hey everyone!
my name is sam and i'm 16 and i live in wisconsin. I'm a sophmore. I'm pretty good at advice, as i've had many problems of my own and helped many friends get through theirs. I hope to help out anyone who needs it!!
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Location: Wisconsin
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Age: 16
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My boyfriends birthday is coming up and ive got no clue what to get him. He plays lacrosse and basketball. We've been going out for a month and i need some ideas please help!!! It cant cost too much and i need ideas soon! (link)
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get a nice frame and put a pic of you and him n it and give it to him.. you could get him a cd.. a dvd or something like that, or even a gift certificate
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OMG TODAY I CAUGHT A LIZARD, IT IS SOOO ADORABLE, EVEN THOUGH THEY ALL LOOK ALIKE I THINK IT IS JUST SOO CUTE!!! DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY NAMES FUR 1?? (link)
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if its green, kiwi, sugar, bandit, baby, babe, cocoa, confetti, honey, speedy, cuddles, .. you could try searching google for more names ( these were just off the top of my head ) lemme know what name you pick!! good luck
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** instead of using the guys real name i'll use Joe-
well first of all .. Joe asked me for the name of my friend Lilly bcuz he got her #- and i wouldnt tell him and hes all dont tell her i 4got it and i put a smiley face and hes all Grl dont be an ass and do this- and hes all stay out of my life.. then a min or two l8r he said well at least outa my love life- then this stuff happend-
Me): i dont get why u have to get with a bunch of grl.. why dont u be happy with one?
Joe): I dont have one, **** and I are broken up
Me): ok but i mean im sure she still cares and possibly hurts her if ur with other grls
Joe):***** doesnt care just chill out what does it matter?
Me): im just sayin and tryin to point that out 2 u because you shouldnt be a player all ur life
Joe): wtf just because I played you doesnt mean I play everyone else ok
Joe): Im single
JOe): I can go for any girl that I want
Me): ok
Joe): Im still in love with ***** and Im not going to hook up with that chick
Me): im just tryin to point sumthin important out 2 u dont get all bitchy at me
Joe): well you're jumping into my love life
Me): k sry.
Joe): no one ever said I was going to hook up with that girl
Joe): I dont even know her name
Joe): just chill
Me): k
Joe): why do you care if I get her #?
Me): i dont care- but i just dont seeing u play grls- idk why but it just bothers me sumtymes- because it seems like you dont care or something
Joe: how the hell is getting a girls # playing her?!
Joe): Im single
Me): nvm u dont get it
Me): btw her names Lilly
- then i stopped talkin 2 him.. I really love him and im soo stupid for it.. but idk what to do? i need sum advice please help!!
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if you know he plays girls then don't waste your time and don't let him break your heart which probably will happen, most likely he won't change and i think you should find someone else who will treat you right, and WON'T play you.. if hes played you once, he probably will play you again.. don't put yourself out there just to get hurt again, i know this is hard, but you have to move on and find a guy that you will like and he won't play you! good luck!
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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get out of there fast!! leave your husband,, maybe u love him but don't put yourself or your daughter at risk, what happens if one time he takes it out of hand and really hurts you daughter, shes only 2, she can't defend herself.. i know its hard but if you stay ur endangering yourself and ur daughter.. also if you think he will hurt you if you leave then get the police involved.. its illegal for him to do that to u and to your daughter!!
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ok im trying to rearrange/redecorate my room and i have kind of like a lilac color on the wall with white trim and white doors. well i have this old furniture thats like old wood and i need to do something new with it that would match the lilac/white color scheme in my room. if you have ne ideas please help! im totally lost:( (link)
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maybe try picture frames, posters & things like that.. you could try a bulliton board, a dry erase board and mount those on your wall, you could also try doing a collage with clipings from magazines and things like that. good luck
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I cant decide between staying in dance (which ive been in for 11 years) ONLY, or doing sports. If I do sports I'd be doing water polo, swimming, track, and maybe the dance team at my school. I know thatd be fun too and I think thatd probly make me more popular too!!?? But also I love to dance. Im confused (link)
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do what you love and not what will make you popular, i mean don't you want to be popular for you and not what you do!? it will make you feel better that way if you do get popular.. and im sure you will if your yourself and everything..
on the other hand, you still will be on a dance team if you do sports that way you will still be doing dance (what you love) and sports (which might make you popular) what ever you do.. make sure its you, and make sure its what you want and will make you feel good, good luck!
