Member Since: July 11, 2005
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Last Update: July 31, 2005
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What sort of job should i be looking for when i get out of high school, or what should i go to college for? Im not sure what i want to do with my life, and im really good at sports, can you give me something to think about? (link)
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well i think you should look for something small as in a ccashier in a store or something that so you can work hard on your school work..get a desent pay...can go out with friends..and still have your job. thats justw hat i think tho =]
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i used to be a cutter right? And at some times i still am. I went through a lot in my childhood and am just recoving from a consequential 3 years of depression. But thats not the problem its this: i have this crazy compulsion with picking at my skin. it has nothing to do with cutting, and i dont think it has anything to do with depression. Like, i do it all the time, even when im happy. theres no emotion at all attached to it, except sum kind of bizzare need, i guess. i cant help it. i did it like a little bit before, but no its so much worse! once i start i cant tear myself away. i make myself bleed. i cause scars and i hate it. Does anybody know anything about this? Anything similar? Any ideas? i'll rate high for good answers.
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look hun, loosing blood is a bad idea and thats what your doing. it can cause to many other problems along the way and you dont want that. you have one life to live so make it last dont put urself in the hole. also, if your doing this cause of your life is bad and all dont worry everyone has their sunshine after rain. your time will come where everything will be right and if its not right yet then it isnt the end. but what im saying is that when you cut your opening your skin which can lead to infections serious ones, and lossing blood. they both are NOT a good idea. if this doesnt help find professional help before you end up in a hospital ;] .. need anything else let me kno
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ok here i go, i'm 16, and my gf wants to have sex, i'm ready, but i don't know if "it" should be shaved. help please??!! (link)
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no dont shave it .. just trim it. cause im a girl and i kno i wouldnt wanna get a big bush of hair when giving "some" so just trim it so it aint like a tree down there if you understand ;]
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I'm the one who asked about the truth and dare questions. do you have any more truths? (link)
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hmmmm...
maybe stuff like..
-whats the farthest you got with a boy/girl
-how many times have you made out with a boy/girl
-whats the baddest sexual thing youve ever done
-have you ever flashed anyone
-what size condom/bra do you wear
-do you wear thongs or regulars or conmando
-do you wear boxers ..briefs..or go conmando
if you need anymore let me kno
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I went out with this guy for like a couple months n then we broke up becasue he moved. Then we tried going out again but it lasted like a day (damn tipical long-distance relationship scenario). Since then I have talked to his friend alot and he even asked me out a couple times but I turned him down cuz I didn't like him like that at all and they were both on the phone trying to make me chose between them and I wouldnt so then the guy got off and i was stuck talkin to his friend but he said he thought i should go out with the guy I'd gone out with before...this would be so much easier with names...so here...lets say John and his friend Gary were talking to me and John got off and Gary said he figured I should probably go out with John again. I don't see any of this working out in the long run or anything, but I agreed because I figured I liked him alright and he'd be kinda a fall back guy...kinda like when I've got no one better to have a relationship with. I know that sounds really horrible, but it's not really like that...I do like him he just lives lightyears away is all. So should I keep going out with him or what? I don't know what to do...
o ya...16/f (link)
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confusing but... really if you liek the kid go out with him and if you dont then dont =] ... just go with whatever..and if you do liek the kid live for the moment and go out with him. theres a thing called break ups for a reason. and if you dont then dont let anyone force you into love and tell them no
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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either.. (link)
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well its kinda weird and not that normal but i guess what you did made you feel good and everyone likes different things. i think you talk to your friend about it and ask her how she felt about it then decide if you really do you like girls more then boys and if you do then your a lesbian =] and its normal. alot of people are lesbians and well u can be bi. or maybe it was just one time thing. you shoudl really just talk to her and then also you can get with a boy again and she if he makes you feel as good as she did .. that should give you ur answer..
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whats the 69 position what do i do? what does it look like?
14/f i rate high! (link)
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the 69 postion is partically sex. its when like they eat you out and give then a blow job and so on. you just go with whatever..normally sex. and it looks like sex lol .. thats really what is it and best i can put it
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I'm having a party soon. Dose any one know any good truth and dare questions.
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well since im 13 too i would say things like this
truth..
- did you ever go up a girls shirt.down a guys pants
-did you ever get your first kiss?
-how many times do you masturbate a week?
-who is really your true crush?
(lol truth questions are hard)
dare..
-i dare you yo hook up with___
-go up___'s shirt
-dry hump ____
-sit in the middle of all of us for 1 min naked
-masturbate for 1 min infront of everyone
-eat out ____
-give ___ a blow up
-finger yourself in front of everyone
-let ___ take off your thong with his teeth
well thats all i can think of right now hope it helps. need anymore let me kno. please rate me! =]
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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help! (link)
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ok well i think you should be straight out to your friend and tell her hey, you never stuck up for me when i got talked about behide my back so obviously we aint to good of friends since you place a boy above me and your being so fake lately and if your not gonna change i dont wanna be your friend no more .. not the new you. and then just take it from there and if she really wants to be your friend she'll start sticking up for you and changing back./..if not screw her she aint worth it..hope everything works out. rate me if ud like ;]
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What are some workout moves or anything that makes your butt smaller and lose some wieght around that area. Don't make fun of me in anyway because I don't care and neither does anyone else. Thanks in advance! (link)
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theres excerise machines that do and well the best thing would just to look it up online. sorry i didnt give much help but im sure thats the best thing you can do! please rate me
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hey well next month on the 5th me and my baby will be together for one year.. and i want some ideas of what we can do or something i can surprise him with.. Please dont say make a CD for him..or make a photo album cause i made a album of us for his birthday.. and if i made a CD he'd think im weird lol.. thanks alot and ill rate high for anything good romantic and cute.. (link)
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well i dont kno how old you r but maybe a cute romantic thing would be to just invite him over and set the house real nice and pick out a great movie to watch and cuddle up too and so on. and than at the end give him a lil gift something asss in maybe i ont kno what ever hes in to and likes.. just make it cute and romantic..
