Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
I'm very experienced with sex questions and will always be interested!
Love, Liz xx
E-mail: lovelyliz_askme@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: England
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Age: 18
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13/f
I've been really forgetful lately (just about everything), and i've just been really stupid (like asking question that the answer is like DUHHHHH, then after I ask im just like...ohhhhhhhh!)
I can tell my friends are getting reallllyyy annoyed with me..what can i do? is this a mental condition, or am i just going through the normal cycle of puberty?
Thanks:) (link)
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As far as i know, it is just normal :D I have the same sort of thing, but not always, it's just random clumsieness :D Nothing to worry about, although if your still worried about it talk to your mum or dad about it :D They (she mostly) will probably know all about it :D
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I really want to get a summer job but all the places i look want someone who is 16+ and i am 15. I did not actually go to the actual places but looked them up online. Is it possible to persuade a business to hire a 15 year old or should i just wait until next year. I would love to know if there are places that would be more inclined to hire someone my age.
if this helps:
-i have a 3.3 GPA
-only been absent once since my high school
-i am in the national honor society
-i take the most challenging courses they offer for sophomores at my school
Thank you in advance!!
i live in a suburb of Baltimore if that helps any (link)
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Most jobs will only take 16+ , but there are many jobs that take 14+ too. Here's a few:
*Babysitting - may not be your cup of tea, but the pay is good
*Some small corner shops - Where i live there is a shop that accepts 14+ that don't need experience
*You could help tutor younger kids, to help them with exams - People will pay if they think it will help their kid to good in exams
Hope this helps, and that you get a job you like :D
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Okay my friend is always telling me, only like guys that like you back. But how would I know if they like me back, and like the guys that do like me, I dont like them..
So how cause I get a guy to like me back? (link)
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well your friend isn't necessarily right. you can like anyone you want to like, and you will never know unless you ask them. They could not like you (in that way) but come around to liking you after getting to know you :D Hope this helps :D
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15/f. Well all girls have feelings of horneyess lol, although guys do too. What do yall think its fair that guys can be open about this feeling and its all good, like asking girls "can you suck me up?". But girls if they express any of their sexual feeling or disires they are kind of like a slut or hoe? What are your feelings on that? Cause its been in my mind for a quick minute. (link)
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i totally agreee! To guys it is just a joke and it makes them look cool to say stuff like that, but if a girl says it, then they are slutty. It is just stereotypes, i think
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Okay.
im 14 and still in a twin bed and I hate it.
Im talking to my Mom about getting a new bed a bigger bed and she's talking Christmas!! well I was wondering if anyone knew how much they usually go for so I can start saving up, I already have like 200 but do not wanna clean my saving out when i know there expensive. also if anyone knows any chain of Matress stores that sell Matresses and Box Springs Cheep.
I live in New Hampshire so anythign will be helpful (link)
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Relyon are very good (and comfy!) all my family have them, and we love them ! my bed means allot to me, and i think it is great! If you go to Relyon (or any bed store) ask them if they have any that have problems, so they will sell for discount (all of my families are, and most of the time they would through out a matress because it had a slight stiching problem or something small!) Good Luck zZz:)
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18/f and 20/f
My boyfriend usually knows when I am on my period and knows to stay away from anything sexual during those few days. I'm supposed to be on it right now but I'm running a bit late. When I tried to well...start things with him today he questioned my period. I simply explained that I was a little late but it's no big deal because it's not unusual for me. Well, that didnt help at all and now his is over his head in fear.
I know I'm not--but he won't be satisfied until I get my period. He wants to tell his mother about it and I cant seem to talk to him out of it. I asked him to give it a few days before saying anything but he won't listen.
