I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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15f christian....
I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's! (link)
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Christianity is a religion bent on sucking the joy out of life. There's tons of things that are supposely "sins" that nobody pays attention to, because they're not convenient scripture. People will tell you whatever is convenient in scaring the crap out of you.
Masturbation is self-love. Accept that it's a good thing, and you'll set yourself up for a positive sex life in the future. Masturbation guilt can easily lead to sexual repression in the future, which is condemning yourself to a lifetime of never knowing what it is to share good sex with a partner you care about.
Sort it out. Then dabble with your clit.
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This might be stupid what --
what is morning wood?
like that girl says it on the commerical for the MTV show with ashley parker angel
but i dont know what she means when she asked him if he had morning wood.
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As a means of refreshing blood in the penis (ie: engorging it to full potential on a regular basis) males will normally have nocturnal erections, usually waking up with them.
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Is giving head considered Anal Sex? (link)
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Fellatio is not rectal pounding.
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ok.. so i have some tests that i want to pass so i can get a good grade in my class.. one class is math.. i dont really know how to study for it.. becasue.. well.. its math..another one is french.. i know what to study.. but when it comes time for me to actually sit down and study.. i get distracted by many reasons.. i need help on how to study officently.. if you have any idea of a schedule i can work out for study habits.. that would really help me.. (link)
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Step One: Break down what it is you need to do. If you absolutely hate a subject, you will avoid doing this, as it's the first step.
Step Two: Take what it is you need to do and break it into chunks. Small managable portions.
Step Three: Allocate some time to do it.
Step Four: Do it, one small allocation unit at a time. If the mood isn't right, do something else and come back to it. But when you come back, DO it.
Step Five: Reward yourself. Tell yourself, "I'll do a half hour of this, then go play Battlefront." Time limitations actually work better for me than problem limitations. You can work better knowing, "At the end of this twenty minutes, I can do SOMETHING ELSE."
Step Six: Acknowledge that you have done something. This is important, as you need to recognize how good you've done. This will build your confidence, so you don't make a mountain out of a molehill in the future. Anything's manageable if you break it down enough.
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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know? (link)
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Only if you can park a cadillac in it. Otherwise, there's no way he can tell.
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hey its me again u answered my qestion earlier but i need more clarification. all i care abt is how to know if my hymen is intact or not coz it's really important in our society. & i wanna know if penetration occured but there was no pain & bleeding does tht mean my hymen is ok? i do't care abt the term virgin & how i should precieve it i just wanna know if my hymen is there or not & i can't go 2 a gyo. plzzzz help
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This type of thing is best answered via a hand-held mirror and familiarity with your anatomy, as there's no way any stranger on the internet can gauge the structural integrity of your hymen.
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Ok well, Im 13 and I want some good GOOD tips and tricks to mausturabting
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We all want to do things the Best or Right way. While what works for others can give us a hint for what works for us, ultimately, just relaxing and exploring our bodies is the best way to have fulfilling masturbation.
http://www.clitical.com/
Ultimately you'll be rubbing your clit. Find what works best for you.
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Hey, Um all I think about is dicks, and im only 13.. help me get this off my mind (link)
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If you think about how to get rid of something, you'll keep noticing that you're thinking about it. If you accept your thought tendencies, so long as they don't interfere with the rest of your life, you won't notice them as much. Everybody should like dicks.
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This is definetely not the greatest of questions..Here I go, Im a guy, and for whatever reason Im always extremely horny, I could just have finished having sex, 10 minutes later i need some more, Im pretty sure this is normal, but just in case there is something wrong with me, i figured I would ask. Also ladies, is this something positive, negative, or does it even matter when looking for potential bf material? (link)
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This can be considered stamina, a positive trait.
