Hey. I'm a 13 year old girl who is obessed with being in a relationship. I can't be alone. I've been with my boy friend for 9 months and we've broken up numberous times and i just seem to get back with him. I thought the world was going to end when we broke up, almost like im obessed with being with someone, like i cant be alone. He doesnt always treat me good, but he does sometimes. I just dont know what to do anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions with what i can do. I've tried to get over it but i keep running back to him, like a lost puppy, and im afraid that this will lead to worse thing when im older and in a more serious relationship. Please help me.
CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Thursday July 1 2004, 9:26 pm: i cant relate to that in a serious way.It has taken me awhile to get over it.But wut i do is i dont let him kno i still luv him.So that way i make him think ive moved on.It helps me i guess..im not sure y.But just try doin that.Good luck!Much <3 and remember dont cry cuz its ova smile cuz it happend!
xXKiSsMeXx answered Thursday July 1 2004, 9:22 pm: Sorry hun but if he has only treated you good SOMETIMES i think you need a better guy. Someone who will treat you right ALL the time :) And since you guys have broken up so many times I think that shows that you should get out and who else is out there. You will have your whole life to fall in love and get married and all that other stuff. But since your just 13 i think you should LIVE IT UP!!! have fun and I hope I helped!! Plz Rate me [ xXKiSsMeXx's advice column | Ask xXKiSsMeXx A Question ]
Fallen_x_4_yOu_o answered Thursday July 1 2004, 9:20 pm: ok u do not need a guy to make ur life perfect or to even make u happy. thats what ur girls are for. ur just 13 and u should wait awhile till when u kno u r ready for a serious relationship. dont rush into things really fast. wait for the one u kno is the right guy. dont keep running back to him. ur not a little kid and if u keep doin it he will think u r a little kid and that u really are obsessed with him n he wont like it. [ Fallen_x_4_yOu_o's advice column | Ask Fallen_x_4_yOu_o A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Thursday July 1 2004, 9:18 pm: if he doesn't treat you right all the time and only some of the time, he's not right for you.. try to find a guy that is right for you and will treat you well, maybe someone else that is at your school.. don't act like you need him even if you do because then he probably thinks he can treat you however he wants and you will keep coming back.. i know its hard thing to do, but hang in there and maybe that right guy will come along for you.. just don't seem to desperate, be yourself and im sure you will get a relationship and a guy that will treat you well!! good luck
Kissxme1121 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 9:16 pm: If you two keep breaking up, that kinda shows what was there before isn't there now. It's OKAY to be alone, a different feeling, but once your older your going to want to go out and party and flirt and have fun and not worry about your boy. it's ok to be crazy and have fun and be single.. dont worry about it! Give it a shot! plz rate me hun! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
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