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Hey everybody! I am a full time student at a high school in Georgia. Ever since I can remember I have been helping people and would love to help you. However, please rememeber that while I am doing the best I can, I might not always have the answer your looking for. Don't rate low because its not what you wanted to hear. I will always do my best to answer you, but I can't make any promises. I like to make people laugh and hang out with friends.

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I feel really awkward when people ask me about my religion and stuff because i'm agnostic and don't think there is a way to prove if god is real or not. I really don't want to tell my friends that because most of them are really religious and i'm scared they wouldn't like me if I did. Why do people think it's such a big deal if you don't believe in god? I don't know if I should tell them or not.

Hey. Personally, I get confused with religion too. I try not to categorize myself into a certain religious background, but goign to a Catholic school can make that a little difficult. Before I say anything else though, I want to say I AM NOT GOING TO FORCE MY RELIGIOUS BELIEFS ON YOU.

However, faith is all about believeing in what you can't see. By faith, I choose to believe that God is real, faith doesn't need proof. no matter what the religion, many people have faith and choose to believe in God. (I think we all need something to believe in) Really though, I think you should tell your friends how you feel, they should understand. I really hope this helps. Good Luck

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i seem to only attract people who end up using me. the worst part is, i just want them to like me, so i let them. and i end up feeling really shitty. what can i do to tell these people to stop?

I've been in this situation before, time and time, again. Although its hard, the best thing I can recommend is to stop it next time before it starts. Try starting to socialize with new people and make new friends....true friends are going to like you for who you are. When you realize that you are being taken advantage of talk to the people and tell them how you feel. I hope this helps! Good Luck

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ok i went to the matt redman /chris tomlin concert and mat sang a song and it was like "oh no you never let go through every high and everylow"
if anyone knows the name of that song ill give you 5 i have tried looking everywhere

Hey... the name of the song is "You Never Let Go" by Matt Redman

Hope this helped! :)

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ANYTHING else i should know about liek periods ect? i think i would rather just use a tampon for everything but like .... do you think i should like. i have no idea.

Okay...periods can be a complicated subject, but they aren't too bad! You shound like you have ALOT of questions. I guess I'll start with the basics when girls/women, get their periods, there body is preparing to have a baby, if the uterus isn't fertilized there won't be a baby, since theres no baby the endometrium begins to break down which causes blood to shed. Now, this happens every month for a certain amount of time...(mine is every 25 days.) During this time, active girls who play sports like to use tampons, and some prefer a pad. Some girls like pads because nothing is INSIDE your body, because tampons are inside the body...colledting blood before it "gets out." You are NEVER TO LEAVE A TAMPON IN FOR MORE THAN EIGHT HOURS!!!!! It can lead to TSS. Thats why some girls feel comfortable with pads....either way the choice is up to you!!

A GREAT website to check out is wwww.beinggirl.com....it has ALL the information a girl could ever need on period, boys, siblings, you name it...they got it!!!! lol Good Luck, Hope this helped! :)

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okay i cant find a good deoderant that keeps you smelling good all day and dry all day..and its really hard to trust the commershals.
please help. i need as many opinions as possible.
thanks in advance

Honestly, finding the right deoderant depends on your body. Personally, i tend to sweat alot, especially when nervous so I make sure I buy deoderant WITH sweat control...Dove and Secret are good for these....I'm not too sure about Degress...(haven't had that since I was a little girl) lol!!!

But the best thing to do is to kinda experiment with a lot of different ones until you find the right one...try to get free sample if you can from the store....good luck....hope this helps!

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So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??

whats wrong :[

I'm 16 and have had my period for about for over four years now. What your experiencing is a COMPLETELY NATURAL PROCESS! Its a process called the menstrual cycle and tis to prepare women to have a baby, thats why the bleeding won't "stop".
Every month for body prepares for a baby, when a baby isn't there, the endometrium begins to break down causing blood to shed. Trust me, billions of women go through this every month, but if you want more information on your period you can always ask your mom about it. A great website to go to is www.beinggirl.com. It has a TONNNNNN of information abotu periods, pads, tampons, everythign a girl wonders!! Good Luck...I hope this helped!

