understand the background of my question. So here it is...Today nicole got mad at me and I had no idea why and so her and kelly totally ditched me at lunch and sat with someone else and I asked kelly is she mad at me she said no there was no room at the table...when there were plenty. I am so mad at nicole I seriously was about to punch her because suspension was worth punching her. She totally takes advantage of me and I keep going back to be her friend. My parents and bother think I should stop being her friend and there a feeling in me that I want to but then there's also a feeling that's not willing to give her up. The main reason I don't stop being her friend is if I do then kelly wont be my friend and I'll have no one to sit with at lunch and no one to talk to during class because most people in all my classes are popular or totally nerdy and all that stuff. But today seemed like the last straw and I don't want to be her friend but I'm afraid of what will happen. I'm hoping once I start high school I'll make new friends and totally ditch her for good, but thats about 6 months away and I don't want to go with nobody to hang out with during summer if I stop being her friend. I really love her and shes so funny and fun to be around. If I didn't love her, I would hate her and think she is the stupidest person ever, and I would never consider being her friend, if you know what I mean. I love that she doesn't care what others think, but sometimes I hate it because she is truly embarassng and since not a lot of people like her, I think that's why nobody ever calls me to hang out because they probably think I'm just like her. Basically I want to know all of your opinions about what I should do. Stay her friend, ditch her, wait a little longer, etc? Please help I have no idea what to do!!! I will rate you 5 if you answer no matter if I like your answer or not, just because you read all this. By the way, im 14 female. thanks so much! (link)
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I am having the same problem rigth now.The way i deal with it is pretend that it doesn't bother me at all. I know this shounds weird but just try it. Stick with being her friend because in life it is too short to not try and be friends with everyone. Just stick with it and show her you are stronger then she is.Try to act like it doesn't bother you i know it is hard but just think in 6 months we will be going to high school and meeting new people. If this helps and you would like to talk some more please feel free i would love to help you with this
Love meggs
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im 13/f. My boyfriend beats on me. I have marks and scars on my arms and legs from him. Im a cheerleader so they always show. I really like him but i hate him when he does this to me. What should i do?
**sleepiesheep** (link)
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If I were you I would dump him imediatly. You do ont need someone who hurts you. The right man will come who you do love because of how much he loves you fro who you are and doesn't beat you. You don't need him if he is going to hurt you like that.
Hope that helps you
Love Meggs
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I can't turn to anyone else but my grandma got a stroke and ever since my uncle thinks he is the boss. He told me today he as putting her in a home and he did (I objected) and now I can't find one of her tablets that she needs. She hasn't even has her night tablet and I'm scared he's trying to kill her. I also saw on a piece of paper that he wrote "Do take out" on an account that is my grandma's and unfortunately his! I'm so scared...Please help me... and resonable advice please! (link)
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Well what I would do first is go and ask your uncle what is going on. If he does not give you a good answer then ask your parents for help on what he is doing. If it getting to bad and you honestly think he is trying to kill her then call the police immediatly
Hope that helps
Love Meggs
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Before almost all things where i have to stand in front of people or just be with a lotta people (dances, parties, answering questions @ school, giving presentations at school...) i feel like im breathing harder than normal and sometimes i get a really upset stomach. i feel my face getting all hot, and even after the moment where everyone looks at me passes i still have to look down for fear someone is still looking at me. sometimes i feel that i would rather die than stand in front of everyone...is that normal? do i have like, social anxiety disorder or panic attacks?? (link)
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I'm just like that! It is a panic attack. You don't like people looking at you and you are scared of being embarressed. What you have to do is get used to doing stuff like that.You want to be noticed not looked over. You don't like people looking at you which is how i used to be and still am. I get so scared before i go up on stage and dance but once you do it you feel so much better just knowing that they were watching you and you only. Just make people think you are on top of the world and make them watch you for everything you are worth.
Hope that helped
Love Meggs
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My daughter has just turned 12 and for the past 3 yrs she has been nagging me to get her an agent. She has done drama for 3 yrs & dancing for 5 yrs. Even though she is talented while performing she is an extremely sensitive child. I have spent years trying to build up her self esteem & I don't want to throw it away with the rejections you recieve in the cruel world of showbiz. She cries at night & tells me that this is her dream & she feels that this is what she is meant to do. I'm confused as to what to do. Do I let her try this or protect her from an industry that is renowned for it's competitive nature. (link)
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well in my opinion you will never know and neither will she if you dont let her or you try. I fshe gets rejected,well then you will have tried and yes she probablly will get hurt. But if she does get in and this is when just try. You will never know until you try.