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OMG, Like one day i was like at the beach and like me n my friends were like swimming in the ocean, and like i went under water (salt water) and opened my eyes and saw sponge-bob square pants and patrick! No one believed me but i swear on anything i saw them!! anyways my question is, am i famous now??? (link)
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if no one believes you then your not famous, in order to be famous ppl have to make you it and believe in you! sorry hun
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what do the smiley faces on the right side of each question mean?? (link)
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its rating the quetsion.. if your question is to long or to small or inappriate it will get :( if its ok then it will get a :| and if its a good question then it will get a :)
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Ok I have this kinda weird friend...and she has been deprived of sex for quite awhile. She has a black lab and the other day she decided to let her dog F... her. I thought it was beyond weird, then she tried to get me to do it and I freaked. What do I do, what do I tell her? please help me, I know this is far beyong weird! (link)
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tell her that she can do what ever she wants, but you don't want to do it.. if you don't want to she should respect that. it is really weird but shes still your friend even if she does this. just stand up for yourself and don't be pressured into doing something you don't want to!
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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if he didn't like you, he proably wouldn't have kissed your hand.. i mean does he do that to every girl? probably not, so i think that means he likes you.. if he does like you i think you have a chance with him in high school and he probably is thinking about you if he likes you & if he does like you, its most definatly in a good way.. i think its a good thing that he finally got the nerve to ask you to dance.. and maybe thats just the begining! :) good luck!
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k i hav a bf he is awesome wev been out places be4 my moms never met him nos about him tho and he wants me to go over his house i want to go if i ask my mom what if she wants to talk to his mom first or something? ugh i hate that. who nos hois parents might not even b there.. (link)
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ask your boyfriend if his parents will be there and if they won't maybe reschedule so that his parents will be there and your mom will let you go.. if she needs to talk to his mom then thats not the worst thing in the world.. its better then her going to the door with you just to make sure his parents are there! so just have ur mom call his mom & im sure everything will be fine! don't worry about it.. good luck!
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Hey. I'm a 13 year old girl who is obessed with being in a relationship. I can't be alone. I've been with my boy friend for 9 months and we've broken up numberous times and i just seem to get back with him. I thought the world was going to end when we broke up, almost like im obessed with being with someone, like i cant be alone. He doesnt always treat me good, but he does sometimes. I just dont know what to do anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions with what i can do. I've tried to get over it but i keep running back to him, like a lost puppy, and im afraid that this will lead to worse thing when im older and in a more serious relationship. Please help me.
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if he doesn't treat you right all the time and only some of the time, he's not right for you.. try to find a guy that is right for you and will treat you well, maybe someone else that is at your school.. don't act like you need him even if you do because then he probably thinks he can treat you however he wants and you will keep coming back.. i know its hard thing to do, but hang in there and maybe that right guy will come along for you.. just don't seem to desperate, be yourself and im sure you will get a relationship and a guy that will treat you well!! good luck
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Ok, this guy I met at a party well he likes me and I like him and he told me this and he told me he wanted 2 get 2 kno me better and he also said that he wanted 2 b in a relationship w/ me but yesterday i got an email from him saying this girl he had a crush on 4 a long time asked him out and now they're going out. what should I do? should i email him back and say how i feel? help!!!! (link)
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i think you should be honest and tell him how you feel, because then he'll know what he's giving up. Also, if your upset with him for leading you on and saying that he wanted to be in a relationship i would tell him that.. be as honest as you can and who knows it just might pay off in the end! good luck!