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ask me out again?
ok well i had posted a question on here earlier about how my friend liked this one guy named miguel..well the thing is that he asked me out but i said no still thinking of her feelings but after long talks with people they convinced me that even if i did stay away from him he wasent gonna go out with her anyways so might as well be happy and go out with him but i think i fucked up bcuz i said no the first 2 times he asked...and now IIIIIIIII wanna go with him=/
how can i get him to ask me again?? i know he still likes me because he kissed me yesterday out of nowhere and he told his girl bestfriend too!...so how would i get him to get the courage to ask me again and please please dont tell me to ask him out because thats is not happening! lolthanks

The solution is always some form of communication. I think you shoudl talk to both your friend and this potential boyfriend. Start with the friend saying that while her opinion matters and you love her, you really want miguel and want to be happy. Being your friend, she should help repect your choice to pursue things with Miguel. Then you should be honest with Miguel and tell him that you like him, but said no because friendship is important to you and you value it deeply, but also want to be happy in a intimate kind of way. If he is nervous to ask you out, then you can always ask him because theres nothin wrong with the girl asking the guy! Well, I hope this helps! Good Luck!

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ok i have this good friend whos depressed sad but she always says "shes fine" and act normal around everyone and i know that shes not okay even though she denies that shes sad. but she pretty much admit it when we talk online.but she doesnt know why she cant cry even though shes really sad what do you guys think the she cant cry? and what do you think she should do? and how to release your tears? thank you so much and im sorry because of my english is bad im from japan

If your friend is depressed, SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP. It is important that you tell someone like a trusted adult or parent whats going on, although she claims to be okat at times, is she suicidal?

Some psychologists( i took a class on this) believe that depressed teenagers, the more depressed they are, have a harder time crying, because of the depression. Some teens who have been suffereing from depression for a long time might not be able to cry anymore, because they have become use to their status. I really hope this helps, but if you have any more questions you can write me back. Good Luck!

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15/f about 105lbs. i want to gain about 10-15lbs because my arms are extremely twig like. my lower body is fine but i could still use a little more meat on my legs. are there any weight gaining bars or drinks that really work. no organic stuff that im going to have to import from half way across the world just some things you can find in a supermarket.

To healthfully gain weight, you should eat foods high in carbohydrates like breads, pastas, or potatoes, but don't eat too much fat or sugary foods. Eat alot and take second helpings, but be careful because eating too much and expand your stomach's ability to hold food. Eat nutritously and start a training program to help build muscle.

Hope this helps, Good Luck! :)


Maybe you could try goign to a vitamin store or health store, I'm not really sure what they call hem, but my friend plays football and wanted to gain weight so he went to this vitamin supplement store and bought a weight gainer. Its a powder that you mix into milk or water, and it helps you gain weight...Sorry I couln't help more.

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So i am going to be my boyfreinds first kiss..
and i know its going ot happen, before you go there.
I've kissed before.. a few guys.. (boyfriends)
and he hasn't.
He is going to be 16.. well, pretty gosh darn soon.
&& he's pretty shy..
so im sure i'll make the first move..
((( we were talking about it, like kidding aroudn.. well, long story..but anywyas, i can assure you it's going to happen )))
my question is..
since i don't really make the first move..
ever. i hate it..
what should i do?

what kind of kiss?
wehre should i put my hands..
stuff like that.

:] please help!

Lets see, kissing is a very beautiful and natural thing so theres nothing to be nervous about. If its your boyfriends first kiss, you probably want to go with something simple yet sweet, like a kiss on the cheek and see where it goes from there. The most important thing to remeber is us to relax and HAVE FUN!! People only experience their first kiss once so have fun and don't worry just kinda let it happen, believe it or not, everything will just slowly fall into place if you relax...( tell your boyfriend the same)

I hope this helps! Good Luck!! :)

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13/f ok theres this guy i really like and hes in my class (our skools gay so we just alternate class rooms with the same ppl) and hes one of my best guy friends. and i cant tell if he likes me. He sits with my group of friends at lunch and we always sit next to eachother. thats where my bestfriend comes in. shes been acting like a big baby latley and keeps bugging me about why i took her spot at the lunch table. apparently her "spot" is next to the guy i like. She knows i like him alot too and she usually gets all the guys. Anyways back to the guy part. I always walk with him home from school and we always talk about random things like music and school and whatever else we can think of. And when we're not talking to eachother i noticed that he always looks at me. Like once i was walking with my bff (yes the jelous one) and he was walking ahead of us and he kept looking back to where me and my friend were. So i have no idea what to do!! and Sorry for it being so long!