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hey iam a 22 year old girl in a muslim coutry where a girl's virginity is very important and an intact hymen has to be preserved till marriage.
now i've had several relationships in which i made out with my bfs & there was penetartion sevral times but i never bled or felt pain the penius goes in smoothly & i did'nt reach an orgasm.i really want to know if iam still a virgin coz i heard tht some people have elastic hymens & tht it does'nt have 2 b broken??? how do i check my hymen & i can't go to a gyno. i really need help please give me some advice. (link)
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The hymen is just a covering of the openning of the Vagina. It has nothing to do with virginity. If it did, then some girls would lose their virginities in activities having nothing to do with sex. Virginity is the state of having never had a penis in your Vagina.
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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks (link)
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Fabulous question. Yes. If your body fat is low enough, or if you're stressed, you may skip a period. Or, if you're young, you may skip then anyway until your period finds its groove.
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Hey I wanted to see if it was possible to save a DVD movie onto the computer. Is it possible? I tried to do it but it didn't work. Do you need a special program, and if so what is it called? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Convert it to DivX - but offhand I can't think of any programs that will do it. Haven't gotten around to it.
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Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
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There is no normal for breasts. They will grow at their own pace for you based on your own genetics.
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I'm atheist and i'm just curious what christians and creationists think about dinosaurs. like where they came from, when they lived, etc. Any christians ive asked about this just kind of avoid it (link)
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No christian has the same belief structure as the next. One might give you one answer, another a completely different answer.
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Is it better to excercise right after you wake up in the morning or right before you go to bed at night? Which one will give you more results? Also, any advice on what is the best type of excercise to do to lose weight and tone your whole body? Thanks! (link)
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I can't see how one way or the other makes a significant difference.
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i know this sounds weird, but can a girl have sex when she has her period? (link)
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Remove tampon and/or other feminine hygiene product and proceed. Requires a bit more clean-up afterwards, but otherwise good fun.
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Ok, so I caught my boyfriend (of 3 months) in a lie. But I haven't confronted him yet. See, on New Years, he came over, and told me he had to leave by 11:45 because his parents said he had to be home by 12 because it is illegal to drive past 12 if you are under 18. So I was sad because I couldnt be with him at midnight. A few days later, I found out that he actually went and spent the night at a friends house. Should I confront him about this lie? If so, how should I confront him? Should I act upset, or not? thanks. (link)
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Be calm and rational. All you have is hear-say right now. So go talk to him, ask him, "Hey, I heard blah blah blah." Just find out the truth.
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can you feel a guy cum in you or is the only way to know is if you ask the guy? (link)
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If you're unshealthed, you may or may not feel his ejaculation.
But regardless of condom, there's an instinctive drive in guys to dive as deep as possible into the vagina on orgasm. Plus there's usually an inordinate swelling of the penis. So yes, you should probably be able to tell, if you're paying attention to his reactions.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. He always compliments me and is very good to me. My problem is that I feel funny undressing in front of him and I can't wear sexy nighties in front of him. I have a very low self-esteem. When I look in the mirror, I see fat. I want to be able to wear sexy things for my boyfriend and feel good about myself. What can I do??
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You see what he doesn't. Where you see fat, maybe he sees, "Goddamn, I love her ass." If he's been with you for two years and DOES compliment you, he's a good boy. Go shopping with him and have HIM pick out something HE thinks is sexy on you. That way when you put it on, you're guaranteed to have him reassure you.
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If I'm on my period, and I have a tampon in, what should I do if, while making out, my boyfriend starts to put his hand down my pants? Should I assume he is going to finger me, and immediately warn him that I have a tampon in? If so, what/how should I say it? OR should I let him do whatever he is going to do, and then IF he DOES begin to finger me, should I THEN tell him to stop? Thanks for your help. (link)
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While "fingering" typically is assumed to include a "finger" in the Vagina, to have any sort of pleasure, attention will be focused on the clit.
Some girls ARE hornier on their period. This is true. It's up to you if you want to let him try and pleasure you while you're vulnerable like that. If he's just rubbing your clit, everything will be fine.
That said, yes, do indeed tell him. Say something like, "Well, I'm plugged because I'm on my period, but you can still play with my clit."
If he's just looking to play with your Vagina, or otherwise immature, he'll decline. If he actually wants to get you off, maybe, just maybe, he'll venture down anyway.
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