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My names Carlee. im 15 im about 5"2 (yeah im short you dont have to tell me) i just recently moved to virginia. Im a pretty outgoing person i get along with everybody and if you dont get along with me then theres ovbiously something wrong with you lol. I've been through a lot in the past few years. you name it and i've probably been through it.

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when i really really like someone im soo excited when they ask me out that my stomach hurts. but then after about an hour i dont want to go out with them anymore because i think of everything wrong with them. wuts wrong with me? its really annoying. like im SO picky..

yes. girls are like that, One day i can be flirting with a guy and im like hey i kinda like him and then the next day im like ew what was i thinking. its just typical teenage hormones.

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I have this friend and recently his girlfriend broke up with him. He's a total mess and he keeps tellin' me he's over it but i know that's a lie. he's being a frickin' physco! help!

This sounds exactly like my friend Trey. Every girl that he ends up going out with dumps him and he starts to get really depressed and cuts himself. Just try and say something to him about it and if hes being physco ask him if he wants to talk about it and if its something serious tell him that your kinda scared for him.

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i feel like i have come upon a dead end in my life. a boy that i like doesn't seem to feel the same for me and i don't think that i could work up the courage to tell him that i like him...what should i do aobut it?

your life hasnt come to a dead end just because a boy you like doesnt seem to feel the same. There will be plenty of other boys trust me. But if you think this boy is something really worth trying for just drop little hints and see if he flirts back most guys are scared to make the first move.

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my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f

I have this same problem my sister is a year younger than me and shes a freshman so everything i do or say and she finds out about it always gets back to my parents. Just find something that shes not good at or if a boy calls you or talks to you just throw it in her face. I would recomend you actually strangling her altho you want to lol but just find something to make her jealous bc thats most likly why shes doing it.

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Okay, Im kinda big if you kno what i mean but im not like huge and i cant get a boyfriend..but all my friends say im really pretty and everything but i dont think i am..is there anyway i can change how guys look at me ?? I wanna do it for me and not for them. I rate 5s
14/F ( if that helps )

I think every girl has gone through this before. Just try flirting a little more or dressing a little nicer when your around the guys. Try not to worry so much. You always find a boyfriend when you least expect it.

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i'm 13 years old and i'm only 4'11. i only have like 2 years left to grow (yes i've had my period already) and i really want to be at least 5'1 or something. if i have to spend the rest of my life being under 5 feet, i'll hate it a lot. i know to some people it may not seem like such a big deal but it kind of is to me. my parents are normal height so i don't know whats wrong?? so how can i get taller? like what should i eat? vitamins? thanks

When i was 13 i was 4"10 and now im 15 and im 5"2 so trust me i had the same issues you did but hey i eventually grew out of it . maybe you will too. and i never ate anything out of the ordinary or took any vitamins

hope i helped

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okay well i play volleyball and when i play i get sweaty.. but i put TONZ of deoderant(sp?) on but ik this sounds gayy,, but my boobs get sweaty and stink. hah ik grose. but is there any way i can prevent this??????? PLZ HELP. no smartass answers too. because if you do leave a smart ass answer you obviously have NO live :)

I know this is sounds kinda weird but when i know im going to be doing something that might make me sweat i put deoderant on my boobs . and most girls do sweat on their boobs.

hope i helped

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So I am going to start taking BC Pills and I was just wondering...
1. Will I gain or lose any weight or will my appetite increase/decrease? Is there any chance of that?
2. My friend was really PMSy when she started her pills. Was it because of the pills?
3. Can I get pregnant in the first week/two weeks of taking BCP?

1. It all depends on the medicine and how your body effects it bc on one BC it made me gain 10 pounds and then i changed bc it made me sick and now this new one that im on i've lost like 30 pounds.
2.It could be but everybody has different side effects.
3. The first week or two when your taking birth control doesnt really work. you should wait a little while in my opinion

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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!

Birthcontrol doesnt help prevent STD's and STI's. Therefore use a condom

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my question is how can you tell that guy is a virgin or not girl you can tell pop cherry but what about guys do they have some sign taht they are virgin? thx

necisarrily you cant tell if a girl is a virgin by her cherry bc i am a virgin and ive already popped my cherry. and i dont think there is any way you can tell.

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me and my bf just kissed yesterday..he did it so unexpected i got shocked..and im a little werided out cause i dont think i kissed right and he kissed weird...i love him so much nd it doesnt matter to me..but it just seems weird...i dont know what to do...and me and him want to kiss more

Your first kiss with someone new is always kind of weird bc everybody kisses different. Just wait and see how the next one goes . its really no big deal

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well i dont have zits on my face small little bumps are on my face as well as arms. Few are red mainly my skin color but they are noticeable. My face and back of my arms feel rough do you have any help?? please I will give you a 5 thankss

well the way your describing it it kinda sounds like eczima or im not sure if thats how you spell it but its pronounced egg-zi-ma but whatever i have it on my face but you have to get a prescripsion to clear it up . i can get really nasty if you dont get rid of it.

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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????

I dont blame you for not breaking up with your boyfriend until your for sure that the other guy likes you back or that yall have a chance with each other. Hey i've done it . i think you should go to this place with him and friends and just get to know him and see if you guys have some chemistry just try and not cheat on your boyfriend and if you do . tell him

hope i helped

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