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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 12, 2005
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Last Update: December 29, 2005
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where can i buy the best straitener for under 20 bucks? it can be tiny too (link)
walmart has cheap straighteners ..i got mine for 15$ and i have wicked thick and wavy air and it works great..its called the cermain flat iron clamp 1 inche!! it works awesome
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and yes it heats up like wicked quick like under 60 seconds! and it goes 1-20 so like 1 would be for thin air and easy to straighten and 20 would be for hard thick hair like me


is having sex before marriage a sin (link)
yes it is a sin...in the bible it says sex it for marriage..if you wait for marriage think of how extra specail it will be for you..i know everyones like well dont tell well if you dont tell people wont know but god will , and use protection ...well how about you just wait...but idk if you just want to know this or you want to have sex b4 marriage


i have been cutting since 5th grade, im going into 9th now. I don't want to stop because i love the way it feels, and its the only thing that helps me to forget the things i dont want to have to remember anymore. Ive tried stopping before but i physically can not do it. Im so attached to it. But, i cant get caught anymore, and i hate the scars i have all over my body. can anyone help me..? (link)
If you hate the scars than you need to stop...cutting doesnt make things bettter it just puts them aside for that moment..i know its really hard to stop cutting cause i have done it before and to tell you the truth i dont even know how i stopped. The sad part is your goin to get deeper and deeper and deeper each time you cut and soon enough its goin to hit a vain and bang you will be gone...do you really want to kill yourself?....you need to get help asap..a school counselor a teacher a parent a friend anyone! if you dont want to do that than take all sharp things and throw them out and everytime you want to cut scream into a pillow( i know it sounds lame) or take a hair elastic and put it on your wrist and pull it and let it go...it helpes you to stop cutting...

just know this your not also hurting yourself your hurting people around you, my bestfirends did it and i went home and i balled for hours

another thing you can do is when your angry go for a run and when you get more angry run faster and faster and when you come home you will feel better!

hope this helped and keep me posted please=)


okayy. well im 13/f and im about 5.4 - 5.5 and i weigh 115 - 118 and i think im really really fat! i can hardly fit in my jeans with are a size 1 and im very mad. mostly beacuse i think my legs are the problem.. can anyone help me at all?! i will rate 5's for good advice! thanks! (link)
okay first off you are not fat att all!!!!!!!!!! size 1..ha i was that when i was like 2, your so lucky but if your not happy with your legs do lungees

day 1-10 lunges
day2-20 lunges
day 3-30 lunges
etc..

(im assuming you no what a lunge is but if not:
take your right or left leg and put it behind you bent and step forward with the other leg bending and switch)


also walking helps improove your legs....

and 115-120 is what an average 13/f should weigh...


what does pure soul mean? cuz someone asked me Who is the person you know with the purest soul? what does that mean (link)
pure is kind of like prude but in a much better way,like hasnt done anything but not cause there afraid its cause they wanna stay with having no faults or sins


well. i went camping with my friend adam who brang his friend john with. we were walking in the woods and john was flirting with me and i finaly took his hand, forgetting he had a girlfriend already. so it got dark and the curfue was eleven. so we stayed out and i dont know how but me and john started to make out. and it was the first time i had ever made out in my life. so, we would always go on trails with adam and we would always make out. it was like me and john were together and that i was his girlfriend. they went home and we went home and when i got online, we started to talk. and i never liked his girlfriend. so me and her always talk now and now shes like my best friend. even tho she tells me sometimes to back away from john and stuff cuz he's hers. but i cant. finally, john promised me he would never hert me. i got online the next day, getting an IM from his girlfriend saying, omg. john purposed to me. so i got really pissed and started to cry. john still calls me cutie and still loves me. we're going camping in september again. what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
Okay, could it be true that shes making that up so you will really stay away....i think she might just be doing that but if its true you need to talk to john about it and tell him how you feel...as for the camping thing if its true,you shouldnt go cause he might wanna make out again and you will get hurt..i am so sorry if its true and guys are such @$$'$ sometimes....


alrighty sorry if this doesnt help but i hope it did



I am fat. I am about 5'0 and I wear a size 13. If I measer my stmach of my vignia area ( if you know what I mean.. It is two inches, so I really want a flat stomach. I go to cheerleading every saterday & sunday from 3 to 5 and we work out alot! That is so exercise. I was to loose weight ( enough to get a flat stomch) as soon as I can, like in two weeks but whenever I can. I hate perople calling me fat so I want to be skinny so I will look good in a two peice. I will go to realy good levels like extreem levels (as long as it is not starving myself). I am also really picky, the only vegtable I like is corn. So help!!