Hope that helped:-)
Love Meggs
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Hey. This is probably the wrong catagory... sorry. Ok when i was younger i was in an abusive relationship (VERY VERY YOUNG) ((like kid young)) so anyways i grew up kinda withdrawn and alone... i have a very close circle of friends now and a great boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months and i love him so much. Thing is, im a psycho. Honestly. I hear voices in my head and their shouting, always shouting... i can hardly understand them and i have to yell out to make them stop. Im one of the people you see walking down the street alone talking to themselves. I scream out loud randomly for what seems like no apparent reason. I used to be scared of commitment. I used to go out with people, get through all the hard stages, get through the awkwardness, the sex... and breakup with them. Just as they were starting to like me... I couldnt help it. The guy im with now, i actually love. Ive been holding up this barrier of defense so i couldnt get hurt for so long and now its down and i am SO SCARED!! im all vunerable now. He can hurt me. He says he loves me all the time, but i get paranoid and sometimes i get so jealous and i think i annoy him but he puts up with it cuz he loves me. He says he wants to stay with me forever and get married and have kids. But i think im gunna drive him crazy. How can he love me? Im a wreck! Please help. Soon. X (im 15 and female, my boyfriend is 17 and MALE. Lol) (link)
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Well, first lets get through the lovin and hurting part. If you fall for him that much and he right now is catching you then fall. Let him catch you. Let him be there for you and help you. He sounds like a really great guy and would do anything to help someone as special as you. Don't tihnk about what could happenen or what might happen, think about right now. Think about how wonderful he is and how happy you are to be with him. I honestly think you are a wonderful girl just from your question and im sure you are not a wreck!!! :-)
Hope that helped you, if you need anything else just ask -.k.-
Love me
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I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me? (link)
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Well one thing you can do is exercise. that makes everyone feel better because it will get you in shape and it will also help lose so weight. Another thing is to eat right. eat some saleds,fruit,vege, stuff like that. By doing all of thaty you should see a dramastic change and feel even better about yourself because you did it.!!!!
Hope that helps:')
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ok...so theres this boy...lets call him Jimmy. and i've known him since kindergarden and i never really talked to him...like ever. and now we talk on aim a lot and hes 2 homerooms away from mine..and hes so hott. and i like him a lot. we have a dance on friday and i wanna ask him out before then but im afraid of rejection. what should i do? help...will rate 5's thanks
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Well I have been there before. You just have to ask them or if u are to scared to ask them to the dance when you get there just maybe ask him for an ocational dance.
Hope that helps
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas? (link)
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It will depend on the guy. If he says he hates and you want to do it with him them sure but in all it is your decision.
Hopes that helps
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I have a little sister and she is always getting me into trouble . And my parents dont do any thing about it and my step dad spanks me when I calll her a name what should I do I have no Ideas If any one could answer this question that would be great I need some serious help.
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ok well ya dont feel bad this happenes to me all the time. and what i do to take me mind off of it is come here. i talk to my friends. i just lock my self in my room and either think about it or i will write about it. if u write about it no one will know what u think about this whole little issue. im still very sorry and i hope this helps. let me know if this helps k. xoxox
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can you swim when you are on your period? (link)
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most definatly dont let your period get in the way of swimming, just wear a tampon.
xoxox
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I've read before that pink eyeshadow is not a good shade for your eye for some reason- is this true, and if so why? (link)
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Yes i think that is true because it atracts people to the eye shadow instead of the eye. Of you wear more mild or milder tones on your eyes people will notice the color of your eyes as being very beautiful.
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i just need help (link)
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Whatever you need help with i will try to help you with whatever i can. i just wanted to let u know that i am here to talk to u k.
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me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret? (link)
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omg , yes you really should tell someone. if u dont tell someone he could hurt someone else too. he isn't going to hurt you or try to kill you he is just thretining you. he is one of those guys who needs help and he isn't going to tell anyone. i hope that answers your question.
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