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you can go out to a romantic resturant then after go back to someones place and watch a movie and have desert. ok well i hope i helped and you have a great time!!
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i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch
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you should just wait for him to come up to you./ i mean girl who cares what he thinks you got a man who loves you for the new you. obvisouly you dont need him and you broke up for a reason. so i say if your that worried what he'll think wait for him to say something (who knos maybe he changed too) and if he think something screw him cuz you got your own man at home that loves you
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ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.
should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno? (link)
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well you cant really change love. anddd iunno but it kinda sounds like he might using you for sex. im sorry but the clues just kinda jump out at me so the next time he trys to get somewhere with you id say something like "i thought we were just talking" and see what he saids or next time he gos :i love you" say like "so we are going out?" .. just try and find the scoop cause he kinda sounds like a fake
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hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 5 months and yesterday I was at his house and his 11 year old brother followed us every where so we couldn't be alone what so ever. Finally he left to go eat downstairs, so my boyfriend and I started making out and dry humping..then his brother came up to his room and took a picture with his dads camera phone! Any ways what should i tell him to leave us alone! Any tips??
ThaNks!
im a 13/f if that helps! (link)
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wow your pretty younge for being alone with him and humping like the make out stuff ok but .. ok well.. first of all you should of deleted the picture and grabbed the phone .. second if its possible get your boyfriend to deny its u's if it really doesnt liek you;s..i mean theres not much you cna do but either lie or tell the truth..its a lie or truth situation
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OK this girl thinks that i called her something that i really didnt call her. i dont really mind losing her as a friend cause she isnt a good one... but i dont want everyone to think i did something i didnt do.. what should i do?? (link)
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ok lord ive been in this situation all the time and the best thing to do is tell her (over aim,phone,face to face etc. ) that you never called her that and your not lieing and who ever did is lieing and you should pay more attention to your other friends then to me saying something that i never did. also, that the only proof i have is my own word and you can take my word or not but all im telling you is i did not say it.
^thats what i always say and usually convence them and since you said you really didnt care if she was your friend dont be scared to go a little on the mean side and let her no your are telling the truth and aint playing so then everyone hears what you saaid and knows you werent sucking up to her.
and if people start to really think you did say it tell them the truth to. let everyone kno you aint messing around and you dont say stuff about your friends
well i wish you the best of luck and really hoped i helped.. rate me if you wish =] i wont mind a bit
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My little sister is turning 16, and I want to get her a cool present. She doesn't like clothes, or perfume, or most typically girly things. What she really likes is anime and anything cute and cuddly. She also loves video games.
I've been considering getting her either a How-to-Draw reference book or a J-pop/J-rock cd.
Any ideas for a good present? (link)
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lol i was thinking maybe a lil puppy. like you kno one of them small cuddly ones, but it depends ur age and all. but other then that maybe you can buy her another controler or even though it might soud stupid go make her a buildabear in the mall since she likes cudly things and you make it any way you want!
i hope i helped and hope youll find the right gift =]
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How do I get a girl to discuss her underwear with me?
She won’t give me a guided your of her undies drawer or tell me what she’s wearing and I’m genuinely interested.
I can already handle bras with ease but but I want to get my hands further down. (link)
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maybe shes not ready for to go further down. just give her time talk to her about it and ask if its ok or start making out with her and gently slide ur hands down and see if she backs away and if she doesnt keep going. but most of all maybe she just doesnt want to go any further and all you have to do is wait.
i hoped i answered your question, i didnt really understand it that much but i tryed =]
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how do i get a guy 2 like me im f/13 and i mean im not hideous nd i get lots of compliments on how i look but i am never the girlfriend type material .. jus the problem solver .. so how do i get the guyz 2 like notice me and like me??
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yeah i would like flirt, try and chill with him with friends liek go to the movies, start deep conerstaions with him, call him and talk to him on the phone, talk to him online, like just really to kno him and even ask him what he looks for in a girl (that always helps =] ) and work on ur apprenence a lil more not syaing your ugly or anything. and just talk to him alot and try to get things in common. i hope this helps. please rate me!
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Hey I'm stuck in my house all day (long story save your ramblings on anything) and I need easy food to make that is good. Not mac & cheese and no pb&j. Thanks in advance.
-Don't call me lazy or anything like that cause I'll rate you a 1-
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hmm..
-you could just make some regular hogie sandwhich
-hotdogs and hamburgers with frozen fries =]
-chicken salad
-they have frozen meals in supermarkets u can try
-chicken breast
-soup
cant think of anymore .. but i hope i helped..please rate me =]
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heyy do any of you know any cute summer screen names
i looking for a new one im 13/f
please answer asap
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tr0pical x3 bre3ze
ocean x0o breeze
x0 summErR breeze
miSs brightsidE
sUmmertime 05
swe3t paradisE
iSland baBe
suMmer x3 love
tropical kiszeS
well hope you liked them
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