Sorry for the spelling errors.
I rate high! (link)
first off..im totally like this!! and i do cheerleading 3 days a week 10-12, and im wicked picky and everything..and im only 4'11 and im like size 11-13 and ppl call me fat all the time! so anyways...first to make you feel better its probably just baby fat(like me, im 13) and you probably have another growth spurt to go and you will loose all that fat , but if you wanna loose it ,you should excerise daily!(walking running crunches etc, make it routine) and only eat when your hungry..alot of people eat when there bored so get some hobbies. also eat small porpotions...you can loose 10 pds in one week if you eat only whats in the frigdge and like no sugar..such as apples oranges yogurt milk applesuace etc. 10 PDS thats a lot for one week..so try it and let me know how this all works for ya! and dont loose faith in it you will get tere if you set your mind to it!=)


all of my clothes are out of style but my parents wont let me get in style clothes i have already tried talking with them (link)
Ask them why they wont let you..maybe cause there expensive which they really are...so A save up your own money and buy them or get them at cheap stores or wait for clearance...if they still wont than you can make them stylish..todays jeans are all about the holes, so take a nail filer and pic a place on the pants and than rub it up it down and it makes cute holes. for shirts its easy to make them cute, just use your imagination...hope i helped


ok i have two questions and EVERYONE IS GAURANTEED A 5 unless you give me crap ((female))


1) I want to know knew ways to masturbate without stiking anything up because that doesnt feel good and i can pop my cherry please because i really dont find much pleasure in what i am doing now which is rubbiing my clit and yea....


2) How do i make myself in the mood beecause somedays im am like horny and some days im not....


thanks so much rememer 5's!! (link)
okay first off iwould like to say that dana person is wicked annoying..i read her advice and she deff. shouldnt have one...i mean people come here for serious advice and dana thinks shes wicked funny but shes not..oh and your not a perv its totally nature

so anyways...im so like you with the i dont wanna stick something up there and im soo glad i found someone like me! okay so anyways, i do the rubbing thing to ..you can go to www.google.com and than type mymasturbation.com and it has all these wicked cool ideas and stuff...

too get in the mood try ready dirty stuff online..that website will probably get you horney or watch porn or something

hope i helpedd=)


why are christians so afraid to share there faith! im a christian and im not afraid at all. why cant the "christians" who wont die for God stop calling themselves christians! (link)
Some Christians who are saved are scared to share there faith because they really truley in your heart dont believe in him and they only want to be saved so they can go to heaven! Or they can just be shy about that kind of stuff! Try praying for them. and keep up the good work!=)


Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell? (link)
First question :are you saved? if not that might be the problem

It is true god has a plan for everyone but some people dont choose to follow his plan. His plan is for everyone to go to heaven and with that he planned a strong christian life for them. Unfornatly some people dont follow gods plan. If you have doubts sometimes read the bible and pray to him about it and say i sometime have doubts help me know you are there.

hope this helped

drop 1 in my inbox if you want to know more=)


hey...well within the last year i have become christian. but lately i have been having my doubts. i have depression, and have had it for about 2 years now. i pray so much but i dont seem to be making any progress to becoming happier. i dont understand why my prayers arent getting answered. (link)
GOD IS REAL! ah had to get that out of my way. Anyways, prayer can take a while and sometimes you cant just ask to me happier you have to ask him to give you ideas and things to do that will make you happier. dont worry god answers all prayers!!! dont give up stay strong and read the bible! i hope i helped


Is there anyway possible that I can lose three pounds to fit in my dress in 10 days. Please help asap (link)
deff. possible

-set your mind to it
-stay away from sugar...for instances you can loose 10pds in one week if you only eat whats in the fridge(apples,organes yogurt etc)
-exsericse a lot

hope i helped!


Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-
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OMG! i totally agree with that whole paragraph!! I am so glad some one finally said something about it...madd props to you..


I know this is probably gross, but I have a serious question. My period is usually extremely heavy, soo bad that I use a SUPER PLUS tampon AND a long, overnight pad. And within an hour - hour and a half, it's everywhere (even going off the pad.) It's usually like that for 4-5 days. I hate going to school because I am constantly paranoid and worried that I'm leaking. Well I finally went to the gynecologist, and they got me on the pill. (I can't start it till the Sunday AFTER my period starts..which is already 2 months late.) Well I am scared I'll start at school. Everytime that happens, I get so nervous and I end up having a panic attack all day because its just sooo much blood. So my question is.. is there anything I can do in the meantime to make sure that I won't leak everywhere? (The pill is obviously going to make it lighter, but it's going to take a little while before its effective and kicks in.) (link)
for the meantime were a tampon and a pad and always keep a sweatshirt with you so than if you do leak you can tie it around your waste. dont worry its not bad at all if you leak most people wont notice and its just a little red dot and if it does leak just explain to the teacher i need to go to the bathroom im having some girl problems and they have to let you out. sorry if this doesnt help


I know this might sound nasty but ever since i can remember i have been having this really bad smell in my private area. i know most boys joke around talking about tuna smelling and stuff but i dont think its a joke. i dont think people can smell it when i hang out with them but im not sure if they smell it when i wear shorts? and i get this nasty white stuff in my under wear and mom knows about it. and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i dont want to smell and i dont want him to see that white stuff in my underwear. is there anything i could do to prevent from smelling because i wear purfume anyways. and how could i keep this stuff from my boyfriend. i really havent been smelling that bad lately but i dont want him to see the white stuff. can you please help me? anything will help!
thanx so much!

always kayla i rate high (link)
To get rid of the odor sleep with no underwear on at night because it releases the odor..trust me it works i had the same odor problem until my friend told my about it and it totally worked and i was so surprised! and wash it too. The white stuff is also totally normal but not if it gets chunky to keep it from getting on your underwear wear little thin pads and you wont feel it...

hope i helped =)




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