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Tomorrow I'm going to a rock concert with a friend. What should I wear, and how should I do my hair and makeup?

Also, what do you think I should take? We're going to be standing near the mosh pit, and I don't want to lose anything valuable.

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
I've gone to 2-3 rock concerts, and one thing i learned is to go to weather.com or such and look at the weather for where you're going to be at and at that certain time. If its chilly, just wear a simple tee, and a cute not too heavy not to light jacket. Demin is great.

Wear something comfortable like jeans and flip flops or walking shoes.

Bring your phone and maybe a little bit money, but probably not a purse. a purse may get stolen, or is too much to carry around. bring a tube of gloss and you're all set!


ok so im 13/f
i wear makeup and everything but you know how celebrities get their lips to look like a light light pink? well how do they do that? it looks like really shiny and soft pink. My lips are like a dark pink and i hate ittt i want pink! haha help! (link)
well, it also depends on the celebrity. some celebrities just look really good because of the camera angle and such.

if you wnat it a light pink, try sheer pink lip gloss, really pink. apply 2-3 layers of it and it'll make your lips look nice and pink.

remember to wipe your mouth hard before applying the lip gloss, lip skin is uncomfortable with lip gloss, especially since it gets into the gloss.

buy mac or shiseido lip gloss, they both work great!


I saw the movie disturbia and I was wondering if anyone knew the ringtone that Ashley put on Kale's fone so when Ronnie called it was ring a speical tone:does anyone know what song that was?
thanks so much (link)
The song is called "Me So Horny"

its a cute funny song.

i loved disturbia! it was a great movie.


Okay today during my martial arts class my boyfriend (18/m) got kicked below the belt where it hurts... and since then he's been in quite abit of pain, less then an hour after he urinated some blood... 4 hours after the incident he has aching in his testicles and is still leaking some blood. Should he go to the doctors in the morning? I'm really worried about him but I don't know how serious it is as I haven't seen him since it happened... I won't be able to talk to him until the morning now but what should I do? (link)
Definitely call 911, or the hospital.

Try to convince him to get some help.

Even though he's going to try to fix it himself, the smartest thing to do is to get to a hospital.

trying to fix it WILL make it worse if you do not know what you're doing.

and you PROBABLY don't know what you're doing.

get help. AND FAST.


i'm not really sure if i am confident on asking any girl out (link)
Of course you are. the thing you fear is rejection especially in front of everybody. Just ask her casually, if you can see her privately and ask her. As many guys might tell you, you need to look cool or something, thats not true. girls like guys who they feel confortable around. just be easy going and ask normally, as you ask anybody else a question.

she might say yes, she might say no. you may never know till you ask her.


I'm 13/f...Well, my best friend is a guy. Lets call him...Colby. What happened was, Colby has been a dating machine..hes irresistable to girls. Whenever he goes out with one, im left out. He completely ignores me, he doesnt call me ever, or comes over my hous anymore. This only happens when he has a gf. So i had the nerve to go up and tell him how i felt about it. He said that he promises that it ill never happen again and we will be like we used to ( this happened after he broke up with his old gf) So, colby goes out with this other girl lets call her..Dylan. He always talks about how they make out and all that so of course ill be nice ( no im not jealous and i dont like like him) and say wow thats cool. So he knows who i like and i talk to him aobut the guy i like and his response ould be nmothing..!! he just gets up and leaves..it makes me feel awful..but i love him so much like a friend!! and i dont wanna lose him but he makes me feel im not important and i dont belong in his life... SORRY ITS SOO LONG!!

From,
~.:MixedEmotions:.~ (link)
i know its hard, but if this person REALLY doesn't care about you, i don't really thing its worth it. Obviously, he must have some feelings left for you if he wants to rub it in you so bad. Don't let this guy control your feelings! tell him, if he doesn't act like a real friend should, you guys shouldn't be friends.

although you don't want to lose him, you're going to lose you along the way if you don't.


If a girl hits u all the time does that mean she likes u. and if it does should i ask her out (link)
you may never know. maybe that girl is playing with you to get somebody else jealous. try to get your friends to find out, and if it turns out she does because of all this playful hitting, go for it!

or, just use your instinct. do you really feel confident with asking out this girl?


