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what d0 i do so he can...
ask me out again?
ok well i had posted a question on here earlier about how my friend liked this one guy named miguel..well the thing is that he asked me out but i said no still thinking of her feelings but after long talks with people they convinced me that even if i did stay away from him he wasent gonna go out with her anyways so might as well be happy and go out with him but i think i fucked up bcuz i said no the first 2 times he asked...and now IIIIIIIII wanna go with him=/
how can i get him to ask me again?? i know he still likes me because he kissed me yesterday out of nowhere and he told his girl bestfriend too!...so how would i get him to get the courage to ask me again and please please dont tell me to ask him out because thats is not happening! lolthanks<33
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The solution is always some form of communication. I think you shoudl talk to both your friend and this potential boyfriend. Start with the friend saying that while her opinion matters and you love her, you really want miguel and want to be happy. Being your friend, she should help repect your choice to pursue things with Miguel. Then you should be honest with Miguel and tell him that you like him, but said no because friendship is important to you and you value it deeply, but also want to be happy in a intimate kind of way. If he is nervous to ask you out, then you can always ask him because theres nothin wrong with the girl asking the guy! Well, I hope this helps! Good Luck!
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If you like him, ask him out. The guy doesn't always have to be the one to ask. But keep in the mind that since you turned him down twice, there's a slight chance he could do the same. I doubt he will, but there's always that slight chance.
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Hi.
If you don't want to directly ask him out yourself (which may not be a bad idea actually since you know he does like you and is unlikely tosay no anyway) then another option you have might be to hint that you do like him and you would go out with him when you are both chatting on IM, phone or in person.
That really seems the only real way you might get him to ask you again without actually doing it yourself. The more slightly direct option without actually asking him out yourself would be to tell him why you said no the last two times but you realised that he just isn't interested in this other girl anyway and that if he did ask you again you would probably say yes this time. Should do it I think but it's a more direct approach soam not sure if you want to be that direct.
Do bare in mind though that he may not wait around forever. If you've told him no twice already he may just get the hint that you're not interested and decide to look elsewhere. Good luck though and if he does ask you again, good luck to you both. :]
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