I dont want his mother to think we're being irresponsible when nothing is certain. If in fact we are pregnant, I will certainly go to both sets of parents with him--but not until then. How can I get him to understand? (link)
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i agree with mangy_momma (sp?) but you can get a pregnacy test (one that you have to pee on (lol)) and it will tell you whether you're pregnant. They are not always correct, but if you suspect pregnancy then leave it 3-5 days after sex to take the test (the test will explain it better) you can buy them at local supermarkets.... Just talk to him :D
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well my thighs aren't big, but i'd like them thinner. i was wondering if i was to work them out if the fat would just turn into muscle and they would only get tighter not thinner. can anyone help me out? (link)
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Yh i don't think surgery is the answer, but neither is straving or anything like that. If you exsercise then they will turn to muscle, but they will look tighter, and they will have the effect of looking thinner. I am quite small for my age (thin) but my thighs are big. I excericise them regularly and they do look smaller because they don't sagg, they're held up :D Hope this helps :D
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okay so i jus recently met this boy brad. so brad and i started talking. fliring non-stop. and hes taking me on a date real soon. he says he likes me already. hes a major babe. he says im the prettiest girl hes ever seen. always talks good things about me to my friends. but here comes the problem. rachel, his ex. shes a friggin bitch to be honest. they went out for 3 years. they broke up and got back together in feb. its anoyying how hes so stupid and goes back to her. i remember him telling me that i was changing is mind fast about him forgetting her. i honestly do not know why he likes her. she recently cheated on him. they broke up. then she does something to make him forgive her. and honestly it pisses me off. hes all i think about. i know me and him would be a good couple. okay hes even told my SISTER and BEST friend he likes me. YOU DONT TELL A GIRLS SISTER & BEST FRIEND YOU LIKE HER THEN GO BACK OUT WITH YOUR EX. im so confused. i really dont know if this is guna be another break up soon. but its like if me and him get serious i dont want her coming back in the picture then him leaving me for her. i really want her to just move on and get a boy. BUT he says the only reason he is with her is so she doesnt go with another guy. WOW RIGHT!? he said that to my best friend amanda. amanda and him are good friends, he tells her everything. so im realy confused. what should i do? please dont say MOVE ON. becuase i honestly have tried, its too hard. i need him in my life, more then a friend. it kills me to say this ... i think i love him. i think about him 24.7 .. talk about him all the time .. when i talk to him i smile all the time. i dont know what to do .. does he like me more then her? is he jus playing me? .. p.s this story will change daily & id realy appreciate if i could get someones screenname so you could tlel me wat to do wen he changes things up? THANKS SO MUCH!! (link)
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Not being mean or anything, but it does seem like he may be messing around with you. I know how it feels to love somebody who is torn between two, but perhaps you should talk to him when you go on that date you said about? If it were me, i would just ask him whether he is still interested in his ex and where you are with him? I hope this helps, and sure you can talk to me about it any time ;D Tell me how things go with him! :D My screename? I'm not sure what you mean? do you mean my msn? or my advicenators name? cos if it's advicenators, click on Xxx-lulu269-xxX at the top of this message to go to my collomn, and then you can mail me ! :D
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15/f
Hi, I'm 15 years old, mostly developed. 34C. I have an issue- my nipples are two different colors. I have one breast that it slightly larger than the other, and this one's nipple is about 6 shades lighter than the other. One is reddish/tan and the other one is closer to peach. Is this a bad sign? Can someone please tell me what this is? Thank you (link)
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um i'm not sure what it is, but there are a few things you can do to help :D
~Go to a doctor and get it checked out, it could be serious or it could still be your body changing. (you can ask for a female doctor if you want, they are all very understanding!)
~Go on youtube and watch (and follow) a self-breast-examination, and if you're still suspicious of the results go to the doctors
~Go to http://www.bbc.co.uk/slink/sexlovelife/ask_dr_mel.shtml her name is Dr. Mel and she is great at telling you proffesional advice (much better than i could) as she specializes in this type of thing ! :D Hope you get it sorted :D
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on msn, whats a pending request??? because i have 16 and i have noooo idea what they are?!
Thanks:) (link)
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It can mean that someone has sent you a request to see changes you make to you're account :d you can also send pending requests! I didn't know up til a while ago either and i just clicked on it ad it explains it ! hope this helps :D
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ok well im 14/f and live in small town USA I have been SI'ing for like 4-5 years now and i really wanna stop i am really wating to get closer to God ad this is just holdig me back from living the life i want to. See i started becuse it felt good it feel something other than emotions? idk how to word it but my father was abusive i was never touched but i saw what he did to my sisters and my brother and well i dont know if that has anything to contribute to it. Now that Im away from him and have been for a while i relized i want to change. I dont know how so I guess thats what im asking. HOW CAN I CHANGE AND STOP SELF INJURING???? That includes cutting and stuff like that anything that causes me pain.
Before you ask I never wanted attention and well am asking on here so i dont get the wrong type.
