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Okay my last thing about me thing thing made me seem like a flaming homosexual.

Let me start over. Ha.
My name's Derrek.
I'm turning 16 on June 29, 2007. :]
Yay.
I'm gay; you homophobes can go drink bleach for all I care.


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Hey,

Does anyone have Zeno and really like it? I use proactive but still have problems with acne. I was wondering is Zeno is worth the money, if I would still need to use proactive with Zeno, and if it clears smaller breakouts as well as large ones.

Thankss :) (link)
Well I've tried it and I liked it, but it's not for acne, it's for the occasional pimple. You're supposed to put Zeno right when you see it coming on. Just letting you know. :]


13/f
my bf wants to finger me, and i was wondering after we get naked(do we do that?)
wat position do i go into for him to finger me?
thx (link)
PLEASE don't get naked with your boyfriend when you're 13. It'll only lead to sex. I know what I'm saying.


what should i get my best friend for her birthday?
specifics:
-shes turning 17
-and i dont want to get her something like a friendship neclace or braclet, something else.
any ideas? thanks! (link)
Well I got my best friend a My Little Pony doll and a Barbie card. Hahahaha. I joke with her like that. It was cheap and sweet. Hahaha.


I'm really mad right now. I wont get into details but today has just NOT been going my way. I used to be a cutter and smoker. I'm only 15 and I quit both a long time ago and really don't want to start one or even both again. Right now I'm really stressed and mad. Anyone have any tips for me?
kthnx. (link)
Talk to someone. It helps me. You could talk to me if you want. But, talk to someone... I mean, I like talking to people I don't know because if I end up hating them, it's okay. I didn't need them before and I don't need them now. But I also know that if they judge me, it also will not matter. I think that's easier. I've dealt with a lot of friends that have had serious addictions, so yeah... Just saying. :]


i think that my bestfriend is bi sexual.
im not sure though what are the signs of it? (link)
OKAY. NEW ANSWER:
Well, I mean wouldn't you get offended if she thought you were bisexual?! Jeez. At least try and see what I'm getting at.


Take it from a homo. THERE AREN'T REALLY ANY SIGNS.

But I mean, dude, if she's your friend it shouldn't matter. My friends could care less about my .. uh. sexuality.
I mean, yeah people care, but it shouldn't matter.


And being bi is like nothing.

You might offend her by just asking, but if you two are that close then go ahead.


Okay there's this guy and he's 17 and he likes a girl thats 15 and he doesnt like me because im 14! I dont really understand! Why do people think there is such a BIG difference between them? It really makes me mad. Everyone always says im too young and when they see a 15 year old thats only a year older than me well they say no shes not that young but you oh no you, you are a year younger and thats way too young for sex or even making out! Oh my god you do not know how much this makes me mad! I've been waiting forever to grow up and nobody respects me because Im so little and i have sorta a baby face so they just all think im young and they think my cuz thats 15 is sooooooo much older than me and she's not she's a year and like 3 months! (link)
FOURTEEN IS WAY TOO YOUNG FOR SEX! I think making out is fine at that age, but that might just be me. Listen, kiddo, I think that this guy is not right for you at all, he's not too old though. I liked this guy for 9 years. He's 3 years older than me. I'm almost 16 so that makes him almost 19. He totally won't date me.. Well. Now it's illegal, but he wouldn't before and stuff because I was "too young" so I know how you feel. It sucks. He's just a dick. Find someone else. Date one of his friends. Ha.


so this is the same person who gave a guy head like a year and a half ago and got a sore throat the next day. i recently talked to him and he said he just got std tested for the first time and he was 100 percent clean. do you think i should still be worried about having an std? like do these things go away on their own? (btw i haven't done that since) (link)
Oh. I think everyone gets sore throats the first time. No big deal. It'll just go away. :]



I'm eating chex mix right now and i'm wondering if it's good for me. like better then chips? will it make me fat? haha (link)
You could check the calories in the bag. Keep in mind that the calories it says are for 1 serving, and there would be like 15 servings in chex mix, so just keep that in mind. You could go online and check the calories for certain chips. Yay for google.


