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I am not fat one bit. I am actually really skinny. My hair isn't the prettiest but it's ok. I look pretty hott. But there are shorter skinnier girls in my grade that just get in my way and take all the boys. I'm not a big flirt at all. But the girl in my grade that all the boys love is such a BIGG FLIRT! I think that shes not that pretty but shes a nice girl and shes my friend. I really want the boys to notice me and like me. What should I do??? (link)
First you should get a makeover. Like new clothes and makeup. I know your not the flirt type so just talk to them like they are one of your friends or something. In the beginning you have to have them like you as a friend. Maybe later you can take things to the next level and go on dates with them.Hope i helped!

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SO i'm leaving the country soon.. I'm planning to have a goodbye party. But i'm really stuck for ideas. I'm going to do this with my friend, cause we are leaving at the same time.. So yeah.. Any ideas on what we can do?? My driver can drive us to places so we can go anywhere. (link)
For your party maybe you can go to your last concert in america ( Greenday, Black Eyed Peas, American Eagles, ect.). Or go to the beach, mountains, or a themepark just make it significant because it'll be your last time here. :(


I am so confused as of what i should do. My friend ("best friend") is sooo annoying. She hardly hangs out with me anymore, shes too busy hanging out with the 2 popular kids in our class,,its so obvious to tell shes trying to be cool. the 2 popular kids were talking about celeberty poker and how they love it. and shes like OMG I LOVE CELEBRTY POKER! haha!" and this is so untrue cuz, 1. she doesnt no how to play it,,or at least i think. When i told her about my camp stories and how we played poker she was like YEAH UMM FUN.
2. her tv doesnt even work.

and yeah, stuff like that keeps happening and its really starting to get annoying, and i let it go everytime but im soo anoyed...what should i do? be friends with her, tell her i dont want to be friends, what? we have been best friends for 2 years and this stuff hasnt been much of a problem till this year. it happened like once a couple years ago, and sometimes last year, but its getting bad this year. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!

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Well if she's lying to these populars kids and shes leaving you after 2 years of friendship you dont need her anymore. She seems like a total fake. Make new friends or get closer with other ones. You know that carma will hit her and she'll end up with nothing but her self. When that time comes you can be friends with her to show how sincere you are and she might respect you more or you can dump because of how rude she was to you. Your choice. Hope i helped!

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my bff (i will call her jane) & i have been bff for a while now. i like her (obviously) but sometimes she acts so insecure...like she wants to be friends with these other girls who obvioulsy aren't that nterested with her. sometimes when i am with her & feel bad, because she seems so focused on being frineds with them that i feel like she doesn't want to be hanging out with me. i know she likes me, but every once in a while she will do something on an important day (like dances, new years eve) & if i ask her if she wants to do something she will be like "no i can't, i am doing something with _____" and she won't even offer to have me come, which is something i always dowith my friends (unless they hate each other, which almost none do, they all get along). it makes me feel bad, but i also know that jane DOESN'T have that many friends, so i feel like she does it to sort of show off that she's doing something. ahould i say anything, i mean its not that serious & it only happens once in a while, but i feel sort of unwanted. we like never fight though, so i don't want to start anything! (link)
That's exactly what happens with me! Dont follow her and try to be friends with her for a little bit because thats what might annoy her. Give her a little space. Try to hang out with the people she's hanging out with or just make some new friends. If you see her say hi or something then she'll know you still like her. After a few weeks say OMg we have hung out for like ever! Maybe we can get together anytime these couple of weeks. See how things go and if she still acts like this talk to her and dont be afraid to fight because your just standing up for yourself. Hope I helped!

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hey im 13/m, i know this is a basic question... but whats sum good ideas for a halloween costume?

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Here's a list of costumes you cxan make at home..

Bum(Ripped up jeans,straw hat)
Any kind of sports player(jersey)
Surfer( Rash guard, swim trunks)
Mime( Black and white clothing & face paint)
Hippy( Bright clothing, Thin round sunglasses)

If you want to buy one look at party city or the internet.

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hey guys. I'm in a youth group thats hosting a halloween party next month. I already have an idea of what I'm going to be for it (its sort of a masquerade type thing) and I'm going to have like theater masks, a cape, and pretty much theater related outfit. But my question is, do you guys have any tips to help my costume? or maybe the party? (link)
Play some games and give out prizes like candy or something.
List of games......
Name that tune
Costume Contest
Light as a Feather
Telephone
7 minutes in heaven

For your costume if you dont think its enough ask the drama teacher for anything related to masquerade stuff. Hope i helped!

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DWF 36 I have been married 2 times, have 3 children and a boyfriend. My bf and I got together with mutual attitudes that we did not want a relationship, but it evolved into us living together. He (WM 35)is nice, great, cool, but there is not a lot of spark in the "love/sex" part of our relationship. I find myself missing this as I experienced it previously in my former relationships. Therefore, I feel like I am always open and looking for more. I think I will just make a list:

1. He is very new to relationships, has not really had a successful one, I feel like this is his first, so he does not appreciate "not fighting" and thinks its cute when it happens. I hate that, it drains my energy.
2. Not awesome with the kids, but learning.
3. He yells a lot, I hate it.
4. He is too demanding of my time. It drives me nuts because if we are going to hang out then why aren't we having sex?? I am totally in my peak here.

So the other part is I am thinking of ending the relationship, but feel bad for him, and I have another offer from someone else, that I pine away for. I can't tell if I am pining away for sex that I am not having or if I am evolving into a person that has lost respect for exclusive relationships. The person of interest is interested in monogamy, as am I, as I am in a monogomous relationship now, but would I find myself in the same postion if I swithced partners? Can you offer any advice? Please? I am too old to be in wrong relationships, and I can't tell if mine is the right one or not. Thanks.

