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should end my relationship?
DWF 36 I have been married 2 times, have 3 children and a boyfriend. My bf and I got together with mutual attitudes that we did not want a relationship, but it evolved into us living together. He (WM 35)is nice, great, cool, but there is not a lot of spark in the "love/sex" part of our relationship. I find myself missing this as I experienced it previously in my former relationships. Therefore, I feel like I am always open and looking for more. I think I will just make a list:
1. He is very new to relationships, has not really had a successful one, I feel like this is his first, so he does not appreciate "not fighting" and thinks its cute when it happens. I hate that, it drains my energy.
2. Not awesome with the kids, but learning.
3. He yells a lot, I hate it.
4. He is too demanding of my time. It drives me nuts because if we are going to hang out then why aren't we having sex?? I am totally in my peak here.
So the other part is I am thinking of ending the relationship, but feel bad for him, and I have another offer from someone else, that I pine away for. I can't tell if I am pining away for sex that I am not having or if I am evolving into a person that has lost respect for exclusive relationships. The person of interest is interested in monogamy, as am I, as I am in a monogomous relationship now, but would I find myself in the same postion if I swithced partners? Can you offer any advice? Please? I am too old to be in wrong relationships, and I can't tell if mine is the right one or not. Thanks.
dangergrrrrl
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Sounds to me as if you need to make a change.
Regardless of your reasons it seems pretty obvious you are not happy in your current relationship. There are so many negatives!
If you do keep him around, thats okay too but hes going to take some major working on!
If the current guy is new to relationships...well he is 35 and great guy or not, his chances of changing anything is pretty slim. Why spend all that time on edge? Bad for the health!
I think you should step away at least for now. Try the one your pining for and see what happens. If it doesn't look as if it will work, then try and find someone who will satisfy all your needs. Hes out there somewhere!
Good luck! :)
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You know if he doesnt have any good sides to him then ya maybe you should end the relationship. Just remember that you wont have him anymore if you dump him. Hope I helped!
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