I have a wonderful boyfriend! We have been going out for a week now, and he is very nice, sweet, and pretty funny. Except he smells really bad some times when I am near him, like I smell no deodorant or cologne on him at all. It's very dreadful! Especially since he has gym at school and it makes it worse afterwards.

I would really hate to say anything, so what can I do to give him the message he stinks? (link)
Never be too harsh. Being straightforward might hurt his feelings, and you never meant to do that!

You should always work your way around it. Sometimes just bring the topic up. like "why don't you wear deodarant sometimes?" really gently. "becasue sometimes, like all guys, you have some body odor". or, you can buy him some deodorant and give it to him as a present and ask him to use it.


So i heard that using mascara can damage your eyelashes and make them fall out...

is this true????

Are there any (good) mascaras (that i can get frmo a drugstore) that really add a lot of volume to lashes?? preferably an undamaging one (conditioning??) (link)
mascara DOESN'T damage your eyelashes. It only volumizes it and makes it look nicer.

I use volume by loreal, or the shisedo mascara. They're both really reliable, but the shiseido one might be a bit expensive at 20$+.


hey well im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend and he's the most awsome guy ever he like always talks to me on the phone and tells me he loves me and hugs me. But there is this kid noah who really likes me and has liked me since 3rd grade and he keeps making me stuff and its really cute and he is really nice and i like him but i love my boyfriend. but my boyfriend dosen't treat me ,like noah does . noah is real sweet!! SO can you help i dont know who i should take or let go :( .. so can you HELP>>??>>??>>?? (link)
i really cannot help you on this answer, but i'll try.

who do you like the most? stick with the person who you think would treat you better. noah might be a little stalkerish, and if you go with him, he might be a fake. but now, you have a great boyfriend. i would stay with the boyfriend personally, because he's already presented his love for you. but noah, for all you know, could be just doing this because of some weird reason.


hey everyone! please recomend your favorite song. i need a new myspace song seeing as the old got deleted. umm songs with lyrics dealing with heartbreak would be best. rock or pop would also be good. thanx (link)
I like-

the sweet escape by gwen stefani
icebox by omarion
this is why i'm hot


Hello! I am on a diet which yes, I consulted my doctor about already and everything is good to go. Can anyone recommend some good low calorie beverages for me? Thank you! (link)
Hunts bitter lemon, ginger ale, or orange drink.
These drinks are only about 2 calories each. They give you a pretty low-med amount of energy, but they taste okay.

Always continue to drink your milk. REMEMBER THAT! A lot of people drop milk when they're on a diet, but the truth is that Dairy products contain literally hundreds of compounds that all have a positive effect on human health and enhance the fat-burning machinery.

Tomato juice, tomato soup, vegetable soup are all low cal and really good for you.

GOOD LUCK!


i dont really like to read unless im really interested in the book,then i love to read.im really interested in books about teenage girls who have been raped or have boyfriends problems,etc.
i have already read "speak." i just need some other ideas pleaaaaasssee.
thank you :) (link)
I'm the same way. I love drama books where something ACTUALLY scandalous happens or something crazy, or a life where its a lot different.

Try to CLIQUE series, they're really good books. Try GOSSIP GIRL as well and THE A-LIST and THE IT GIRL.

They're all basically rumor books, and really interesting to pass your time. (:

hope i helped!


Hey im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend that is almost 14 and he is like the sweetest guy ever. and i love him to death !! But We bolth have this thing were we wanna kiss eachother but we dont know how long we should or how intament it should be so can you help me??? should iit be a peck on the cheek or like lip locking ? we wanna lip lock but yeah can you help?? (link)
So basically, I can't be there to help when it happens. So you're on your own. Kissing just kind of happens, its a kind of magic that no one can tell you want to do. But keep these facts in mind-

-Do it when the time is right.
-You might want to do it in privacy, since its your first...
-Chew a minty gum or some breath refresher before
-Tilt your head to the right when doing it
-It depends on how you feel. You can do it long, but don't go all out and french kiss. It'd be probably awkward.
-Always remember not to be nervous. Because when it happens, everything will be perfect!

good luck! i can't help you much, but if you need anymore help, just ask me (:


im confused, shall i get the nintendo Wii, or the playstation 3. ps3 looks amazing, great graphics, etc. but the Wii is just so crazy cool! its like, "The Console Of The Future!!" but has bad graphics! any help to make me deice will be appreciated, thanks. (link)
I personally have the WII as well, and I have every other consel out there. The only one I don't have is PS3, as I don't care much for it.

