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Hey this is ~Tarebear~, you can ask me anything, I'm cool and won't give you a hard time about it. Dont be afraid, Im here for you all. and I will do the best I can
E-mail: naughtybitch_6969@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: South Dakota
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: September 27, 2004
Answers: 49
Last Update: October 9, 2004
Visitors: 3209


I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help! (link)
Hun I dont think you have to worry about that, I was afraid at first but once you really get used to them you will see there much better than pads, pads make u feel like u have diapers on and tampons on the other hand u just feel normal.


SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?

What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do? (link)
Yes that is normal to have discharge, dont be ashamed of having ur period its just something every girl gets. Tell your mom im sure she will get u the right things you need and if ur really worried see a doctor


umm hi well im babysitting and im relle bored how old r u? and what do u do wen u babysit? (link)
hey oh my sounds like ur having fun... im 15 when i babysit i usually talk on the phone watch tv or find something to enertain yourslef make up games...... if the kids arent sleeping play some games with them or something maybe there bored too... good luck


my best friend and my ex boyfriend have done stuff before and they still like each other on and off. and thats the same for me and him, but i want to do stuff with him but i dont want my best friend to find out and get mad. should i do it or just forget about him? (link)
i think you should just forget about them, there is gonna be other guys out there way more better than him. Just you can tell yourself hey i had my chance with him GOOD LUCK


Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer (link)
obviously he likes you.... i mean the guy sings that to you... why would he just automatically sing you a song for no reason. tell him that you like him so he is not so nervous


i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
don't let any guy stop you from having fun... i think you should tottaly go for this guy give him a chance if he hurts you it will hurt fro awhile and then you on.... but just cuz one guy hurt you dont let ur ex spoil ur fun


Okay, this is a weird question, I'm sure...but I figure I may as well see what y'all say.
Okay...my boyfriend kind of has a thing for "dirty talk" and I think it's totally ridiculous. I start laughing whenever he says something and expects me to respond. I think it bothers him that I keep giggling, but I can't help it! To me, it just seems so totally fake and stupid...
I mean, I've tried playing along, but I just feel so awkward and stupid, saying things like...that...
Should I try to do something about my giggling problem (lol)? Should I tell him I just can't do it? What do you guys think? (link)
WOW ya I think it is pretty funny when guys do that to. Just tell him you don't take the dirty talk serious and it makes you laugh..... maybe that'll work if not just try not to laugh as much


well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her (link)
The real age is 16 with your parents permission to get married, so you don't have to worry about that. Don't sweat it shes goin thru a stage and she will realize that your more important than him, talk to her if ur really worried, maybe you can tell her that there is going to be other guys out there and she is to young to decide on one guy. Tell you really care for her and don't wanna see her get hurt in anyway. Well I hope I helped


I don't know where to put this. Anyway, when I wash my hair I just use normal shampoo, whatever is in the shower. But my hair is sensitive, I have this scalp...thing and it makes my hair look really dirty really easily. If I use too much moose, gel, or spray, it looks oily and dirty and makes my scalp flake. Nasty, I know. But I was wondering if there are any shampoos or products I could use that aren't that strong, but would give my hair a really straight, sleek, shiny look without making my hair look greasy? Thanks for any help. (link)
hey ya my hair gets all gross to Sometimes what i use is called infusium 23 it makes ur hair look smooth and clean




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