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I am so confused
Hey wats up, lately I've been through some different situations, Well I got dumped like a month ago,because she said that she had feelings for someone else, and then she realized that she made a mistake and wanted me back. Then I told her that I would give her a second chance, but I dont know if she would do the same thing she did in this first place.
So she told me she was hurt that I told her no, and then too, I told her that I am talking to this girl, and I have feelings for her, but she already has a boyfriend, I dont know what to do, And I am so confused. Please tell me what should I do? Should I keep my my new friend or go back to me ex, please give me advice.
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Don't go out with either of them. If you go back out with your ex, there's a chance she'll do what she did to you all over again. If you go for the other girl, since she's dating it'd be dumb if she broke up with her boyfriend for you since your ex did that, and you'd be no better than your ex.
Find someone better than the two who's single & likes you back & won't hurt you. You're so much better off.
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If you go back to your old friend, then you are doing the same thing she did to you in the first place. Does this new girl know you like her? Maybe you should tell her, but be careful because that can start drama if the boyfriend finds out that you like the girlfriend....(did that make sense)? Anyway, I think that you should be very open with both girls and let them know how you are feeling...maybe you can start over with your old friend to help stregthen the trust. I hope this helps.
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the chance for both girls is pretty tough
ex girlfriend: she is probably using you as the rebound, you know she dates you likes someone else then goes back to you after it doesnt workout with the guy she left you for. would you want to take that chance again? you could but she might do the whole rebound thing again.
girl you like: if shes dating, obviously she's off limits, think of it this way - if you try and convince that girl to breakup with her boyfriend for you, thats exactly what your ex girlfriend had done to you. so you can consider how her boyfriend would feel considering you were in that place aswell.
im giving you what i think.
telling you consequences +etc.
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