Okay. So I cheated on my boyfriend 2 months ago with one of my ex's, which i have not talked to since. And I told my boyfriend the next day. And I feel horrible about what I did, every time I think about it or he brings it up I end up crying and hating myself more and more. For about 2 weeks after it happend I cried myself to sleep every night and seriously could hardly live with what I had done. And now, 2 months later, he still has not forgoten it, well i dont expect him to forget it, but he still always brings it up and I want to hang out with one of my guy friends.... and my boyfriend got all mad that I wanted too and was like fine go be with him then and he is just worryed i will cheat on him again.... but I would never do that again, i can not risk loosing him one more time. So I guess my question is,
Is it wrong of me to want to hang out with my guy friends and expect him to let me after what I did?
Or is he being to uptight about it and is it wrong of him to tell me not to hang out with other guys and get all pissed when i even think about hanging out with another guy?

One thig I do know is, If I want to hang out with a guy, I am going to. And I AM GOING to PROOVE to him that someday he can trust me again with another guy.

SO yeah... any advise would help. (link)
So pretty much, your boyfriend has lost his trust for you. I get that sometimes... I've never really cheated but I've done things that my ex's don't approve of. ... So, I think you have to wait it out, but if he still brings it up, then you need to just let him know, tell him straight out.
YOU'RE MY ONLY MAN, I REGRET DOING EVERYTHING I DID, AND I JUST NEED FOR YOU TO STOP BRINGING IT UP. IT'S IN THE PAST FOR A REASON. IT'S OVER, AND IT'S DONE WITH.

You need to let him know exactly how you feel, okay?
If he still does it then he just isn't worth the time. If he is allowed to hang out with girls, without you being there, then it's only fair that you hang out with your friends too.


okay so i think i'm jealous of some of my friends with boyfriends. they've hooked up, and there all so happy together. and i feel like crying really hard. i've never even had a first kiss. and whenever a guy likes me it's when i dont like him. in 5th grade this guy asked me out and i liked him but said no because i was scared, and now i regret it like hell. i just wish i had someone special that cares about me. it burns inside to see my friends so happy. i dont know how to make myself happier. none of the guys like me, and i have friends who get dates with really popular guys, even though there not the most popular girls and there not mean. i just feel like an abandoned puppy. how come no one likes me? no one wants me..
how am i supposed to feel better about this?
:( (link)
Sweetie, I can't even begin to tell you how much I hate relationships. When I was 13 I had my first one. His name was Mike. So, Mike and I went to different schools... And this was like the summer before 8th grade, I believe... And Mike and I never hung out, hahahaha. We would just talk on the phone and AIM it. It was so pathetic. It lasted a month. A month is my longest relationship and I've been in like 4. Hahahaha. I can't stand them. Okay, so anyways. I think that your first boyfriend is going to be really fun to be with and stuff, and it'll work out, I think. My best friend, and her boyfriend met in the beginning of 9th grade. No one had ever liked them, they had never had a first kiss.. Nothing. They've been going out for way more than a year, and they're still each other's first everything. It's really amazing to see things like that. It's cute :] But, listen, it's not that big of a deal. You seem young... I got my first kiss in like November of 8th grade, and I didn't hook up until like the middle of 9th. Hahaha. Don't worry about it. It's nothing fabulous. Just relax, you'll find someone in no time :]


one of my best guy friends, we'll call him joe, is really pissed off at me right now and i dont know what to do about it. we got in a fight over something really stupid, and i apologized over and over and said what i did was wrong and we should just forget about it (even though it was really dumb) but he's just really mad. he was acting like we're never gonna be friends again and he's never gonna not be mad. he even took me off his to 24 or whatever. should i let him cool off? for how long? and how should i approach him about this? why is he doing this ? ahhh help (link)
Just let him cool down. Don't talk to him for a little. I have guy friends like that. I also lost some pretty amazing friendships over stupid fights..
But just let him calm down, call him in a week or so and just act as if nothing happened, ask him if he wants to hang out or something.
:]


how do you make your picture a caption?
i know the code is like or something like that, but when i go on photobucket it doesnt work same with tiny pic, its too long?