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well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time and we have flirted for a long time and i finally told someone that i liked her ( my best friend ) well the next day he asked her out and now they go out and wen ever i am out with them which is pretty often i get mad at them but dnot say anything anda couple of days ago i found out that she liked me two i just dont know wut to say 2 them. (link)
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that really sux that ur friend would do something like that to you.. tell her how you feel, and tell her about how you told this guy that you liked her & he went ahead and asked her out.. if she likes you to & finds out that, that guy who shes going out with now did that to you, she probably won't be liking him any more. if she feels the same way then tell her how you feel.. if you don't you could lose something that could've been great!
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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him? (link)
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yes, he's still the same person.. why would you treat him differently?? hes still the same guy you hung out with before, you just now one more thing about him then you did before.. and you shouldn't tell his friends unless your best friend wants you to.. if he wants his friend to know then he'll tell him.. i wouldn't intervere with things you shouldnt. most likely your best friend would get mad.. theres a reason he told you.. you're his best friend and that means something to him.. you should be happy that he would trust you with something that big.. don't blow it by telling his friend!
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Hi my names Jenipher and I really do need ur help, Im 15 and i just got back from Camp . I dated this one boy named Jack and i really do like him , but he broke up with me . And every time I see him with another gurl I go to my dorm and Cry, and I told him but he dosnt care, how do I get over him , Even my Best friend likes him too. How can I find the right guy ??? Plz help me!!!! asap!!!! Thanks WRITE BACK
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i think that you should move on because it's not worth you crying every time you see him with another girl.. i know it's not easy but eventually you'll do it and that kind of stuff won't bother you. the right guy will come along, don't worry, but it will be easier to notice if he does if your not all wrapped in ur ex and what he's doing.. live your life and that guy will come along that will make you the happiest girl ever!! just hang in there! :)
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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maybe say, if you have a problem with them then don't tell me about it, talk to the other person and solve it. and be like i don't want 2 get caught up in the middle or something like that.
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ok u see my b/f well actually i dunno if i wanna call him that ne more but i still will for it wont be confuseing!!ok u see my b/f was cheating on me with me best friend and i found out he broke up with her then he promised me he would never do it ever again so i believed him i mean everyone deserves a second chance i think and today he was a t his cuzins and his cuzin fren my other best friend was there hanging out well her and her brother was there and my b/f and her were flirting i guess u could call it then they went in his cuzins room and locked the door then her brother walked in on them doing "something" i didnt wanna know wat that sumthing was i stoped my b/fs cuzin which is like my brother but he really isnt and the girl that did it is like my sister and she has a b/f that god she loves him she has been with him for 3 years she would never cheat on him and my b/fs cuzin wouldnt lie to me i hope but my b/f and her are both denieing it and i dont know who to believe!!! help me plz!!!!!!
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well, obviously you have caught your bf in a lie before and he's done it before, have you had any problems with lies from your b/f'z cuz? you also have to take into consideration like you said that that girl has a b/f of 3 years, if she did something, wouldn't she lie about it, because otherwise that would jeprodise her relationship with her b/f. so i dont know, your boyfriend and the girl have a reason for lying, but why would you b/f's cousin lie? if anything you would think he would lie for your bf, seeing as he's his cousin, don't you think? well.. i dont know, maybe you could ask the girl a bunch of questions and ask your bf the same questions, if they answer them differently, you'll know their lying.. like ask them, "what did you really do in the room?" and things like that.. & then you'll have your answer
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Im ten years old and im pregnate with my 16 year old bf's baby and my parent wil hate me if i tell them what do i do? (link)
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i know it's hard, but you have to tell them, it will make you relieved when you finally do.. also, it's better that they hear it from you, then someone else, or they find out when you start to show. i hope everything works out
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what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
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Tell your best friend that you aren't going out with him, and you don't know why he's doing that.. thats pretty much all you can do, is stand up for yourself.. Also, you could try telling the guy to stop because he's making you and your bestfriend fight. but be sure to make it clear that you aren't going out with him, and have no intention to either!
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