Allie (link)
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perhaps when you were around and he was hurting your siblings you felt like you had to be hurt as well. Now that he's gone you don't have to. If it were me i would punch the pillow every time i wanted to SI. You can also go to many places (youth Centres) to cool down, or to get encouragement to stop. These places aren't just for SIers, any one can go so you don't have to say it's because of SI if you dont want to ! Another way is to talk to someone close to you about it and get their encouragement to stop! hope you stop soon :D Good Luck, Liz xx
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ughh ok this is really embarrassing and thank god my name doesnt show up with this. But... how do u makeout? like ppl have told me and stuff but can someone actually give me like really goood guidelines? (link)
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Well if you're a boy:
Just kiss her and put your tounge to her teeth and if she opens her mouth then go in, if not then she's not ready for tongue yet. then just move your tongue around her mouth and she will too :D
If you're a girl:
Same goes, but you might want to wait for him to touch your teeth. Depends how straight forward you are! :D
Hope this helps :D
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i have a question about shaving your legs. my friend said that you shouldnt shave your legs till the hair turns black and i have blond hair on my legs but i am embrassed in gym class and summer is coming up so i was wondering if i should start shaving my legs now. also i shave my armpits and im 13. Thanx =) (link)
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I'm 13 and i shave my armpits, thats fine. But with your legs i have totally the same problem! Although i think about doing it, i dont think shaving your legs is the right option, until perhaps your a bit older lol. I would suggest using a tanning cream on your legs (that's what i do) which makes your hair and legs the same colour and make them less visible, which will msort the imbarassment out :D you will have to keep this on a regular basis!
Also you get tanned legs!
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I'm 16, soon to be 17 in june, and I don't like tampons. Im scared that I'll get that TSS, and everytime I tried to wear one, it still bleed onto my panties, and i hate the feeling when taking them out. Is it normal or weird to like pads over tampons at my age? (link)
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it's totally not wierd! 1/4 of Britians Teens (just the girls) use pads, not tampons, and if you're not comfortable with it, then donr use them! Nobody has to know which you use, and if they do and micky take cos of it then so what, you could micky take them for using tampons! hope this helps hunn :D
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ok. i'm young. 14. and i have considered having sex with a boy that is a year older than me. he refuses to have sex without a condom. but i know even with it, it could break or whatever. i want to have sex with him. i feel ready. the only thing is i want to go on birth control, but my parent can't find out. 1-i live in a rndom place, the closest planned parenthood is pretty far. so where can i buy it. like wal-mart, walgreens ? what is a good kind that isn't that much. like i can pay like up to $40, maybe $50 a month for it. and do you need to have a doctor's ezam or whatever first ?
thank you so much for anyone that helps. :] (link)
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If it were me, i would use double dutch. Thats wear you use contraceptive pills AND a condom. They're not very expensive, but you will need to go to a chemist/doctor to buy them/pick them up. Although you are under age, so you do know that it is breaking the law? you may need to have a Dr.s exam, i'm not too sure sorry.
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ok so i babysit for this 10 month old and i have been since he was about 6 months old.. and latley ive just been having these weird feelings like i want a baby of my own.. like i look at baby clothes and stuff online and i dont know why im feeling like this i think im way to young im only 16.. but i just want to know why im having these feelings? like there really strong to. (link)
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My best friend's mum recently had a baby and every time i look after him/go and visit them i feel like i want one too. It's not quite the same because i dont really babysit him , but your probably feeling sort of motherly, looking after him and you miss him when he's not there, like anyone who looked after kids as long as you have! Waot untill your old enough and you want a kid with someone you love, and then it will be even more special :D
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last night april 5th, my boyfriend was fingering me, not actually in the hole, and im so afraid that i might be pregnant. I was stroking his penis and i felt wet stuff coming out if it, but im not sure if it was sperm. and i asked him if he touched himself and then touched me and if there was something on his hands, but he says his positive he didnt have anything on his hands and its fine. im supposed to get my period sometime this week. they vary between 20- even about 30 days and im on day 26. im just reallyyyy scared. im screwed if im pregnant. please answerrr. im just so scared. (link)
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It's really unlikely for you to get pregnant this way, and as you still have a couple of days to go I wouldn't worry! The more you think about it the longer it will take for your period to come, just luck that that happens when you wait for something! It will be fine!
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