idk help :] (link)


ok so im a 16/f and im going to call this guy that i like today. but okay i met him and talked to him twice. and he likes to skateboard and we also talked babout music. but bseides that what else should we talk about since we barely know eachother? and also i need some flirting tips! thnx (link)
Um, I'm super open, so I'll just talk about my day a little, see how his was, and such. I mean, don't talk about yourself too much because then it gets boring. Try and tell him a story... Um... Flirt with him, and kid around. Like if he brings up a girl or something be like "Shit. I thought we were together!" And if he's like "???" Then wtf. I hate people like that. Haha.. Sorry. But, I mean if he goes along with it then that'll lead into a new conversation. Sex conversations are always entertaining. Hahaha. Good way to flirt too. If you two have myspaces, comment his pictures. :]


I feel threatenened.
I've always loved to sing and dance, especially in public. I have a sweet voice, people say, so I usually score the lead parts in a school musical. I love to do romance plays... especially because we'd get to kiss cute guys.
I heard that my crush had gotten the lead part for this romantic musical. I auditioned and did as best as I could.
There's this new girl that came... she auditioned too. She sang beautifully, and she got the lead partt!!!! When she rehearses, she gets to kiss this guy multiple times and I think they're starting to bond with each other.
I'm getting REALLLLYYY jealous.
What should I do to get my crush's attention? I don't want to be mean to the new girl... but what should I do with her?? What am I going to do????? (link)
Things like that are hard because guys usually fall for the new girls... Or well, that's what I think. You should get to know him and spend time with him... They'll have a different type of bond, yes, but you should befriend him now, so that when the play is over you and him will continue to be friends. With the lead star, and your crush... it might just die out a little after the play is over. If you loose interest in him, you'll still have another friend. :]


What makes diet drinks have no calories?

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I'm like the biggest hypocrite ever because I'm totally drinking Diet Coke right now [Hahahaa] but ... Yeah, what the others said. Diet drinks aren't too healthy for you because of all the chemicals and I think that if you drink 2 or more Diet drinks a day then you loose braincells. Don't quote me on that though.


anybody heard any new sex languo lately- i try to keep up to date (link)
It depends on what you know. I think that sex lingo has just always been out there. You can make almost everything sound suggestive. It's kind of pathetic..


hi ok well im tamil and when you start your period you have a ceremony and then wear a bra im 14 and i haven't had mine this girl whos 13 has and hers is coming in 3 weeks she shows off and im embarassed to go also my old friends will be there boys and girls they will all know i havent started itand all the girls will wear half saris and im here with a childish skirt and blouse im embarassed and upset HELP!!!! thank you so much in advance
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Okay, let's not go and call people morons. Periods may suck completely but they vary on the girl. Cramps also vary. I know that you may not get cramps the first couple times, and may get them later, but you may rarely ever get them. Periods are hard, yes... And with the whole bra issue, don't worry about it, because even though chest-size seems like a big deal, you may have other things that are so much better than her. Everyone is going to be self-conscious about something. :]


i want to have sex when is it safe to have sex and i want a baby i want one. But i dont know when is it safe not to have a baby because my boyfriend isnt sure if he likes them. (link)
Well, if you want a baby and your boyfriend doesn't, then maybe you should hold off on the sex without protection. I personally feel that only married couples should be having children, but do as you please, just hold off until your boyfriend agrees, because it has to be a two-person thing. If you want a child, and want to go off on your own then knock yourself out. Getting pregnant accidently might make him change his mind about the child, and you two might be looking more into marriage.


Hey! Well I'm looking for new sneakers, and they have to be flyyy lol. So I was looking at these:

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=29874&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=121&iSubCat=557&iProductID=29874

^^what do you think?

Additional suggestions would be greatly appreciated :]]. (link)
Not really my style. But do what you want. Your body :]]]


ok so me and my ex broke up. (obviously haha) but yea, so sometimes i talk to him on aim. and he says that his life is messed up and stuff and he says he misses me. but he never calls me or writes to me on aim its always me first. i cant call him because i dont have his new number and i wont ask for it. but anyway yea so he always says that his life is messed up and he sounds depressed. what should i tell him? what should i do? i miss him so much. (link)
Aww. Okay, so maybe IM him and be like
"Hey, feel like talking?"
I mean, that's what I would do.. haha... But, I'm me, and you're you, so I don't know what you would do.
Exes are usually close.. so you two should feel comfortable with each other :]




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