TIPS:
WII- new idea. nintendo has great games out and it costs less. Its super fun, family kind of fun.

PS3- usually for older people. good graphics, not much new about it. way expensive, price goes down in the future=not that great after all.

I really think you should go with the WII, because its a better investment.


i totally envy those girls with really curly hair. and i was wondering, is there ANYTHING i can get to make my hair curly. ive always had pretty wavy/kinda curly hair hair so yeah..thanks! (link)
Alright. I'm a straight hair girlie. But I do curl my hair sometimes. Go out and buy a hair curler! Or you can use mousse and apply it on your hair. Then take a pencil and curl it and leave it like that for about 1-2 min. It'll be nice and naturally curly.


well i started dating my friend.
He was like my best guy friend and now were dating but we never hung out

any ideas on what to do on our first hang out /date???

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Keep it casual. Don't do anything very romantic and don't expect much. You guys are best friends! You know you're common interests. Do something fun, not just a dinner somewhere. Walk on the beach, go to a cool cafe, just HAVE FUN. You can't make it all awkward from going from friend to soul mates in one day. Its all a PROCESS.

go and enjoy yourself!


i used to like this one boy alot. and we were always supposed to hang out and things but it just never happend and we slowly stopped talking. its hard to see him and not say anything and i really wanna get back to where we were. i thought i would be able to get over him but i cant i still really like him. what should i do to get back to where we were. how to i slowly get back to that. like flirt in the halls at school till he shows that he wants to be together again??. thanks!! so much. (link)
really, you can never get back to that same stage that you like. no matter what you do, you'll never be that way again. i'm sorry, but its true. it has happened to me before. start finding out what he likes again and where he's going to be. start talking to him more and avoid the awkardness! the faster your "Friendship/flirtation" is renewed, there'll be less a hole. Start talking to him again! Start hanging out with him. Be a GOOD friend. Catch him in the times he needs a friend. Just be there for him. and you'll be kinda back to that flirting fling!


I have this friend, let's call her V. I think she's really hilarious and overall a really fun and a good friend. But pretty much everyone in my class hates her because she's annoying. I wouldn't think this is a big problem, but my bf says the reason he doesn't talk to me at school is I'm always with her and we've pretty much broken up because of this. Also, some kids from my class have gotten grudges against me and pretty much everyone just hates me because I'm her friend.

What, oh what should I do? Should I stop being her friend? (link)
Basically, this is a good time to figure out your true friends and your fake ones. you shouldn't stop being that "annoying" person's friend if you really enjoy that person's company! And only your true friends will stick with you. But if you don't like that friend a lot and that person isn't special to you, you don't need to hang out with her as much. Maybe your friends are also kind of jealous that you've been spending a lot of time with her. Tell her that you need some space sometimes so you can be with both. (:


ok well heres the thing i think my boyfriend is cheating on my but im not 100% sure. we've been going out for almost 11 months and like last month he said he thinks that im the one. Like im the only girl he thinks hes actually been IN LOVE with. but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause i heard he was going to but then he got reallyy mad at me and we talked after shcool and he said he wasn't going he was just having a bad day and was thinking about it. so we got back together and ever sense then he has been like kind of mean to me. like now it doesn't even seem like he likes me that much. and on his myspace he has been talking to this girl named taylor and then during art yesturday he was talking to his friend zach and was just like yeahh i talked to taylor for like 3 hours last night but he whispered it and didn't think i could hear him and i was like you talked to taylor for 3 hours? and he smiled and was like uh no. then i got mad and hes like im just kdiding! and said he just talking to his friend jeremy and mike. but he invited her to this concert thing friday and he wanted me to go too but he invited her first, and he goes to a different school but please tell me if there are ways i can tell if he would be cheating on me! HELP PLEASE!!! thanks! (link)
sometimes, people are good enough to hide cheating and you may never find the proof but you just know it. a good idea is probably to ask all your friends what they're doing. if they have any activities where they might see your boyfriend, send them on a mission! they could find out if he's cheating or just bluffing or just lying or just innocent. ask his friends where hes going. sure, this is KINDA spying, but its worth it for your relationship!




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