Hey ya'll my name is Ashley and i'm fourteen yrs. old. I have brown hair, hazel eyes, and i'm 5'4". I play softball and volleyball and i love boys of course!! I was in my school's pageant this year and got in the top 15 so i'm proud of that. I love horses, dolphins, and the SOUTH of course. I'm a country gurl born in Texas and raised in Alabama. I decided to have an advice column because I've been told that I give pretty advice. Also like everybody else in this world i need it sometimes too!! well my aim screen name is rutterbutter14 so im me if you want to talk on there cuz i'd luv to chat with ya'll bout nething!!
Luv always!!,
advicehotti21
~~~ASHLEY~~~
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama
Occupation: softball player
Age: 14
AIM: rutterbutter14
Member Since: April 21, 2005
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hey! i have a huge problem. lately i have been taking the biggest slams ever. i mean they hurt so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o bad. wat should i do?
- it hurts but i have 2 get it out (link)
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Dennis stop with the frickin slam questions lol!!! and if they are really that bad go to a doctor but i dont want those kinda questions on here plz!!!!
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
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No, i think that it is impossible to fall in love truely when your thirteen. You might think your in love with someone but the reality of it all is your only thirteen your way too young to be thinking about love. His mom is right you're way too young to be dating for real. Wait till your at least 15 then talk about loving someone!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do? (link)
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There is a simple answer to this solution if you really love your boyfriend you wouldn't flirt with other guys. I know its hare but you have to resist if you truely dont want to hurt him!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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i'm 13 and not allowed to wear make up. my mom thinks i'm too young (what's the big deal, though? it's not like i'll turn into a slut or something!). my dad.... anyway! i was wondering if there was something kind of like make up or something or whatever any tiups on how i can look prettier like i would with make up but is not very noticable (except it makes me look a little better). ways to make my lashes longer, little bit rosier cheeks, whatever. but as long it doesn't make me look cheap or anything. if this helps, i'm a brunnette, darkish beige skin, lightish brown eyes, full (but not huge) lips. i'll rate 5's to everyone who helps. (link)
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To make your cheeks rosier when u want to without make up pinch them... it works and no make-up products are invovled. To make you eyelashes curl use and eyelash curler they work without mascara too ya kno!
Luv,
advicehotti21
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f/14
I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere (link)
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i have the same problem and they haven't answered me yet i'll relay the answer to you when i recieve it thanx bye
Luv,
advicehotti21
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I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 monthes now, and we havent kissed yet... part of the problem is that i havent really found the time right, i would like a spot that (i know this may be kinda unlikly) but later on down the road maybe if i proposed to her, it would be the same spot... the other problem is that she never makes any "moves". The only times we talk is when i call her, (or at school) and the only times she ever calls me, is when she missed my call and is just returning it. Now a bunch of things are going on, and we are both a little buisier (sp) and really stressed out. We both have a really short fuse at the moment, and i know sometimes i can be kinda annoying. What should i do since we are both really, really competative, im affraid if i dont say it exactly right, it will turn into a fight, and i havent had one with her (or any girl) yet, but i really dont want to... so what should i say to her to kinda tell her i dont want to be doing everything in the relationship? (link)
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First of all i have no idea how old you are but it doesnt really matter all girls want is their boyfriends to make them feel special. They want you to make the move because all gurls are nervous and they don't want to feel like they're not doing it right because if they thought you didnt like them because they didnt know how to kiss that would make them feel really bad. It sounds like this girl is very typical and is shy when it comes to being alone with her boyfriend this is why she keeps all her friends tight around her for support. What you need to do is just the next time you feel the need to kiss her or hug her and her friends are around be a bigger person and do it right in front of them then your girl will take the hint and spend alot more time alone with you if she knows she is safe and that you dont feel like shes doing it wrong just make sure you do not take advantage of her cuz that will screw you and her up big time hope that helps
Luv,
advicehotti21
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In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!
Wales Bullied (link)
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KILING urself is defenately not the answer. you should never have to resort to this form of emotional lift because it does not work. Here's my advice to help you out with your extremely common problem.I'm going to give you some different solutions so you can choose because i don't know these bullies or your school functioning. 1. You should never let anything that bullies say offend you this is just their way of expressing themselves. They have probly had sum emotional damage in their lives r have been bullied before and had no one to tell them they don't need to become one to fight bullies. 2.You should probably tell your teacher and u will probably find that these bullies have other victims too don't let this scare you it just means that the bullies will be in even more trouble. Your treacher will make sure to keep them away from you by either sending them to a detention center or changin their school schedule where they will not be able to pick on you. 3. Don't try to fight these bullies becasue fighting isnt the answer this will just make it worse if you try to fight them. Have your friends back you up and dont pay attention so much on what is being said badly toward you but what peoplke say is good about you and u will be much better off
Luv,
advicehottie21
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