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You know if he doesnt have any good sides to him then ya maybe you should end the relationship. Just remember that you wont have him anymore if you dump him. Hope I helped!


okay well i have a major crush.

on this boy jon, and well i need to tell him, but im way too shy. and afraid im going to look stupid !

so yeah can you please help me in a way not to act stupid?

ps hes in my classes and theres nothing to ever talk about. (link)
Just act cool and say hi to him if you see him or something. Sometimes if you don't get something ask him(homework,classwork,ect.) after a while and you begin to know eachother you might be able to tell him. Hope I helped! LUV YA!


well my brother has this friend and he told me brother that he likes me and i like him..and he now knows that thanks to my brother!!...its sound like a dream right????..WRONG...he has a girlfriend..and like they are always together and they are all over eachother...and its right infront of me..i feel like im gunna cry...but when i see them together they are usually like wrapped naround eachother but i see his staring at me..WTF...i dont know what to do

i need help
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~so sad~ (link)
Guys like to play with your heart. Just don't take it anymore. You deserve a better guy. ^_^


i am 13, and my boyfriend is 14. we are both goth-like, and we love each other. we do have sex, but all my friends say i should go to the counselor and tell her about it. but i have nothing to tell. can anyone think of why i should or should not go the counselor? (link)
You shouldnt really need to see a counsler if you dont have a problem. Just remember all the risks of sex and have him where a condomn or something to protect yourself. If you feel nervous at all then go to a counsler.


Alright, after i got fingered, the next day i noticed it felt sore and itchy, i think i might have gotten an infection from it because of the bacteria on fingers and we kno how them boiz dont wash their hands lol but its red and theres yellow traces of something on the walls of my vagina and i need to know if this is an infection and what i can do to clear it up and how long the process will take (link)
It probably is an infection and you realli need to see a docter!!


well, im 13 and i live in mastic on long island and i have a job at a traveling carnival....well theres this boy there that i like and hes 13 too but hes 8 months younger....his name is danny and he lives in comak...how ever you spell that..lol...well i really like him and i think he likes me..he gives me hugs when i see him and we share are food and drinks and all that other spit...we've never kissed though...but we tell eachother we that we love em all the time...any way-his obnoxious older brother pete (15), told my older sister amber (17) that compared to all the other girls danny's gone out with im god.now this danny is really hot but not to tall hes prolly 5'4''- im 5'5 and a quarter....and hes really skinny and im well not exactly skinny im average....anyway my sister was like isnt my sister a little chubby for him-pete was like i said she was like god.im scared that he might not like me though so if i go up to him and like ask him out and he says no then im going to be really embarassed...but i was thinking that if he s ever online while i am then i could trick him...i could be like im here with my cousin and allthat good stuff and then b lik ima pretend to b my cousin (whos not really there), pretending to be me and like start asking how he feels about me if he dont like me then ima b like this is her cousin dum ass- but if he says he do lik me then im just gonna turn back into me- do you think that might work???please help me-i rate high (link)
It seems like he likes you!! He shouldnt care about how big you are. Plus if your not humungo like 200 pounds than your fine. The whole tricking thing won't really work because he might think you will read it after he tells your "cousin" so it might not be the whole truth. Just ask him out it'll be fine


anyone know how to get off paint on jeans? (link)
Since you already got paint on them might as well put more! Design them have fun!You kno how cute that'd look with rhinestones?!??!


anybody have any good tips on plucking you eyebrows?

ill rate 5's for anything! (link)
Use an eyebrow trimmer(ask any cosmetic store). you dont have to trim the whole hair because usually i just leaves a dot. so leave a little tiny hair there and then pluck it because it doesnt hurt as much. Luv ya!


at school there's a 70's spirit day. i don't know what to wear.. i wanna find something at a regular store and not the internet and i rate 5's

13/f
Thanks! (link)
You can search on the internet for 70's costumes. But dont stress out on this because well...its just a spirit day, but hey luv your spirit! Toodles!


does anyone know a cool way to paint fingernails so they are decorative without using decals? I am partial to things like dice, letters, runes, etc, but any designs would be cool. any websites with designs would be good too. (link)
you can make some cool designs with those teeny weeny nails you find in little packages at like office depot or something. Anyways make sure the end of the nail doesnt have an X. If it doesnt dip the nail in dab it in your nail polish and put it on your fingernail and you get a dot(dice, flowers, poka dots)! Also try to buy some rhinestones there sooo cute!!


ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage (link)
You can probably use any shampoo or conditioner (recommended Garnier Fructis, Frizz-Ease, other good frizz brands) but the key is to use a whole lot!


Hey every time i straighten my hair it never stays straight for more then like an hour is there anything i can do to keep it straight
anything that i might have becasue i want to straighten it tomorrow for school
will mousse keep it straight?
thanx in advance
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~~Sarah~~ (link)
Try using realli light shampoo and conditioner like Dove. Then use Garnier Fructis Smoothing milk and get the strong one. It helps it control your hair and it prevents it to frizz.


13/f

I need help with getting wavy hair, I have really thick hair and would really love some advice! I rate evryone a 5!

thank's & hearts (link)
Use a curling iron or sleep with braids but if you do sleep with braids make sure you dont do one big one because then in the morning your hair just goes in one direction and then if you brush it out itll be straight.


i straighten my hair and by the time i get to school its kinda poofy and thick.. my question is what can i do so it will stay longer.. put a little gel or moouse in ? (link)
Omg same thing happens to me. But go to the store and by Garnier Fructis Style smoothing milk. Try getting strong or something higher cuz that realli helps!!




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