~becky~

If this guy is always lookign back and talking to you, eating lunch with you etc. Then I think that this guy is interested in getting to know you as more then just friends.

On the other hand, when you told your friend you like this guy, she might think that you will forget her or he will come between the friendship. So, she's "acting like a big baby" to keep your attetion or just to complain, but either way. Remind her that ya'll are best friends and that he wouldn't come in the way of your friendship.

SInce this guy is already one fo your friends, you should feel pretty comfortable around him. You should tell him that you like him and would like to hang out with him one day....( or something to that effect)....I hope this helps

By the way, that wasn't very long

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Hey wats up, lately I've been through some different situations, Well I got dumped like a month ago,because she said that she had feelings for someone else, and then she realized that she made a mistake and wanted me back. Then I told her that I would give her a second chance, but I dont know if she would do the same thing she did in this first place.

So she told me she was hurt that I told her no, and then too, I told her that I am talking to this girl, and I have feelings for her, but she already has a boyfriend, I dont know what to do, And I am so confused. Please tell me what should I do? Should I keep my my new friend or go back to me ex, please give me advice.

If you go back to your old friend, then you are doing the same thing she did to you in the first place. Does this new girl know you like her? Maybe you should tell her, but be careful because that can start drama if the boyfriend finds out that you like the girlfriend....(did that make sense)? Anyway, I think that you should be very open with both girls and let them know how you are feeling...maybe you can start over with your old friend to help stregthen the trust. I hope this helps.

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ok so i have this author for school Madleine L'Engle i had to read 2 of her books a Wrinkle In Time & Troubling a Star the 1st 1 was ok but i cant understand the 2nd one really i would ask my teach. for a new author but i already had once wen i had Charles Dickens is there any way tht i can understand a book better when i have a report due on the 27th and arent even 1/2way through the book!!! thankx -Delesha

Hey. Whenever I'm reading a book and not understanding a thing there are a few sites I go to for help. However, please remember that these sites don't have ALL the information, you will also need to read the book too.

www.cliffnotes.com

www.sparknotes.com

www.gradesaver.com

www.pinkmonkey.com

I hope these websites help. All you do is enter in the book title and click on the title when a new page appears, then the chapter and so on so forth. Good Luck!!

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Ok well 13f and ive known this guy for about a year. We've never officially went out but we are talking about it now!! We say we love each other etc. but when he promises to call me back he never does then when i tell him aobut it he says it must be your phone b/c i called you & you didnt answer!! he swears he called me!!! what should i do..... i love him alot!!!!???? :)

I not one to say that 13 year old aren't capable of love, but I'm not too sure you both love each other. No offense, but guys tend to forget to do things even when they say they will. If you think you love this guy, then try calling him sometime instead of having him call you.

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alright, well.
I'm doing a murder party, and its a 50's theme. i was just gonna do a poodle skirt, but i got ot be a character!!
so, I need like a school girls outfit, my only problem is, i cant find a skirt! its for a church group,a nd i went to hot topic, but the ones they had were REALLY slutty. it cant be like above the knee. btw i wear like a 14-16, so i really cant do anything short like that.
does anybody know ANY good stores or sites or anything i can get one from!? perferably like a blue pink or red one. I live in central california if that helps anyhting... i went on the merced mall today and i didnt find ANYTHING.

Lets see, I don't live in California but I think i can help. I wear a 14-16 too so I know how shopping can sometimes be. I'm not sure if you have these stores but Catos, Kohls, Sears, Macys, or JcPennys might be able to help/ i'm not sure what type of stores are in California, but good luck!

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